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kathy
Remembrance
February 05, 2012
08:22 PM
Just could not let this time of year go by without a comment. Although I'd much prefer to commemorate your birthday; the first week of February does contain milestone events in the minds and hearts of adults and kids alike who shared the shocking news of your passing and the sadness of your funeral service. I know that you can intercede on behalf of all who need a message of hope, "stick to it ness" and confidence. There are so many things more life essential than BB, but the sport is what connects us and so has its own special meaning for us. Thank you Tim for being there for young boys who needed a mentor and for families who needed hope. As your own boys reach adult hood and Morgan navigates the teen years, we hope they alwyas feel your love and presence.
Hardy
Basketball
January 18, 2012
07:29 PM
A rare visit to a space and place, that is not only magical...more significantly, timeless. Much Love to the individual of Comment/February, ie Yesterday...you hit that 'box' on the backboard smack on the money...well done. Curious to know who you are...you captured that time so eloquently...Timmy is smiling for sure.
Hardy
Basketball
January 18, 2012
05:33 PM
A rare visit to a space and place, that is not only magical...more significantly, timeless. Much Love to the individual of Comment/February, ie Yesterday...you hit that 'box' on the backboard smack on the money...well done. Curious to know who you are...you captured that time so eloquently...Timmy is smiling for sure.
Andy
Other
December 24, 2011
01:52 PM
Merry Christmas coach, I think of you often.
Andy
Other
December 24, 2011
01:52 PM
Merry Christmas coach, I think of you often.
Kevin
Remembrance
November 10, 2011
08:11 PM
Tim, my work takes me past St. Rose quite often. No matter how busy I am, I pull off to the side road and look at the basketball courts. You were such a great inspiration to me. You were always positive and funny. My dad and I miss you greatly. We talk about you quite often.
DORS
Other
October 29, 2011
03:09 PM
WHEN I JUST DROPPED MORGAN OFF IN COLLINGSWOOD FOR A PARTY, THE BOYS HAVE A GIG SOMEWHERE, AND LISA IS AT A PARTY AT ONE OF HER RELATIVES, SO I AM HERE WITH HANNA PUPPY. KEVIN CRAWFORD RAN THE CAMP FOR JUST TWO WEEKS THIS YEAR AND DID A GREAT JOB. THE CONN MAN STARTED COLLEGE AND IS DOING WELL. TAYLOR TOOK OFF THIS SEMESTER BUT WILL BE BACK FOR THE SECOND SEMESTER. AS YOU KNOW MORGY TRANSFERED TO HADDON TOWNSHIP FOR 8TH GRADE AND SEEMS TO REALLY LIKE IT. TWO WEEKS AGO SHE PLAYED IN AN AAU TOURNAMENT AT NOVA AND PLAYED FOR A U16 TEAM. TIMMY, SHE DID GREAT. YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN SO PROUD OF HER. HER SKILL LEVEL MAKES UP FOR THE DISPARITY IN STRENGTH AND SIZE AT THIS POINT. SHE SHOWED ME THT SHE WILL BE MORE THAN READY FOR VARSITY. SHE IS GOING TO PLAY FOR THE YOUNGER TEAM ASSOCIATED WITH TRISH. BASKETBALL SEASON IS RIGHT AROUND THE CORNER. PAUL VI HAS AN OUTSTANDING TEAM AND MATT GOT THEIR BEST PLAYER. CATHOLIC HAS TRISH'S SON KYLE WHO IS THE BEST JUNIOR IN SOUTH JERSEY BUT JIMMY WILL HAVE TO PREFORM HIS MAJIC TO GET ANOTHER 20 WIN SEASON. KEVIN GOT JANEEN REYNOLD'S SON WHO IS 14 AND 6'8" AND A PLAYER. ST. ROSE WILL BE SMALL BUT TALENTED. I HAVE TO STOP HERE BECAUSE HANNA WANTS TO GO OUT. SHE SENDS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Gems
Comment
September 21, 2011
07:13 AM
I cannot make the golf outing this year but I wanted to extend good luck and best wishes to everyone involved in keeping Timmy's legacy alive. Thanks.
GOLF
Other
September 15, 2011
01:57 PM
The Seventh Annual Timothy P. Lenahan Golf Tournamant is in 2 weeks: Friday, September 30th at Pennsauken Country Club. ALL proceeds go to the Scholarship Fund which presents awards to Grade School and High School graduates in Timmy's name. We could use some more golfers as we have around 70 but generally like to come in around 100 or more so Pennsauken will continue closing down the course. Simply download the brochure to sign up and send it in, or bring it to Pennsauken the day of the tournament. Call Kelly Connelly at 856-261-2303, Carole Fesi at 856-425-8162, or Don Devlin at 609-220-3781 with any questions or to let us know that you are coming so we can have a head count in the next week or so. Heroes in Error (Taylor and Connor's band) will perform again this year. It is always a good time and a great way to honor Timmy's Legacy. The party will move to PJs- Haddonfield after the dinner at Pennsauken. WE HOPE TO SEE YOU!!!!!!
morgan
Other
August 20, 2011
10:25 AM
Hey dad, I miss you so much. There is never a day that goes by without me thinking about you. Well I left St. Rose for my eighth grade year. I'm going to Haddon Township where you wanted me to go. Well I just got done summer league a little bit ago. Dorse has been helping me with a lot of things i have trouble with. I have improved my game a lot I wish you could see but I always have people ask if I'm your daughter. I say yes and they say he would be so proud of you and I know you would because you were the best coach and the best dad ever. Dad, I've grown a lot and have actually jumped center in some games. I got the tap against a tall girl from Washington Township. Dorse was surprised. I need to get stronger before nest year because hopefully I will be playing against 17 and 18 year olds. I know that if you were here that I would be more than ready but I know that Dorse will help me. Everyone that I talk to at Haddon Township seems to be happy that I am coming over and that makes me feel better. Dad I love you so much.
Buddy
Other
August 18, 2011
09:01 AM
Send some help when you can.
Marie
Remembrance
June 13, 2011
07:57 AM
Hi Timmy, It's been awhile but things keep moving forward. Our family has added a very special little angel, my 1st grand-daughter. She was born on the most special of days.....May 31st.....Kaelie Michelle shares her special day with you and her uncle who is in your company Michael James. Talk about a special blessing. I know you are up there grinning at me being a Grandmom. Thanks for all the special memories we get to continue to look back upon.
Dors
Other
June 01, 2011
04:06 PM
SORRY I DIDN'T POST YESTERDAY BUT HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY. CONNOR AND TAYLOR HAVE BOTH FINISHED SCHOOL AND CONNOR IS WAITING FOR GRADUATION. I THINK JUDY IS COMING UP FOR IT. MORGAN STILL HAS A COUPLE OF WEEKS LEFT BEFORE SHE GETS OUT. LISA IS GOING TO TRY TO RUN THE CAMP FOR A COUPLE OF WEEKS BUT THINGS STILL HAVE TO BE WORKED OUT. KEVIN WON COACH OF THE YEAR HONORS WITH HIS PITMAN TEAM. HE DID KICK CHUCK'S BUTT WHEN THEIR TWO TEAMS PLAYED. BILLY LANGE RESIGN FROM NAVY TO BECOME HEAD OF BASKETBALL OPERATIONS AT NOVA. THE PENN STATE COACH TOOK THE NAVY JOB SO I WONDER IF MATT WILL PUT IN FOR THAT. I WILL BE WORKING HARD WITH MORGY OVER THE SUMMER SO SHE WILL BE ABLE TO WALK INTO HIGH SCHOOL WITH THE SAME TALENT LEVEL SHE WOULD HAVE HAD IF YOU WERE AROUND. SHE HAS BEEN FAIRLY DOMINANT IN HER AAU GAMES AND SHE HAS GROWN. THE DOCTOR MEASURED HER AT 5'4''. I PRAY THAT SHE GETS ANOTHER 4 INCHES. SHE HAS ANOTHER YEAR TO DECIDE ON WHICH HIGH SCHOOL SHE WILL GO TO BUT LISA WILL HELP HER MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
explayer
Other
May 31, 2011
01:40 PM
Happy birthday Timmy. You are always in our hearts.
morgan
Other
April 18, 2011
01:06 PM
hey dad i miss you very much and i think of you everyday well anyways i have started AAU and we had our first tournament this weekend we won 3 out of 4 games but we did very well as a team but dad i wish you were there everyone said i did really good and i heard it from everyone and i wish i could have heard it from you but i knew you were looking down on me well dad I'm doing very well in basketball Dorse has been helping me alot and i wish you were here dad i miss you and i hate seeing other people having so much fun with their dads and my mom is both for me now but mom is awesome, she does everything and dad's birthday is coming up and i will wish every minute of my birthday i will wish you could have been there.
DORS
Other
April 03, 2011
03:18 PM
THE BOYS JUST LEFT TO GO TO JIM CRAWFORD SR.'S VIEWING. YOU FINALLY HAVE SOMEONE UP THERE WHO CAN TELL YOU ABOUT WINNING GAMES AND CHAMPIONSHIPS. I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME I SAW MR. CRAWFORD. HE WAS LIKE A GIANT. I REMEMBER HIM SMILIG AND SAYING HELLO AFTER MY BROTHER HAD WON THE SOUTH JERSEY GRADE SHOOTING CONTEST AS A 6TH GRADER. IT WAS 1952. EVEN LATER WHEN THEY WOULD BEAT US WHEN I WAS AT HOLY SAVIOUR, HE WOULD ALWAYS GO OUT OF HIS WAY TO TELL US THAT WE PLAYED WELL. WHEN I WAS COACHING HIGH SCHOOL AND HE WAS THE REFEREE, I KNEW THAT WE HAD ONE OF THE BEST IN THE AREA. OVER THE YEARS, WHENEVER I SAW HIM, HE ALWAYS HAD A SMILE AND MADE YOU FEEL THAT YOU WERE IMPORTANT. HE WAS A GREAT MAN AND A GREATER PERSON AND I WILL MISS HIM. TO UPDATE YOU ON WHAT IS GOING ON, MORGAN'S SAINT ROSE TEAM FINISHED THE LEAGUE UNDEFEATED. YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN HER IN THE SEMI-FINALS. SHE WAS 9 FOR 12 WITH AN UNBELIEVABLE ASSORTMENT OF SHOTS. SHE HAD 23 IN THE CHAMPIONSHIP AND WAS MVP. HER TRAVEL TEAM ALSO WON THEIR CHAMPIONSHIP. CONNOR IS GETTING READY FOR HIS CLASS TRIP TO FLORIDA. TAYLOR IS GETTING READY FOR THE CONTEST THAT HE GOT HOSED IN LAST YEAR. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
supporter
Basketball
March 17, 2011
02:26 PM
Congrats to the boy's varsity team who won the Tim Lenahan Memorial Championship for the sixth year in a row. Jamie had them well prepared and they dominated Mount Carmel. Next year will be interesting because they will be very small and not have the most dominant player in the league like they have had for the last few years. This group is very skilled and doesn't like loosing. They also don't care who scores, which will make them very difficult to beat. Again, Jamie, great job and the next two years should be a lot of fun.
Bonnie
Basketball
March 14, 2011
07:38 AM
I know you were smiling down on Morgan this weekend. Saturday she put the team on her back and won our semifinal game. Sunday was a group effort in the finals but she truly dominated and did it with poise, enthusiasm and enjoyment. She finished with 23 points and although that is a huge accomplishment, I think her biggest accomplishment was how nicely she is maturing on and off the court. She really seems happy.
Don
Remembrance
February 13, 2011
07:36 PM
In some ways it feels as though Timmy was here yesterday and in other ways, it feels like another life. I do know very few things have the longevity of this website after six years. Famous people have come and gone but few lives are referred to after this stretch of time. We knew then and still know how special Timmy was. I wonder from the inside basketball community whether what Timmy taught on the court is changing or very much utilized by those few who understood the game on a similar level.
Friend
Remembrance
February 12, 2011
09:14 PM
Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened.
Yesterday
Remembrance
February 06, 2011
06:05 AM
I had a dream that I went up to St. Rose. 5 were on, 5 were waiting, and many more were on the sidelines. Local playground legends ran the games with a middle school and high schoolers. Female players played too. Screen down, screen across, high/low, etc. The ball moved side to side for a jumper or a layup. "Nice use of the backboard," the one in the green celtics jacket said, as he rounded the corner from Kings Highway with a large white cup. Games were to 16, and sometimes 11 on most fall days. On Saturdays, sideline converastions buzzed with exitement about south jersey basketball. Players from Heights, Haddonfield, CC, BE, Audobon, and PVI all mixed together as these high school games were decided on 3rd avenue without referess. Players called their own fouls and picked their own teams and moms and dads were were rarely present. AAU was an obscure anocronym. This kind of Heaven was a playground. I had this dream and then I was awake. How could something so real disappear like a mist of vapor into the night?
DORS
Other
February 03, 2011
07:04 PM
SORRY I DIDN'T POST YESTERDAY BUT WHEN I BROUGHT MORGY HOME FROM HER GAME, THERE WASN'T ANY ROOM IN THE DRIVEWAY. SHE PLAYED CHRIST THE KING WHO IS ONE OF THE BETTER TEAMS IN THE LEAGUE. THEY WERE DOWN 22 TO 14 AFTER 3 QUARTERS AND HAD VERY LITTLE CHANCE OF WINNING. THE COACH OF CHRIST THE KING, WHO IS A REALLY NICE GUY AND A GOOD COACH DECIDE TO PUT THE GAME AWAY WITH A FULL COURT PRESS. BIG MISTAKE! IT PUT THE GAME IN MORGAN HANDS AND ALLOWED HER TO CONTROL THE GAME. SAINT ROSE WON THE GAME 30 TO 25. THE BOYS JUST FINISHED PRACTICING BEATLES SONGS FOR A PRIVATE PARTY THEY ARE PLAYING TONIGHT. THEY ARE ALSO IN THE FINALS OF A BIG BAND CONTEST ON SATURDAY AT THE TROC. KEVIN'S PITMAN TEAM CRUSHED CHUCK'S LENAPE CLUB BY 24 ON SATURDAY. BOTH OF THEM ARE DOING VERY WELL IN THEIR COACHING CAREERS. I SAW ART MOSCOLA AT MORGAN'S GAME AND WE BOTH WERE AMASED THAT IT HAS BEEN SIX YEARS SINCE YOU LEFT US. IT IS STILL HARD FOR ME TO TALK ABOUT THAT NIGHT. WE DIDN'T DO ANYTHING SPECIAL LAST NIGHT, JUST WENT ON WITH OUR LIVES, BUT I KNOW LISA AND THE KIDS HAD YOU ON THEIR MINDS ALL DAY LONG. HANNA PUPPY SENTS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Kathy
Comment
January 20, 2011
06:36 PM
Tim ,by now you have greeted Vince Cangelosi and the two of you have re-played many St Rose and HS games. Can you please go to the gates to meet Conor O' Kane, a St Rose boy who is joining the Heavenly Falcons at the tender age of 19.He was an ice hockey player, a defense man-I know you will admire his spunk and kind heart. Those of us here below need some looking after- if you can send us some of your spirit and courage it will be appreciated. Miss you so-send your help.
Gems
Remembrance
January 13, 2011
12:35 PM
I am sure Timmy would not mind me posting my remembrance of Coach DiPatri on his site. The greatest story I can tell is when we played Camden Catholic at home in a playoff game my sophomore year, Art's last year at PVI, and by my calculation his final win. It was a tight game and I ended up getting a steal by dumb luck late in the game. I panicked and started dribbling up the court and saw Norman Day, CC's center, at the foul line. Then I saw Tommy Pajic flying up the left side toward the hoop. I jump-stopped, up-faked and laid a bounce to Tommy in stride for a white-man (for you youngens, that's slapping the backboard on a layup instead of dunking). The crowd went nuts, Coach Crawford called a timeout and Timmy was front row right near the hoop. He was screaming like a madman and pointing at me. As I back-pedaled on defense I pointed back. After the game, Coach DiPatri abruptly interrupted our celebration and yelled "Kevin Gemmell, if I ever see you pointing to someone in the stands again your butt will be firmly planted on the bench as long as I am coach." We lost two days later to John Crotty and CBA at Lakewood but I am glad I was able to experience Coach DiPatri for those two years. He & Timmy are laughing about now.
kathy
Comment
January 06, 2011
05:36 PM
Dors Thanks for keeping us up to date on Timmy's children. It is difficult for me to be in basketball season without Timmy around. His advice would be so helpful to his former players who are still involved in basketball and for all us in the game of life. Kevin, Thank you for keeping this site up and running. Timmy, you are forever young.
DORS
Other
December 04, 2010
11:02 AM
THURSDAY WAS CONNOR PATRICK'S 18TH BIRTHDAY AND LISA HAD A SMALL GATHERING TO CELEBRATE. HE IS EVERYTHING THAT YOU HOPED HE WOULD BE. HE JUST FINISHED THE FIRST MARKING PERIOD OF 12 TH GRADE AND HE DID VERY WELL. THE BOY'S BAND IS PLAYING OVER AT THE TROC IN THE SEMI FINALS OF A LARGE BATTLE OF THE BANDS. TC IS JUST FINISHING UP HIS FIRST SEMESTER OF HIS 2ND YEAR OF COLLEGE. MORGAN WAS MVP OF THE CAMDEN CATHOLIC TOURNAMENT AND IS PLAYING VERY WELL. SAINT ROSE BOYS ARE 8 AND 2 IN TWO TOURNAMENTS. THEY WERE BEATEN IN THE FINALS OF BOTH THE EUSTACE AND CAMDEN CATHOLIC TOURNAMENTS BY MY OLD TEAM, SAINT MARGARETS. SAINT MARGARETS IS REALLY GOOD. JENEAN REYNOLD'S SON IS A VERY YOUNG 6'5" MONSTER WHO CAN PLAY. SAINT ROSE HAS DENNIS CRAWFORD'S SON BRENDEN WHO IS VERY GOOD. THEY LACK GUARDS, IT IS TOO BAD MORGAN ISN'T ALLOWED TO PLAY ON THE BOY'S TEAM. LISA IS DOING GREAT. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Gems
Basketball
December 01, 2010
12:21 PM
Dors, Can you post the results of St. Rose basketball periodically for the out of towners? Also, keep me posted on any late season tournaments. I'd like to bring my grade school team down later this season or definitely next year to play the Falcons. Thanks. Kevin Gemmell
Sandi
Remembrance
November 30, 2010
07:19 PM
Hey Tim, The kids were awesome at the beef and beer, but you already know that. I felt your presence the whole time. You must be so proud. Taylor and Connor are terrific musicians and so exciting to see them play. Morgan, forget about it, she is a star of basketball and there is no stopping her. Can't wait till the WMBA gets a hold of her! Please keep looking down on all of us. Especially, Lisa, Taylor, Connor and Morgan. Love ya miss ya, Sandi
Golf
Other
October 07, 2010
03:15 PM
We lost some golfers to the Phillies game tomorrow night but still have about 100 golfers. Sponsorships are now over $10,000. We have room at the door for both golf and dinner. Weather is unreal for tomorrow. Sign up at 12 and golf at 1. We can pair anyone up that comes as a pair or solo. Any last minute questions, call 609-220-3781. Party shifts to PJ's in Westmont after dinner around 8 pm to watch end of game.
Golf
Other
October 03, 2010
07:51 AM
Timmy's tournament starts at 1 oclock this Friday, October 8th. The rain will be out of the area by Friday. We have a record number of sponsors since the first tournament. We are over $8,000 in sponsors and growing. This means The fund can give out more scholarships this year. We badly need golfers as we are around 80 but really really need 100 or more for Pennsauken to continue closing down the course. Simply download the brochure to sign up and bring it to Pennsauken the day of the tournament. Call Kelly Connelly at 856-261-2303, Carole Fesi at 856-425-8162, or Don at 609-220-3781 with any questions or to let us know you are coming so we can have a head count this week. The Lenahans will perform again this year. Their group has won some honors this year. They are excellent.
friend
Comment
September 18, 2010
06:57 PM
Hey Tim, it has been so long since I have written and I am sorry. I still think about you all the time and miss you more and more each day. You know a couple weeks ago I went to watch the boys play at the Philly Diner. It was a perfect night,we were out on the deck. And I was sitting there, the boys were playing, I was sitting with Lisa, Sandy, Aunt Marie, Judy, Kim, Sebastian, Lacy, and on the other side of the room was Jimmy and Kathy, Connor, the twins, Matt and his wife, and on Jimmy's lap was his grandson sound asleep. I was thinking how perfect this night is. The only thing keeping it from being perfect was you not being there. As i thought this I looked up in the sky, and it was the most beautiful sunset and I knew you were there. I knew you were looking down on all of us smiling. It was such a great moment. You and Lisa did such a great job with the kids. They are so great. You should see the 2 older boys with the babies. It is amazing to watch. I was over there the other day and Taylor read Charlie the same story like 10 times. It is funny how much Charlie is like Taylor he is just as relentless as Taylor was. And little Jack just loves Connor. He follows him everywhere. It is unbelievable to watch. Morgan is getting prettier and prettier each day. She is an amazing young lady and she has a great heart. From what I hear from Andrew she is getting to be a bit moody in the mornings, but I am sure we know that puberty is getting ready to set in and Andrew still has not learned that about a woman yet :) Her basketball game is getting better and better and it still breaks my heart that you are not around to coach her. It would have been an amazing sight to see you on the sidelines watching your daughter dominate a game. The last thing I wanted to tell you that was an amazing sight. Yesterday I was at the house doing the treadmill and I came down the stairs and looked outside, and I saw Taylor and Connor playing the guitar to the Charlie, Jack, and the daycare kids. It was such an amazing sight I started to cry. These are all the things that you are missing... Well I miss you Tim.
morgan
Other
August 18, 2010
01:53 PM
Dad I forgot to say happy birthday but I was thinking about you all day. I just got done my summer league basketball I played on three teams and I played awesome in everyone of them. I always look to the stands and wish that you could be there and see how I play. I miss you so much dad and I always wish you were here so you could see taylor, connor, and me. They are doing awesome in music even though I have never seen them play but I know they are doing good and you would be proud of all of us dad. I love you dad and I always will and so does connor, taylor, dors, hannah and mom.
DORS
Other
August 12, 2010
03:40 PM
I HAVE MISSED SOME KEY DATES FOR POSTING BUT I DID HAVE A REASON, I BROKE MY WRIST ABOUT THREE MONTHS AGO. LET ME BRING YOU UP TO DATE ON WHAT IS HAPPENING AROUND HERE. MORGY BECAME A TEENAGER ON MAY 2. SHE IS TURNING INTO A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY. THIS MEANS THAT WE HAD THREE TEENAGERS IN THE HOUSE UP UNTIL JULY 17TH WHEN TC TURNED 20. CONNOR JUST WALKED IN BECAUSE THEY HAD FORGOTTEN SOMETHING. THE BOYS ARE PLAYING TONIGHT AT THE HARD ROCK CAFE IN PHILLY IN A BATTLE OF THE BANDS. THEY HAD SUBMITTED A RECORDING AND WERE PICKED AS ONE OF THE TOP LOCAL BANDS IN THE DELAWARE VALLEY. YOU SHOULD CHECK IT OUT TONIGHT. I AM SITTING HERE WAITING FOR A CALL FROM MORGY WHO IS PLAYING IN THE FINALS OF THE OCEAN CITY LEAGUE. SHE PLAYED IN THE BROOKLAWN LEAGUE FOR SAINT ROSE AND BROOKLAWN AND SHE DID VERY WELL. MANY OF THE BEST PLAYERS IN THE LEAGUE WERE GOING INTO 7TH GRADE SO THE LEAGUE SHOULD BE GOOD NEXT YEAR. THE CAMPS ARE WINDING DOWN WITH NEXT WEEK BEING THE LAST WEEK. ONE OF THE KIDS AT THE CAMP IS WHO WE GAVE TUFFY TO. THEY BROUGHT HIM TO CAMP AND HE WAS EXCITED TO SEE ME. THAT IS ONE THING ABOUT DOGS THAT I ADMIRE OVER PEOPLE, THEY NEVER FORGET THE PEOPLE WHO HELPED THEM. THIS CAN NOT BE SAID FOR SOME PEOPLE WE KNOW. I WOKE UP THIS MORNING AND THERE WAS A MESSAGE ON MY MACHINE, IT WAS TC SINGING "WHEN I'M 64." I ALMOST FOGOT, THE CON MAN IS MOBILE. HE GOT A JEEP WHICH IS VERY NICE. YOUR ONE TRUE LOVE IS RUNNING IN A 10 MILE RACE ON SATURDAY. GIVE HER A PUSH ABOUT THE 8 MILE MARK. I KNOW THAT I HAVE PROBABLY FORGOTTEN SOMETHING BUT THIS SHOULD BRING YOU UP TO DATE. THE KIDS ARE GROWING UP SO FAST AND I HATE THE FACT THAT THEY DON'T HAVE YOU HERE TO SHARE THIS TIME WITH THEM. HANNA PUPPY SAYS HI. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Friend
Comment
July 14, 2010
01:12 PM
Timmy, Miss you man...Please keep on looking down on us. Your smile and positive energy was so contagious. We all felt invincible when you were coaching us. Those were the days. You influenced so many for who were are today. The Lenahan Years continue to be an inspiration. Your story will be told for a long time. We will pass it on to our children. Friday night games at Rose, times at Del's, SR summer leaugue, camp at Audubon, your junky pick up truck, your legendary drive through lunch orders, Atlantic Avenue courts, locker room speeches, high school front seat, green celtics jacket, outside practices, end line, stage, brady drills, get your shot up, fake up/pass down, if you don't have butterflies in your stomach, winners do what losers won't, if you like music be the best damn tuba player in the band, many more.
Taylor
Remembrance
May 31, 2010
08:55 PM
Happy birthday Dad. I miss you more all the time.
Judy
Remembrance
May 21, 2010
05:26 PM
I can't believe how much I still miss you. Tims. You're coming up on another birthday. We always had a red white and blue cake that MOM would fix for you and your special day. You were mine from the day you came home from the hospital. I wish my grandchildren ( all the younger one) could have known you. Your children are wonderful. The three of them all have a special individual part of you. I see you everytime I see or talk to them. I wish I was closer to watch the children grow. They are young adults now. You were always unique and I love you extra because you helped me to do what was good for me. You were always my sounding board, my mentor, my brother, my friend. I miss you sooo. Happy birthday Tims,( a little early) Always and forever in my heart. Love Judy.
Bill
Remembrance
May 07, 2010
06:01 AM
FYI, Walls and Wynn actually played for me at St. Joe's South Camden. That is a pretty good group of players that you identified though. The league was very competitive back then as I imagine it still is today.
DORS
Basketball
May 03, 2010
02:11 PM
YOUR ARGUMENT IS SPECIOUS. BY YOUR LOGIC, I WOULD BE THE GREATEST PLAYER IN SOUTH JERSEY HISTORY BECAUSE I PLAYED AGAINST THE BEST PLAYERS FROM THE LATE 50'S TO THE EARLY 2000'S. STOP LIVING IN THE PAST AND MOVE OVER FOR THE YOUNG BLOODS TO TAKE THEIR RIGHTFUL PLACE.
FYI
Basketball
May 02, 2010
03:33 AM
Dors, Here’s the case as requested, consider playing against Our Lady of Grace’s Billy Thompson (high school player of the year) NCAA champion and NBA champion, Mark Settles, Columbia University, John Wilson, Penn Saint Joe’s East Camden, Kevin Walls, All American Player of the Year, Charlie Wynn, Marist College Center City Catholic, Jerome White, Alabama, Wesley Fuller, Northeastern, Wayne Redd… That’s a pretty good case…isn’t it?...These noveau ‘risse’ claim to fame wannabies will never compare…touché.
falcon
Remembrance
April 16, 2010
03:29 PM
Every time I drive by the Saint Rose courts I think about you. If we were playing outside and you drove by everyone got excited. We knew that you care about us as people, not just basketball players. It didn't matter if you were the best player or the worst, you always made us feel that we were an important part of the team. You always found out what we were into off the court and would go out of your way to ask us about it. We knew how much you cared about us and how much you sacrificed in order to coach us. Timmy, the life lessons that you taught us helped us become the men that we are today. I know that most people have no idea how many people you helped. The fact that this website is still up and running, gives testimony to what you accomplished outside of wins and loses. I feel sorry for the kids coming up because they will never experience knowing you. Thank you for helping me and so many others over the years. Go Falcons!
Don
Comment
April 15, 2010
07:29 PM
As I sit here on April 15, I think of how much Timmy loved the IRS and paying his fair share of taxes. There was nobody that enjoyed writing a check to The IRS more than Timmy. Timmy always had a nice word to say about all the people down at the IRS who had a tough job to do. I can't help but smile as I think of Timmy and his favorite organization, The IRS!
DORS
Other
March 27, 2010
05:16 PM
IT HAS BEEN ALMOST THREE MONTHS SINCE I LAST POSTED, SO I THOUGHT I WOULD GET YOU UPDATED. SAINT ROSE'S BOYS WON THE CHAMPIONSHIP FOR THE FIFTH STRAIGHT YEAR. IN THE CHAMPIONSHIP GAME RICH RISSE'S SON MATT SHOT 18 FOR 22 TO BEAT MAYBE THE BEST MOUNT CARMEL TEAM JOE HAS EVER HAD. MATT MAY BE THE BEST PLAYER EVER TO PLAY AT SAINT ROSE. I INVITE PEOPLE LIKE BRIAN MOOREHEAD, BRIAN CONNELLY, THE TWINS, PINE (HOW MANY OF YOU KNOW WHO THAT IS?), BOBBY FIZZ, LEP, DIRT, AND ALL THE REST OF YOU GREAT EX SAINT ROSE PLAYERS, TO STATE YOUR CASE IN A FUTURE POSTING. THE GIRLS JV WON THE CHAMPIONSHIP BUT WHO DIDN'T KNOW THAT WAS GOING TO HAPPEN WHEN YOU HAVE MORGY. THE VARSITY LOST TO CHRIST THE KING, WHO HAD A VERY NICE TEAM BUT BY THE TIME MORGY GOT IN THEY WERE DOWN 20 TO 4. CAMDEN CATHOLIC WON THE STATE TITLE BEATING A TEAM THAT WAS PROBABLY 10 POINTS BETTER THEN THEM. I NEVER AM SURPRISED WHEN JIMMY WINS. I DIDN'T POST ON FEB. 2ND NOT BECAUSE I FORGOT BUT I FOUND THAT IT WAS DIFFERENT THIS YEAR. THE HOUSE WAS FULL OF LOVE AND LAUGHTER. WE WERE ALL THINKING OF YOU BUT WE DIDN'T TALK ABOUT IT. CONNOR AND I TALKED A LITTLE BUT IT WAS MOSTLY ABOUT HOW MORGY WAS HOLDING UP. FIVE YEARS IS A LONG TIME BUT THE PAIN IS STILL REAL. BUT I MUST SAY THAT THE LAST YEAR HAS BEEN MUCH BETTER. I SAW JIMMY Q. A COUPLE OF DAYS AGO. I KNOW HOW CLOSE YOU AND HIM WERE. I CAN STILL FEEL HIS PAIN WHEN HE TALKS ABOUT YOU. HE THOUGHT THAT IT IS SO IRONIC THAT YOUR CHILDREN EXCEL IN THE TWO AREAS THAT YOU LOVED, MUSIC AND BASKETBALL. HE WANTED THE KIDS TO KNOW HOW PROUD YOU WOULD BE OF THEM. THIS IS SO TRUE. HANNNA PUPPY WANTS ME TO GO DOWNSTAIRS AND LET HER OUT SO I MUST END HERE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Ree
Remembrance
March 17, 2010
04:37 AM
Happy St. Paddy's Day Timothy, We love you....we think of you...we miss you! Love Ree
Marie
Remembrance
February 06,
2010
01:51 PM
Timmy, It's been 5 years and your spirit and presence are with us always. I feel and see it most when I am with your children Taylor, Connor and Morgan. Your mannerisms, personality and warmth are the qualities and traits that have left your mark on your kids. We are all so proud of the wonderful things they all are doing. God blessed them with your presence for a short time, but with your lessons and legacy for a lifetime. I know you are so proud of them. Peace and Love friend until we meet again. Marie
Gems
Other
February 04, 2010
10:40
AM
I will be changing website providers today so please wait until after the weekend to post any more messages or I cannot guarantee they will be saved. Thanks.
Livec
Remembrance
February 02,
2010
02:06 PM
I'm sitting at my desk with boat loads of work due in 2 hours and can't remember the last time I've balled my eyes out. It's a weird thing that I've never really lost it until i started thinking about all the funny shit you used to say. I miss ya man and you woulda loved phil....
Brett
Remembrance
February 02,
2010
11:17 AM
Can't believe it's been 5 years Timmy, still thinking about you all the time. Brett
Joe
Remembrance
February 02, 2010
10:28
AM
Hey Coach, I made a page on facebook dedicated to you. I found that I was a fan of a lot of things, but something was missing. Right from the start, people flocked to this page, so I will do my best to update it and help keep your incredible spirit.
Terri
Remembrance
February 01,
2010
04:21 PM
Never far from my mind and heart. Still miss you my friend!
Gems
Other
January 19, 2010
01:36
PM
Just a note to say that I will be changing hosting providers this week so there may be a blip in service for a few hours but I will work to get it up and running asap. I hope all is well and good luck to St. Rose and PVI hoops. I guess good luck to CC and BE too but it pains me to say it...haha. Best wishes to everyone.
DORS
Other
January 01, 2010
02:21
PM
HAPPY NEW YEAR, TIMMY! I THOUGHT THAT I WOULD UPDATE YOU ON WHAT IS GOING ON AROUND HERE. THE LOCAL BASKETBALL SEASON IS UNDER WAY AND IT LOOKS LIKE CAMDEN CATHOLIC, PAUL VI, AND LENAPE ALL HAVE VERY GOOD TEAMS. SAINT ROSE'S BOYS TEAM IS DOING WELL BUT THEY JUST LOST TO MY OLD TEAM SAINT MARGARETS. ST. ROSE HAS RICH RISSE'S SON WHO IS THE BEST PLAYER IN SOUTH JERSEY AND SAINT MARGARETS HAS BOBBY FIZZ's SISTER'S SON TIMMY WHO IS A 6'4'' YOUNG 7TH GRADER WHO PROJECTS TO BE A BIG TIME PLAYER. MORGAN WAS NAMED MVP OF THE SAINT JOHN'S TOURNAMENT AND AS SHE WALKED OUT TO ACCEPT THE AWARD, ALL I COULD THINK OF WAS HOW UNFAIR IT WAS THAT YOU COULD ONLY BE THERE IN SPIRIT. AS SHE AND I WERE DRIVING HOME, SHE SAID TO ME, "I WISH MY DAD WERE HERE." I LOST IT AND SHE SAID ARE YOU ALL RIGHT? THE OTHER NIGHT SHE PLAYED ST. MARGARETS AND THEY WERE DOWN 12 TO 4 WHEN ST. MARGARETS TRIED TO END IT BY GOING MAN TO MAN. THAT WAS A MISTAKE. MORGAN BURIED A COUPLE OF THREES AND ENDED UP SCORING 22 POINTS ON 8 FOR 11 FROM THE FIELD. JUST A PREVIEW OF WHAT SHE IS GOING TO BE LIKE. TAYOR GOT THROUGH THE FIRST SEMESTER OF COLLEGE AND CONNOR IS DOING WELL AT PAUL VI. EVERYONE ENJOYED THE HOLIDAY. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Ittenbachs
Remembrance
December 11,
2009
10:43 PM
Hey Tim. We still think of you often here in Cincinnati, OH. You were a great influence on our kids. Thanks for helping them become better athletes. We loved watching you coach each and every day.
DORS
Other
December 03, 2009
05:10
PM
YESTERDAY WAS CONNOR'S 17TH BIRTHDAY. I DID POST BUT FOR SOME RESON IT DIDN'T TAKE. OBVIOUSLY THIS IS A BIG BIRTHDAY BECAUSE IT MEANS THAT HE CAN DRIVE. I AM SURE THAT HE WILL BE A LOT BETTER THAN YOU WERE AT LEAST I HOPE SO. LISA HAD A LITTLE PARTY FOR HIM, JUST THE FAMILY. I KNOW HE WAS THINKING ABOUT YOU AND HOW YOU ALWAYS MADE THESE THINGS SPECIAL. I AM LOOKING AT THE PICTURE OF YOU HUGGING HIM AND MORGY. I KNOW HOW SAFE THEY ALWAYS FELT IN YOUR ARMS. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
DORS
Other
December 02, 2009
04:02
PM
TODAY IS CONNOR PATRICK'S 17TH BIRTHDAY. IT IS STILL HARD FOR ME TO ACCEPT THAT HE IS NOT A KID ANYMORE. HE IS DOING PRETTY WELL IN SCHOOL AND BALANCING IT WELL WITH WORK AND HIS TRUE LOVE, MUSIC. HE STILL LIGHTS UP THE ROOM WITH HIS SMILE WHEN HE WALKS IN BUT HE ALSO HAS YOUR TEMPER AND CAN GO OFF AT TIMES. WHENEVER I HEAR ANY ADULT TALK ABOUT HIM, IT IS ALWAYS TO PRAISE WHAT A GREAT PERSON HE IS. EVEN THOUGH YOU ONLY HAD HIM FOR 12 YEARS, YOU INSTILLED THE RIGHT STUFF IN HIM. I TRY TO GIVE HIM AS MUCH GUIDANCE AS I CAN BUT I AM NOT YOU. I TELL THEM THAT YOU ARE ALWAYS WATCHING THEM AND ALWAYS DO WHAT WOULD MAKE YOU PROUD. I WILL UPDATE YOU ON WHAT'S GOING ON IN ANOTHER POST. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
LadyFalcon
Basketball
November 12,
2009
06:27 PM
Timmy, I just wanted to say you are def still in my heart and in the basketball I play. I decided it was time to get more involved with the intramural program at my school it is def lacking in structure, discipline, and skills. LOL...as I warmed up with the other coach before the kids arrived...I simply looked around and remembered watching you work out the boys and pushing us girls during practices. I remember when you'd get frustrated and take the ball and punt it down the court, I think once it actually went in. Anyway, I heard your voice in my head, everything you instilled in me in order to make me a better player, team member, and person I can only hope to pass along to my 6th-8th graders. Thank you Tim for being everything you were to me. I miss you.
DORS
Other
October 15, 2009
07:27
PM
THEY ARE INDUCTING YOU AND MICHAEL A INTO THE PAUL VI HALL OF FAME THIS EVENING. LISA AND THE KIDS ARE AT THE DINNER AS WE SPEAK. YOU ASK WHY I AM NOT THEIR AND I WILL SIMPLY SAY THAT IT WAS A $100 A POP AND YOU DIDN'T ENEN GET A REAL MEAL. I AM SORRY THAT I HAVE NOT POSTED SINCE TC"S BIRTHDAY BUT I WILL TRY TO CATCH YOU UP. THE CAMPS WENT FAIRLY WELL BUT THERE ARE SO MANY OF THEM THAT IT IS HARD TO ATTRACT THE SAME KIND OF NUMBERS THAT WE ONCE HAD I WOULD LOVE TO SEE MORE SAINT ROSE KIDS COME BUT WHAT YOU WERE ABLE TO INSTILL IN THEM IS JUST NOT THERE ANYMORE WITH SOME EXCEPTIONS. THE KIDS ALL STARTED MILESTONE YEARS IN SCHOOL TC STARTED COLLEGE AND LIKES IT ALMOST AS MUCH AS YOU DID. CONNOR STARTED HIS JUNIOR YEAR AT PAUL VI. MORGAN STARTED JUNIOR HIGH WHICH IS ALWAYS A BIG ADJUSTMENT. TC JUST FOUND A JOB AT A.C. MOORE AND IS PLAYING WITH A COUPLE OF BANDS OTHER THAN HIS OWN. IN FACT I WAS LISTENING TO 104.5 AT 5:00 AND THEY HAD A LIVE BAND PLAYING. THEY INTRODUCED THE MEMBERS AND ON LEAD GUITAR WAS TAYLOR CHRISTIAN LENAHAN. THE BOYS BAND CUT A CD AND ARE SELLING AT VENUES THAT THEY PLAY. ONE OF THE DAYCARE PARENTS CALLED TODAY AND TOLD CONNOR THAT THEY NAMED THEIR NEW BABY AFTER HIM. MORGY IS PLAYING IN THE JKMBA ON AN 8TH GRADE TEAM FROM MONROE. MORGY IS THE MOST SKILLED PLAYER BUT SHE DOES HAVE MOSTLY ATHLETIC GIRLS ON HER TEAM. SHE IS PLAYING THE TWO WHICH IS NOT HER FUTURE POSITION BUT SHE SHOOTS THE BALL BETTER THAN ANY OF THE OTHER GIRLS AND TWO OF THE OTHER GIRLS ARE THICK AND ATHLETIC AND HAVE A LITTLE MORE OF THE PIG MENTALITY THAN MORGY. CONNOR'S BIRTHDAY IS COMING UP SOON SO HE WILL BE DRIVING. SAINT ROSE HAS STARTED AND JAMIE'S TEAM LOOKS VERY GOOD. MORGY IS PRACTICING WITH THE 6TH GRADERS BUT HOPEFULLY BONNIE WILL SEE THAT SHE CAN HELP THE 8TH GRADERS. I WOULD RATHER SEE HER DISTRIBUTE ON THE EIGHT GRADE LEVEL THAN DOMINATE ON THE SIXTH GRADE LEVEL. BUT WHEN ALL IS SAID AND DONE, SHE SHE HAS THREE YEARS TO PREPARE FOR VARSITY BASKETBALL. YOU SOULD HAVE SEEN HOW HANDSOME THE BOYS LOOKED THIS EVENING AND MORGY IS JUST TURNING INTO SUCH A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY. IT HAS BEEN ALMOST FIVE YEARS NOW AND YOU SHOULD BE SO PROUD OF THEM. THEY MISS YOU SO MUCH. HANNA PUPPY SAYS HI. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Golf
Other
October 01, 2009
08:03
AM
We are now up to 21 foursomes & counting. Please sign up at the door! If u can't golf show up for dinner & drinks. Taylor's group is really good & will be performing. Remember we can pair you up to golf in a group. Don't worry about bringing a foursome. For any info, just download the brochure or call 609-220-3781.
Golf
Other
September 28, 2009
08:14
PM
We had a flurry of activity today & are up to 16 foursomes. The target is to beat last years record (besides the Inaugural) of 23 foursomes. The forecast is awesome. If you don't have a foursome come solo or bring a friend. We have plenty of great people who could use a player or two to fill out their group. If you don't golf come to dinner & have some drinks. Last year we kept going after Pennsauken until after midnight! Any questions call Lisa at 856-429-8033, Carol at 856-425-8162 or Don at 609-220-3781
Golf
Other
September 26, 2009
05:24
PM
Timmy's Tournament is Friday, October 2, 12:30 at Pennsauken. Right now we only have 8-9 foursomes. However we have many generous sponsors. Last year when the forecast came out we got a hugh push in the last week Last year was by far the largest turnout since the Inaugural (the year Timmy left us). Please try & make time for Timmy's outing. Taylor's Group will be performing & Lisa will say a few words. The food & drinks will be great and the weather is guaranteed to be terrific. Any questions call Lisa at 856-429-8033, Jim at 856-816-6758 or Don at 609-220-3781. You can download the application or sign up at the door but please give us the heads up.
Morgy
Other
August 03, 2009
02:35
PM
Hey daddy, I really miss you. I didnt tell you happy birthday, sorry. I didn't forget, I was thinking about you all day. Everybody knows you. People come up to me and say hi morgan lenahan and they'll tell me that they played for you or they were really good friends with you. It is amazing how many friends you had and how they still think about you. But anyways, the camps are going really well Ive been going to all of them. So far Dors is getting me alot bettor so are both the kevins. Me, Kevin Ownes, and Kevin Crawfred are going to pjs this Thursday, just like you always went with them I always look forward to doing this because it reminds me of you. Dad I love you so much and wish you were here. Love you, Morgy
Kate
Basketball
July 25, 2009
05:47
PM
Timmy, I am so glad that I can "talk" with you on this wonderful page ( Thank you -Kevin Gemmel) Last night I shed some tears while I was standing at a new basketball court that Parks and Rec is having built at Devon Ave. ( TY Mayor Scott) It has been my baby and I had to push for everything that I knew would be best for the kids. Last week when the first post went in I made Bill come up and take a picture of me hugging it.( No one will ever see that photo!) This week the 2 goals for the main court are up with "Ultimate" rims and nets. Yikes , they forgot to put on the decals for the orange box over the hoop. We will also have 2 additional shooting goals- a lot squeezed into a smallish pre existing concrete pad but there is such a need for playing space with Atlantic Ave and 7th Ave. courts shut down.Of course St Rose is always busy and is the heart of hoops i our hometown. So anyway, I am planning a little court celebration and have flyers out and some invites out to all the Haddon Heights basketball people and local coaches I had contact info for. You are on the top of that list in my heart and I just can't accept the fact that you are not here to hang out with and have some fun for this event. JUst wanted you to know that you are with us still. Now, be a pal and send us some nice balmy weather for that night. Someday we may have more places to play the game you loved but the empty spot in our hearts will always be there. But I am always grateful for the goodness that you shone on my boys and countless others.
DORS
Other
July 17, 2009
04:51
PM
TODAY IS TC'S 19TH BIRTHDAY. LISA IS TAKING HIM AND CONNOR TO OUTBACK STEAK HOUSE AND HE WANTS ME TO COME. YOU KNOW HOW EXCITED I AM BUT I CAN'T TURN HIM DOWN ON HIS BIRTHDAY. TIMMY, IT SEAMS SO STRANGE TO WALK OUT OF THE HOUSE WITH THEM NOW THAT THEY ARE MEN. BY THE WAY, THEY ARE BOTH TALLER THAN YOU NOW. THEIR BAND IS DOING WELL, IN FACT THEY HAD TWO GIGS THE OTHER NIGHT, ONE AT THE SUSQUAHANA CENTER AND THE OTHER DOWN THE SHORE AT JESSE CALHOUN'S BAR. TAYLOR HAS ALSO BEEN ASKED TO PLAY WITH SOME OTHER BANDS WHEN HE HAS TIME. HE WILL BE HEADING OFF TO COLLEGE IN SEPTEMBER AND CONN WILL BE GOING BACK TO PAUL VI FOR HIS JUNIOR YEAR. CONN HAS BEEN HELPING US WITH THE YOUNGER KIDS IN CAMP AND HAS DONE AN OUTSTANDING JOB. HE WILL MAKE A VERY GOOD COACH SOME DAY IF HE WANTS TO. I KNOW ONE THING, THEY WILL BOTH BE GREAT FATHERS. AS YOU CAN SEE, MORGY HAS NOT BEEN MENTIONED SO FAR. SHE IS IN FLORIDA AND WILL FLY HOME BY HERSELF TONIGHT. SHE WAS DOWN THERE VISITING SEAN AND JUDY. I THING THIS MAY HAVE BEEN THE LONGEST SHE HAS GONE WITHOUT PLAYING BASKETBALL. WE'LL FIX THAT WHEN SHE GETS HOME. HANNA PUPPY IS BY MY FEET EXPECTING TO BE TAKEN TO WENDY'S BUT SHE MAY HAVE TO WAIT. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Lep
Basketball
July 17, 2009
11:23
AM
Good afternoon fellow Falcons. I am a member of Timmy's first championship team (1980) and I am looking to contact any and all team members (and coaches that means you Ekim Krab) from that year for a dinner or lunch meeting. Also I am looking for any and all photos from that year. Please contact me by email at ntlinstall@hotmail.com. Have a great day!
MCN
Remembrance
July 16, 2009
11:53
AM
Timmy-I was in your gym the other night letting my neices and nephews dribble and shoot around on your court. I was pretty sure I heard a voice yelling "ENDLINE". Hope things are well in Heaven.
Mark
Comment
June 23, 2009
02:35
PM
Waddy----"I'll give you one hour to cut that out!" I miss you Timmy!
Joe
Other
June 02, 2009
12:06 PM
Hey Tim, Ever since that one morning in February I have been thinking about you, and haven't stopped. Every morning when I wake up I see your face from your funeral booklet on my bureau, which helps me to get through another day. Life is pretty tough right about now though, but I know I will be fine because you are with me. My sneakers from St. Rose basketball have been beside my bed ever since our last game, and I can still see the faded TL from that blue marker everyone was using to send the message that you are still with us. I miss you Tim.
Gems
Remembrance
June 01, 2009
11:15
AM
Happy Birthday Tim! I dreamed about you the other night and as usual you were yelling about something. Keep smiling down on all of us, especially Lisa and the kids & Dors.
TaylorLenahan
Remembrance
May 31,
2009
07:48 PM
Happy birthday. You can't imagine how much your missed. I still constantly meet people that tell me how much they loved you and what a great person you were. Love you and miss you.
DORS
Other
May 31, 2009
01:57 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TIMMY! I THOUGHT I WOULD COMBINE TWO POSTINGS INTO ONE. TAYLOR CHRISTIAN GRADUATED ON THURSDAY NIGHT. I KNOW HOW PROUD YOU ARE OF HIM FOR OVERCOMING SO MANY BUMPS IN THE ROAD. HE WILL BE OFF TO COLLEGE IN SEPTEMBER. HIS GOAL IS TO PURSUE A CAREER IN MUSIC BUT HE MUST ALSO HAVE A JOB HE CAN DO JUST IN CASE. JUDY FLEW IN FROM FLORIDA FOR THE CEREMONY. IT WAS GREAT TO SEE HER. NEXT TO THE KIDS, SHE IS THE PERSON THAT REMINDS ME MOST OF YOU. MORGY IS AT WIDNER COLLEGE FOR AN AAU TOURNAMENT AND I THINK LISA DROVE UP TO SEE THE SECOND GAME. MORGY IS LOOKING FORWARD TO ASSORTED CAMPS DURING THE SUMMER. SHE WILL GO TO THE PAUL VI CAMP, THE HADDON TOWNSHIP CAMP, OUR SEVEN OR EIGHT WEEKS OF CAMP, AND MAYBE VIVIAN STRINGER'S CAMP AT RUTGERS. AS FAR AS LEAGUES ARE CONCERNED, I AM NOT SURE YET. I KNOW THAT BONNIE HAS HER PLAYING WITH THE SIXTH GRADE TEAM. CONNOR WILL BE WORKING ALL SUMMER AND PLAYING HIS MUSIC WITH THE BAND. NEXT YEAR WILL BE A BIG YEAR FOR HIM AT SCHOOL. JUDY WANTED TO TAKE A PICTURE AND AS I STOOD NEXT TO THE BOYS I REALIZED THAT THEY WERE JUST ABOUT AS TALL AS I WAS. IN OTHER WORDS THEY BOTH ARE TALLLER THAN YOU WERE. TC IS A LITTLE WORRIED ABOUT NEXT YEAR. HE WOULD LIKE TO STAY AT PAUL VI FOR ANOTHER YEAR BUT TIME MARCHES ON. ONCE HE GETS TO SCHOOL, HE WILL BE FINE. HANNA PUPPY IS ON THE FLOOR AT MY FEET AND TOLD ME TO WISH YOU A HAPPY BIRTHDAY. LISA AND THE KIDS STILL TALK ABOUT YOU EVERYDAY. IT DOES SEEM LIKE IT GETS A LITTLE EASIER EACH YEAR BUT I CAN STILL SEE IN THEIR EYES HOW MUCH THEY MISS YOU. I KNOW THAT YOU WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR THEM. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
am
Other
May 30, 2009
03:42 PM
It's been a long time, but better late than never. I have tried very hard to accept what has come my way, but have not been successful. Nobody here seems to understand so I thought I would try someone else amd your smilinmg face came to mind. I know you would tell me to accept and go on, but i also know you understand as a parent how it hurts when you see your child constantly hurt themselves and not even know it. So, I'm asking you to put in a word for me so I can stop feelinmg this way. Truthfully. I wish I were out if this worls and somewhere else, wherever that may be.
Liz
Other
May 27, 2009
11:24 PM
Can you believe what tomorrow is? I can't believe Taylor is graduating from highschool tomorrow. It is unbelievable that I used to babysit this little boy and now he is a man. We had such a fun day the other day (although they were probably ready to kill me) Me, Connor, Taylor, and Andrew all moved my stuff out of the apartment into my new house. It was one of the hottest days in May and we had my Toyota Rav 4 and Taylor's Acura. Needless to say we were all dying from the heat. We went to Applebee's for dinner and had such a nice time. They are such great kids, Tim. I really wish you were here to see what fine young men they have become. I miss you....Gert.
DORS
Other
May 10, 2009
02:49 PM
IT IS SUNDAY AFTERNOON AND IT IS MOTHER'S DAY. LISA AND THE KIDS ARE DOWN IN OCEAN CITY AND HANNA PUPPY AND I ARE WATCHING THE HOUSE. IT WAS MORGY'S 12TH BIRTHDAY LAST SATURDAY AND SHE IS GROWING INTO SUCH A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY. IT CRUSHES ME THAT YOU ARE NOT HERE TO SEE IT AND SHARE IT WITH HER. SHE HAD AN AAU TOURNAMENT THIS WEEKEND AND HER TEAM WON ALL FOUR GAMES. YOU WOULD BE SO PROUD OF THE WAY SHE PLAYS. SHE ALWAYS LOOKS TO GET EVERYONE INVOLVED AND WOULD RATHER MAKE A GOOD PASS FOR A LAYUP THEN HIT AN OUTSIDE JUMPER. SHE IS PLAYING AGAINST 5TH AND 6TH GRADERS AND IT IS INTERESTING TO SEE HOW MUCH MORE DEVELOPED SHE IS IN HER UNDERSTANDING OF THE GAME. THE NEXT BEST PLAYER THAT I SAW WAS A 4TH GRADER NAMED GRACE FROM ATLANTIC CITY. I BELIEVE THAT YOU WILL BE HEARING ABOUT HER IN A FEW YEARS. I AM VERY HAPPY ABOUT THE TEAM THAT SHE PLAYS ON. THE COACHES DO A GREAT JOB OF GETTING THE GIRLS TO TRY AND PLAY THE RIGHT WAY. THE BOYS HAVE PLAYED A COUPLE OF TIMES AT DANTES AND EVERYONE SAYS HOW GOOD THEY ARE. THEY HAVE FOUND THEIR CALLING. LISA IS DOING WELL BUT CONTINUE TO GIVE HER STRENGTH. I AM GOING TO GO DOWNSTAIRS AND WATCH TIGER MAKE A COMEBACK. HANNA PUPPY SAYS HI. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
DORS
Other
April 10, 2009
05:33
PM
JUST A QUICK UPDATE. MORGY IS PLAYING WITH THE SIXTH GRADERS FROM COLLINGSWOOD. THE VARSITY COACH FROM COLLINGSWOOD HIGH SCHOOL IS THE COACH AND SHE IS VERY NICE. THEY HAD THEIR FIRST TOURNAMENT DOWN AT ROWAN LAST SATURDAY AND THEY WENT ONE AND ONE. MORGY WAS UPSET BECAUSE THE TEAM THAT THEY LOST TO WERE ALL BLACK AND SHE THOUGHT THAT THE PARENTS OF THE OTHER TEAM WERE LAUGHING AT HER. I TOLD HER THAT THEY WERE NOT USE TO HAVING THEIR LITTLE SAMEKA ABUSED BY A LITTLE WHITE GIRL AND WERE AMAZED AT HER ABILITY TO BLOW BY THEM. SHE WAS EASILY THE BEST PLAYER AMONG THE SIXTH GRADE GIRLS IN THE TOURNAMENT. AS I TOLD YOU BEFORE SHE IS WORKING OUT WITH TOM BETLEY AND HIS 14 YEAR OLD AAU TEAM. TOM WOULD LIKE HER TO PLAY IN THEIR TOURNAMENTS BUT SHE CAN WAIT. THE BOYS ARE AT CRAWFORD'S HOUSE PRACTICING FOR A BIG GIG THAT THEY ARE PLAYING THIS SATURDAY NIGHT. THEY HAVE PLAYED THERE A COUPLE OF TIMES AND MANY OF YOUR FRIENDS HAVE COME TO SEE THEM. APPARENTLY THEY ARE VERY GOOD AND THIS IS WHAT THEY REALLY LOVE. THIS WAS ALWAYS YOUR WISH THAT THEY WOULD FIND SOMETHING THAT THEY LOVE AS MUCH AS YOU AND I LOVED BASKETBALL. LISA IS DOING GREAT. THE CAMPS WILL RUN FOR EIGHT WEEKS STARTING THE END OF JUNE. WE ARE STARTING A INTRO. TO HIGH SCHOOL BASKETBALL CAMP TO GET THESE KIDS READY FOR HIGH SCHOOL. KEVIN CRAWFORD WILL RUN THE CAMPS AND KEVIN OWENS AND MYSELF WILL HELP. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE AND WANTS TO GO FOR A RIDE. I WILL KEEP YOU UPDATED. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
KL
Basketball
March 19, 2009
12:23
AM
Yeah- Chuckie's team wins their first game in the Tournament of Champions! When Lenape won on Sunday, so many of us spoke about you and your influence. Miss you
DORS
Comment
March 17, 2009
04:21
PM
HOW ABOUT THAT CHUCKIE, WINNING THE STATE CHAMPIONSHIP WITH DEFENSE. MATT AND BILLY ARE EACH BUILDING THEIR PROGRAMS. I AM SURE THAT YOU ARE PROUD OF EACH OF THEM. YOUR LEGACY CONTINUES IN SO MANY PEOPLES LIVES. SPEAKING OF YOUR LEGACY, MORGY LED HER 6TH GRADE TEAM TO AN UNDEFEATED YEAR. THEY WON THE CHAMPIONSHIP LAST NIGHT AND SHE PLAYED HER NORMAL MVP TYPE OF GAME. ALL THE PARENTS SAID HOW WELL SHE PLAYED. IT IS TOO BAD THAT THEY HAVE NOT SEEN HER IN SOME OF THE OTHER LEAGUES OVER THE YEARS WHEN SHE GETS 25 AND DOMINATES BUT THEY WILL. BOTH THE 8TH GRADE BOYS AND GIRLS ALSO WENT UNDEFEATED IN THEIR LEAGUES AND WON THEIR CHAMPIONSHIPS LAST NIGHT. THE 6TH GRADE BOYS ALSO WON THEIR LEAGUE. AS YOU KNOW, THE CHAMPIONSHI GAME BETWEEN THE EAST AND THE WEST IS NAMED IN YOUR HONOR. JAMIE AND THE BOYS HAVE MANAGED TO WIN IT ALL FOUR YEARS. JOE HAD SOME VERY NICE THINGS TO SAY ABOUT YOU BEFORE THE GAME. BONNIE TOOK MORGY OUT IN THE HALL AND THEY CRIED A LITTLE AS DID I. THE BOYS AND LISA ALL CAME AND CONNOR TOOK PICTURES. AFTER THE GAME, MORGY AND I GOT SOMETHING TO EAT AND RODE AROUND TALKING ABOUT THE GAME AND THE YEAR AND YOU. THE NCAAS ARE ABOUT TO BEGIN AND I HAVE NO IDEA WHO I LIKE. I REALLY MISS NOT HAVING YOU AROUND TO WATCH THE GAME WITH. TC GOT A JOB AND CONNOR IS WORKING EVERYDAY SO BETWEEN SCHOOL, WORK, AND MUSIC THEY DON'T HAVE MUCH TIME TO DO ANYTHING ELSE. I AM TAKING MORGY OVER TO WORK OUT WITH TOM BETLEY AND HIS 14 YEAR OLD AAU TEAM. IT WILL BE GOOD FOR HER TO WORK OUT WITH THE OLDER GIRLS. HANNA PUPPY SAYS HI. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
HollyCass
Basketball
March 15,
2009
01:01 PM
I'm sure that Timmy is smiling today as Chuckie Guitar's Lenape team easily wins its first State Championship......congrats Chuck and congrats Tim. Tim, your lessons continue everyday, in the young men that you touched. You cannot imagine how many still carry your message of "Winners do what losers won't" into their every action. It is their motto. Thinking of you always!
DORS
Other
March 06, 2009
10:13
PM
THANKS GEMS, THIS SITE MEANS SO MUCH TO SO MANY PEOPLE. IT HELPS KEEP TIMMY ALIVE IN OUR HEARTS.
Gems
Comment
March 05, 2009
04:52
PM
My apologies to Lisa, Taylor, Connor, Morgan & Dors for the website issues. They have been resolved. Email me at kgemmell@comcast.net if you have any more problems.
Terri
Remembrance
February 04,
2009
09:58 PM
Still in my thoughts and prayers every day. Rest well my friend and know that you live in every one of us who were touched by your friendship, love and just your being "Timmy".
morgan
Other
February 03, 2009
08:11
PM
Hi dad, sorry I am late but I fell asleep last night before I could write anything. I really miss having you here to help me with everything. I am having a great year in school. My teachers are great. I am having a good year in basketball at Saint Rose. I don't start but as soon as the game gets close, Mrs. Levicchi puts me in. I am trying to get all the sixth graders involved and Dors says that I make everyone better. Every night I say a prayer for you and think about how much I miss. We were only together for seven years but you made everyday special. I miss your smile, your touch, your laugh, and how you made me feel safe. I wish so much that you were here. I know that you are always with me. Miss yoy so much.
Rubbi
Remembrance
February 03,
2009
11:38 AM
I will never forget where and what I was doing that day when I received a call from my mom telling me what happened. This was not my first experience with the death of a loved one. As Taylor stated I do vividly remember the night my father Michael left us but I can honestly say that 33 years later time definetly heals all wounds as long as you let them heal with proper treatment. Timmy was this great guy who was my best friend, coach and father figure who was always there for me til the day he passed. When I see ttaM ydarB on TV coaching in his bad suit lol (just kidding Matt u look great ) or when B Lange brings the Midshipman to town (congrats on all your success) it reminds me of how truly powerful Timmy's influence was on us all and how dedicated and talented he was to every kid on every team regardless of ability and talent. I cant expalin the sense of loss I feel to anyone who knew of Timmy but didnt know as we did. My thoughts are always with the Lenahan family and I am happy that they have some good people in their lives and they living life. I believe we do not remember days we remember moments and I can definetly say I have had many moments with Timmy to remember.
Taylor
Remembrance
February 02,
2009
11:56 PM
Four years ago feels like yesterday. I so vividly remember the night you left us, and I don't think that memory will ever dull. As short of a time ago as four years feels like I'm glad it was four years ago. I'm glad that time has been kind in easing our pain and allowing us to understand the kind of amazing person you were. In the end, time heals all I guess. Miss you all the time. I love you Dad.
DORS
Other
February 02, 2009
10:18
PM
IT WAS FOUR YEARS AGO ALMOST TO THE SECOND THAT YOU LEFT US. I STILL ALMOST BRAKE DOWN WHEN I TALK ABOUT YOU TO YOUR FRIENDS. IT IS AMAZING HOW MANY TIMES PEOPLE WILL BRING UP YOUR NAME AND THEY ALWAYS HAVE SOMETHING NICE TO SAY. I AM SITTING HERE WAITING FOR TC AND CONN TO GET HOME. I TALKED TO TAYLOR AT 8:45 AND HE SAID HE WOULD BE HOME IN AN HOUR. HE MUST BE ON TIMMY TIME BUT THAT IS ONE OF THE MANY THINGS THAT I STILL HAVE OF YOU. THE KIDS HAVE ALL OF YOUR GREAT QUALITIES IN DIFFERING AMOUNTS. LISA TOOK THEM TO PJ'S TONIGHT TO TALK ABOUT YOU AND REMEMBER YOU. I KNOW THAT IT MEANS MORE TO THEM THAN GOING TO A MASS FOR YOU AND SOME OTHER PEOPLE. IT SEEMS STRANGE TO THINK ABOUT THAT NIGHT. THE FACES OF YOUR CHILDREN THAT ARE BURNED INTO MY MIND FROM THAT MORNING ARE SO DIFFERENT NOW. TAYLOR AND CONNOR ARE MEN AND MORGY IS A BEAUTIFUL YOUNG LADY. EVERYONE WHO KNEW YOU CAN SEE YOU IN THEM. YOU AND LISA HAVE DONE SUCH A WONDERFUL JOB RAISING THEM. I NEVER HEAR ANYTHING BUT POSITIVE FEEDBACK FROM ADULTS WHO KNOW THEM. THEY ARE A BIG PART OF YOUR LEGACY. AS ALWAYS I WILL KEEP YOU UPDATED ON THEIR ACTIVITIES. I KNOW THAT THE BOYS HAVE A COUPLE OF GIGS COMING UP AND MORGY WILL HAVE PLENTY OF GAMES TO REPORT ON. THEY MISS YOU SO MUCH AS DO SO MANY PEOPLE THAT YOU HAVE TOUCHED. I THANK YOU FOR LETTING ME BE PART OF THEIR LIVES. I MISS YOU MY FRIEND. HANNA PUPPY SAYS HI.
Bonnie
Remembrance
February 02,
2009
05:33 PM
It is hard to believe it has been four years. From the outside your family seems to be doing well. I am really enjoying coaching Morgan but not as much as I am sure you are enjoying watching her. She is a very special little girl. Hope I am doing right by you with her. You and your family are in our thought and prayers we miss you ---The Stevens
MarkLange
Remembrance
February 02,
2009
09:50 AM
Timmy, today is still one of the toughest days of my life. Today I found an article by Jay Bilas on ESPN.com about Defining toughness in hoops. (I would suggest all ball-players past and present read it!) There wasn't a thing on this list you didn't teach. You not only taught these things in hoops but how it would transfer over to real life. I'm constantly saying to my kids I coach- "I don't care what it is in life you choose to do, whether it's playing basketball or being a concert pianist, you have to put the maximum effort into it to get the most out of it!" One of your many sayings that still to this day I apply in everything I do. I'm so thankful that I was able to have you in my life, which makes it even harder today. I miss you so much and my heart aches for your family and all of us who you touched in so many ways. I love you!
DORS
Other
January 02, 2009
05:27
PM
HAPPY NEW YEAR MY FRIEND. I JUST WANTED TO POST A QUICK UPDATE. LISA MADE SURE THAT THE KIDS HAD A GREAT CHRISTMAS. I AM SURE THAT THEY ARE NOT READY TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL BUT THEY HAD A NICE LONG VACATION. MORGY 5TH AND 6TH GRADE TEAM IS UNDEFEATED. THEY HAVE ONE TWO TOURNAMENTS AND MORG WAS ALL TOURNAMENT EVEN THOUGH SHE DOESN'T START. THEY HAVE A HARD TIME SCORING WHEN SHE IS NOT IN THE GAME. SHE HAS THAT QUALITY OF MAKING EVERYONE ON THE TEAM BETTER. I TOLD HER THE OTHER NIGHT HOW PROUD YOU WOULD BE OF HER AND SHE ALMOST BROKE DOWN. THE KIDS MISS YOU SO MUCH. WELL TC HAS A FLAT TIRE AND I THINK THE CONN MAN IS GOING TO TRY AND CHANGE THE TIRE, SO I BETTER GET OUT THERE AND HELP. HANNY PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE.
TaylorLenahan
Other
December 25,
2008
03:09 PM
I never thought I would live to see 18. As stupid and pre-determined as that sounds, I always saw myself getting hit by a bus or something before I grew up. 18 came as age inevitably does, and I'm fine. There are a lot of little things that I can honestly say would have been easier had my Dad been over my shoulder. Even stupid things like getting my license would have been slightly different with you there. Christmas morning is a significant one. You were more excited to see us open what we got then we were to open it. I miss that. For now, I'll take what I learned from our 14 years of knowing each other and look forward to spending Christmas with you again in 50 years or so. Merry Christmas. Love Taylor.
KL
Remembrance
December 10, 2008
04:14
PM
John, it was good to hear from you and share in your memories of Tim.He did have the wonderful gift of including all of us in his basketball "family". I remember when you were still at OLG and there was talk that you had broken your arm before ST Rose was to play Grace. I recall Timmy telling the team that it may be be a rumor and that even if you did have a broken arm you were so tough that you might still play and score! Those Rose/Grace games were always jammed packed and lots of fun and along with Mt Carmel and Coach Joe were great coaching clinics. Timmy's love of the x's and o's and the fundamentals is a lasting legacy. Many of his players are coaching their own kids now and working on the skills that Timmy taught them. Thanks for reminding us that Tim is beloved and missed by so many. Almost 4 years and it is still hard to pass St Rose and not see his truck or hear his voice come booming out of the gym door.
JKosak
Basketball
November 30,
2008
09:50 AM
The chills I remember getting walking into The St. Rose gym and the quick turn of the head to see where Timmy is so I can say hello. Just waiting to hear what he had to say to you because you either were going to learn something new or going to have a good laugh. Maybe even cry ! Along with Bill Morgan from OLG I had great repect for this man. Though I did not attend St Rose Tim made me feel part of the St Rose family since I spent so much time with his past players. To this day I remember playing in a big game for Eustace and hearing Tim's voice saying "Great pass Kosak". Tim's voice was heard then and still being heard.
JKosak
Basketball
November 30,
2008
09:47 AM
The chills I remember getting walking into The St. Rose gym and the quick turn of the head to see where Timmy is so I can say hello. Just waiting to hear what he had to say to you because you either were going to learn something new or going to have a good laugh. Maybe even cry ! Along with Bill Morgan from OLG I had great repect for this man. Though I did not attend St Rose Tim made me feel part of the St Rose family since I spent so much time with his past players. To this day I remember playing in a big game for Eustace and hearing Tim's voice saying "Great pass Kosak". Tim's voice was heard then and still being heard.
DORS
Other
November 27, 2008
02:48
PM
HAPPY THANKSGIVING MY GOOD FRIEND. HIGH SCHOOL BASKETBALL WILL START ON FRIDAY AND IT LOOKS LIKE JIMMY WILL HAVE A VERY STRONG TEAM. CHUCKY SHOULD BE OK AT LENAPE AND I AM SURE HE WILL DO A GREAT JOB. THE KIDS GOT THEIR REPORT CARDS AND DID OK. MORGY HAS STARTED HER SAINT ROSE CAREER. SHE DIDN'T START IN THE 6TH GRADE SCRIMMAGE AGAINST HADDONFIELD AND THEY LANDED UP BLOWING IT AT THE END BECAUSE SHE WAS ON THE BENCH AND THE SIXTH GRADERS COULDN'T BREAK THE PRESS. SHE WILL ALSO PLAY FOR HADDON TOWNSHIP'S 6TH GRADE TRAVEL AND 7TH GRADE TRAVEL ALONG WITH THE MOUNT EMPRIM LEAGUE WHERE SHE WILL BE PLAYING AGAINST 8TH GRADE BOYS. CONNOR IS WORKING BUT THE MUSIC PLACE WHERE TAYLOR HAS WORKED FOR THE LAST FEW YEARS HAS BEEN BOUGHT OUT AND THE NEW OWNER IS ONLY HAVING FULL TIME EMPLOYEES WORKING FOR HIM. I AM SURE THAT TC WILL FIND SOMETHING BUT IT MAY NOT BE SOMETHING HE LOVES. WELCOME TO THE REAL WORLD. AS YOU KNOW, CONNOR HAS HIS 16TH BIRTHDAY COMING UP ON DEC.2. THE KIDS ESPECIALLY MISS YOU ON THEIR BIRTHDAYS. HANNA PUPPY AND I NORMALLY SHARE WAWA TURKEY ON THANKSGIVING AND SHE IS LOOKING FORWARD TO THAT. TUFFY IS GRATFUL FOR ANY FOOD SO HE IS EASY TO PLEASE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
kevingemmell
Other
November 26,
2008
01:08 PM
I just noticed that Saint Rose has an Alumni website at www.strosenj.com. I hope everyone is well and enjoys the upcoming basketball season. Happy Thanksgiving.
kate
Basketball
November 09, 2008
12:01
PM
Well, Tim, the College season is starting this week and HS teams will be practicing soon .You are on my mind so much and are missed terribly. I am sure you will be watching over Brian/Albany when they are playing at Villanova on friday and looking over Matt, Billy, Chuck and all your other "boys" who are coaching. Good luck to Connor and Morgan this season.
tmcpeak
Remembrance
October 08,
2008
02:46 PM
miss ya tim
Golf
Other
October 02, 2008
08:49
AM
The count is now 23 foursomes & growing. You can sign up at the door. The max Pennsauken can hold is 32 foursomes After dinner the sounds of Hero Error featuring Taylor, Connor & Michael will take over. Lisa will also say a few words as a tribute to Timmy's memory
Golf
Other
September 30, 2008
01:09
PM
We are up to 19 foursomes. Taylor & Connor Lenahan will again perform after dinner as a tribute to their Dad. Michael Crawford will be joining The Lenahans. This group has become very good The Law firm of Dennis Crawford will be the corporate sponsor. There are many, many hole sponsors. Morgan Lenahan will be selling mulligans for those golfers who need a second crack after a bad shot The tournament is taking off. Don't miss the action! No rain this year. Any questions call 856-354-6110
Golf
Other
September 29, 2008
12:05
PM
We have 16 foursomes so far for the Golf Tournament on Friday. We need 20 to make it a success & to satisfy the minimum The Sponsorships are going great pl call 856-354-6110 with any questions
Golf
Other
September 29, 2008
12:05
PM
We have 16 foursomes so far for the Golf Tournament on Friday. We need 20 to make it a success & to satisfy the minimum The Sponsorships are going great pl call 856-354-6110 with any questions
Golf
Other
September 29, 2008
12:04
PM
We have 16 foursomes so far for the Golf Tournament on Friday. We need 20 to make it a success & to satisfy the minimum The Sponsorships are going great pl call 856-354-6110 with any questions
Golf
Other
September 29, 2008
12:04
PM
We have 16 foursomes so far for the Golf Tournament on Friday. We need 20 to make it a success & to satisfy the minimum The Sponsorships are going great pl call 856-354-6110 with any questions
Golf
Other
September 29, 2008
12:04
PM
We have 16 foursomes so far for the Golf Tournament on Friday. We need 20 to make it a success & to satisfy the minimum The Sponsorships are going great pl call 856-354-6110 with any questions
Friend
Basketball
September 23,
2008
10:42 PM
Now that two former St. Rose B-ball coaches are in heaven, hope you and Jeff Banasz are laughing it up about great basketball memories. Miss you both.
CMelch
Remembrance
September 17,
2008
10:58 AM
I did not know Timmy as well as many of the others who have contributed here. I did not attend St. Rose, never played for him, and did not spend the time with him that so many others have. I was not a very good player, and frankly wasn't that great of a kid either. The amazing thing to me is that none of that mattered to Timmy. Every time he saw me play, whether it was a high school game, summer league, or just pickup, he made a point to talk to me, offer advice, call me some outrageous nickname, provide words of encouragement, tell me a joke, lift up my confidence, or just say hello. Every time I saw him or spoke to him, I just immediately felt better. He never had to do any of that, but he did....every time. I am just grateful to have known him and wanted to share my thoughts of remembrance. I wish only the best for all of you and the Lenihan family.
alum
Remembrance
September 03,
2008
09:37 AM
miss you
DORS
Other
September 01, 2008
05:39
PM
IT IS THE END OF THE SUMMER AND I HAVE NOT UPDATED YOU EXCEPT FOR SPECIAL OCCATIONS SINCE THE SPRING. I NEVER TALKED ABOUT YOUR CELTICS WINNING THE NBA CHAMPIONSHIP. I MUST ADMIT THAT THIS WAS THE FIRST TIME THAT I WANTED THE CELTICS TO WIN. THE REASON FOR THIS WAS MY OLD FRIEND JAKE EASTMAN. I BECAME FRIENDS WITH JAKE IN 1071 AND FOR THE NEXT FEW YEARS WE PLAYED BASKETBALL ABOUT 5 HOURS A DAY. HE WENT ON TO BE ALL STATE IN 1973, A STAR AT THE UNIV. OF RICHMOND, A SUCCESSFUL COLLEGE COACH, A MAKER OF NIKE INSTRUCTIONAL FILMS, LABRON JAMES' SHOOTING COACH AND CURRENTLY AN ASSISTANT COACH WITH THE CELTICS. HE IS ALSO ONE OF THE NICEST PEOPLE I EVER MET. THE CAMPS WENT WELL BUT WE DO NEED TO GET MORE SUPPORT FROM THE SAINT ROSE KIDS.KEVIN CRAWFORD RAN THE CAMP AGAIN ALONG WITH KEVIN OWENS. YOUR SON CONNOR RAN THE PEE WEE CAMP AND DID A GREAT JOB. HE WAS OUTSTANDING WITH THE YOUNG ONES AND HAS A VERY NICE APPROACH TO TEACHING AND COACHING. HE HAD A NICE GROWTH SPURT AND IS STILL THINKING ABOUT TRYING OUT FOR THE JV NEXT YEAR. I TOOK HIM UP TO HIS GIRLFRIENDS' 16TH BIRTHDAY PARTY AT RAMBLEWOOD COUNTRY CLUB. TORY, HIS GIRLFRIEND, IS VERY PRETTY BUT I THINK HE IS QUICKLY LEARNING ABOUT THE PROS AND CONS OF A RELATIONSHIP. TC WORKED ALL SUMMER AND TRIED TO ENJOY HIS LAST SUMMER OF HIGH SCHOOL. I UNDERSTAND THAT HIS GIRLFRIEND IS UNBELIVEABLY PRETTY. CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT AT THIS TIME NEXT YEAR HE WILL BE STARTING COLLEGE. I PROMISE THAT I WILL TRY HARDER WITH HIM THAN I DID WITH YOU TO GET THROUGH THIS NECESSARY EVIL. THE BOYS CONTINUE TO WORK HARD ON THEIR MUSIC. I LOVE THAT THEY HAVE THE PASSION FOR IT THE WAY YOU AND I LOVED BASKETBALL. I HAVE TO REMIND THEM FROM TIME TO TIME THAT YOU WOULD BE A 100% BEHIND THEM IN GOING AFTER SOMETHING THAT THEY TRUELY LOVE. MORGY IS DOWN THE SHORE WITH BRIAN AND MEGAN. IT IS REALLY NICE OF THEM TO TAKE HER WITH THEM. I AM SURE SHE HAD A GREAT TIME. SHE PLAYED IN THREE LEAGUES THIS SUMMER. SHE PLAYED WITH THE 5TH AND 6TH GRADE TEAM FOR SAINT ROSE. THIS WAS MORE OF A SOCIAL THING THAN A BASKETBALL THING. I PUT HER ON THE 8TH GRADE TEAM AT BROOKLAWN. THIS WAS THE SAME LEAGUE THAT SAINT ROSE HAD THEIR 8TH GRADERS IN. CHUCKY THOMPSON LET HER PLAY WITH THE BROOKLAWN TEAM. I WAS VERY INTERESTED IN SEEING HOW SHE WOULD COPE WITH THE SIZE DIFFERENCE. IT TURNS OUT THAT SHE MOVED FROM POINT TO SHOOTING GUARD. WHEN THEY PLAYED WOODSTOWN'S 8TH GRADERS SHE WAS 3 FOR 4 FROM THREE POINT LAND AND ENDED UP WITH 13. YOU KNOW THAT I DON'T LIKE HER SHOOTING FROM 3 POINT LAND BUT SHE GET THE BALL TO THE RIM WITHOUT CHANGING HER MECHANICS SO WHAT CAN I SAY? SHE ALSO PLAYED IN ANOTHER LEAGUE AGAINST VERY GOOD COMPETITION. SHE PLAYED AGAINST A 13 AND 14 YEAR OLD AAU TEAM OF ALL TALL, QUICK, SKILLED BLACK GIRLS WHO LIKED TO PLAY DEFENCE AND SHE CALLED FOR THE BALL AGAINST THEIR PRESS. THESE GIRLS SCARED ME BUT MORGY HANDLED THE PRESSURE. YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN PROUD. SCHOOL STARTS THIS WEEK AND I DON'T THINK ANY OF THEM ARE READY TO GO BACK. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Rubbi
Remembrance
August 28, 2008
08:16
PM
I played for Jimmy Coyle I was on the team in 4th and 5th grade. I had more of a mascot type role back then. Mr Coyle was a good coach. Hey 40-3 guy who left last message email me and we can catch up....my business email is ntlinstall@hotmail.com. Thanks.........Timmy really miss u and u and your family are always in my thoughts.
Falcon
Other
August 28, 2008
05:32
PM
Confirmed. It was Jim Coyle. Timmy-still think about you all the time. 40-3 SJ Champs
Bill
Basketball
August 28, 2008
03:31
PM
Don I believe it was Jim Coyle from Third Base Sports.
KL
Other
August 28, 2008
03:21
PM
Just want to wish Taylor, Connor and Morgan good luck in the new school year. We all think of you and keep you in our prayers. Please let us know if you need anything and have Dors or Hanna puppy check in every once in a while on this board with updates on you.
KL
Other
August 28, 2008
03:21
PM
Just want to wish Taylor, Connor and Morgan good luck in the new school year. We all think of you and keep you in our prayers. Please let us know if you need anything and have Dors or Hanna puppy check in every once in a while on this board with updates on you.
Don
Basketball
August 26, 2008
09:30
AM
I had one of the Donegan's in my office. A trivia question came up. Does anyone remember who was the coach at St Rose between Father Jack & Timmy? Apparently this coach lasted two years
Brett
Remembrance
August 18, 2008
11:54
PM
Hey Timmy, I drove past your house the other day and saw Morgan shooting outside in the driveway, it's just so crazy to see how much she has grown up. I remember when she was about 5 years old dribbling around the gym with her off hand. I was talking with my boss today about role models and your name instantly came to mind. I went on and on about you for an hour and told him how much of an impact you had, not only on my life, but on so many other people's lives. I drive past St.Rose everyday and I shed a little smile everytime just remembering how we all used to just play pickup for hours and you would drive by beeping with that big grin of yours while giving the "hang loose" or "Texas Longhorns" sign. Not a day goes by that I don't look at your picture on my desk and instantly remember the life lessons you have taught me. I feel so lucky to have been close to you for the 8 years we were in each other's lives and I really wish I could have had more. You will continue to be a guiding light for me and I know that you're watching over all of us. We all still miss and love you like crazy Timmy and those feelings will never leave. Until next time, I love ya Tim. Love, Brett
Dors
Other
July 17, 2008
05:30
PM
Today is your eldest son's 18th birthday. Ironicly he will be celebrating it in the same place that I celebrated mine 44 years ago, on the boardwalk in Ocean City. I remember joking with you when he was little, what he would be like when he was 18. I know that you are proud of how he has turned out. It was very hard on him when you left and he has overcome a lot and is still a special person. I know that you would have had many wise words of wisdom for him on this special day but I am somewhat limited in that area. I am sure of one thing that you would have told him and that is now that he is the man of the house, make sure that he does all he can to make life easier for your one true love and his mother Lisa. One of the things that comes with being a man is thinking about others before yourself. Your mon is really going to need all the help that you can give her and I can not be there to help her so you must be there for me. Happy Birthday Taylor Christian Lenahan. Your father and I are very proud of the man that you have become but you always can do better.
kate
Basketball
June 18, 2008
12:07
AM
Tim - I bet you and Red enjoyed this Championship game from the Sky Box.The team work, shooting, defense - stuff you have always taught and players who seemed to truly be moved by the experience. I watched the end with tears in my eyes thinking of how much you are missed yet are still with us. Look out for us.
nick
Other
June 15, 2008
11:16
PM
happy father's day tim
Connor
Other
June 15, 2008
03:45
PM
As you can see, Morgan posted three times,once under my name, because she didn't think that it went through but that's Morgy. However this is my comment, first off dad i miss you to death and love more then anything else in the world and its really hard for me with you not being here. Still even though i can't see you i know your here. Everything is going really well im getting good grades and the the band is doing fantastic. The band played a show last night for this party which went really well and had a really great time. Also the reason im posting is because its fathers day and I thought I would just come and remind you on what a great job you and mom did on rasing me, I wouldnt be the same person today if i wasnt for you. Your are the greatest dad anyone could ever ask for and nothing could ever change that. I love you dad have a nice fathers day.
Connor
Other
June 15, 2008
03:45
PM
As you can see, Morgan posted three times,once under my name, because she didn't think that it went through but that's Morgy. However this is my comment, first off dad i miss you to death and love more then anything else in the world and its really hard for me with you not being here. Still even though i can't see you i know your here. Everything is going really well im getting good grades and the the band is doing fantastic. The band played a show last night for this party which went really well and had a really great time. Also the reason im posting is because its fathers day and I thought I would just come and remind you on what a great job you and mom did on rasing me, I wouldnt be the same person today if i wasnt for you. Your are the greatest dad anyone could ever ask for and nothing could ever change that. I love you dad have a nice fathers day.
Connor
Other
June 15, 2008
03:43
PM
As you can see, Morgan posted three times,once under my name, because she didn't think that it went through but that's Morgy. However this is my comment, first off dad i miss you to death and love more then anything else in the world and its really hard for me with you not being here. Still even though i can't see you i know your here. Everything is going really well im getting good grades and the the band is doing fantastic. The band played a show last night for this party which went really well and had a really great time. Also the reason im posting is because its fathers day and I thought I would just come and remind you on what a great job you and mom did on rasing me, I wouldnt be the same person today if i wasnt for you. Your are the greatest dad anyone could ever ask for and nothing could ever change that. I love you dad have a nice fathers day.
Connor
Other
June 15, 2008
03:43
PM
As you can see, Morgan posted three times,once under my name, because she didn't think that it went through but that's Morgy. However this is my comment, first off dad i miss you to death and love more then anything else in the world and its really hard for me with you not being here. Still even though i can't see you i know your here. Everything is going really well im getting good grades and the the band is doing fantastic. The band played a show last night for this party which went really well and had a really great time. Also the reason im posting is because its fathers day and I thought I would just come and remind you on what a great job you and mom did on rasing me, I wouldnt be the same person today if i wasnt for you. Your are the greatest dad anyone could ever ask for and nothing could ever change that. I love you dad have a nice fathers day.
Morgy
Other
June 15, 2008
03:17
PM
HAPPY FATHERS DAY DAD.I wish you were here for one more Father's Day. I buy presents for you still and I keep them near me in my room. The camps are coming up and i promise to push myself so that I can be the best player I can be. The summer league for Saint Rose is coming up and Mrs. Stevens has me playing half the games. I am hoping to play in as many leagues as possible. I love you so much I think about you all the time. I think I play Monday at Brooklawn, I know you will be there. Stay near. Love you! Morgy
friend
Remembrance
June 15, 2008
02:09
PM
Well Tim -- It has taken me all this time to post. I have to say it's still hard to drive by St. Rose and your house. It's so nice to see that this site is still here. As we lost another great Tim this week, and after listening to all of his wonderful tributes, the first person I thought about was you. Your lives did parallel each other. Two wonderful, caring human beings that enjoyed life to the fullest and made such a difference by touching so many lives. Please know that you are thought of so often by so many.
MorganLenahan
Other
June 15, 2008
11:52
AM
Happy fathers Day dad.I miss you Alot.i Wish you were here for one more fathers day.I still get presents for you but i keep them and i always think about you. I ALWAYS WISH I could still hug you.Me, Morgey,taylor,Mom,and dorse love you.here is your present i will push my self in camp to do the best i can do.
connor
Other
June 15, 2008
11:40
AM
HAPPY FATHERS DAY.I miss you Alot. I wish you were here for one more fathers day. I still get presents for you but i keep them and i always think about you. I always wish i could still hug you. I Love You. me, morgey,Taylor,Mom,and Dorse love you.
Don
Remembrance
June 11, 2008
09:36
AM
Tim, Part of your legacy was the First Fret. You were the only guy that didn't drink but yet you were always the life of the party. The Quailes would literally smile while on stage when you walked in. Jimmy Quaile & you never missed a breakfast at he end of the night. After growing up with you it was The First Fret that got us reacquainted. You truly were the star of stars when you walked in The Fret. You always lit up the room Don
Terri
Remembrance
June 09, 2008
04:36
PM
Happy belated birthday Timmy. I can't believe you would've been 51this year. I have a few months on you and it's hard to swallow. Remember all those crazy times at the First Fret? I will always be grateful for the memories we shared. You and your family are always in my thoughts and prayers. From what I read on this site, you have children to be proud of. You left behind a wonderful legacy and we are all blessed to have had you in our lives. Happy Birthday Friend, terri
HP
Other
June 02, 2008
09:44 PM
Happy Birthday master! I am sorry I am late but I had to sneak up here when no one was looking. I made it through another year and am feeling good. Mom took me to the vet because of my bladder stones and I have been eating a special food and that has helped. Dors has been looking out for me and taking me on lots of rides but I do so miss the rides that you and I took especially when we would stop at the lake and you would let me run. Dors hasn't done that yet but I am hoping. I really miss you. I loved licking your bloody legs when ever you cut yourself moving things. I miss your loud voice and your laugh. I miss you calling me Hanna Puppy. Everything is going well at home but you did leave a rather large void in our lives. Well I better stop here before someone catches me and yells. You will always be my master. Love Hanna Puppy
Connor
Remembrance
June 01, 2008
10:27
PM
Well i havent commented the site in a very long time. But it being my fathers birthday i thought it was right to. First i would like to say dad i miss more then anyone could ever think of. Second i have really gottin in to music basically thats my life and its all because of you, even though everyone new you as the basketball legend i new new you as the best father anyone could ever have and would wake me up ever single day singing frank sinatra before school. I do here a lot that im very mature for my age and its all because of you. Im not very good at this kind of stuff writing is for taylor i do other things. But anyways I love you dad and i know you are with me every day and i know you always will be.
morgy
Other
June 01, 2008
09:48
PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY DADDY! I miss you so much. I wish that we could have one of your great birthday parties just one more time. I think about you all the time. Everytime I play basketball I thing about you and wish you were here to watch me. I know that you are but I miss seeing that grin on your face when I do something that you think is special. I am working hard on my left and I made some left handed layups during the winter leagues. I am now working on my left handed jumper but Dors tells me to stay within 12 to 15 feet. He also tells me I shouldn't shoot 3 pointers yet but I can reach the rim without changing my shot too much. You gave me the love of basketball and I miss not having you there to help me get better. Next year I will be playing for St. Rose on the 5th and 6th grade team and maybe they will let me try to play with the 7th and 8th graders but you know how that works. Please fell free to visit me in my dreams. I love seeing you face again. You are the best dad in the world. Love you dad.
Taylor
Remembrance
June 01, 2008
12:57
AM
Its very strange to think of you as 51. I wish you could be around to see everything right now. I still feel like I just left St. Rose and this time next year I will be graduating from high school. I know your always around somewhere. Happy Birthday. Love you.
kate
Comment
May 31, 2008
02:23
PM
Dors, I knew you would come through on Timmy's day. Thanks for updating us on Timmy's kids. Thank goodness you are in their lives. I know you must miss Tim so much as you were the closest buddies. Tim, please intercede for us. Miss you.K
DORS
Other
May 31, 2008
02:16 PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY FRIEND. ANOTHER SPECIAL DAY AND A TIME TO REFLECT ON HOW MUCH YOU MEANT TO SO MANY PEOPLE. LET ME TELL YOU A FEW THINGS THAT HAVE BEEN GOING ON WITH THE KIDS. TC RAN FOR SENIOR CLASS PRESIDENT. THEY NORMALLY ANNOUNCE THE WINNER THE DAY OF THE ELECTION BUT FOR SOME REASON THEY WAITED TILL THE NEXT DAY. I THINK THAT HE GOT RIPPED OFF BUT THAT IS THE WAY IT WORKS. THE BOYS ARE DOWN AT CAMDEN COUNTY COLLEGE PLAYING A CONCERT BUT I THINK THE RAIN IS GOING TO INTERFERE WITH IT. MORGAN IS WAITING FOR THE SUMMER LEAGUES AND THE CAMPS TO BEGIN. CONNOR IS DECIDING WHETHER OR NOT HE SOULD DEDICATE THE TIME AND EFFORT DURING THE SUMMER TO TRY TO MAKE THE BASKETBALL TEAM NEXT YEAR. THE CAMPS WILL RUN SEVEN WEEKS THIS YEAR AND KEVIN WILL BE IN CHARGE. WE ARE CURRENTLY UNDER A TORNADO WATCH AND POOR TUFFY IS OUTSIDE TRYING TO STAY DRY. HANNA PUPPY TOLD ME TO WISH YOU A HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR HER AND KNOWING HER SHE MIGHT SNEAK UP AND POST HERSELF. I DON'T KNOW IF THE KIDS HAVE ANYTHING SPECIAL FOR TODAY TO REMEMBER YOU BUT I KNOW THAT YOU ARE IN THEIR THOUGHTS EVERYDAY OF THEIR LIVES. THE TIME THEY HAD WITH YOU WAS BEAUTIFUL BUT MUCH TOO SHORT. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
kate
Comment
May 29, 2008
05:53
PM
Timmy's birthday is Saturday (5/31) Let's take a few moments to honor Tim on his birthday. Does anyone have any stories about Timmy and his birthday . What would Timmy have been like at 51?? Hard to imagine him as "older"because he was so playful -a perpetual teenager-so full of life. To his children , all of his family and friends- hope the comfort of memories is with you on Saturday. Great men are honored on the day of their birth - Tim made our lives richer because he gave us his time, spirit and "can do" spirit.
kate
Comment
May 22, 2008
11:37
PM
Tim , with the Celtics in the playoffs I was remembering your white satin jacket with the big green shamrock and the way you told stories about Larry Bird to the kids . Also this week's Inquirer had a story about the Drexel Hill area, the Catholic grade schools and great pick up games in the 60s/70's. Was reminded about the glorious St Rose days as the center of the pick up game universe. You are missed in so many different ways by so many of us.
alumni
Basketball
May 16, 2008
04:57
PM
Would the upcoming 7th grade BIG man be the 6th grader who played some varsity this year? Heard alot about him but never got a chance to see him play, I thoink he was out injured when I went to see him.
alumni
Comment
May 15, 2008
11:29
AM
Next years team: The up-coming seventh grade will incorporate their dominating BIG man next year. They will also have another two or three every game contributors. These boys along with next years 8th graders will surely compete for the title in 2008-09. Go Falcon!
PleaseDors
Other
May 11, 2008
12:57
AM
http://maddox.xmission.com/keyboard4.jpg Sorry, it's just difficult to read.
Alumni
Basketball
May 09, 2008
08:55
AM
How's the varsity team going to look next year? I hear they don't have a particularly strong 8th grade class. Is there a chance for them to keep the winning streak alive?
morgan
Other
May 08, 2008
07:04
PM
Hi dad it was my birthday on Friday. I miss not having you there.I am always thinking about you. Everyone tells me how much I look like you and makes me feel good. I am still beating the boys in basketball and next year I will play for Mrs.Stevens and maybe I will get to play some with the varsity. We all miss you so much. We always wish you were here. I love you!!! I miss you alot and I hope you are always watching me when I play. Love you. OH AND EVERYBODY SAYS HOW YOU WERE A GOOD GUY. PLEASE COME SEE ME ANY NIGHT IN MY DREAMS. LOVE YOU FOREVER. MORGY
DORS
Other
May 04, 2008
08:09 PM
FRIDAY WAS YOU LITTLE ANGEL'S 11TH BIRTHDAY. THIS IS THE 4TH BIRTHDAY WHERE ONLY YOUR SPIRIT WAS THERE TO HELP HER CELEBRATE. THE FAMILY WAS OVER AND LISA HAD A SMALL PARTY FOR HER. ALL THE KIDS MISS YOU SO BAD BUT I THINK A LITTLE GIRL NEEDS HER DAD JUST A LITTLE MORE THAN THE BOYS. SHE IS PLAYING ON A AAU TEAM THAT HAS GIRLS THAT ARE GOING INTO 9TH GRADE. SHE HAS BEEN PLAYING ABOUT HALF THE GAME AND HAS SCORED A COUPLE BASKETS EACH GAME. LISA THINKS THAT THE GIRLS THAT SHE IS PLAYING AGAINST ARE JUST SO MUCH BIGGER THAN HER IT MAKES IT DIFFICULT FOR HER TO DO SOME OF THE THINGS THAT SHE IS CAPABLE OF DOING. SHE KNOWS THAT IT IS GOOD FOR HER TO PLAY UP BUT MOST OF THE GIRLS ARE FOUR GRADES AHEAD OF HER. SHE HANGS IN THERE, BUT GIVING UP SOMETIMES 60 OR 70 POUNDS DOES RESULT WITH HER ON THE GROUND LOOKING UP. I KNOW THAT BY THE TIME SHE STARTS HIGH SCHOOL SHE WILL BE READY TO KICK THESE SAME GIRL'S BUTTS. AFTER SHE FELL ASLEEP THE OTHER NIGHT, I DID WISPER HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR YOU IN HER EAR. PLEASE COME TO HER IN HER DREAMS AND LET HER KNOW THAT YOU ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR HER. I KNOW THAT YOU LOOK AFTER ALL THE KIDS BUT SHE MAY NEED YOU A LITTLE MORE OVER THE NEXT FEW YEARS. BECAUSE OF BASKETBALL, SHE SEEMS TO BE MORE COMFORTABLE WITH OLDER GIRLS. IT IS A TOUGH BALANCING ACT FOR HER TO BE A LITTLE GIRL SOMETIMES AND THEN TURN AROUND AND PERFORM LIKE A TEENAGER. THE KIDS SEND THEIR LOVE AND WILL CELEBRATE YOUR UPCOMING BIRTHDAY. BY THE WAY, KATE GAVE TC HER CAR AFTER SHE BOUGHT A NEW ONE. YES YOUR OLDEST IS DRIVING, HOPEFULLY BETTER THAN YOUR EARLY DAYS AT THE WHEEL. CONNOR IS DOING GREAT IN SCHOOL AND IS LOOKING FORWARD TO WORKING. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE AND TUFFY WANTS MORE FOOD. I WILL POST AGAIN AROUND YOUR BIRTHDAY (MAY 31) AND HOPEFULLY SO WILL MANY OF YOUR FRIENDS. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
MFay
Other
April 25, 2008
04:38
PM
Dear Tim, Stumbled onto this site today because I have been thinking of you and your family a bunch lately. Since I don’t live close to Haddon Hts. any longer, I wasn’t sure where to go to check in. So nice to see that this site is still here. Please know I’ll always keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. You have been on my mind as the class of 91 has been reconnecting in preparation for our 20th reunion that is coming up in a couple years. Can’t even believe almost 20 years have passed! It’s been wild emailing with everyone and remembering all the fun times we shared together. Many of those memories include you and take place in your gym. Please know that you are loved and thought of often. Love, Meghan
Friend
Other
April 16, 2008
07:54
AM
One more time please.
Bob
Comment
April 09, 2008
04:36
PM
I miss you Tim
HC
Other
March 25, 2008
07:33 PM
Our house is very excited to hear confirmation today that Matt Brady is the new head coach of James Madison (JMU) Men's Basketball! Timmy's legacy ------ Matt will surely turn that program around. We wish Matt the best.
Rubbi
Comment
March 25, 2008
01:11
PM
PS I would like to apologize on behalf of the 1979 and 1980 team to anyone living in the Haddon Hts, Audubon, Haddonfield, and Barrington area whose snowman was destroyed! The 79 and 80 teams will be opening a home for battered snowmen and snowwomen your donations are greatly appreciated. I know Timmy is laughing at that.
Rubbi
Remembrance
March 25, 2008
01:05
PM
Leonard as shameful as it is to admit that on occassion I watch American Idol (only because my girl watches it) I admit it. On the show they were singing Beatles songs which u would let us listen to while driving to the game. I was fortunate enough to get 2 years of my Beatles education because I was in your car my 7th and 8th grade year. As I sat next to my girl listening to Back in the USSR, I've just seen a face and many others I couldn't help but cry thinking of all the fun we had singing those Beatles songs as u would pull the car over so we could get out and smash peoples snowmen. All good clean fun. So I had to explain to Lauren that I got something in my eye but she knows better because I speak of u often. I went to many St Rose girls games this year because Sofia was on the team. Everytime I walk in that gym I feel sad, happy, remorseful, silly, proud, and grateful for the years that u were my coach and the special friendship we developed on and off the court. I never had a relationship such as ours with any coach during my basketball career. I really miss u and u and your family are always in my thoughts.
Taylor
Other
March 24, 2008
08:21
AM
I need your help today.
DORS
Other
March 22, 2008
06:56
PM
HAPPY EASTER MY FRIEND! THE LOCAL BASKETBALL SEASON HAS ENDED SO I THOUGHT I WOULD UPDATE YOU ON WHAT HAS HAPPENED. CAMDEN CATHOLIC GOT TO THE STATE FINALS BUT CAME UP A LITTLE SHORT. TYLER INJURED HIS KNEE AND MISSED THE END OF THE SEASON BUT MIKE AND TIMMY PLAYED WELL TO GET THEM TO THE STATE FINALS. TIMMY HAD 25 POINTS AND 12 REBOUNDS IN THE FINALS AND WAS NAMED MVP. JIMMY WON OVER 20 GAMES AGAIN FOR THE 20TH STRAIGHT YEAR. THAT IS AMAZING. SAINT ROSE WON THE CHAMPIONSHIP AGAIN ON TUESDAY NIGHT. THIS WAS JAMIES FIRST TEAM THAT WAS ALL HIS AND HE, AS ALWAYS , DID A GREAT JOB. THE TEAM ITSELF WAS AN INTERESTING TEAM. THEY HAD JIMMY'S SON, MICHAEL, WHO IS A FINE ATHLETE WHO COULD REBOUND AND BLOCK SHOTS. THEY ALSO HAD FRANKY T'S SON WHO WAS AN OUTSTANDING SHOOTER AND NICE BALLHANDLER. THEY ALSO HAD TIM TARAFAY WHO GAVE THEM BOTH AN INSIDE AND OUTSIDE GAME. I MUST MENTION MAX WHO CAME OFF THE BENCH AND DID A GREAT JOB DEFENDING THE OTHER TEAMS BEST PLAYER. BUT THE HEART AND SOUL OF THIS TEAM WAS ITS BACKCOURT. I HAVE WATCHED ST. ROSE BASKETBALL SINCE THE SIXTIES AND IT IS POSSIBLE THAT THESE TWO KIDS ARE THE BEST GUARD TANDEM EVERY AT ST. ROSE. I AM NOT SAYING THAT THEY WILL BE THE BEST HIGH SCHOOL OR COLLEGE PLAYERS BUT AS EIGHTH GRADERS, THESE TWO WERE SPECIAL. PETE AND MATT HAD GREAT SKILL LEVEL, GREAT STRENGTH, GREAT ATHLETISM, AND GREAT HEART. ON TUESDAY NIGHT THE TEAM WON THE EAST-WEST CHAMPIONSHIP GAME NAMED IN YOUR HONOR. IN THE FOUR YEARS THAT THE GAME HAS BEEN PLAYED, ST. ROSE HAS WON IT EACH YEAR. JOE MADE UP POSTERS WITH YOUR MUG ON THEM AND HAD SOME REALLY NICE THINGS TO SAY ABOUT YOU AFTER THE GAME. BY THE WAY MATT WAS MVP OF THE LEAGUE FOR THE SECOND YEAR IN A ROW. HE HAS A LOT OF TALENT AND WILL MAKE A VERY NICE HIGH SCHOOL PLAYER. THE LEAGUE IS LOOKING FORWARD TO ENDING SAINT ROSE'S RUN NEXT YEAR BUT THAT MIGHT BE EASIER SAID THEN DONE. ONE OF THE KIDS OFF THE BENCH WAS A YOUNG SIXTH GRADER, RICH RISSE'S SON, MATT. TIMMY, THIS ONE IS SPECIAL. JAMIE DIDN'T PLAY HIM TO MUCH THIS YEAR BECAUSE OF THE GRIEF HE WOULD HAVE TAKEN BUT I ONLY SAW A HANDFULL OF EIGHTH GRADERS WHO WERE BETTER THAN HIM. WITH HIS SIZE AND SKILLS, HE SHOULD BE ONE OF THE BEST PLAYERS EVER TO COME OUT OF SAINT ROSE. MORGY'S TEAM WON THE MOUNT EPHRIM LEAGUE AGAIN AND SHE WAS BY FAR THE BEST PLAYER EVEN THOUGH SHE WAS IN FOURTH GRADE AND MOST OF THE LEAGUE WAS SIXTH GRADE BOYS. HER FIFTH GRADE TRAVEL TEAM DIDN'T MAKE THE PLAYOFFS BECAUSE THEIR COACH PLAYED 13 GIRLS EQUAL TIME SO UNLESS MORGY COULD SCORE 20 POINTS IN THE HALF THAT SHE PLAYER, THEY COULDN'T WIN. CONNOR FINISHED HIS YEAR WITH THE PAUL VI FROSH TEAM AND PLAYED WELL WHEN GIVE THE CHANCE. TC IS ABOUT TO GET HIS DRIVER'S LICENSE. HE IS LOOKING FOR A CAR TO GET TO WORK AND PLACES WHERE HE WILL PLAY HIS MUSIC. ALL AND ALL THE KIDS ARE DOING WELL AND I AM HOBBLING AROUND AS BEST I CAN. IT SUCKS GETTING OLD. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. MORGY AND I ARE ABOUT TO WALK TUFFY MONSTER AND HANNA AND THEN WATCH THE NCAA TOURNAMENT. THIS IS JUST ANOTHER THING THAT I MISS NOT HAVING YOU AROUND. MISS YOU MY FRIEND!
Mark
Basketball
March 12, 2008
03:16
PM
Waddy. My squad plays in the PA state semi final tonight at the Cathedral of basketball, the Palestra. I'll be thinking of you! I'll be giving my "Winners do what losers wont" speech pre game in honor of the greatest coach there every was at the greatest venue every to play in, other than the Lendome! Miss you much. Mark Lange
JV
Basketball
March 12, 2008
01:08
PM
Hey Tim, The traditions continue at St. Rose basketball. The JV-Boys team took the Division and the Championship, from Mt. Carmel this past weekend at St. Peter in Merchantville. The final game was a thriller. The next generation of players had a solid performance. The "big-man" 6th grader Risse was impressive on both ends of the court. All of the team contributed including a solid point by Murphy, strong shooting by Delaney and the swarming defenders & rebounders by Gatti, McLaughlin and Kirk were dominating. If you were listening your name came up during the ending speech. The Lenahan name has come up regularly based on the solid basketball program that's instilled to the players of St. Rose. Thanks for the strong traditions. Keep these players, and all your past and present players in your care and watch over the St. Rose Varsity team this coming weekend.
kate
Basketball
March 08, 2008
11:44
PM
Tim. bet you are enjoying Camden Catholic's playoff run with some of the Rose boys you know.You would have been in the front row for these games, especially CC vs PVI -you do have a good view from above but we miss you.
Pal
Other
March 06, 2008
01:11
AM
Tim, he will need you tonight. Come to him and ease the pain.Help him to remember and not give up.TY
JWO
Basketball
March 03, 2008
02:05
PM
Tim, Haven't written in to this site in a long time, but I just wanted to thank you as always for instilling a love of basketball in me. This is the time of year when I am so thankful that I enjoy basketball and have something to look forward to every week. I hope you're looking out for your family, you did so much for so many while you were alive, they deserve your help now that you have God's ear.
Friend
Other
February 29, 2008
07:47
AM
Thanks Tim.
friend
Comment
February 28, 2008
12:24
AM
Thanks for your help tonight. Still wearing my blue Tim band
Friend
Remembrance
February 27,
2008
08:50 AM
In our thoughts & prayers. Keep an eye on us if you have time. missing you
kate
Basketball
February 12, 2008
01:09
AM
Well Tim, you are on our minds alot these days. The Inquirer just did an article on the jump shot, mechanics etc. I double checked to make sure your name wasn't in the by line especially since they showed a picture of Larry Bird and his, I quote, perfect form. You would have posted the page up in that closet that was the Locker Room. Kevin, thanks for maintaing this website. You have a lot to do with your family, work and coaching, yet you help us have a place to go when we need to share thoughts and talk about Tim. Thanks for this gift.
allumni
Basketball
February 11,
2008
11:23 PM
hey tim i just wanted to let u no that your legacy did infact help me to play at the next level and I can only hope that it does the same for many players to come. i also hope that the 8th grade team can bring home anoher championship, 6 in a row. thanks. we miss you
Friend
Comment
February 11, 2008
03:45
PM
I wanted to let you know that Matt C. and Jamie D. are upholding your basketball teaching legacy exceptionally well at St. Rose. Ours sons are learning the game by your example through these coaches. My son can never say he was coached by the great Tim Lenahan, but he has learned the game in "Lenahan Spirit." Thank you.
lg
Remembrance
February 10, 2008
05:40
PM
hey timmy, wow I haven't been on here in such a long time. But i still think about you everyday. I keep your prayer card in my gym bag and i see it before every game. my team's been doing well this year, i'm sure you already know that. thanks for helpin me with that 3 last week ;). i miss coming to saint rose all the time in the fall and practicing with your team. i wouldn't be the player i was today without you. i got a division 1 scholarship to play next year and i just want to thank you for everything you did to help me get there. you always told me i could make it and i really did. thank you so much for everything. miss you, tim. i kno you're probably up there talking bball with coach c. keep watching over us. love you!
Kevin Gemmell
Remembrance
February 04,
2008
02:31 PM
Timmy, I wanted to write to you on Saturday but we had a game (we lost) but we'll see that team again later in the season. I took the loss pretty hard and wondered the whole way home how you dealt with losing to Grace or any other team we should have beaten but no team can shoot 4 for 42 (yes, 4 for 42) and expect to win, even at the 4th grade level. That many shots proves we ran our offense well though but I heard you laughing at my frustration. Parents of my kids always ask how I know how to teach an offense vs. a 1-3-1 or how I know so many drills that improve their son's play and I just smile and say I had the best teacher a person could have ever had. All of my wrist bands broke but I still wear my Falcons hat and still apply the lessons you taught all your players even after they left Saint Rose. I took my team and their parents to the Army-Navy game two weekends ago. We watched Hoosiers (that and Rocky are the only movies that choke me up) on the bus ride down and Billy Lange spoke to my team in the Navy locker after what I know was a gut-wrenching loss for him. I saw Bill (HoF inductee like yourself) and Kathy (my 2nd favorite St. Rose influence) and Billy's beautiful family. I really enjoyed myself. I thought about you throughout the day. Anyhow, keep looking down on us and provide strength and reminders for those of us who need it. We miss you. p.s. Help me guide the Jets to a championship.
Gems
Judy
Remembrance
February 04, 2008
06:27
AM
Tims, three years already and it seems unreal. I loved the relationship we had. You are my heart, and have been since Mom and Dad brought you home for me. I know I will see you and our family, at my time, and will join in the party that I know you are enjoying. I can almost hear you and Mare laughing.You and Mare always made life easier for me, what wonderful friends you are to me. I know you have your hands full watching out for your children, and all you family and friends. I feel you with me, but I'd give anything to have a hug. Love you Tims. Judy
Terri
Remembrance
February 03,
2008
03:24 PM
Hey Tim, I had a dream about you last night. When I woke up this morning I realized I'd missed your 3 year anniversary. Thanks for the reminder!!! Believe me, you are not out of mind, in fact, not a day goes by when I don't say a prayer for you and think about your wonderful smile and laugh and the good times we had so many years ago! You have made such a difference in so many lives and I am so happy that my life was one of them. I lost my dad this year as well as a few close friends and family. They were all great people, so I am sure there is a lot of fun happening in heaven these days! Keep watch over all of us, especially Lisa and your beautiful kids. Love, Terri
Friend
Remembrance
February 03,
2008
09:02 AM
Thanks...
Taylor
Remembrance
February 03,
2008
12:43 AM
I'm sorry that I didn't comment on Feb 2nd. To be honest, I spent all day trying to think of what to say. I wasn't sure what the perfect words were to let you know how much we all miss you. But, this is one of those times when words escape me. Robert Frost once said "Nothing gold can stay" and that pretty much sums it up. We all love you so much and always will. No matter how many years pass you will still be respected, remembered, loved, missed and my dad. Its been 3 years and we've made it this far. I remember when you used to tell me stories about how much you loved and missed you dad, and I always wished I could have met him, and I guess that bothers me the most, to my kids, you will only be the memory I have of you. Keep looking out for us. Love you.
HC
Remembrance
February 02, 2008
08:33
PM
Tim, three years and we all still miss you and think of you all the time! You were a force and a spirit like no other, and I really feel blessed to have known you. My boys will always be better for having had the experience of playing for you, and we are grateful. Miss you today and every day!
DORS
Remembrance
February 02, 2008
05:54
PM
I AM SITTING IN THE ROOM THAT I LAST SAW YOU THREE YEARS AGO. THAT NIGHT IS STILL BURNED INTO MY BRAIN AND THE MEMORY STILL BRINGS TEARS TO MY EYES. THE THREE FACES THAT I SAW WHEN I WALKED IN AT 5:00 A.M. STILL HAUNT ME. BUT IF YOU LOOK AT THEM TODAY, YOU COULD HARDLY RECOGNIZE THEM. TC AND CONN ARE TURNING INTO MEN AND MORGY IS NOT THE LITTLE GIRL THAT SHE WAS WHEN YOU LEFT. TIME MOVES ON BUT THE VOID THAT WAS LEFT IN THEIR HEARTS WILL NEVER BE FILLED. WHEN MORGY FALLS ASLEEP IN MY ARMS I FEEL THAT IT SHOULD BE HER DADDY HOLDING HER. THE BOYS ARE BETTER AT MASKING THEIR FEELINGS OF LOSS BUT IT IS SOMEWHAT HARDER FOR MORGY. I KNOW THAT YOU SOMETIMES COME TO THEM IN THEIR DREAMS AND THAT ALWAYS MAKES THEM FEEL BETTER BECAUSE IT REFRESHES THEIR MEMORY OF YOU. RIGHT NOW LISA AND THE BOYS ARE AT A MASS BEING SAID FOR YOU. MORGY HAS A BIRTHDAY PARTY AND I AM GLAD THAT LISA LET HER GO BECAUSE I KNOW THAT YOU WOULD RATHER HAVE HER HAVING FUN AT A PARTY THEN CRYING IN CHURCH. TC IS STILL WORKING AS MANY HOURS AS HE CAN GET AT THE MUSIC STORE AND HIS GRADES WERE OK FOR THE SECOND MARKING PERIOD. CON IS PLAYING BASKETBALL FOR PAUL VI BUT NOT GETTING AS MUCH TIME AS HE WOULD LIKE. HIS GRADES WERE GOOD FOR THE SECOND MARKING PERIOD. MORGY IS PLAYING WELL IN BOTH LEAGUES AND IS WORKING OUT WITH THE JV AT A LOCAL HIGH SCHOOL. LAST SUNDAY SHE WAS PLAYING THE SIXTH GRADE TEAM FROM HADDON TOWNSHIP AND THEY WERE OF COURSE KEYING THEIR WHOLE DEFENSE ON HER. SHE BEAT HER MAN AT HALF COURT DROVE TO THE ELBOW AND SPUN TO BEAT THE HELP, TOOK TWO HARD DRIBBLES WITH HER LEFT AND FINISHED LEFT HANDED OFF THE PROPER FOOT. THE SHOT ROLLED IN AND OUT BUT SHE WAS PROUD THAT SHE FINISHED STRONG LEFT. TOMMY WAS THERE AND HE JUST LOOKED AT ME AND SMILED. THE BOYS HAVE A SHOW COMING UP AND I AM SURE THAT YOU WILL BE THERE. THEY BOTH LOVE MUSIC AND ARE VERY GOOD AT IT. YOU ALWAYS SAID THAT THERE WERE LOTS OF OTHER THINGS IN LIFE OTHER THAN BASKETBALL. HANNA IS SITTING WITH ME IN THE CHAIR AND WANTS YOU TO KNOW THAT YOU ARE STILL HER FAVORITE MASTER AND THAT SHE MISSES YOU. THE CUT OFF FOR THE HIGH SCHOOL BASKETBALL SEASON IS TODAY AND I WILL UPDATE YOU ON HOW THAT GOES. LAST YEAR ON THIS DATE TC, CONN, MORGY, AND I TOOK YOU OUT ON OUR RIDE THAT WE TAKE AT NIGHT. WE JUST MIGHT DO THAT AGAIN TONIGHT. BY THE WAY, DO KNOW HOW OFTER YOUR NAME COMES UP EVEN AFTER THREE YEARS. YOU TOUCHED A LOT OF PEOPLE MY FRIEND. EVERYONE HERE MISSES YOU SO MUCH. KEEP LOOKING OVER THE ONES WHO LOVE AND NEED YOU.
Kate
Remembrance
January 30, 2008
06:06
PM
Timmy, first of all, no one else calls me Kate so I miss that and you always liked the way my perfume smelled . Now, I just can't seem to wear that fragrance any more. Most of all I miss night time practices when I could hear your voice instructing the boys and some of your comments would make me laugh to myself. Then we would have a little chat and we'd go home. I feel fortunate to have had regular contact with you like that for 8 years.As others here will often say that bear hug, grin and infectious laugh -gosh -miss it. For you youngsters ... a little history lesson... bear with me... When JFK was killed I remember one of his dear friends saying this - "Over time the pain will lessen and some day we will laugh again, but we will never be young again." I think that he meant that the carefree joy of friendship would never be the same and that we had lost our innocense and trust - our "youth" if you will. I feel the same about not having you around- you had such a joy for life and spunk and the a great sense of fun. You kept us "young", with you we grown ups could mess around and share laughter. Well, Dick Clark claims to be the world's oldest teenager but you are really the "coolest" adult we know. Well, I want to celebrate your life and honor you by trying to do a "Tim like" good deed and make someone laugh like you made us laugh. Take care of us buddy.
Mark
Remembrance
January 30, 2008
12:54
PM
Waddy!!!! God I miss you. So I have to say you gave me a chuckle today. For some reason I was thinking about the time you and Billy were having a war with John Harvey and many others at Del's just busting chops as we always did. As usual you got the best of Billy, the whole way home he was trying to think of something to comeback with. When he got home he called over to Del's and told you not to stand on the corner because someone would mistake you as a mailbox and throw a package in. That night you had this blue shirt on, (with cheese steak grease stains all over). I remember that great Lenny laugh coming over the phone like you were standing right next to me. You hung up the phone and 2 minutes later you busted into our house and sat on Billy for a bit and gave him some of that Waddy TLC we all loved. Classic! Love You!
TF
Remembrance
January 28, 2008
01:32
AM
Its been a while since I posted on this site but I know we all think about Timmy all the time. A friend of mine recently remarked he drove past Rose on one of those frigid single digit wind chill days and was surprised to see several kids on the outside courts playing ball. He thought that was nuts. I told him its a Rose thing, its a Timmy thing you just wouldn't understand. You guys remember running your asses off hoping to reach the sideline before that large looming scoreboard emitted a hideously loud and obnoxious BUZZZZZZZZZZ! And as soon as you could consistently beat the clock the coach that demanded your total committment to the program would make you run it with even less time on thbe clock BUZZZZZZZZZ!!!!
lisa
Comment
January 26, 2008
12:03
PM
Timmys 3 year anniversary is coming up on Feb. 2. Bernadette Janis was kind enough to have a mass said for him at 5:30 at St. Rose on Feb. 2. We would love to see you there.
friend
Remembrance
January 24,
2008
12:46 PM
Hey Tim, how things going? We are hanging in down here, but it definetly is not the same without you. I still think about you everyday and it does not get any easier. I have so much going on right now with my life, some good some bad, and it would have been much easier to have you here guiding me through. The kids are great, at times, but there are times that are rough for them. Especially Morgan. We don't talk about you much, its funny because I think she knows that it pains me too much to do so. Its like we have an understanding, we know how much we miss you and don't even have to say it. I love picking the boys up each day, it is something I look forward to. I don't know what I am going to do when Taylor gets his license and a car. Can you believe he is getting his license? How crazy is that? Please help him on that day....he is not the best of drivers. Hey kinda like you (haha). Anyway. Please keep your eye on all of us, God knows we need it. You know keep an extra eye out for Dorse, ok. I miss you Tim.
Amy
Remembrance
January 22, 2008
04:24
PM
The day is getting close. The three year mark..... I still think about you every day. Gosh...it's supposed to get easier, but it doesn't. The family is good. The kids are all getting so big, and the adults are all getting so old..hahahaha I guess you know, but Kevin and Michelle had a baby girl. She looks just like him! Every new friend I make, I tell about you. My words shame me though, Tim because you are indescribable. I miss you.
Judy
Comment
January 20, 2008
05:46
PM
It has been quite some time since I have written. Thank you Webmaster for this remembrance, Thank you to all who take the time to remember Timmy. Not one day goes by without him in my mind and heart. Just pray for those disenchanted souls who did not have the experience of Timothy Patrick in their lives. What a pivotal person he was for me and my children. He was my heart from the day he came home from the hospital. Taylor, Connor and Morgie make him whole again. Each one has many of his endearing qualities ( as well as Lisa's). Dors thank you for helping me to keep up with the kids. I can't imagine not having Timmy, Del's, St.Rose, basketball and the white van as memories. Please keep the faith. Timmy is certainly kept busy helping us all. Love to all of you. Judy.
Brett
Remembrance
January 05, 2008
01:51
AM
I thought about you today Timmy, we all still miss you like crazy.
TaylorLenahan
Other
December 25,
2007
09:59 PM
Just wanted to say Merry Christmas. Christmas does not feel the same with out you, but I guess it never will. I got socks and a computer recording studio, so I would call it a win-win. We all love you and miss you not being with us, but I think your closer than we all think. Merry Christmas, & happy new year. Heres to '08.
morgy
Other
December 25, 2007
12:28
PM
Merry Christmas Dad! I am still mad that you have passed but I guess you can't do anything about that. It is Christmas morning and I got wonderful presents from mom. I know that in heaven you are not in pain and that makes me very happy. Me, Connor,Taylor,Dors, and Mom miss you so much. At night I think about you a lot. We all love you so much and wish you were here to share our Christmas. And Dors is taking good care of us. WE LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DORS
Other
December 24, 2007
06:11
PM
MERRY CHRISTMAS MY FRIEND. IT IS CHRISTMAS EVE AND LISA AND THE BOYS ARE WATCHING MORGY IN A SAINT ROSE CHRISTMAS PAGENT AT CHURCH. SHE IS PLAYING AN ANGEL AND YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN HOW PRETTY AND GROWN UP SHE LOOKED. BRIAN TOOK THE KIDS TO DAVE AND BUSTERS TODAY AND THEY HAD A GREAT TIME. YESTERDAY THE BOYS SPENT SIX HOURS IN THE RECORDING STUDIO RECORDING THEIR SONGS. CONNOR MADE THE FRESHMAN TEAM AT PAUL VI. HE WAS SO HAPPY BECAUSE HE WAS ABLE TO DO SOMETHING THAT YOU DIDN'T DO. THE COACH IS BRYAN SHANAHAN, JIM'S SON. HE IS A GOOD GUY AND THEY ARE BUILDING A SOLID PROGRAM AT PAUL VI. THE OTHER DAY THEY WERE PLAYING WILSON AND CONN HIT A THREE FROM THE DEEP CORNER OVER THE OUT-STREACHED ARMS OF ONE OF THE LONG BROTHERS. IT WAS RIGHT AT THE END OF THE HALF AND HE HAD ONE OF YOUR SMILES WHEN HE RAN OFF THE COURT. MORGY PLAYED AN UNDEFEATED TEAM OF MOSTLY SIXTH GRADE BOYS THE OTHER NIGHT AND DROPPED 25 ON THEM. AS I WAS WATCHING, I REALLY DIDN'T APPRECIATE WHAT SHE WAS DOING BECAUSE I EXPECT HER TO BE ABLE TO DO THINGS BEYOND HER YEARS BUT LATER ON I REALIZED THAT SHE HAD FIVE OR SIX SHOTS ROLL IN AND OUT AND SHE ONLY HAD ONE LAYUP. I CAN'T BELIEVE HOW MUCH TC IS TURNING INTO YOU. HIS GOOD NATURE, HIS PASSION AND EVEN SOMETIMES YOUR TEMPER. ALL THREE OF THEM ARE GROWING UP FASTER THAN I SOMETIMES WOULD LIKE BUT I GUESS THERE IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO ABOUT THAT. HANNA PUPPY IS SITTING BEHIND ME IN THE CHAIR. SHE STILL HAS AN AMAZING VERTICAL FOR AN OLD DOG. SHE SAYS THAT SHE MISSES YOU. TUFFY IS DOWNSTAIRS AND WANTS TO BE FED SO I WILL END THIS HERE. THIS WILL BE THE THIRD CHRISTMAS THAT YOU HAVE MISSED. THE KIDS WILL PROBABLY PUT ON A TAPE OF YOU AND REMEMBER. TELL THE BIG GUY HAPPY BIRTHDAY FOR ME. KEEP LOOKING AFTER EVERYONE.
kate
Basketball
December 18, 2007
12:24
AM
Hi Tim.You have been on my mind so much. When basketball season starts I seem to miss you even more. The front page of the Inquirer Basketball Preview section had 3 St Rose grads on it. ( at Camden Catholic) and I got a chance to see Brian Connelly on ESPN2 tonight vs Duke.( Duke!) Chuck opened the Lenape season at Camden Catholic with a close 1 point game and on Thanksgiving weekend Navy played 2 games at the Palestra. These are games you would have tried to see and your smiling face and enthusiasm was missed so much as well as your post game analysis. Your "boys" are coaching and playing and I for one are treasuring every one of the moments when one of your boys is in a game. Yes, your spirit lives on but oh what I would give for one of your bear hugs.Please help me and all of your boys in life's lessons from your heavenly courtside seat.
Don
Basketball
December 07, 2007
07:14
AM
On a brighter note it was great to see Brian Connelly score nineteen points & secure ten rebounds last night playing for the University of Albany. He was clearly the best player on the Court. Brian shot nine for fifteen & played thirty seven minutes About forty St Rose people traveled to Delaware last night to see the game. Timmy would have loved Brian's dominance. Mr. Connelly said Brian often wears his St Rose shirt memorializing Tim under his uniform. Most of Brian's baskets were strong finishes with his left. Nobody has to speculate where these skills started. It is a lot of fun watching Timmy's former players excel at the next level & above. Brian plays at Duke in two weeks on ESPN. Winning might not be an option on that one! Even with Timmy coaching the spread would be thirty six
LL
Comment
December 06, 2007
03:23
PM
To the very sad and sorry person who wrote that horrible comment this is to you. The world is full of so much anger, hate, sadness and jealousy. I hope you find peace in your life. This website has no space on it for your heartless writing. My three children and myself have gone through a Hell that I pray you never have to. I am very grateful to the webmaster for creating this wonderful web site for my late husband. Please keep your opinion to yourself! Lisa Lenahan
Webmaster
Other
December 03, 2007
10:47
AM
Hopefully cooler heads will prevail on this one but please remember that this site is a memorial to a great man whom many people loved and respected. If you want to express your envy, jealousy or hatred towards Saint Rose, Tim Lenahan or his legacy please create your own website. Thanks.
Falcon
Other
December 03, 2007
01:33
AM
Hater, before I go to bed tonight I will keep you in my prayers along with Tim. You truly make me sick to my stomach. You are probably a grade school punk or high school kid who sat the bench and got absolutely killed by a Lenahan coached St. Rose team. Because we all know, any real basketball player who played against St. Rose would have killed to play for Timmy. How you can have the audacity to refer to St. Rose kids as "mean-spirited" actually makes me sick. I hope you take a good look in the mirror buddy and get a reality check.
TaylorLenahan
Comment
December 03,
2007
12:29 AM
Yo hater. You better pray to God that I never find out who you are. To come on hear and say something like that means you have brass ones, I'll give you that. But there will be dire consequences of a violent nature if I EVER find out who you are. And I say that with my dad as a witness. Kevin, block his IP. Ill get your name. Don't worry. Plus, since when does some sniffling losers opinion matter anyway? Clearly you had no friends in St. Rose, otherwise you wouldn't be so bitter. Just do the world a favor and just never speak again, because God knows its a waste of oxygen.
Roser
Remembrance
December 03,
2007
12:08 AM
People with a heart as small as yours needs to say something that negative not in person
Hater
Other
December 02, 2007
08:20 PM
I hate to break it to you guys, you're talking to a internet browser. Want to talk to Tim? Pray. He'll hear you. Oh, and fuck St. Rose. I hated that school. Mean spirted jocks and bullies, and that goes for the adults as well as the little monsters. Jesus Christ, I can't think of one ugly bastard that came out of that place that I can tolerate without needing to quell the urge to projectile vomit.
Friend
Other
November 27, 2007
11:14
PM
Just watch over him. Love ya.
DORS
Comment
November 22, 2007
03:43
PM
HAPPY THANKSGIVING MY FRIEND: HOW MANY YEARS DID WE SPEND THANKSGIVING WATCHING FOOTBALL ON TV? I MISS THOSE TIMES. WELL HIGH SCHOOL BASKETBALL SEASON STARTS ON FRIDAY. I FEEL FUNNY NOT HAVING A PRACTICE SCHEDULE TO PREPARE. SAINT ROSE HAS PLAYED A FEW GAMES AND HAS A VERY GOOD TEAM. THEY PLAY ST. MARY'S OF THE LAKES ON SUNDAY, A TEAM THAT HAS ALREADY BEATEN THEM TWICE. I DON'T SEE ANYONE GIVING THEM A GAME IN THEIR LEAGUE BUT I KNOW JAMIE WILL FIND QUALITY GAMES FOR THEM. I GUESS THAT THIS IS THE FIRST TEAM THAT IS ALL JAMIE'S AND HE HAS DONE A GREAT JOB WITH THE PROGRAM, BUT WE BOTH KNEW HE WOULD. ON THE HOME FRONT, CONN MADE THE HONOR ROLL FOR THE FIRST MARKING PERIOD. HE MADE HIS CONFORMATION TWO WEEKS AGO AND I WAS TEMPTED TO TELL THE BISHOP THAT I WAS OLD SCHOOL AND IF HE WANTED TO HIT HIM HE COULD. TRYOUTS START ON FRIDAY FOR BASKETBALL SO HE IS LOOKING FORWARD TO THAT. BY THE WAY, CONNOR LOVES PAUL VI. TC GOT MOSTLY As AND Bs ON HIS REPORT CARD SO HE IS HEADED IN THE RIGHT DIRECTION. SO BETWEEN WORK, MUSIC AND SCHOOL HE DOESN'T HAVE MUCH TIME FOR ANYTHING ELSE. MORGY GOT AN A IN MATH AND SHE IS TRYING HARD TO MEMORIZE THE INANE BS THAT HER SCIENCE AND SOCIAL STUDIES TEACHERS WANT THEM TO KNOW. ANYONE OF YOU OUT THERE KNOW WHAT NUMBER STATE NEW YORK IS? I HAVE HAD HER PRACTICING WITH THE SIXTH GRADE BOYS AND SHE IS DOING WELL. MATT CRAWFORD HAS BEEN REALLY GOOD TO HER AND IF SHE CAN GO AS FAST AS THE BOYS, SHE WILL DO WELL. SHE IS PLAYING FOR THE 5TH GRADE TRAVEL IN HADDON TOWNSHIP AND THE 6TH GRADE LEAGUE IN MT. EMPRHAM. I KNOW I HAVE PROBABLY FORGOTTEN SOMETHING BUT I WANT TO GO DOWN STAIRS AND WATCH JAYSON THOMPSON TRY TO BEAT NC STATE. THE PEOPLE DOING THE GAME WERE AMAZED AT A 6'11" PLAYER PUTTTING THE BALL ON THE FLOOR. I JUST SMILED AND THOUGHT TIMMY TO CHUCKY TO A MOBILE 6'11" KID. YOU ARE STILL LEAVING YOUR MARK ON BASKETBALL. THE KIDS, LISA, HANNA PUPPY, TUFFY AND I SEND OUR LOVE.
Amy
Other
November 05, 2007
09:58
AM
I miss you like h*ll, Tim.
Golf
Other
October 25, 2007
09:03
AM
Although the carts can't go in the fairways today the tournament is on! It will be damp but playable. Taylor, Connor & Michael Crawford will provide entertainment if anyone wants to come after golf. Dinner & Entertainment is 45.00. Connor was also going to say a few words about his Dad
erin
Remembrance
October 23, 2007
11:02
PM
timmy. i was thinking about you today. how much i miss going to the games that my dad coached.. and being there listening to you and my dad have a conversation. and every now and than i think about what you always use to say "winners do what losers wont" but i never really thought about what it meant until today. i feel that the only person that i have truely known to live up to that saying was you. you are a perfect role model and always in my heart. timmy lenihan you are my hero.
erin
Remembrance
October 23, 2007
11:02
PM
timmy. i was thinking about you today. how much i miss going to the games that my dad coached.. and being there listening to you and my dad have a conversation. and every now and than i think about what you always use to say "winners do what losers wont" but i never really thought about what it meant until today. i feel that the only person that i have truely known to live up to that saying was you. you are a perfect role model and always in my heart. timmy lenihan you are my hero.
Vinnie
Remembrance
October 23,
2007
09:50 PM
Timmy, I was talking about you over the weekend about what great memories I have of playing ball and just being around you and the St. Rose family. I never went to St. Rose (I probably should have with as much time as I spent there) but that never stopped you from making me feel like part of your team. What I realize now more than ever is it is a rare person that gives so much of their time and efforts to help others and asks for nothing in return. For me, you taught through basketball, yet it's not the basketball lessons I remember, as so much it is the life lessons. You used to say that winners do what loser won't - and I couldn't agree more. But what I realize now is that winners in life trace back to certain individuals that put them on track. Successful people just don't wake up one day and decide to become successful - they had to learn how to be successful - they had to learn to get on track. I think to teach people those lessons takes something special - but looking back, you made it look so easy and you always had so much fun doing it. And now that I have a little man myself, I wish so much you were here to work with him like you did with me. I am sorry it has taken me this long. Please know it is not because you have not been in my thoughts and prayers. My best always, Vinnie McCaffrey
LL
Remembrance
October 20, 2007
08:19
PM
I can't believe another basketball season is upon us again. This will be the first year since 1985 that I will not be watching St.Rose boys basketball play in the " Len Dome". I remember when I first started dating you the Fall of 1985 I would sit and watch you run practices. I was so in love with you from day one. Seeing you with all your players made me love you even more. I was so impressed with what an awesome coach you were. Having been an athlete I had so few good coaches and would have died to have one as dedicated and driven as you. We miss you and know you keep us close to you. Morgy and I went to shop for her Halloween costume today and to spend some time together. On the way home she asked me if people cry in Heaven and my reply was absolutely not they are always happy. I must say I would give anything I have to bring her daddy back. The hardest part of losing you by far is not being able to take that pain away that our 3 children feel.I always remind them how much you loved them even though you told them all the time. Next week is the golf outting we hold in memory of you. I am so greatful to all th people who help make it happen. I feel so honored to give scholorships in your name. We love you to the moon and back.
Amy
Comment
October 14, 2007
08:52
PM
Someone just asked me who is the one person who you would see again if you could. Of course it was you. I think about you everyday of my life. You aren't here with me, but I still feel you all around me. The person you were still gives me strength. I love you. Amy
pal
Basketball
October 07, 2007
08:18
PM
Well Tim, in a few days the collegiate basketball season will start. Many of your players are still active on all 3 Division levels and I am sure you will be on their mind. Many others you influenced will be helping with pee wee or grade school programs and running some of the very drills they learned from you. We miss you and are thinking of you. Help us to be good role models to the youth we are working with.
rfi
Remembrance
September 29, 2007
03:50
PM
Hey Tim. I am sitting here unpacking in Cincinnati and just ran across my Tim Lenahan file. Thanks for being the inspiration for getting me back into coaching after many years on the sidelines. The last three years were a great run and it is all because of you. Our whole family continues to miss you. You were the best coach our kids ever had and will likely ever have. You were a great role model for us all. We continue to keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. r/gi
TimothyP
Remembrance
September 24,
2007
10:36 PM
Timmy its been along time since i have last thought of you. We were the last class that entered under you at st rose. I have come upon many obstacles in the last year or so and looking back now the quote that everyone knows "Winners never Quit, Quitters never win." i believe i am correct in quoting you, it has helped me in everything, sitting in the back of my mind reminding me that i need to stay true to what i have started, and complete it. I try to help as much as i can with everything, i know that connor is one of the best kids i know, he is one of my best friend he can come to me when ever he needs and i know i can confide anything in him, the music they make is great, and the deserve all that good has given them, they have been given an opponent and they have over come it. Thank you for your words of wisdom which have aided me a lot so far in life i can only think how much more you will help all of us.
DORS
Remembrance
September 16,
2007
07:33 PM
THE SUMMER WENT BY FAIRLY QUICKLY. TC WORKED ALOT AT THE MUSIC STORE; CONN MAN PLAYED SUMMER BASKETBALL AND HE AND TC WORKED ON THEIR MUSIC. MORGY PLAYED SUMMER LEAGUE BASKETBALL AND SHE AND CONN WENT TO CAMP EVERYDAY. KEVIN DID A NICE JOB WITH THE CAMPS. I ONLY HEARD FROM CHUCK ONCE DURING THE SUMMER BUT HE WAS OCCUPIED WITH HIS CAMPS AND HIS SUMMER LEAGUE. THEY HAD A MATT BRADY WEEK AT MARGATE AND I AM TOLD THAT HE WAS THERE PART OF ONE DAY THE WHOLE WEEK. FUNNY HOW SOME THINGS NEVER CHANGE. SCHOOL HAS STARTED FOR THE KIDS AND SO FAR EVERYTHING IS GOING WELL. CONNOR IS PLAYING FOOTBALL AT PAUL VI AND MORGY IS PLAYING TRAVEL SOCCER. SHE HAD A GAME IN EGG HARBOR TOWNSHIP YESTERDAY. HER TEAM IS A LITTLE WEAK BUT SHE LOOKS LIKE A PLAYER. FOOTBALL SEASON HAS STARTED AND I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MUCH I MISS WATCHING THE GAMES WITH YOU. THE KIDS MISS YOU SO MUCH. WE STILL TALK ABOUT YOU ALL THE TIME. LISA PUT YOUR WEDDING PICTURE IN MORGY'S ROOM AND SHE ALSO HAS YOUR 8TH GRADE GRADUATION PICTURE ON THE TABLE NEXT TO HER BED. I AM LOOKING AT A PICTURE OF YOU, LISA AND THE KIDS THAT SITS ON THE COMPUTER TABLE. THE FRAME SAYS LOVE ON IT AND YOU CAN SEE THE LOVE IN EVERYONE'S EYES. WELL TUFFY IS OUTSIDE AND HANNA PUPPY IS SITTING BY MY FEET AND WANTS ME TO TELL YOU THAT SHE MISSES YOU. I THINK SHE AND THE REST OF US ARE STILL WAITING FOR YOU TO COME HOME. KEEP LOOKING OUT FOR EVERYONE ESPECIALLY THE KIDS.
Alec Connelly
Remembrance
September 14,
2007
09:45 PM
Tim, it's been a while since i've posted. I'm extremely nervous right now and couldn't think of anyone else who could help me, but you. My first cross country meet is tomorrow and it just made me think of your inspiring words that i can't quite recall on New Years so many years ago, and that made me feel a little better. I really do miss you, Tim. I'm sure everyone does. Connor just started at PVI, and i'm sure its hard for the kid, what with moving to a new school and all. I see him occasionally in the halls, and always try and make him laugh because i think it helps. I was running down crystal lake today, and passed your house and for a second i thought i saw your truck there and it made me crack a big smile. It almost seemed like you were back. The kids could really use your help right now, Tim. I know you'll find a way. You always do.
Taylor Lenahan
Comment
August 28,
2007
01:25 AM
Mom could really use your help right about now...
Brian
Remembrance
August 20, 2007
03:41
PM
Tim, earlier today a friend asked me what are some of my more memorable "memories" from my playing days and I immediately thought of you, hence this note. Playing with you all those summer nights over 30 years ago on the outside court at St Rose is at the top of the list. Whether on my high school team or when playing in college I never had a guard (and a friend) who could pass me the ball for a dunk quite like you could...would loved to have had you when we played Duke back in '78 (maybe we would have gone to the final four instead of them...wishful thinking only). Your record and legacy will stand the test of time. I know Father Jack would have been very proud. I miss ya buddy.
rubbi
Remembrance
August 10, 2007
03:24
PM
Leonard...not a day goes by that I don't think of you or be reminded of you and all the fun we had. I remember when your glasses were stretched out and you always had to fix them and we would bust on you and say "leonard". You had such a great sense of humor. When I think of you I smile. New friendships that I have formed in my life often ask where did you go to school? I always mention St. Rose because that is where I met you and formed a friendship and bond that will never go away. I was telling a friend who knew of you about the time me and some other Rose boys kidnapped O'Brien and sent you a ransom note. Wish you were here Blenny! Love you!
JWO
Remembrance
July 22, 2007
10:10
PM
Tim, We had a playoff softball game today. Our team, which has 6 former falcons, has adopted your saying when we bring it in. "Who's the best?" "We Are". I'm starting to believe that we are really the team to beat in our league, and it feels really great to be successful with a group of guys out on the playing field. I know that our success on the field, and in life, is a result of the work ethic we all learned as young guys playing for you. Anyway, I just wanted to let you know that you were in our thoughts today. Thanks for all of the memories. I check the site every once in a while, and I keep your family in my thoughts and prayers. God Bless the Lenahan family. JWO
DORS
Other
July 18, 2007
04:40
PM
YESTERDAY WAS TC'S 17TH BIRTHDAY. I REMEMBER WHEN YOU AND LISA BROUGHT HIM HOME. I DON'T THINK I EVER SAW YOU AS HAPPY AS YOU WERE THEN. OBVIOUSLY I GOT TO SEE THAT SAME WONDERFUL SMILE TWO MORE TIMES WHEN YOU BROUGHT THE CONN-MAN AND MORGY HOME. JUST THINK, TC WILL BE DRIVING IN A COUPLE OF MONTHS. I AM HOPING THAT HE WILL LISTEN TO ME MORE THAN YOU DID WHEN IT COMES TO THE ART OF DRIVING. HE IS OVER IN PHILADELPHIA RIGHT NOW RECORDING SOME MUSIC. CONNOR HAD HIS GRADUATION PARTY ON SATURDAY AND HE, TC, AND MIKE CRAWFORD PLAYED. THIS WAS REALLY THE FIRST TIME THAT I HAD HEARD THEM PLAY TOGETHER AND I HAVE TO SAY I WAS REALLY IMPRESSED. I THINK THAT BOTH TC AND CONNOR HAVE THE SAME PASSION FOR MUSIC THAT YOU AND I HAD FOR BASKETBALL. I HOPE THAT THEY CAN GET OUT OF MUSIC WHAT YOU AND I GOT OUT OF BASKETBALL. MORGY IS PLAYING THREE GAMES A NIGHT MONDAY THROUGH THURSDAY. SHE DOING REALLY WELL BUT SOMETIMES I QUESTION HER SHOT SELECTION. WE ARE JUST FINISHING THE THIRD WEEK OF CAMP. KEVIN IS DOING A NICE JOB OF RUNNING IT. THERE IS SO MUCH COMPETITION WHEN IT COMES TO THE CAMP THAT WE MAY HAVE TO TWEEK IT A LITTLE FOR NEXT YEAR. THE KIDS AND I MISS YOU AS DO HANNA PUPPY AND TUFFY. KEEP LOOKING OUT FOR THE KID, THEY STILL NEED YOU.
FRIEND
Other
June 26, 2007
10:10 AM
Have the Lenahan Scholarships been decided for this year? Instead of a golf tournament maybe just a get-together this fall to keep them going? Any plans yet?
Charlie
Comment
June 23, 2007
04:47 PM
Who keeps putting ads on this site? This is for the remembrance of great man, not for you to sell your products.
player
Other
June 21, 2007
11:14 PM
Hey Tim, I just wanted to stop by to say hey and tell you I miss you. Wish you were here to give some advice in my many new encounters.
Taylor Lenahan
Remembrance
June 20, 2007
01:25
AM
I guess it is just the countless Viagra adds that constantly appear that make me come on here less, but happy belated father's day anyway.
ML
Comment
June 18, 2007
12:16 PM
Happy Fathers Day Waddy! You were a father to us all. We were so blessed to have our own Dads, and then to have someone like yourself on top of that was priceless. Thanks for looking down on all of us. I miss you deeply. Mark L.
MORGY
Other
June 17, 2007
10:22
PM
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY DAD. I HAVE WIRES ALL OVER MY HEAD. THEY ARE GIVING ME A 72 HOUR EEG TEST. I FEEL LIKE I AM BEING WATCHED NIGHT AND DAY. I HOPE YOU ARE HAVING A GREAT DAY. THESE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO MISS YOU: DORS, CONNOR, HANNA, TUFFY, TAYLOR, MOMMY, AND THE LAST ONE IS MORGY YES. SHE SHOOTS SHE SCORES! WELL I AM GOING DOWN THE SHORE WITH AUNT DEZ AND HER THREE BOYS. I HOPE YOU ARE THINKING ABOUT US MISTER! WE LOVE YOU DADDY! OH AND DORS IS DOING WELL THANK YOU FOR ASKING. HAPPY HAPPY FATHERS DAY .TO THE BEST DAD EVER ALIVE YEAH! LOTS OF LOVE CONNOR, TAYLOR, MOM, DORS,AND YOUR LOVING CUPCAKE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Billy
Remembrance
June 13, 2007
10:29
PM
Wad, Hope all is well. Was just thinking the other day how fortunate I was to have your influence in my life. At that same moment, I felt sorry for all those young kids who were never directly touched by you as so many of us were. I got so much going on in my own life, that it amazes more and more everyday how you found the time and energy to do all you did for so many people. You maintained such an egoless approach to life when you had all the right to be anything but. You were as genuine a human being as this world as ever seen. You made it better, made us better. I think of you often and I thank you for watching over me. In a week my wife will deliver identical twin boys. We will now have 4 boys under the age of three. Ballers, no doubt. My biggest concern is to find them an influence other than their mom and dad. I feel bad for whoever it is...he has a tough act to follow! Love ya. BL
Dawg
Other
June 09, 2007
11:54
PM
Tim, he is in need of help. Look over him if you can. Missing you
DORS
Comment
June 07, 2007
07:46
PM
LAST NIGHT WAS CONNOR'S GRADUATION FROM SAINT ROSE. I SAT IN THE BACK AND THOUGHT ABOUT YOU MISSING ANOTHER MILESTONE IN THE KID'S LIVES AND HOW UNFAIR IT IS THAT THEY DON'T HAVE YOU THERE TO SHARE IT WITH THEM. I KNOW YOU WERE THEIR LAST NIGHT BECAUSE I COULD SEE IT IN THE SMILE ON CONNOR'S FACE AS HE WALKED IN THE CHURCH. HE WON AN AWARD FROM THE KNIGHTS OF COLUMBUS WHICH WAS $100 SAVINGS BOND. HE IS SUCH A GREAT KID AND I KNOW HOW PROUD YOU ARE OF HIM. HE IS IN TO SO MANY DIFFERENT THINGS THAT SHOW HOW COMPLEX HE REALLY IS. ON MONDAY HE MCED A POETRY READING AT BARNES AND NOBLE. ON TUESDAY LISA TOOK HIM TO GET A SUIT FOR THE DINNER DANCE. YOU SHOULD HAVE SEEN HIM WITH LISA ALL DUDED UP WITH HIS PINSTRIPED SUIT. MORGAN SHOWED ME A PICTURE OF ME HOLDING CONNOR WHEN HE WAS ABOUT 18 MONTHS. WHERE DID THOSE 13 YEARS GO? HE DOESN'T ALWAYS TALK ABOUT THE THINGS THAT HE IS IN TO BUT I NEVER CEASE TO BE SURPRISED BY THEM. HIS FIRST LOVE IS HIS MUSIC BUT THEN I FIND HIM READING BOOKS LIKE THE ART OF WAR AND THE ART OF PEACE. HE WAS INVOLVED IN PEER MEDIATION, MARTIAL ARTS AND GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT KATE HAS HIM INTERESTED IN. HE WILL BE OFF TO PAUL VI NEXT YEAR AND HOPEFULLY HE WILL LIKE IT. I KNOW HE WILL MAKE THE BEST OF IT AND THERE ARE SO MANY PEOPLE OVER THERE THAT LOVED YOU AND WILL LOOK AFTER HIM EVEN THOUGH HE REALLY DOESN'T NEED IT BUT IT'S NICE ANYWAY. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE NOT HERE TO TELL HIM BUT LET ME SAY IT "CONNOR YOUR FATHER AND I ARE VERY PROUD OF YOU."
Friend
Remembrance
June 05, 2007
09:46
PM
Happy Belated Birthday Timmy. You were in my thoughts all day on your birthday. Who would have thought 50 years old-that was old when we were young? Miss you, stay near to Lisa and the kids and all of us who could use a little help once in awhile! Terri
DORS
Other
June 02, 2007
08:20
PM
TC, CONN, MORGY, HANNA AND I WENT ON OUR RIDE THURSDAY NIGHT AND TOOK YOU WITH US. IT WAS LATE AND I DIDN'T WANT TO UPSET LISA BUT MORGY REALLY WANTED TO COME. WE RODE AROUND AND WHEN I LEFT THEM OFF WE SANG HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU. I FIGURED OUT THE COMMON CHARACTERISTIC OF YOURS THAT ALL THE KIDS SHARED AND THAT IS THEY ARE ALL THEIR OWN PERSON. YOU CAN'T JUST DICTATE TO THEM AND EXPECT THEM TO FOLLOW LIKE SHEEP. THEY ALSO ALL HAVE GOOD HEARTS AND I KNOW THAT IS A QUALITY THAT WAS ALWAYS IMPORTANT TO YOU. WE TOOK MORGY TO HAVE AN MRI BECAUSE SHE HAS BEEN HAVING WHAT ARE CALLED SILENT SEIZURES. SHE WAS SCARED TO DEATH WHICH I CAN UNDERSTAND. THE FIRST SET OF PICTURES WERE NO GOOD BECAUSE SHE WAS SHAKING SO HARD. I TOLD HER TO REMEMBER THAT IT WAS YOUR BIRTHDAY AND TO THINK ABOUT YOU. SHE TOLD ME THAT WHEN SHE WENT BACK INTO THE TUBE A SONG CAME ON HER HEADPHONES THAT YOU SANG TO HER WHEN SHE WAS LITTLE. NOW NO ONE IS MORE CYNICAL THAT I AM BUT IT IS ONE HELL OF A COINCIDENCE THAT THAT SONG WOULD COME ON. I KNEW THAT YOU WOULD COME THROUGH FOR HER WHEN SHE NEEDED YOU. IT IS SATURDAY NIGHT AND NO ONE IS HOME. THE BOYS ARE OUT AND MORGY IS AT A BROWNIE CAMP OUT. IF IT STARTS TO STORM, PLEASE GO TO HER AND KEEP HER SAFE. THE SCHOOL YEAR IS COMING TO AN END AND THAT MEANS THAT IT IS CAMP TIME. KEVIN CRAWFORD WILL RUN THE CAMP THIS SUMMER AND I HAVE ALL THE CONFIDENCE IN THE WORLD IN HIM. LISA IS WORKING HER TAIL OFF TRYING TO GET THE APPLICATIONS OUT TO AS MANY KIDS AS SHE CAN. TUFFY IS BARKING DOWNSTAIRS BECAUSE HE KNOWS THAT I AM UP HERE AND DOESN'T LIKE TO BE LEFT ALONE. HOW ABOUT THAT HANNA, SHE KNOWS THAT SHE IS NOT ALLOWED UPSTAIRS WITHOUT ME BUT SHE GOT UP HERE AND TYPED HER MESSAGE TO YOU. SHE LOVES BEING IN THE COMPUTER ROOM, I THINK IT IS BECAUSE THAT WAS WHERE SHE REMEMBERS YOU PAINTING THAT LAST NIGHT. WELL I AM GOING DOWN TO WATCH LEBRON HOPEFULLY CLOSE OUT THE PISTONS. WAS THAT THE MOST UNBELIEVABLE PERFORMANCE YOU EVER SAW THE OTHER NIGHT WHEN HE SCORED THE LAST 25 POINTS AND CAME DOWN A COUPLE OF TIMES AND DUNKED ON THE WHOLE PISTON TEAM. I HOPE YOU ENJOYED YOU 50TH BIRTHDAY ON THURSDAY. MISS YOU!
ml
Remembrance
June 01, 2007
10:31
AM
Sorry that it's a day late , but Happy Birthday Waddy. The jokes, insults, and comebackers would've been flying around this milestone. I just realized that you were my current age (32) when you were coaching me. To think how much you already accomplished by then is really amazing to me. I miss you, we all miss you! Mark Lange
HP
Remembrance
May 31, 2007
07:44
PM
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MASTER, I REALLY MISS OUR RIDES AND OUR RUNS BY THE LAKE. I ADOPTED DORS AS MY NEW MASTER AND HE IS REALLY GOOD TO ME BUT I STILL REALLY MISS THE TIMES THAT WE HAD TOGETHER. I KNOW THAT SOME DAY WE WILL BE TOGETHER AND WE CAN RIDE IN THE OLD TRUCK AND GO DOWN TO THE LAKE FOR A NICE LONG RUN. HAPPY 50TH BIRTHDAY. YOUR LOVING DOG, HANNA PUPPY.
HB
Other
May 31, 2007
10:48 AM
Happy Birthday Timmy. Wish you were here. Class of 1980 (40-3) South Jersey Champs
Kathy
Remembrance
May 31, 2007
08:59 AM
Thinking of you in a special way on your birthday. I am somewhat comforted by the fact that you are with your Mom and Dad today. Your family and friends here miss you and , boy, would we be having some fun teasing you about this milestone. As Lou said in his post, you enjoyed life and having fun and that is what keeps us going. Take care of us, dear buddy.
Taylor Lenahan
Remembrance
May 28, 2007
12:26
PM
Have you ever heard the saying, "Once in a blue moon"? Well I read today that when there are 2 full moons in a month, the second is referred to as a blue moon because it is rare and can actually change colors. We have a blue moon in May-its on Thursday, May 31st. Happy Birthday.
KL
Remembrance
May 24, 2007
03:47
PM
Timmy would have turned 50 in one week -May 31st. Let's keep him our thoughts this week and help to further his legacy.
Lou
Remembrance
May 23, 2007
03:48 PM
The other night I had the honor of being nominated and winning the lifetime achievement award for coaching Catholic Grammar School basketball for Queen of Heaven at Neumann College. Tim was the first to win the same award..it was given to his family right after he passed away 2 years ago. Of course talking with Lee Dellemonache who is involved in giving the award the conversation quickly went to Tim. How connected S.J. basketball is (coach Crawford from Camden Catholic was also nominated) and what a huge legacy he left and how he touched so many lives. I went on to tell her that while we coached at the same time we really hadn't become close until the last 6 months of his life due to mutual friends and then running the Sunday camps at Queen of Heaven. And while I felt a little cheated that our friendship ended so quickly, how lucky I was to have had it. I let her know how great his kids were doing and that a big part of us keeping the camp going ( Bill Dorsey, myself, Tom Troncone and my brother Rob) were for his kids and Lisa so that we could hopefully soften the blow a little. I don't think you can talk about grammar school basketball in S.J. and Tim 's name not come up. Thanks to his friends especially Dors , who is the rock over there, life continues to go forward. I also think you can't say enough about the great job Jamie DeCastro does as a coach, and I don't just mean teaching dribbling and shooting , he is a role model for the kids at St. Rose and you couldn't ask for anyone better to follow in Tim's place. Lee became a little teary eyed as we spoke and I told her Tim was someone that always brought about emotions and still does.... but most of them were laughter! He liked to have fun.
fan
Basketball
May 10, 2007
03:45 PM
ST. ROSE VARSITY 2007 LEAGUE & DIVISION CHAMPS!
Player
Basketball
May 10, 2007
03:35
PM
We won another championship this year and I think that's five or six straight so I hope the seventh grade can keep the streak going.
grade
Comment
May 08, 2007
09:34
PM
jamie coached us in 6th grade -- tim would have known that
person
Basketball
May 08, 2007
04:55
PM
8th grade team this year. 34 and 6 the parish bulletin said. Put them up there. Tim coached them as 6th graders.
Jim
Basketball
May 07, 2007
09:19
AM
I stopped here today, and saw there is now a youth summer league, which is great, I wanted to also propose the idea of having a Men's summer league. I think it would be a great way to get Generations of Roser's back together
KL
Remembrance
May 04, 2007
07:32
AM
I was just thinking about Tim and realized that he would have turned 50 at the end of this month. What a celebration that would have been and he would have enjoyed all the teasing that goes along with these milestone birthdays. Then I thought maybe I could honor his birthday by making a conscious effort to be more "Tim like" this whole month. So will you join me in being more positive and friendly, reaching out to friends and family who need a boost and helping young people reach their potential. Though my heart misses him so, I will try to laugh and enjoy the sunshine more this month.
Beth
Remembrance
May 03, 2007
01:37 PM
Hey Timmy, You are really strong on my mind and in my heart lately. Miss you very much. Love to the kids, Lisa and Dors. I am so glad this website was not shut down. Sorry to hear about the truck.
JIM
Comment
May 02, 2007
01:16
PM
happy birthday morgan!! jim wise
Scholarships
Comment
April 29,
2007
09:08 PM
As Graduations are coming full force, The Timothy P Lenahan Scholarship Fund will be awarding $7,500 in Scholarships in May to those candidates currently heading into High School & College. Doing well in school & financial needs are important. However the prime consideration is to reward those students that exhibit the same energy & zest for life that Timmy had. St Rose graduates would normally be the recipients of The Scholarships but all candidates will be considered. Please send in any recommendations by 5/10/2007 to the webmaster.
DORS
Other
April 28, 2007
03:52
PM
IT IS 3:30 ON A SATURDAY AFTERNOON AND I JUST WATCHED A SHOW CALLED THE TOP 10 COLLEGE SHOOTERS OF ALL TIME. INTERESTINGLY, THE TOP SIX WERE MULLIN, ALFORD, WEST, REDDICK, PISTOL PETE, AND BIRD. TELL ME TIMMY, WHAT DO ALL THESE PLAYERS HAVE IN COMMON? THAT IS CORRECT, THEY ALL SHOT AT LEAST A 1,000 SHOTS A DAY. I STOPPED OVER THINKING THAT MORGY WOULD LIKE TO GO TO ST. ROSE AND SHOOT BUT SHE MUST BE OUT WITH LISA. TWO WEEKS AGO TC, CONN, AND MIKE CRAWFORD PLAYED AT A COFFEE SHOP NEAR THE RITZ. THEY PLAYED A COUPLE OF SONGS THAT TC WROTE AND I AM TOLD EVERYONE WAS REALLY IMPRESSED. CONNOR HAS DECIDED TO FOLLOW YOUR FOOTSTEPS AND GO TO PAUL VI. I REALLY THINK THAT THE FACT THAT YOU WENT THERE MADE UP HIS MIND. I TOLD HIM THAT YOU WOULD WANT HIM TO GO ANYWHERE THAT HE WOULD BE HAPPY. LISA IS STARTING TO GET EVERYTHING READY FOR THE CAMPS. KEVIN CRAWFORD WILL BE RUNNING THE CAMP ALONG WITH THE REGULARS LIKE JIMMY, EMILE, KEVIN AND I AM SURE SOME OF YOUR CURRENT COLLEGE CROP. AS I TOLD YOU BEFORE, THE BOYS AND HANNA PUPPY GO OUT WITH ME AROUND 10:00 TO RIDE AROUND AND TALK. I TRY TO GIVE THEM THE SAGE ADVICE THAT YOU WOULD. MORGAN WANTS TO GO BUT IT IS TOO LATE FOR HER SO I TRY TO TAKE HER ON THE WEEKENDS WHEN THE BOYS ARE OUT. WE WENT OUT LAST WEEK AND MOSTLY TALKED ABOUT YOU. SHE HAS WRITTEN TL AND MORGY FOREVER ON HER BEDROOM DOOR. AFTER OVER TWO YEARS, SHE CAN STILL BRING ME TO TEARS TALKING ABOUT YOU. EVERYONE STILL MISSES YOU TERRIBLY INCLUDING HANNA PUPPY.
Dors
Comment
April 17, 2007
04:08 PM
There was a significant discount for St. Rose players last year but apparently the word did not get out to the players and parents. I know that the girl's coach sent some of her players to another camp. I feel that this is a disservice to these players because having coached for 40 years, I know that our camp is by far the most beneficial to young players who want to improve. There will be a discount for St. Rose kids again this year. Hopefully we will be able to cover our expenses. If you have any questions, please call Lisa at 429-8033.
Camping
Basketball
April 17, 2007
11:08
AM
I have two children from Saint Rose who are interested in Summer Basketball Camps. We did not participate last year because there were no discounts for Saint Rose Kids. I hope the discount is instituted again for 2007. If so, we'll see you all on the court this Summer.
Taylor
Remembrance
April 15, 2007
02:44
AM
Just letting you know that we didn't forget about you...
friend
Other
April 14, 2007
10:09
PM
Tim, really need your help right now. Love and miss you bud.
friend
Other
April 05, 2007
04:40
PM
Tim, please help. I really need your advice right now. I am going through a very hard time and could use your guidance.
friend
Comment
April 04, 2007
09:06 PM
Please help your friend! Thanks. An Old Irish Buddy.
mcelhatton
Comment
March 30, 2007
12:46
PM
It has been two years since I contributed anything to this website but follow it with some regularity and, in fact, look forward to comments from the Lenahan kids and some of Timmy's old players. I was not fortunate enough to know Timmy for a long time but for a few years considered him a friend and feel confident that I can say that Timmy would enjoy the basketball discussions, player evaluations and generally all basketball related input much more that he would any testimonies to him personally. I agree that, unless any of Timmy's family wanted it discontinued I would say the therapeutic positives it creates outweigh the negatives. How proud Timmy would have been this year watching his present team as well as many high school (and an college NCAA player) excel and with each of them giving him the credit for their skills and motivation. I am fortunate to have two sons and my daughter taught by Timmy and I am proud of their accomplishments giving him all the credit. He tried to instill the idea that you must not be afraid to fail in order to succeed. My favorite quote best exemplifies what Timmy's message was to our kids: "It is not the critic who counts, nor the man who points out how the strong man stumbles or how the doer of deeds might have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood, who strives valiantly, who errs, and comes up short again and again, who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions, who spends himself in a worthy cause...and..who..if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly so that his place shall never be with those timid souls who know neither victory nor defeat". Thanks Timmy.
jim
Remembrance
March 30, 2007
09:56
AM
IT HAS BEEN 11 MONTHS SINCE I LAST WROTE, SORRY IT HAS BEEN SO LONG. YOU ARE STILL THE BEST AND ALWAYS WILL BE. LISA,TAYLOR CONNOR AND MORGAN I HOPE ALL IS WELL AND WE THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME.
Chris
Remembrance
March 29, 2007
09:53
PM
You know what the best part about all this is? How passionate everyone still remains about Timmy and the impact he has had and still has on his friends (by that I mean pretty much anyone the man ever met) and our children's lives. He always loves a great debate, about basketball, God and pretty much anything else he could needle you into. Everyone in entitled to their own opinion so if you want to debate it...then do it, if you don't then don't. Just know that little Irishman is laughing his butt off that at least we are all fighting about something. Either way, let's be glad we had Timmy as long as we did and thanks again to Lisa and the kids for always sharing him with us. Whether its here or when we see you, may we always have a funny story to share
Taylor Lenahan
Comment
March 28,
2007
10:39 PM
Hey "friend" I have a nice place for you to shove your opinion.
KL
Comment
March 28, 2007
10:25
PM
I, for one, come to this site to help myself try to deal with the loss of a friend and a genuine good person. It is helpful to have a place to jot down memories and contribute to his legacy. Reading other people's stories of Tim brings a sense of community and reminds me of the joy of Tim's life. Kevin, we appreciate the gift of healing and sharing that you have given us by devoting hours to this project. Thank you.
friend
Comment
March 28, 2007
07:53
PM
"friend" stands behind my original thought. The idea behind this website has long since been distorted. It's time to end it.
BILL
Comment
March 28, 2007
06:24 PM
Thank you Kevin for responding to "friend." My suggestion to "friend" is to stay off this website if it bothers you so much. The site has become a place where Timmy's real friends can come and talk about what Timmy meant to them. Let us remember that St. Rose is Timmy's program and will remain so for as long as his friends and ex-players are around. This takes nothing away from the great job that Jamie has done over the past two years. Jamie"s knowledge of the game can not be questioned. His coaching over the years, not only at Saint Rose but also at Bishop Eustace and Paul VI has shown him to be one of the best young coaches in the area. What this means is that anyone that wishes to come on this site and talk about St. Rose basketball can do so. Talking about St. Rose basketball honors Timmy's memory. And by the way the other 7th grader is Tim Tarifay, but let us not forget Matt Taylor, Mike Crawford, Pete Galeano, and young Matt Risse. O I'm sorry, Matt is only a 5th grader. Come watch these kids play next year. And the beat goes on.
Webmaster
Other
March 28, 2007
09:23
AM
In response to the person who asked whether this site should be shut down I will say that as long as people continue to post to the site and use it as means to express their feelings and read some memories about Tim I will maintain it. I have said before and still believe that I am not responsible for editing content. The site was originally used to provide info on At The Top camps and can still be used by whomever will be running the camps in the future. That said, if any of Tim's family members request I take it down I will but if you have concerns about the posts and do not want to put your name, I have to discount it. Feel free to post again or send me an email directly if you want to explain your reasoning. Thanks. Kevin Gemmell webmaster@atthetopbasketball.com
friend
Comment
March 28, 2007
08:43
AM
Am I the only one who thinks it's time for this website to shut down?
fan
Comment
March 27, 2007
07:20 PM
It seems we need a reminder that the purpose of this space is to share memories, thoughts and stories about Tim. It is not a chat room or a forum. So there should not be any replies or a thread started concerning naming or discussing 7th graders or any such matter. Tim's birthday is on the horizon. What will you do to honor his memory?
alumni
Comment
March 26, 2007
10:21 PM
commenting on the "2 seventh graders who play an important role in winning every game." who would the second one be.
falcon
Basketball
March 20, 2007
10:28
PM
Way to go St Rose! They brought home another championship tonight. Congrats to the team and the coaches. You continue to uphold a legacy and we are proud of you. WINNERS DO WHAT LOSERS WON'T. Tim we miss you and you would have been very proud of everyone tonight.
friend
Comment
March 19, 2007
10:35
PM
hey tim, recently at school i noticed another kid wearing one of the at the top shirts. He was from Pennsylvania and i never knew there was a camp there so i went up to him and started to talk to him about it and he said it was the hardest camp he had ever been to. Just wanted to share that with you.
player
Basketball
March 19, 2007
02:22
PM
St rose wins another championship tuesday night pvi bring it all home boys you worked to hard to lose now
andrew
Basketball
March 17, 2007
11:03
PM
come out to watch the second playoff game on sunday at 5:45 at pvi.
alumni
Basketball
March 17, 2007
09:49
AM
Today is Saint Rose first playoff game at 3:30 at pvi, everyone should come out to see how jamie has put this legacy back together. Good luck to all the 8th grade and the two 7th graders who play an important role in winning every game.
Ree
Remembrance
March 15, 2007
07:31 PM
Hey Tim, Guess this would be your time of year. The basketball season wrap ups are in full gear. I was offered to play a pool for the Final Four and of course didn't have a clue. So I naturally thought who could give me the best advice. You came to mind first. I didn't take a shot, but that's ok. The family is busy and changing as always. Big celebrations, happy news of weddings and babies and life does go on. We all still think of you with each gathering and event and we still include your memories with us. God you loved being with the gang. Always good times, lots to talk about and plenty of laughs. Your in our thoughts, prays and memories. Smile down on us Tim and hey Happy St. Patty's Day you old Irishman!
Oldster
Remembrance
March 15, 2007
11:44
AM
Well Tim , just want to say that you are on my mind even more than usual. You have another beloved relative in heaven with you and the rest of us are dealing with both this recent loss and the lingering pain of missing you. Send some strength.
DORS
Other
March 08, 2007
06:33 PM
The website has been down for over a month but Gems was able to fix it. I looked back to see the last time that I posted anything and it was on Connor's birthday. I believe that I have some catching up to do. The High School season is almost over and overall it was a down year as far as overall team talent. Jimmy won 22 games, Joe has his team going for a state championship as does Paul. Funny how the top three coaches in the area seem to win every year. Chuck had a up and down season beating some good teams and coming up short in some other games. Saint Rose will be starting their playoffs next week. If they play to their potential, I can't see anyone beating them. Next years team will be very strong but they will have to look out for that Mary's of the Lakes team. Kevin does a great job coaching those kids and they have a sixth grader who came to camp who is something really special. TC, Connor and Mike Crawford went into the studio last month a cut a CD. Jim Crawford got a copy of it and said that it was really good. For some reason they have not played it for me. Second report cards came out and Conn got his normal solid grades as did Morgy. Taylor is excited about a guitar playing contest that he is in next week. It is in Pennsylvania so I more than likely will not be there but I know that you will. Morgy just finished the Mount Ephraim league and her team won the championship. The other team keyed their defense to stop her but she dropped 25 on them. Her Haddon Township team will start the playoffs this weekend. I think she plays at 6:00 p.m. at Collingswood High School. When they played Haddonfield, they came out in a box and one on her. I called her over and told her to run her man off her own man and the next play the girl that was guarding her knocked her own player over as Morgy did exactly what I told her to do. I took her up to practice against the sixth grade boys team anytime she didn't have a game. She more than held her own. The big news is that they sold your truck. They actually got a decent price. The kids obviously didn't want to sell it but I think the boys cognitively understood it. That didn't mean that it didn't hurt them but they could internalize it. Morgy on the other hand couldn't. Daddy's truck was one of the most tangible things that she still had of yours. It was still a link between her and her daddy. I'll talk to her tonight before she goes to sleep and try to explain it to her. A couple of nights ago I had a dream about you. Nothing special, it was just you and me in a gym with about 20 kids doing what we did for almost 30 years together, teach how to play the game the right way. It was great to see you in action again. I know that I have forgotten to include a lot of things but there is always the next time. Miss you my friend. Hanna says Hi..
Friend
Comment
March 08, 2007
05:46 PM
Way to get the website back on line. Good job Kevin.
Friend
Remembrance
March 07, 2007
10:32
AM
Recently I have been reading a book called “Season of Life” by Jeffrey Marx. It was given to me by a great friend and someone who shares many of the same values that Tim shared. I know we all have our own personal moments and memories of Tim but I thought the following comments from this wonderful book kind of summed up a lot of what Tim lived and taught to his children, many of his friends and the young men that he coached at St Rose. Based on the context of “success” presented here, with which I fully concur, Tim was certainly one of the most successful people to ever walk Gods green Earth. The following is text exerted from the book: The coach speaking is Joe Ehrmann, former College All American, NFL great and now a high school football coach in Baltimore. His program is called “Building Men for Others’. “So I am part of a football program in Baltimore, and we use this as our base philosophy. Our understanding is that sports-football- is nothing more than a context to help connect with boys and teach them, one, a clear and compelling definition of what it means to be a man. Second is to give them a code of conduct for manhood. And then third is to help them figure out what their own unique transcendent cause should or could be in this world.” “I think that the boys you are coaching – all boys- are given in our culture a threefold criteria for what it means to be a man,” he said. “ I think those are a lie and I think they lead to tremendous dysfunction both in marriages and relationships, and in the social problems of America.” Joe discussed the three components of what he termed “false masculinity”: athletic ability, sexual conquest and economic success. After debunking the supposed value of that triumvirate, he introduced his own paradigm for masculinity. “Masculinity, first and foremost, ought to be defined in terms of relationships,” Joe said. “It ought to be taught in terms of the capacity to love and to be loved. If you look over your life at the end of it….life wouldn’t be measured in terms of success based on what you’ve acquired or achieved or what you own. The only thing that’s really going to matter is the relationships you had. It’s gonna come down to this: What kind of a father were you? What kind of a husband were you? What kind of a coach or teammate were you? What kind of a brother were you? What kind of a friend were you? Success comes in terms of relationships. “And I think the second criterion – the only other criterion for masculinity – is that all of us ought to have some kind of cause, some kind of purpose in our lives that’s bigger than our own individual hopes, dreams, wants, and desires. At the end of life, we ought to be able to look back over it from our deathbed and know that somehow the world was a better place because we lived, we loved, we were other-centered, other-focused.” Joe spoke about several elements of his code of conduct for manhood: accepting responsibility, leading courageously, enacting justice on behalf of others. He touched on the importance of instilling in boys the concept of empathy. At a preseason cookout the coach was asked by a mom inquiring about how things were looking for the team. How successful did he think the boys were going to be? “I have no idea, won’t really know for twenty years.” She had been inquiring about the season but his response continued. “I won’t really know how successful they’re gonna be till they come back to visit in twenty years, then I’ll be able to see what kind of husbands they are. I’ll be able to see what kind of fathers they are. I’ll see what they’re doing in the community.” Sound familiar? So much of this reminds me of Tim, I’ve heard him express much of this in his own unique Irish way. Tim is gone now but his lessons remain. I am constantly reminded of what a loss it continues to be for all who knew him and even more of a loss for those who didn’t. God Bless you, Lisa, Taylor, Connor and Morgan, our prayers continue to be with you. Maith thu’ Tim, Go mbeannai’ Dia is Muire duit (it’s in the Irish: Well Done Tim, May God and Mary Bless You) Happy St. Patrick's Day my old friend!
JWO
Other
March 06, 2007
09:37
PM
Webmaster, Thanks for your continued support of this site. It is a great outlet for Timmy's remembrance. Can't believe its been over 2 years, I want to wish you a Happy St. Patty's Day coming up. I love that satin Celtics Jacket with the Huge Green Shamrock! I wish all of God's blessings to the Lenahan family. This probably never gets easy, but I'm sure the people of the St. Rose extended family will never forget you.
Webmaster
Other
March 6, 2007
I sincerely apologize for the recent mishap with the website. It seems as if the domain name expired and I had to work to get it back and get the site running like before. Anyhow, enjoy March Madness and please email me with any issues, questions or problems. Thanks for your patience.
Hey Tim, Want you to know that you are missed each day. Thinking back 2 years ago, I can't believe. Seems like just yesterday I was calling, you would answer the phone, and scream for Lisa....Laughing cause every day we had to talk and wondering what we found to talk about each day!!! I know you are keep your loving eye on the family, especially, Lisa, Taylor, Connor and Morgan. Love, Sandi
Timmy, Having you as a friend was to be touch by an angel here on earth and now I am blessed to have an angel watching from above. I pray for Lisa and your children every day and hope that they find the strength they need in this life and find peace to continue living their lives and know that you are with them always!! I smile at the memories and I thank you for some of the best laughs ever! Have fun in Heaven and find a way to embrace all of us who loved you- today, especially. Your friend!
"I'll give you 1 hour to cut that out!" I still use that line to this day. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your wife & kids, and to your extended St. Rose family. Your work lives on through all of us you touched as we pass along your passion to others. What I wouldn't do to watch you chase Roman P. around that stage again, or drink water out of those old pickle jars during summer workouts. Or for you to squeeze my kneecap while sitting next to you on the bench and make me squirm to the ground. To watch you and Murph try to do the bleacher jumps, or to do your John Sierra voice. I'm crying and laughing at the same time Waddy! I miss you Tim! Love always-Mark
Tim, It has been two years since I got the call that you had died. I miss you my friend - I miss you a whole bunch. This site has taken on a life of its own and while I try to keep it free from spam postings, as you know, the world is full of idiots who have nothing better to do but try to ruin a good thing. Unfortunately, when you leave it open to anyone in the spirit of your memory you risk letting the web geeks get at it. I will continue to clean it up and try different ways to stop it as I have time but the spammers always seem to be a step ahead. Most of their junk is probably automatically generated so what can you do but deal with it. "Life isn't always fair...", I can remember you saying, "...now get on the endline for giving up baseline!" Anyhow, continue to help Lisa, TC, Con-Man and Morgie march on with your influence in their hearts and minds. I try to be there for them in my own way and especially help Lisa deal with the negative attitude some people have toward her moving on with her life. To those I say - "Until you walk a mile in her shoes." Send down a special blessing for us all today. See you in God’s time Lenny. Gems
Hey Timmy, Peace and Love to you, Lisa, Taylor, Connor and Morgan today and always. You're remembered always and we'll have your spirit live on thru us to share with the children. They are great kids, growing in spirit and wisdom. Love always...Ree
Thinking of you today. We all smile when we reminisce; your goodness, your laugh, bear hugs and that wonderful voice..... We treasure the memories but sre still filled with sadness.
IT HAS BEEN TWO YEARS TODAY TIMMY SINCE YOU LEFT US. I THINK OF YOU EVERYDAY. YOU WERE A GOOD FRIEND AND WERE KIND TO ALL PEOPLE. I MISS YOUR LAUGHTER BUT REMEMBER ALL THE FUNNY TIMES. JOE
two years, two days, two months two decades it is amazing how much the loss of you has affected so many. Please watch over your children they are your greatest gift. You have helped so many but in the end they will carry on your spirit more than anyone. It is hard for so many to understand what a life changing experience your death is. We all mourn but only your children truely understand how much they have been cheated. We were all lucky to have known you and to be involved with you but your children will never have the father they once had so please watch over them. We pray for you and to you. Thank you for all of the memories.
Hey Tim, I just realized what tomorrow is. Crazy how long it has been. Everything with basketball is coming around, as for college its a different story. I could use a lil' help my man. I'm not sure how I am still playing basketball and could even continue next year but I know its all from you. I miss you so much Tim. Thinking about ya, Ryan Cass..
hey tim, i cant believe its been 2 years already time really flies and to be honest with you it feels like you've been gone for so much longer then that, you're still in my mind everyday and i continue to dwell on everything you taught me. You are still heavily in our hearts and we all really miss ya. So much has changed since you've been gone and it just aint the same without you, daniel is already in 8th grade and loves playing for jamie. The boys are definately holding the fort down and continuing the st.rose legacy. Well I love ya and i miss ya like hell timmy. Love, Brett Cristino
Hey Waddy. Just thinking of you today at work. I started a new job over at Mitchell & Ness recently and I put your mass card that I have in a frame out in my office. This company has been around since 1904 and has tons of sports nostalgia all around the office. So your picture is next to one of the original basketballs this company made from the early 1920's. The Boston Celtics gear that is throughout this office is a constant reminder of you, as well as the old Spectrum pictures. I would just love for you to be here and walk the halls and listen to owner, who's family has been involved here since 1912, tell the stories about the players and coaches he has dealt with. To see all the old uniforms that they did both professionally and local is really neat. The other day he pulled out one of John Stockton's original shorts and Spud Webb, and then compared it to today's length, and he talked about how the Fab 5 changed the length of shorts. All I could think about was how we went from the old uniforms to the new ones my 8th grade year and the shorts grew about 3 inches in length. And we went from the canvas Chuck Taylor's, to the leather Converse. And how about how dope our warm-ups always were, or our championship jackets, especially the white ones we had. I remember me and Andy P sprinting home when we got them because how excited we were, and how cool we felt wearing them even during the summer. Or when we went to the Seagull classic at Saint Joe's and we hung out in the Chester cheering section and fit right in! It was great! Anyway I feel you all around me here at work, and it feels good. It reminds me of those yester years of the "Len Dome", and the great times we had, and of all my fellow Rose boys. Casey was looking at your picture last week on my mirror and asked if I missed you and loved you, and of course I said deeply, she said she missed you too. Around that same time our babysitter's grandmother passed and we were trying to explain to a 3-1/2 year old about dying. And when we said she died and was in heaven, she said "oh with uncle Timmy?" I said yes, she said " well..then she is happy". I just smiled and thought it's so true, because if I were with you I know I would be happy too. So the next time our babysitter came over she said "don't be sad Gamy is with Timmy." Anyway I hate that I have this mass card, but then I just cant help but chuckle because of the big smile you have on your face. I miss you so much buddy. Love Mark PS. for those who had my old email, it's changed, it's now: langem@mitchellandness.com
Since February 2nd is this friday, I was wondering if the St Rose basketball team will have a friday night home game? ( last week's was cancelled) Also is there an informal gathering planned anywhere? Pj's? Isn't it amazing how hard it still is? How much we still miss Tim- how the need to talk to him is still there? Our thoughts go out to his children and family.
Does anyone have a copy of the Feb.13th article of Timmy that they can email to ac4660967@earthlink.net? I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you. Judy
I am taking a much needed break from cleaning and decided to sit and read some of the postings. I remember asking you one day if you had any clue how many lives you had touched. I wasn't shocked at your response when you say humbly I just do the best I can, if I can help someone I just do it. I clearly had no idea. I sit in amazement after reading these wonderful postings and talking to people all the time about how you made their life better. I can not tell you how overwhelmed with pride I get. I talk about you every single day and make sure you are always a part of my life and our children's lives. It is tough going on with my life without you but I am trying to make the best of it. I wish people wouldn't judge me. Their words are very hurtful. I hope you're happy and content in Heaven. I have no fear of dying knowing you're preparing my place in Heaven. I love you!
Comments like that are the reason they make muzzles.
My apologies for not being clear. The memory, which I repeated but did not see - was in favor of Tim. I meant it to show how Tim treated his players and parents did not always understand how he taught his lessons. Twert is right. Tim was not racist at all and never hesitated to travel anywhere to play be it Camden, Chester, Pa, etc. Sorry to cause an upset. I will be more careful
Coming from a person who has a black child, please do not ever put Timmy in a category that even insinuates racism. He was the one who told my parents that they needed to accept my child. He took my child in as his own, and helped me with him in any way he could up until the day he died. Me and my son spent more time at his house than my own. Tim I still miss you more and more each day. Connor you know I am here for you, Taylor and Morgan when you need. Love you guys. Miss you Tim. Love Liz. (Gert)
I'm not too sure about the purpose of that comment either. Being a former player of Tim's, I feel that Timmy used "inner city kids" as examples for his players. He always used to say that the difference between his players and the "brothers" was that they are out playing pickup every day of the week because they don't have playstations. He used to love when people from Camden would come to St. Rose or Audubon and play pickup ball against his players. Nothing made me happier than playing pickup and hearing a beap from that ugly black truck full of garbage driving down Kings Highway.
I fail to understand the purpose of the last post from "a friend." Are you getting on Timmy for not always being politically correct. If you were not there, how can you accuse him of saying something that you find distasteful. I am sure that you have never used the "n" word when talking about black people. Did you know that Timmy put on free clinics in black neighborhoods. I guess the parents that told you the story didn't mention that did they? I will tell you what classic Timmy is, always being there for anyone who needed him, always having something good to say about someone, and helping people years after they had played for him. That's classic Timmy! So, the next time that you want to post something that you think you remember about Timmy, try to get your facts correct.
Well Tim it is Martin Luther King's Day. I remember on one such holiday you gave your team a pep talk about not being afraid to play their next game which was going to be against an inner city team. I was not there but some parents reported you were using language that was not appropriate, and, quote "especially on a day set aside for ML King ". I do think you gave a follow up talk to the boys and maybe even "an apology" for your terminology. Classic Tim.
Wad, Not a day goes by....WE ALL MISS YOU. Thanks for watching over all your Rose boys. God Bless. Billy
timmy remember when we went out and tackled those snow men and took clothes of them. that was great when that guy froze the thing and we ran right into it. great times timmy always love you.
Dad how are things with you? I'm not doing so great I'm sick but next to that I'm great. Well things aren't as great as they could be down here but they are getting better I guess. Every day i think of a great question or something to ask you but it is hard. All I ask is that you be with me everywhere and help me make right decisions. I can tell it's hard on all of us but I also ask that that you help Taylor. He doesn't say it but I know he feels it the most. Thanks Dad. I will always love you. Connor
Thanks uncle Timmy for every thing you have done for me. I know that I will never make as big of an impact on peoples lives as you but I am going to try.
Coach Tim.....My Dad reminded me that it has been 2 years since our last Sunday workout. I miss them alot. You made me into a tougher and more confident player, and I probably would have quit basketball if it wasn't for you...but you gave me confidence and taught me skills that I didn't think I had. I was co-captain last year on our undefeated 8th grade team and am playing at Seneca this year and I think doing pretty good. I also won the 3 point contest at Carino last year using the form that you drilled into my head over and over. I guess lefties can shoot...you were right. I miss you but know you are with me on the court.
I want to thank all of you for your love, time, patience, and dedication for the memory of my brother. Coming up on his second anniversary already. I feel he has been gone for a lifetime. My heart aches. Not one day goes by without him in thoughts, prayers and the memory of how he impacted my life and that of my children. He was the Dad my children did not have and his matter of fact, straight forward ,no nonsense approach to life has made my children better adults for having known him. Timmy has helped me be who I am. Winners do what losers won't pretty well says it all. Taylor, Connor, Morgan make Timmy alive again. They all have his qualities as well as their Mom's with their own personal twist. I love you all and thank you for keeping an eye on my family. Being so far away is the hardest part. I love you all.
Hey Tim, I haven't been on the site in a while. We are in a tournament now we just had our first game in the tournament and we won the team that we are supposed to play next seems pretty good but we are gonna try our hardest.
no one said we were whining we just said we didn't understand why we were getting yelled at when we did win and we did try our hardest i understand what you are saying as we should get yelled at if we win and just do as least as possible to win but we did try our hardest.
Yea there's 3 5th graders on the 6th grade team i think. They get alot of playing time and their doing pretty good.
Hey 8th grader -- I can't believe someone is actually whining about getting hollered by your coach. I played for Jamie & I played for Tim -- if Jamie said you were a disgrace for winning by 20 then you probably should have won by 50. WINNERS DO WHAT LOSERS WON'T......... you play your best - not what is good enough - and win a championship -- You would have run for HOURS if Tim caught you crying about playing "good enough" to win by 20 and you better hope to God that Jamie doesn't read this site. That is what makes you men and you are lucky to have someone to show you that.
5th graders are playing now? How are they doing, any talent there?
For those players who think just because they win by 20 and they think they're trying their hardest...GROW UP. As a player who won a championship, plays high school basketball, and played in many games for Tim winning by 40+ points, I'm telling you that's not what coaches want out of you. Whether it was Tim or Jamie or any other coach for that matter, all they ask of you is to put out your best effort and leave it all on the court. The reason you get yelled at and corrected is because those coaches would want nothing more than to see you play at the next level. They know what it takes to....You do not. So stop complaining every time someone raises their voice to you and grow up
Who said you guys were a disgrace? Would Tim ever want to see the program like this? Now really, step it up and win a championship.
Just to clarify something...There are 2 St. Rose boys playing varsity ball at PVI, no sophomores at all, a freshman playing JV, and 2 freshman playing on the freshman.
Guys, Jamie doesn't read this site, and plus put a name if you have something to say.
I agree we won by 20 and were still getting yelled at were trying our best every game
You can call us a disgrace as much as you want. We're trying.
As a friend of Tim's, I wish the horses asses that are polluting this site with their web site BS would stop. Please realize that this site is a tribute to a man many of us call friend and who passed away. If it was one of his friends that you folks were doing this to, he would be ripping you a new a one. So to all you horses asses who are polluting the site give it a rest and let the family, friends and loved of ones of the deceased enjoy the site without your connect a web site BS. If you knew the man, the language that I just used to convey this message would have been a lot saltier. Now do me a favor and keep your crap off the site!!!! Tim, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year and keep smiling down on your family especially your children. To all the basketball junkies in SJ, enjoy the season.
Hey Tim, been awhile. So much has been going on since you have been gone, it is really too hard to handle at times. Things are kinda crazy down here and I still wonder what was in God's plan to take you away. I often wonder how different things would be if you were still here. I still miss you every day. I would love to talk to you again and here your explanation of some things. I saw Camden Catholic play the other day, Michael looks pretty good, and Brian is still strong as an ox. It is sad but there is not one Rose kid on the varsity PVI team, but there are a few sophmores and freshman, I am not too sure about juniors. I only saw one Rose game, and they blew St. Petes away, I couldn't believe. It was pretty sad there too, bc Bill and that whole coaching staff is gone. What happened to the good old days?!? Matty looks good, you would have had a great time coaching him, he actually shoots the ball unlike his brother that you would scream at to shoot. They actually let some 5th graders play this year, can you believe that. Of course there was a big hassle about it, but I think it seems to working out right now. St. Rose is not the same without you. It has really changed since you have been gone, the magic has left the building. I saw Jeanine yesterday, she looks great. Still has great basketball sense. Well hope all is well. Miss you.
Another holiday quickly approaches and you are not physically here. Every day I hear you and see you thru my children. You certainly were a pivotal person for us. I don't believe you could have realized the impact you had on us. John is a well rounded man because of your input. I know we all keep you busy watching over us. Your children are wonderful. Joann, Kim, John and I miss you. Point me in the right direction if you have a chance. Love you Tims.
morgan
Hi dad, this is Morgan, I just wanted to tell you I got a b+ in Math and a b in Science. I am doing really well when I study with Dors. Me, Connor, and Taylor are going out with Uncle Brian on Saturday. We are going to Dave's and Buster's. We all miss you especially Mom because she lost the best husband in the world. Special occasions, like Christmas, are hard because you are not here with us. Ashley is having a baby. Sunday I scored 20 points against Audubon's fourth grade travel team. I love you so much and someday I will see your face to face in heaven but until that time I will see you in my dreams. Love you so much, Morgy.
Hey Tim, Happy Holidays! Keep the spirits near to help your loved ones get through the season. Think about you all the time. Love, terri
Timmy-weren't you so proud of Chuck when he won his first Varsity game at Lenape. Can you believe that the luck of the schedule had him playing against Camden Catholic/Jimmy with 3 of your St Rose kids starting!! There were tears of joy at the end of the game and tears of missing you so much. It was just the kind of game that you would have loved and you were always so good about going to see your Rose boys play at the next level. Well another of your boys has joined the coaching ranks-still inspired by you, still missing you too.
wow it sure has been a long time since i have left something on here. how r thing dad? as u can see things are not as easy as they could be around the house i do my best to avoid it all but its not that bad. well i have gottin really in to bass and i only wish u could have seen one of our bands shows. I know u can but its hard to talk to you from here and not face to face.as you know it was just my birthday and i got my report card and just my luck i cant show u my third honor roll right but then again i did get to show u my first.wow it 12 o'clock and I'm very sleepy. but I'm listening to led zepplin the greatest band ever. But i still have not figured out what stairway to heaven. sadly i must end this here i love you dad and stay with me every where i go. connor
i feel and i know many others feel last years 8th grade team should be added into timmys teams because he did in fact coach timmy crawford especially and they deserve to be put there since they won it for him.
Tim, I just know you were in the Lenape gym last night. Weren't you so proud of Chuck as he coached his first official varsity game! Can you believe the coincidence of the schedule which had Camden Catholic and 3 of your St Rose boys in their starting five!!! It was a great game -close with lots of intensity and coaching strategy. When it was over and Chuck had his first victory there were some proud and happy tears. I know that you would have given Chuck one of your trade mark bear hugs and your praise would have been locked in his heart - BUT we know you were there in spirit and so we celebrate the fact that your coaching torch continues to burn brightly. Miss you.
Hey Timmy, Well it's been quite a long time. But that's not to say you're not in my thoughts very frequently. Thinking of how quickly life changes and where those changes take us. Especially for Taylor, Connor and Morgan. Their strength and ability to grow is such a precious gift. What wonderful children they continue to become. You would be very proud of them, as is Lisa. Taylor is maturing, learning and applying your lessons daily in his life. Connor is the quiet strength for Lisa and his siblings and Morgan...she will carry on your love of the B-ball game for a long time to come. Just wanted to say I'm thinking of you and miss your spirit and zest for life, especially during the holidays when we would gather together to celebrate. Merry Christmas Tim Love, Aunt Ree
WELL IT IS DEC.2ND, THE CON MANS 14TH BIRTHDAY. HE TOLD ME THAT HE SLEPT OVER AT HIS FRIEND'S HOUSE LAST NIGHT AND ACTUALLY FORGOT THAT IT WAS HIS BIRTHDAY. THAT WAS NEVER THE CASE WHEN YOU WERE HERE. YOU ALWAYS MADE THESE EVENTS SO IMPORTANT. THERE IS A PICTURE IN THE COMPUTER ROOM OF YOU WITH YOUR ARMS AROUND CONNOR AND MORGAN. CONNOR IS ABOUT 7 AND MORGY IS ABOUT 2. I HATE THE FACT THAT THEY WILL NEVER SEE THE LOVE IN YOUR EYES AND HOW YOU MADE THEM FEEL SO SAFE AND LOVED AGAIN. I BELIEVE THAT CONNOR FEELS AN EMPTINESS EVERY TIME HE GOES INTO THE SAINT ROSE GYM. HE WAS LOOKING FORWARD FOR SO LONG TO HAVE YOU COACH HIM. JAMIE DOES A GREAT JOB BUT IT IS NOT THE SAME FOR HIM. HE STILL LIKES TO PLAY BASKETBALL BUT I THINK HIS LOVE IS NOW HIS MUSIC JUST LIKE TAYLOR. I KNOW YOU WOULD BE IMPRESSED WITH BOTH OF THEM. SAINT ROSE OPENED UP THEIR DEFENSE OF THE TITLE LAST NIGHT AT HOME BY BEATING SAINT PETE'S BY 20. MATT PLAYED HIS NORMAL GAME BUT ANDREW PLAYED THE BEST GAME THAT I HAVE SEEN HIM PLAY. JAMIE HAS WORKED SO HARD TO CORRECT WEAKNESSES IN HIS GAME AND IT CERTAINLY SHOWED LAST NIGHT. I AM SURE THAT MOST OF THE PARENTS WON'T UNDERSTAND OR APPRECIATE JAMIE'S HARD WORK BUT YOU AND I DO. MORGY IS CURRENTLY PLAYING IN TWO LEAGUES BUT THEY ARE BOTH 4TH GRADE LEAGUES.. MOUNT EPHRAIM HAS MOSTLY BOYS BUT SHE IS SO MUCH MORE SKILLED THAN ANY OF THEM IT REALLY IS NO COMPETITION FOR HER. SHE GETS ALL THE KIDS INVOLVED AND WORKS ON DIFFERENT ASPECT OF HER GAME. IN THE HADDON TOWNSHIP LEAGUE SHE HAS THE HADDON HEIGHTS BAPTIST HIGH SCHOOL COACH, SO THAT IS NICE. TC, HANNA AND I ARE STILL GOING FOR RIDES AT ABOUT 11:00 EVERY NIGHT. CONNOR IS NOW COMING WITH US AND IT IS A TIME I LOOK FORWARD TO EACH DAY. HANNA PUPPY JUST WALKED IN AND IS GIVING ME THE HOW ABOUT SOME FOOD LOOK SO I MUST END HERE. BY THE WAY, UCLA JUST UPSET USC SO WE MAY SEE THE REMATCH WITH THE TWO BEST TEAMS IN COLLEGE FOOTBALL. JUDY JUST CALLED TO WISH CONNOR A HAPPY BIRTHDAY. IT IS HARD FOR EITHER OF US NOT TO BREAK DOWN WHEN WE TALK. SHE IS HAVING SOME PHYSICAL PROBLEMS BUT HER SPIRIT AND LOVE ALWAYS SEEMS TO CARRY HER THROUGH THE DIFFICULT TIMES. MISS YOU MY FRIEND.
Hey Tim, I've been really thinking about you alot lately. I got made co-captain of my lacrosse team and we dont have a strong will to win like all of us at St. Rose had and the chemistry defintiely isnt where it needs to be. I was just thinking that if everyone of those guys was coached by you, they would already have a huge will to win and also they would know how to play as a team. Please look over us as we start the season. I miss and love you....Shane
hey tim first game of the season was last night we beat st petes merchantville at home big rivalry
Hey Tim, first game of the season tomorrow night against St. Petes. Big time rivalry. Give me all the help you can. I need it right now.
Hey tim, the season isn't starting off the way i would have hoped. Not really feeling the chemistry yet. I'm hoping you can help me out. If only everyone could have had the pleasure of having you as a coach... Miss ya everyday tim
Taylor and Connor- Let us know when you're playing. As a fellow musician, I'd love to see it! Mark SR Class of 86
I looked down the hall while walking to a class today and saw a sea of faces, and it made me think, even though we all have the capacity for greatness, will we achieve it? Though we wont all have the same opportunities we all have a path of some kind that we choose to follow or ignore, or we can create our own. Is our will measured by what we accomplish, or are our accomplishments measured by our will? In 100 years, how many of those faces that I saw in that hallway will be paired with greatness, or even remembered for that matter? But at the same rate who can measure greatness? And in the end your wallet can't save you and neither can your recorded achievements. All you have is what you know is right, and what you did with that knowledge. "Leave your stepping stones behind, something calls for you. Forget the dead you've left, they will not follow you.The vagabond who's knocking at your door is standing in the clothes that you once wore.Strike another match, go start anew, and it's all over now, Baby Blue." -Bob Dylan
Hey Tim ! It has been way too long since I have sat down and put my thoughts about you on the tube....although you have never been far from my daily thoughts. I went to St Rose for the Alumni games to watch and remember....WOW there was a ton of talent in that gym! Try outs are now in progress at the high school level and there is no doubt that your legacy of players will once again have an impact on South Jersey basketball. Each one of your players will carry a large piece of you in their hearts as the season gets ready for TIP OFF ! I can't speak for others but I am sure that they want you to continue to coach from that elevated position that you now hold. It should be an exciting year. Miss you and think about you when times are perfect..... Ken S.
Hey Tim, it’s about an hour past midnight and I can't get you off the mind as usual. I’m talking to Charlie which is difficult without one of us staying up late to avoid the 3 hour time differential since he's three thousand miles across the country. I've been thinking about ya more than ever lately. The reasons are pretty obvious with basketball season beginning and now college essays due in about a week. To no surprise most are about you and the impact you made on me. Basketball isn't exactly going as planned for me but always finds a way to come around. The rest of my team is probably tired of Terence and me bragging about St. Rose. A St. Agnes teammate of mine brought up our game against them in 8th grade. He reminded me of the game by saying “I remember walking in the bathroom, and your coach was going nuts on you Cass!” That rung a bell. We look to have a pretty good team this year and could be a threat in our parochial. Dorse and I discussed high school ball around SJ and he thinks were a top 10 team which is always good to hear from a guru himself. Dorse never steers you wrong when it comes to high school basketball. I went to a practice about a week ago and the varsity looked pretty solid. Jaime does a great job. That night at dinner, we talked about you and how practices used to be. Brooks and I still remember our practice schedule exactly from 8th grade. I’m not sure I’ll ever forget it. The day of the Alumni games I went up to shoot and then came inside to watch for a little. After about 5 minutes I went up to the locker room and reminisced with Morgan about all the crazy times in that cozy little space. I still have no idea how we fit so many bodies in such a small area. Haha. There’s a special feeling when you step foot in that locker room that will never go away. I could use your help in the next few weeks. I miss you more than ever Tim.
Happy Thanksgiving Tim. Give me any kind of help you can because God knows we need it.
Basketball starts tomorrow tim, just thought i'd tell you your always on my mind. Miss ya everyday
Hey Tim- just want to say that you are on my mind since it is time to say "thanks" for our blessings. Having known you from the 80's to the new century there is a lot of "Tim Time" to be thankful for and I am trying to hold on to those years. Thank you for the laughs and hugs, the love you gave so freely to my sons and the gift of friendship you shared with Bill and me. I hope to keep your children in my heart to "play forward" in some small measure that which you gave to me. May the peace you have now flow down to us. Miss you.
Tim, I was thinking of you lately. The fine job you did with building young boys into men. Teaching them the fundamentals of basketball also taught them self respect and respect of others, the responsible principles they need in life. It’s sad to see a young boy turn to trouble and ruin his life. It affects not only the lad, but his family and friends as well. You did a lot for the youth in your community. Hopefully others will follow in you footsteps. Taylor, don’t sweat people like anonymous. The site was indeed created as a tribute to your Dad. There will always be people like anonymous who find fault with everything, mostly because of their own character flaws. Thanks Tim for caring about the kids
We miss you so much. The holidays are so hard not having you with us. Stay close to Lisa and the kids. You would be so proud of the kids there doing well. love you.
miss ya tim
heyy Tim, havent wrote on here in a while but this week esp. ive been thinkin of you alot with the alumni game and all. It should be fun as usual. Can't wait to get back on the court ive been so caught up with football havent had anytime to play pick up. well i just wanted to leave you a message so you know your still in my prayers and i still think about you. cya at the alumni game Tim
I still would love to know why you had to go so soon. They say every thing happens for a reason, but I still have no idea what the reason is for you leaving us so soon. There is so much going on, and really a lot of isn't that great. You have left such a void, it is too hard to replace. I miss you.
I have grown so tired of fighting on this website. It is getting to the point that my Dad would probably prefer there be no website. Who ever anonymous is, look you don't want to put your name, fine, but why act like your 11 years old and insult people in a way that you feel your diploma allows. How about leaving your political and clever "humor" on another website and focus on what this is for. This website is for Tim Lenahan and it is an insult to him acting the way you are. So I ask of you, please save your petty personal problems for the water cooler, or hey, why not write an angry letter and not mailing it, then you would be real tough. And for what it is worth, miss you dad.
I just wanted to say I miss you and I cant wait until the alumni game. see you soon, Keith
Hey Tim, its been a while. Now that football season is almost over and basketball is just around the corner, I can't help but to think about all of the great times we had at St. Rose. Having you as a coach and friend is my most missed memory. Every time you yelled at me and as mad as you may have been, I knew it was because you wanted me to be the best I could be. Today, I basically live by your famous saying "Winners do what losers Won't." Without those words, my work ethic would not be anything close to what it is in sports or in school. I am doing pretty well in school and I know that you would be proud of me for that.
my opinion is...this website was originally started to promote At the Top Basketball Camps...unfortunately, this site became a dedication to Timmy's legacy, in addition to a medium that facilitated a support group for the Lenahans. This is not a site for self-indulging egomaniacs that have a platform, ie 'the Don' Devlin. Evidently, placing your name at the end of every "announcement", you substantiate further...it's about you. If you are so altruistic, be anonymous, instead of, 'From the Desk of the Don'. It's easier to create your own website...www.fromthedeskofthedon.com, and be more transparent, as if you weren't already. I'm sure 'The Don' will fire back with an email that possibly states (I'm going out on a limb), "anonymous messages are cowardice, irresponsible, unaccountable" (no pun intended)...what he actually means is...this email is so on the money that I need "payback"...spoken like a true Don. In other words, please refrain from using this site as a vehicle for your own agenda...get off your own horse. You must be self-appointed, because I never voted for you and, most importantly, there was never an election. Good luck on the next election year!
Hey Tim, it has been a while. I still miss you more and more each day. I think about how different things would be today, and how much better they would be. I have finally gotten my life together (in most respects) and would have enjoyed sharing with you. It is funny how you go through life and you try to find your place, where you fit in, and it really is always there right in front of your face. I have found that things that I thought I wanted, when I got them, really wasn't it. I have come to finally realize after all these years that where I started, with you, Lisa, the kids, and my family, are where I belong. It takes so much heart ache to come to that, but once you get to that conclusion and get to that "inner peace" of knowing where you fit, you can actually live, and that is a good feeling. The sad thing is I know, as I always have from the time I was in 7th grade, that you were always meant to be in my life, and to have you ripped away like you were, still to this day, brings me to tears. I miss you. I miss our talks. I miss our Friday and Saturday nights at Crystal Lake diner with the kids, I miss you yelling at me and telling me my opinion (smile). Tim, I miss you. I can't say more than that. I still can not believe you are gone. Every day I go to that house, I want you there.
Hey Tim, we played Monroe tonight. We lost by 13 or so but hung tough and really put the physical effort in that you, jamie, and anyone else who's coached us deserves. How you got to see the game.
hey tim i just want to let u know we are all extremely sorry for the effort we put out on Sunday it was a disgrace to you, jamie, john, and st rose all together it was embarrassing tonight we play at PVI at 8 o'clock I guarantee you you'll see a huge effort by every man on the floor it won't happen again were not going to loose like p*((#$(
Does anyone know if its possible to have the alumni game date switched? I'm going to be in Florida for vacation but I desperately want to make the game. Please someone help !!!!!!!!!!!!!
Boy Tim, I hope you didn't see that effort today. Embarrassing...
Boys varsity game tomorrow 1:30. at PVI. Come out.
Hey tim whats up? I was thinking really hard about this the other day: does anyone ever notice how much time and effort you put into teaching boys how to not only become good basketball players, but how to become men in general? You cared so much for the game, and i would just like to thank you for that because everyday, in some way, i use on of the many lessons that you taught me. I feel like everyone notices the obvious things such as all the good players that you molded into great players, all the championships, and just one of, if not the, most dominant forces in grade school basketball in south jersey, but do the notice all of the little things that you did for so many people? i just wanted to let you know that i think about you everyday, and i miss you very much. Basketball season is coming up, i could really use your help now a days!
Well Tim, I see where Red Auerbach has passed over to the other side. I remember your shiny, satin Celtics jacket with the big shamrock on the front. You loved to talk about Larry Bird to the boys and the great Celtic championship teams. Funny but I don't remember if we ever discussed Red or not. I do recall that when Msgr Callahan agreed to a new gym floor I teased you about getting parquet like the old Boston Garden. Anyway, you got another coach up there to chat but I still wish you were here. Take care of us buddy. PS Speaking of jackets you also had one that said "ALL World" on the back. Still makes me laugh.
All Lenahan Second and Third teams?
Tim, just wanted to say you are on my mind. I subbed at CCD last week and memories of Monday nights came flooding back. You would have that practice between CCD sessions and we would have a chance to catch up as usually Monday practices were "somewhat" light. ( probably a contradiction in terms) We would recap the weekend games, etc. On other nights I would get to play with Morgan while you had practice. I always enjoyed hearing your voice and the sounds of practice in the gym. It brought life to the otherwise quiet school building. I also liked hearing your instructions and how you set up the strategy. Yeah- once in a while a particular "outburst" would get my attention but it was rare and you always followed it with a positive comment and a particular suggestion. Teachers go to workshops to learn methods of instruction and motivation; you were a natural. Such a great rapport with your boys. They miss you so and I do too. It is hard to accept the start of the season without you here in person. I know that you are "there" for us but boy what I would give for another hug and you saying that I smelled good. I haven't been able to wear "My" fragrance since you left . You must be proud of all of your boys who are coaching this year on so many levels. They honor you with the Timmy methods and you inspire us all. Hope you and the other Basketball greats are setting up some hoops in heaven!
They say that everything happens for a reason and if that is true then God is alot like the military. He likes to break you down and build you back up. I don't know what the advantages of everything that is happening right now are, but maybe one day I'll be granted the answer through some divine intervention, because it sure doesn't make sense to me. Think of you everyday.
WELL IT IS THAT TIME OF THE YEAR AGAIN, SAINT ROSE BOYS BASKETBALL HAS STARTED PREPARING FOR ANOTHER SEASON. MOST PARENTS ONLY SEE THIS IN THE CONTEXT OF THEIR CHILD. SOME OF US GO BACK 40 YEARS WHEN SAINT ROSE ONLY PUT A TEAM TOGETHER AT THE END OF THE YEAR TO PLAY IN TOURNAMENTS. AND THEN CAME FATHER JACK. HE STARTED THE MODERN SAINT ROSE PROGRAM. I AM NOT OLD ENOUGH TO GO BACK TO WHEN JIM CRAWFORD SR. PLAYED BUT I HEAR THAT THEY HAD SOME GREAT TEAMS. FATHER JACK SHOWED THE PLAYERS AT SAINT ROSE WHAT DRILLS AND HARD WORK COULD DO. HE INSTILLED THIS WORK ETHIC INTO A YOUNG PLAYER WHO EVEN THOUGH HE WASN'T GO ENOUGH TO PLAY VERY MUCH, HE ALWAYS PRACTICED HARD AND WHEN HE GOT AN OPPORTUNITY TO PLAY, ALWAYS PLAYED HARD. A FEW YEARS AFTER FATHER JACK LEFT SAINT ROSE TO BUILD A POWERHOUSE PROGRAM AT SAINT JOHN'S IN COLLINGSWOOD, THIS YOUNG MAN CAME BACK AND DEDICATED THE NEXT 28 YEARS OF HIS LIFE TO DEVELOPING NOT ONLY BASKETBALL PLAYERS BUT OUTSTANDING MEN AT SAINT ROSE. JAMIE IS CONTINUING THIS TRADITION. THESE THREE MEN HAVE A LOT OF THINGS IN COMMON, THE LEAST OF WHICH IS THE REALIZATION THAT THEY WILL NEVER BE APPRECIATED FULLY FOR THEIR TIME AND SACRIFICE. SO MUCH FOR FILLING IN SOME OF THE BACKGROUND ABOUT THE TOP CATHOLIC GRADE SCHOOL PROGRAM IN SOUTH JERSEY. I TRY TO GET UP TO PRACTICE AS MUCH AS I CAN. JAMIE HAS STAYED FAITHFUL TO YOUR PHILOSOPHY AND PRACTICE IS VERY MUCH THE SAME AS WHEN YOU WERE HERE. THERE ARE SUBTLE DIFFERENCES BUT HOW MANY TIMES DID YOU AND I DISAGREE OVER THE MINUTIA OF COACHING. AS FAR AS GAME COACHING, I CERTAINLY FEEL THAT HE COULD COACH WITH EITHER OF US. THE TEAM LOOKS VERY GOOD. ANDREW HAS GROWN AND IS BEGINNING TO LOOK LIKE A PLAYER. MATT GIVES THEM A TRUE POINT GUARD AND HAS THE EXPERIENCE OF PLAYING WITH HIS BROTHER SO HE IS MORE LIKE A 9TH GRADER THAN HE IS A 7TH GRADER. PAT HAS TURNED INTO A PLAYER THANKS TO HIS HARD WORK AND I AM SURE HIS FATHER WORKED WITH HIM A LOT. BRENDEN, ADAM, CONNOR, DANNY, JOHN MICHAEL AND THE REST WILL MAKE THE ROSE BOYS VERY HARD TO BEAT THIS YEAR. IT IS A FRIDAY NIGHT AND I AM WAITING FOR MORGY TO GET BACK FROM THE MOVIES. GRANDMA AND AUNT REA TOOK HER BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT THEY WERE GOING TO SEE. AS LISA TOLD YOU, THE BOYS STARTED A BAND WITH MIKE CRAWFORD AND TONIGHT THEY ARE PLAYING AT THE DANCE AT SAINT ROSE. MORGY WROTE YOU A NOTE SAYING THAT THEY WERE TALKING ABOUT YOU IN SCHOOL AND HOW MUCH SHE WANTS YOU TO COME BACK. WHEN SHE FALLS ASLEEP IN MY ARMS I CAN'T HELP BUT FEEL THAT SHE WAS CHEATED AND IT SHOULD BE HER DAD WITH HER BUT THEN I REALIZE THAT YOU ARE WITH US. JUST ABOUT EVERY NIGHT TAYLOR, HANNA PUPPY, ME AND IF IT IS NOT TOO LATE CONN MAN GO FOR A RIDE. I DON'T KNOW WHO ENJOYS IT MORE, TC OR HANNA. OBVIOUSLY YOU ARE CENTRAL TO MANY OF OUR CONVERSATIONS AND WHEN HE WANTS ADVISE I DO TRY TO CONSIDERED WHAT YOU MIGHT HAVE SAID. TC HAD OFF FROM SCHOOL THE OTHER DAY AND WE TOOK A RIDE DOWN TO OCEAN CITY. IT WAS VERY MUCH LIKE HAVE YOU IN THE CAR. I CAN'T TELL YOU HOW MUCH I ENJOYED IT. AS I HAVE SAID MANY TIMES, YOU GO ON LIVING THROUGH THOSE THREE WONDERFUL CHILDREN. EVERY GOOD QUALITY YOU HAD CONTINUES IN THEM. BY THE WAY, HANNA PUPPY GOES UNDER THE KNIFE ON TUESDAY FOR BLADDER STONES AGAIN. PLEASE LOOK AFTER HER AND DON'T CALL HER INTO THE LIGHT. MISS YOU!
It has been a long time since I wrote. I was blessed with a most special, inspiring relationship that I've ever known by having Timothy Patrick as my brother. So many things remind me of Tims and I miss him sooo very much. When I see Taylor, Connor, Morgan my heart pounds because they make my brother real again. Each one of you have your individuality and you compliment each other and have different qualities. I know that Timmy is watching over us. I know our lives have been predestined, and I know your Dad lives within each of you. My children and myself use the life lessons Timmy shared daily. I don't know how long it will take to make the void manageable. Remember Timmy is always with us. My memories of Timmy and I are wonderful. He helped my children become strong , caring, adults. They are using this for their own children. I know we can keep Timmy alive within us all. I wish that we would have never lost Timmy, but we can keep him alive in all of us by passing on his life lessons to our children and grandchildren. Lisa, Taylor, Connor, Morgan, I love you. I am a phone call away. I pray for your strength to continue as well as my own. I am very proud of you. Remember that you will always have each other. You may not understand now but life will be more understandable as you grow. TIMS, I love you and miss you. JudyXOXO
Don, I agree that Timmy doesn't appear to be smiling down on the golf outing for two years in a row. Here's a thought for a winter fundraiser. Maybe try to organize an outing to a Marist at Rider basketball game. That brings one of Tim's first players Matt Brady back to the area. I believe it is in February '07 this coming season. I am sure that the Rider athletic department would work with you. Get 500 tickets and mark them up about $10.00 to $15.00. The Rose family is big enough to sell that many tickets. Unfortunately, that was the last place I saw Timmy in December 2004. I think that would be great way to pay tribute to a basketball junkie, a friend to so many of us, and one of Tim's first disciples (Matt).
Hey Tim, I haven't been on here in awhile, but I really wish you were still here. The season's started as I'm sure you already know, and were working really hard. I've been playing and working on my game everyday since 6th grade when I realized what the difference was from being on a Saint Rose team, and starting on a Saint Rose team. That mentality has helped me alot in changing from the spazy 6th grader I used to be into how I play now. Thanks Tim for helping me to realize what was important. P.S. Everyone should come out and watch us win another championship.
We are down the homestretch for Timmy's tournament on Friday the 13th. With the rainout many of the foursomes are no longer foursomes. Come as you are & you will be paired up with someone you know or one of Timmy's buddies. Registration is still 12:00. Golf starts at 1:00. Dinner & Taylor's tribute will start at 6:00. We will meet back at R-Macs around 8:30 for a nightcap. Feel free to sign-up the day of the tournament. Maybe Timmy is trying to tell us he didn't like golf but we know he loved putting people together. See you Friday!
Because virtually everyone's foursome is no longer intact, please come as you are and you can be paired up with someone you know or a friend of Timmy. Maybe Timmy is trying to tell us he didn't like golf. Rain or shine, the tournament will take place on Friday the 13th. Feel free to sign up that day. If you weren't able to play last Friday, we would love you to come this week. Last Friday about 30 of us had a great lunch that ended up at PJ's eating wings in Timmy's honor. This Friday the agenda is: 12:00 Sign-Up 1:00 Golf 6:00 Dinner & Taylor giving a tribute to his Dad 8:00 R-Macs for a night cap E-mail us at don@dadassociatesinc.com or call on the cell at 609-220-3781 with any questions.
It was great playing last Friday, can't wait to do it again this week. Tim, Thanks for keeping the hard stuff from coming down and letting us get through 18. To those of you who passed, you missed out! I want to invite all of you St. Rosers, former, current, etc. to come out to the Men's Open Gym on Monday nights from 8-10pm starting next week. The weather's starting to get cooler and the indoor game is going to start heating up (its obviously a short court for those of us who need to get in shape!). Come out and relive some old memories of playing in the Len-Dome, consistent talent usually in attendance, short games to 10 by ones, winner stays on, can't play more than 2 in a row. We try to keep things moving, so if a bunch of people show up, you're not standing around for a while. We take donations at the door to supplement the heat/electric costs for the school. Because it was tough organizing an alumni game with a date that everyone can agree on, next Monday, call a former teammate of yours and bring him up to the gym. If we get enough interest, maybe we could organize a tournament for the coming weeks. Growing up in St. Rose Basketball was the best thing I was ever a part of...I'd like to keep with it as long as there's another person out there who remembers the fear of God in their hearts when they heard the words "End Line!" and the energy that ran through their blood when they heard the words "Who's the Best?" WE ARE.
Everything has been moved back one week to next Friday. To all the great people that took off work, we are still meeting At Pennsauken Country Club at 1:00 for drinks to talk about Timmy. Pls e-mail me at Don@DADassociatesinc.com with any questions or to let me know if you can pull the trigger for next week.
The take on Timmy's Golf Outing is the rain date would be next Friday. The problem is Vitarelli's Catering is separate from The Golf Course. If Vitarelli is booked next Friday the golf & dinner would be apart which of course is not a great idea. If at all possible the preference would be today. The other problem is the rain date never attracts the same number of golfers. We are waiting to hear back from Vitarellis. Please plan on the tournament taking place. We will post an update at 10:30 or sooner.
This past weekend we had a tremendous swell of support for Timmy's Golf Tournament. We still have some spots left but try & let us know now instead of signing up Friday so we can assign the holes. Taylor will do a tribute to his Dad after the tournament. I can't think of a better time then golf, dinner, drinks, Taylor and then shifting the party back to R-Macs to trade Timmy stories. The weather will be a little breezy but temperature wise it will be perfect. Remember it is a scramble. You do not have to be a professional golfer to play! It will be a very exciting day. There is no better way to keep Timmy's name going then to participate & have this Scholarship Tournament go on for years.
Hey Tim, it has been some time. I still think of you every day. You know Andrew and I were driving in the car today and he was asking me to tell him the story about when we were in the gym, I think he was either 2 or 3 and you told every one to hold the ball in your "Timmy" manner and Andrew just kept dribbling and he looked at you and just smiled while everyone was scared sh.tless and just said "Hi Mr. Tim" and I thought oh god this is it these kids are gonna have to run and it is gonna be my kids fault and they are gonna hate him, but instead you just looked at me and laughed and said "God he is just as much of a pain in the ass as you". So I am telling the story to him and he starts crying, b/c he misses you. And I never even thought about him missing you, I was always just worried about me or the kids missing you, but here is my own son missing you. You were such a big part of his life from the time he was 1. I remember all those Saturday nights when we would go to Crystal Lake Diner, or remember those nights at R-Max. They were the best. I miss you so much. I miss just walking in to your house and you screaming at me for not ringing the door bell, I miss the season, and reffing for you, I miss listening to you and Dors fight about God knows what. I miss you and Lisa fighting in your playful manner, it was so much fun when we would mess up what she would just clean. There are so many things I miss about you Tim.
Since you left us, this time of year is the hardest. I do not care what anyone says - St. Rose will never be the same without you. Most people don't know that your last year at St. Rose was very very draining on you. I won't mention any names but one person in particular made our lives difficult. He knows who he is. I still have to ask God to help me work through my anger for him. I felt helpless not being able to help you deal with him. Being a coach's wife is a tough job. When you died I couldn't help but notice that the higher ups that were in charge of athletics had no clue the impact you made in the lives of so many young men. I hate to say it but they realized how wonderful of a person and coach you were to late. The sad part to this whole story is our two boys are now young men and could really benefit from your life experience of dealing with teens. Morgan happened to bring up out of the clear blue about the morning I had to tell her you left us. She said she knew something was wrong when she did not hear you call Morgy girl it's time to wake. I didn't know what to say other than your daddy loved you so much Morgy. I can't thank you enough for our three awesome children. Taylor and Connor's band is really good. They performed at a block party last week and sounded really good. I said to a friend that Timmy would have absolutely loved the fact he had two musicians in the family. I wish he could have been with us to enjoy seeing them play. Friday is the second Golf Outing we are having for you. It is great seeing all the wonderful people who loved you so much gathering to honor all the selfless things you did for so many people every day of your beautiful life. I thank all of them because being able to give scholarships in your name is a very precious gift for the kids and myself. We love you!
Wow it has been awhile since I have stopped by to post. To be honest I almost feel guilty. Obviously, this doesn't mean that you don't cross my mind every single day. I'm out in LA, living the crazy Los Angeles lifestyle, and loving every minute of it. I go up to our beautiful gym and play ball probably 5 times a week. Just like you taught me, I went and immediately talked to everyone, made friends, and earned some respect. Now all the guys know me, know my game, know I am not going to back down just because they are older or stronger. I am so proud to represent where I come from; St. Rose basics with Philly attitude haha. I just received some really bad news from a friend whom I care very deeply about and all I can think about is you. Tim, if you knew how I missed you. I need your strength and guidance. I know you will always stay with me. I love and miss you. Taylor, Connor, and Morgan you know I love you guys and would do anything to help you in any way I can whether it's basketball or school or just life in general. Please call my house and get my cell phone number so if you ever need anything. I'll surely be back soon it was good to see you Tim.
Hi Tim. In a few days some of your friends and former players will gather to play golf and share a dinner. However those activities are really just to help us cover our emotions as we recall great Timmy stories. Most of the crowd will be male and you know it is not easy to display emotion. Yet-Somehow , when recalling you, we are able to do so because our hearts need to talk about you and savor the moments we shared. I'm glad to see Taylor's name listed on the committee and next year maybe Connor will join him when he starts high school. For now, Morgan is our mascot. So Tim tonight I will recall you taking a bunch of us up to see Paul VI playing at Lakewood, after practice, on a school night! Our parents somehow said yes and shoved money for dinner and admission in our hands as we piled into your car. I thought we would never get in but we did and enjoyed a great game- mostly because it was shared with you. You recalled every detail of the game on the way home. It was fun and someone we did get up for school the next day. Thanks for being there for us when we were young and thanks for looking over us now.I can't be with the guys at the get together this week so I hope people post some of the Timmy stories that were shared. Miss you.
Hey Taylor, Sorry we all don't write often...but we all think of your Dad DAILY!!!! Every time I see you, Connor or Morgan, I see Timmy. Billy's message put it perfect so I'll just share a story. I found a picture of your Mom and Dad at my wedding the other day: You can just hear their laughter while looking at this picture. Your Mom just gazing, smiling and laughing at your Dad as the picture is snapped. Of course he had to make sure their waiter got in the picture, and your dad didn't just smile when someone asked him to pose, he would scream. You know the pose I'm talking about. Mouth wide open with best smile ever and laughing his head off. Your dad had many twist and turns in his life but his spirit always remained. Taylor, keep his spirit alive, keep me seeing him. John Innocenzo Rose Boy '83
Tim, My college career has just begun. I'm attending St. Joe's University in Philly. The first few weeks have been slow but fun none the less. A week or so ago out of no where I started to think about you and all the great times I had at your camps, St. Rose, and in our one on one workouts. It reminded me of how much I really loved basketball and how much you helped me along the way. It brought me to the decision that come November I'm going to try out for the team. Now I'm not foolish enough to think that I'll make varsity THIS year but J.V would be a nice start. I've learned to never say never. I just wanted to say that these next two months in getting ready will be hard but everything that you've taught me will be fresh in my mind. I'll be working my hardest just like always and I know you'll be there watching and helping me along like you always did and always will. Love, Matthew
I dont think these ads are necessary this is a site for in memory for tim not for junk and why does it matter where we get changed? the locker room is fine
Why can't they get changed in the old Convent Basement before games?
maybe last years team and this years team should be put up under timmy's team, because they were both coached by timmy in some way. Just a thought.
Yo tim. We've been going up to st rose to play ball and it brings back good memories. We would play for hours hoping that you would drive by so that you could see us playing. Turn outs have been pretty good and im looking forward to this years season to see what these kids can do. I miss you tim. I could really use ur help with my jumper! See you around
Whoever just wrote and said dors shouldnt tell people where kids are playing basketball at shouldnt be allowed on this webpage. Your clearly not a player, nor even knew Tim. It makes kids so happy and proud to have some one recognize there dedication. Kids would go up there just so Tim would drive by and regonize their hard work! Also, he only used the names of older kids who have learned to take care of themselves, not little 2nd graders who need to be protected by the sickos of the world. Finally, it shouldnt matter that dors said where the kids were playing basketball at... it should be ASSUMED that st rose players, past and present, will be at st rose working on there game.
someone really should tell dors about how dangerous it is to use kids first and last names AND state where they are playing basketball over the internet. really, think about it!
Dors I knew you were going to write tonight, b/c I felt the same thing tonight. It was so cool today to see all the players up there going up and down the court. It was great. I still feel so lost Tim. I still wonder every day what happened, I can't believe you are gone. I miss you Tim. Love Gert.
I AM REMINDER OF THE LINE IN THE BEATLES SONG "LA, LA, LA, LA LIFE GOES ON" AND SO IT DOES. THE PEOPLE WHO POST HAVE DWINDLED BUT THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT YOU ARE NOT IN THE HEARTS AND MINDS OF THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE THAT YOU HAVE TOUCHED. THE SUMMER HAS BEEN, AS TC PUTS IT "INTERESTING." THE NUMBERS FOR THE CAMPS WERE DOWN BUT WE HAD A GOOD TURNOUT THE LAST COUPLE OF WEEKS. I GUESS THE SAINT ROSE GIRLS ARE TAUGHT SO MUCH DURING THE YEAR THAT THEY DON'T NEED ANYTHING DURING THE SUMMER. THE SAME COULD BE SAID FOR THE 5TH, 6TH AND 7TH GRADE BOYS. CHUCK DID HIS NORMAL OUTSTANDING JOB AS DID KEVIN CRAWFORD, KEVIN OWENS, JIM GANNON AND EMILY DIMARCO. THE CAMPS WILL CONTINUE TO EDUCATE YOUNG PEOPLE IN THE GAME THAT YOU AND I LIVE FOR. CONNOR AND MORGAN WERE AT ALL THE CAMPS WORKING TO IMPROVE THEIR GAME. TAYLOR TURNED 16 AS YOU KNOW, JUST ANOTHER MILESTONE THAT HE ONLY HAD YOU IN SPIRIT. I AM SO LUCKY TO HAVE THESE THREE WONDERFUL KIDS IN MY LIFE. EVERY GOOD QUALITY THAT YOU HAD LIVES ON IN THEM. I SEE YOU IN EACH OF THEM IN DIFFERENT WAYS. THEY MISS YOU MORE THAN ANYONE KNOWS AND THEY ARE ALL COPING IN THEIR OWN WAY. WE TALK ABOUT OFTEN. THEY ARE ALL ON VACATION RIGHT NOW AND I AM TAKING CARE OF HANNA PUPPY AND TUFFY. HANNA IS BY MY FEET IN THE COMPUTER ROOM. SHE SEEMS TO LIKE THIS ROOM THE MOST AND AS I WAS TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY I REMEMBERED BACK TO THE NIGHT YOU LEFT US. I DROVE BY AND SAW YOU AND LISA PAINTING THAT ROOM. I BET HANNA WAS WITH YOU AND SO SHE FEELS YOUR SPIRT THE MOST WHEN SHE IS HERE. I WAS AT THE CAMPS ALMOST EVERYDAY BUT ONLY WORKED A FEW OF THEM. AS YOU KNOW I HIT THE BIG 60 THIS SUMMER AND IT IS HARD ON MY LEGS LATER ON IN THE DAY WHEN I AM OUT THERE FOR 4 HOURS. I WAS UP AT SAINT ROSE THIS AFTERNOON AND THERE WERE OVER 20 SAINT ROSE KIDS PLAYING BALL. THIS YEARS 8TH GRADERS ORGANIZED IT. NOT ONLY WERE THE 8TH GRADERS UP THERE BUT ALSO MATT WHO IS GOING TO BE A GREAT ADDITION TO THIS YEARS TEAM BUT ALSO SOME OF THE OLDER KIDS LIKE RAY MAY, TYLER, BRIAN CRAWFORD, TERRENCE AND LAST YEARS ADDITION MR. NARDI. IT WAS LIKE OLD TIMES. IT MADE ME THINK ABOUT MY 40 YEARS OF PLAYING BALL AT SAINT ROSE AND ALL THE FRIENDS THAT I MADE OVER THE YEARS WHICH WOULD INCLUDE A SORT OF STOCKY LITTLE 6TH GRADER WHO USE TO COME UP AND WAIT FOR US OLDER PLAYERS TO FINISH SO THAT HE COULD GET ON THE COURT AND SHOOT. MISS YOU EVERY DAY MY FRIEND.
Taylor, Just know that even your dad's friends before his St. Rose day's think of him always. He is always in our hearts as are you and your family. Love, terri c
Taylor, Just know that even your dad's friends before his St. Rose day's think of him always.
In another example of Timmy keeping his boys close, I had a very nice experience yesterday. I was at a Harrisburg Senators minor-league baseball game yesterday and saw Joe Neal walking through the grandstand. Joe and I had dinner with Timmy the night before he died and we struck up a conversation as comfortable as two old friends. Blaine was in a rehab assignment with the Pirates AA team and Joe had come from NJ to see the game. How ironic that this was the last home game of the year for my local team and I happen to be there as Blaine's team was playing. Of course we talked about Timmy most of the time and laughed at how his influence still abounds. Thanks Tim for that encounter - I know you had someting to do with it...
Billy you are so right there is not a day that goes by that I do not think about Tim. I still can not come to terms with him being gone, it is too surreal. I miss him so much. Tim, I have to tell you a few things. Your kids are wonderful. The other night Connor walked in to the church and he was so you. I couldn't believe the resemblance. Everything but the red hair was you. He is such a great kid. He came over my house Saturday and spent the whole day with Andrew. What 13 year old do you know is going to spend their whole Saturday to play with a 7 year old. Morgan spent Friday night with Judy, Kim, Lacey, and Steven she said she had a great time being with your family. Tim, she misses you so much. My heart hurts every time I look at her. I think about all the things she is going to miss out on with you not being here. I think about my own wedding day with my dad not being here and the void in her heart that day when you are not there for her. Tim please be with them. Let them feel you and make them know that things are ok. I miss you and I love you. Gert.
WAD, Funny how the volume of messages has died down. Rest assured that the thoughts run thru all our minds way more than our fingertips do on the computer keyboard. Three small stories, I want to share w/ you. About three weeks ago, I had a long and very meaningful conversation with a great a friend of mine. He was debating over a doing something that he knew whatever his action would have consequences and lead to people judging him. This buddy became a friend of mine about 12 years ago as we met thru your camps.(Funny how it revolves around ball?!) He asked me what I thought he should do. We both agreed that he should do what was right. We talked how that was always your message: whether it was helping a friend in need, turning down many of life's vices, or giving someone a chance, you always stressed to do what was right. For crying out loud, my family even made you a Eustace fan for some time! Anyway, he goes and does what he thinks is right. The next day he sends me a text that he was happy we spoke and happy he did it. So many things had to happen that day three weeks ago for he and i to find the time in our busy and growing lives to talk, that it is amazing we found over an hour for each other. Looking back, I know you facilitated that whole conversation. Two weeks ago, my wife and two sons are on the beach Ocean city kicking off our family vacation. Out of nowhere, we run into Adam Landis. Adam has a wife and two sons who are the exact same ages and monts apart as my sons. They even had similiar mannerisms. They played together for about an hour and a half. It was so cool. Adam and I caught up, discussing our lives and reminisced about the Heights six foot and under league. Naturally, kids nap times and hunger interrupted the talks and we had to go our seperate ways. As you know, Timmy, that day was gorgeous: sunny, little breeze, I mean just perfect. Can't help but believe that you brought Adam and I together on that day. Just a subtle reminder from our Coach that the Rose Boys Family is everywhere and that we are all part of one of life's greatest fraternities. Finally, we started our pre season workouts just the other day. We have a very young team - ten frosh and sophs- but I love them. You would too. Skilled, Vesatile, hungry to learn. Anyway, we introduced the dribble specs to them. They wore them for the entire workout. These kids have never seen these things before and the sight of our nation';s future leaders wearing them was hysterical. Tripping all over themselves! but they loved it! Your influence is all over the place as you are one of the games' finest teachers and most forward thinkers. Taylor, I hope you are reading this as I can't imagine the transition you are experiencing right now. You are a great kid. You are a Lenahan, raised by one of the finest men this world has ever known and by a great mother. I know it may seem like no one cares at times as weeks, months go by w/ no one writing. All I can say is that for many time softens our griefs. But also w/ time, memories and appreciation grow so much stronger. People all over think about your dad everyday...everyday. His influence on our lives is much greater than if we can find time to sneak onto the web site. It's in how we carry ourselves as people, how we raise our kids, how we think and stay strong. Time only makes it better. Not one week since Timmy Lenahan has passed away have I(and many others I bet) not had our eyes well up over something that reminds us of one of the greatest people we will ever meet. We love him. When your dad coached, he controlled games. Manipulated plays, planned for everything and built a path for each kid to follow to success. That is why he was amazing. It was all magical, but none of it was by accident. I think of you often, kid. But I know, your dad, the coach, is planning every second of your life to build you into the man he made of may of us. We didn't love 6-4-6's or practicing outside in ski jackets when monsignor shut the gym down in December for a week, or endless left hand baseline lay ups. But we had blind faith in him. We believed it was all part of his plan. Just believe too, kid. He is making you what he knows you can be w/ that unstoppable attitude that he instilled in us through some tough times. He is the man...just trust it. Peace and love ya Wad, B. Lange Rose Boy '86
Taylor, I read your message and I always hear you. You are the man you are today because of your Dad 's love for you. He will always be with you. Make your life happen and become the best. Remember your Dad's Saying about Winners . You are a Lenahan and you are a Winner. Follow Donald Devlin's lead go for it. I miss your Dad very much and there is not a Day that goes by I do not think about him, and how grateful I am to Have you, Connor, and Morgan as my Grandchildren. Please always remember How special you are and Your Dad always was so proud of his Children. Life Changes, but Love is forever. Love Gram Kate
Taylor, Reasonable men do adapt to the world around them! We need your energy for your Dad's Golf Tournament. As you know to keep your Dad's legacy going for many years to come, all proceeds will go to The Timothy P. Lenahan Memorial Scholarship Fund. This past June the following scholarships were awarded: Cody D'Amore & Samantha Lavecci of St. Rose, Connor Crawford & Erin Kane of Camden Catholic and Charlie Schrier of St Joes Prep. The following information will shortly be posted to the golf tournament link: Date-October 6, 2006 Registration-12:00 Tee-Off 1:00 Location-Pennsauken Country Club 3800 Haddonfield Rd Pennsauken NJ Registration Fee- Golf & Dinner 125.00, Dinner only 45.00. Number of golfers-limited to first 128 golfers. Sponsors- Corporate 1,ooo. Platinum-500. Hole Sponsor 150. Patron Sponsor 75. We will need volunteers for the registration table, putting contest, 50/50 etc. Mainly we need volunteers to solicit golfers & sponsors. Please contact or leave me a message at 856-216-7457 or E-Mail me at Don@DADAssociatesinc.com So you see Taylor we need your help for the tournament & I personally would love to see you play golf this year.
Did you see it? Were you there Saturday? Did you get a chance to just sit in the back of the church and watch for a second and realize how farmiliar it all was to you? It seems like you have to throw your conscience out the winndow in a situation with the magnitude of a wedding. I don't know how many people will read this, being that no one really writes anymore, but I know you will read it, and that is all that counts. You can think you have seen and done everything but then you get blindsided and it all changes. When you figure out the rules, they change. Your best efforts aren't always appreciated or acknowledged or even worth it, but when you realize that you can't change what has already been set into motion you feel helpless. I believe it was Robert Frost that said "Reasonabe men adapt to the world around them, and unreasonable men wait for the world to adapt to them." Well the line between reasonable and unreasonable is very thin, and when it comes down to it, you can rely on no one but yourself anyway. Life is to short to waste time and with every breath our time gets shorter, so trying to figure out the rules will just put me one step closer to the end. But, either way, knowing you made those breaths more worth while.
That first Saturday in October is when the team starts practice inside. What a way to start their season! How can we get this started?
Last I heard, the plan for the summer game had kind of stalled. I think the best way to get the most people out is to have the Alumni Game on Saturday, October 7th, to coincide with the Golf Outing the day before. This will make a nice weekend out of the whole thing, plus it should be a nice and cool in the gym in October. Post your thoughts!!! This site is getting soft, anyone have a recent run in with an alumni, or see something that reminded you of Timmy or St. Rose B-Ball? Keep up the St. Rose Spirit that we know will never die!
does anyone if there is going to be a Lenahan All-Start/Alumni Game? or did i miss it??
I know you were watching over on Saturday as another one of YOUR fine St Rose boys walked down the aisle. You were definetly missed! I know their favorite wedding present is the same as ours; the beautiful basketball ornament made for us by Mrs. Hogan with your picture on it that hangs in our home year round. You are always smiling back at us, thinking of you always!
Hey Tim, it has been awhile that I have written, but not a while since I have thought about you. I think about you every day, and it is always the same thought....I still can't believe you are gone. I miss you so much. I had a dream about you a few weeks ago, that I was at the hospital and I was trying to save you and I couldn't. I woke up crying and sweating. It sucked. I did get married. It was a great time. Lisa and Taylor were in the wedding and they looked great. We had such a great time. It is wierd being married, but I am adjusting. I am not used to having to think about someone else besides me and Andrew. You should see him by the way. He is really getting big. He is doing your camps and loving them. I wish you were here to teach him the game. I am too hard on him, but I am trying to calm down. Well I am babbling about nothing. I miss you so much. Love Gert
Tim, need a dose of your humor and strength these days. I recall ypur spirit and never give up attitude. Send some of your prayers this way.
i heard the song again tim
Tim, Just wanted to let you know how much I miss you and think about you all the time. I wish you had met my fiancee Stefanie. i think you would have really liked her. She is a wonderful woman and makes me very happy. I know you are watching over all of us and I hope I have made you proud. I will always remember you and the time we spent together, no matter where it was.
hey tim, waddy, mr.blear, or i'm sory MR IMPACT on our lives!!! I drive by ROSE alot as well as the audubon courts I saw Chuckie trying to show those kids how to handle-geeez even the Lange Boys know im the general-Sherman! (lol) (Chuckie is good man no doubt) I had lunch about two weeks ago in what is to me still Dells! I really didnt eat just sat back and smiled and realized the meomories or should say the famililies that were created in that place! I left Dells and looked back i just remembered the roll/ butter, cherry cokesw/ real cherry for 25 cents when Todd was working and the back game room I want to you know as well as most importantly to your family- how much you have turned boys/girls to men/women and how much impact you have had on all of us raising our familes as well as your love of life.
Timmy, Gems and his family stopped by to see my family and I last week. We laughed over many St. Rose memories. Your legacy goes on thru all of us and now many are passing it on to our children. Shocker, that Gems wrestles with his boys! He's a great dad and I know you are proud of many of your disciples. We miss you. Billy Rose Boy '86
Dear Tim, went by your house today. Your truck was parked there. I really wanted to stop and just run my hand along the door and picture your smiling face hanging out the window. I don't know why seeing summer league at St Rose still bothers me. I guess I am not over this yet- if ever. When I get sad I thnik of your children and their pain and then say a prayer for them. Thank you for your help from above.
Happy Fathers day Waddy! We all miss you so much.
I JUST GOT BACK FROM ELIZABETH'S WEDDING. AS SHE ENTERED THE CHURCH I COULDN'T BELIEVE HOW NICE SHE LOOKED. THERE WAS A GLOW AROUND HER AND AS SHE CAME CLOSER I COULD SEE WHERE IT WAS COMING FROM. I SAW YOU AND MY OLD CLASSMATE JOE (ELIZABETH'S FATHER) WALKING BEHIND HER. YOU WERE BOTH BEAMING WITH PRIDE AND LOVE BUT I THINK JOE HAD JUST A LITTLE MORE. YOU COULD SEE THAT ELIZABETH KNEW THAT YOU GUYS WERE THERE. I KNOW THAT BOTH OF YOU ARE HAPPY FOR THE GREAT GUY SHE FOUND. THE KIDS LOOKED GREAT AS DID LISA. WELL I KNOW THAT YOU ARE AT THE RECEPTION BUT I WILL CATCH YOU HERE ON SUNDAY NIGHT FOR GAME 5. HANNA SAYS HI. MISS YOU!
It is officially summer now. Camp will be starting soon and school is out. I can say no more then it was an "interesting" year. I watched the 8th graders graduate tonight and they not only took a great year and a sense of accomplishment with them, but some also took the last of your direct coaching. It is amazing how much things have changed in the last ten months. It seems as if there is something new every month. This summer should be eventful though. The camps are filling up, and Dors feels like he is somehow victorious because they are finally using his pee-wee camp idea. Also apparently there is some league that they have slapped your name on(Your name is hard to ecscape when it comes to basketball) that is unafilliated with St. Rose. Happy very belated birthday and I hope all is well.
Hey Timmy, Just wanted to let you know how very close we keep you to our hearts. Not a day passes that we don't see your face on your prayer card, or glance down at our wrist to see your blue band. You and the family are always in our prayers. Passing by the courts is always a little detour I like to make just to get the reassurance that you are still with us, so alive in our hearts. We love and miss you so very much Timmy. Til next time...
happy belated birthday timmy
Hi Tim, Happy Birthday. Hope all is going well in Heaven. I have been feeling your presence alot latley. Everyone Misses you soooooooooooMuch. Yesterday I had dinner with Your Little Morgan we had a fun time. Today Ree and I went to Apple Farms for a concert it was fun. Keep The family Lisa, Taylor, Connor and Morgan close to your heart they all miss you alot. Dors is such a big help with the family you would be so proud of him. We miss your stories and Big Irish Smile. Love Kate
sorry i was late to tell you happy b-day dad . I need your help in the summer with basketball but i know you will be there anyway. Im really practicing hard with my music and me taylor alec and mike crawford are finally in a pretty good band. Hopefully we have a show coming up we are practicing hard for the it so im sure u will love it. I love u dad i know your haveing fun in heaven so just keep on staying with me. AND HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAD!
Happy Birthday Timmy! I wish you could meet my son Aidan Flynn Folcher (nice Irish name right buddy). He just turned 2 and he's huge for his age, above the 95th % for height and weight. I don't know where the height came from but its awesome. He'll be at your camps in a few years The time keeps rollin' on but the love never fades
Happy Birthday my dear friend. You are forever in my heart and the hearts of all who love you. Smile on Lisa and your precious children today and provide them with a feeling of comfort as we all celebrate having you in our lives!!
Timmy, Happy Birthday. Please continue to watch over and guide your family and your disciples. You remain in our hearts and minds.
Happy Birthday Tim! See you up at the courts!
Birthdays are a great time to honor people. I am thinking that we should take a moment tomorrow, May 31st, to thank the Lord for the Gift of Timmy P. Lenahan. Missing Tim makes it hard to use the word celebration but he really was a fun -loving and joyful optimist. Let's mark his birthday with a special prayer of thanks for his friendship.
Dearest Timmy I can not believe it's the end of may already. I just wanted to wish you a happy early birthday. I laugh at your birhday's now because you always told me how I was cathing up to you and I laughed and said sweety you will always be 9 1/2 years older than me. I guess you were right Again! You will always be 47 years old and God willing I will keep getting older. Did I tell you how many times I have said to myself or to someone ealse Timmy was right. I have felt you around alot the last couple of days. I Know your keeping a close eye on all of us and I thank you for that. I hope your happy and healthy in Heaven. There is not a day that goes by that we don't tell one of your funny stories. Please keep a close eye on our babies. They miss you so much. There was a dad at St. Rose that passed only a month ago. I heard he had three small children as well. My heart breaks for that family. Keep them in your special prayers. We will do something special on May 31 but we haven't decided yet. Have a wonderful celebration on May 31. I am not sure what it's like to have a birthday in Heaven but I am sure it's a very happy day. Thank you for blessing me every day. I know you love me so much that anything you can do for me in Heaven you will. I never forgot your saying " they can do so much more for you from Heaven than they can on Earth". Happy 49th birthday Timothy Patrick Lenahan. God Bless your beautiful heart and soul.
Hi Tim, Just talking with you after my routine around the house. You are there every day and I know we keep asking you for your guidance and intervention. I keep thinking that the best thing we can remember is to ask how would you want us to handle it. I hope T.C. and Connor will always think of you and rememeber what your hope and wish for them would be. Their really good kids and growing up so fast. Little Morgan is a trip. She is still working on twisting us around her little finger, but it always worked best on her daddy. They miss you terribly Tim. Continue to be with them in spirit and to guide them in their future. Will be thinking of you on the 31st. Happy B-day to you and Michael. Love ya, Ree
I JUST WANTED TO WISH YOU AN EARLY HAPPY BIRTHDAY. I KNOW IT IS NOT UNTIL NEXT WEDNESDAY BUT I NEVER KNOW WHEN I WILL BE ABLE TO SIT DOWN AND TALK TO YOU. THE LAST TIME I WAS HERE THE NCAAS WHERE JUST ENDING. IT WAS A GREAT TOURNAMENT. THE NBA IS IN ITS FINAL FOUR AND THE GAMES HAVE BEEN TREMENDOUS. I ASSUME THAT YOU ARE WATCHING THE GAMES AND HAVE BETTER SEATS THAN WE DO. MORGY HAS HAD AN INTERESTING THREE WEEKS. SHE TURNED 9 ON MAY 2 AND LISA HAD A SMALL PARTY OF FAMILY MEMBERS OVER. I KNOW YOU WERE RIGHT THERE WITH HER AS SHE BLEW OUT THE CANDLES. I HAVE NO DOUBT WHAT SHE WISHED FOR BUT THAT JUST ISN'T POSSIBLE. ON THAT SATURDAY SHE HAD HER FIRST HOLY COMMUNION. GOD SHE WAS BEAUTIFUL. AS I SAT IN THE PEW ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT WAS YOU BEING THERE ONLY IN SPIRIT AND HOW UNFAIR THAT WAS. LAST SUNDAY I DROVE OVER TO NORTHEAST HIGH SCHOOL AND WATCHED HER PLAY IN THE NORTHEAST REGIONAL FINAL FOR HER AAU TEAM. SHE IS THE YOUNGEST PLAYER ON THE TEAM AND SHE PLAY REALLY WELL. THEY NOW GO TO INDIANA TO PLAY IN THE NATIONAL CHAMPIONSHIP. HOW CRAZY IS THAT? CONNOR IS GETTING READY FOR THE SUMMER LEAGUE. IT WILL BE AN INTERESTING YEAR. ONE OF THE MOTHERS ASKED ME HOW I THOUGHT THE TEAM WOULD DO NEXT YEAR AND I TOLD HER HOW EVENLY MATCHED THE LEAGUE WILL BE BUT WITH A HIGH SCHOOL COACH COACHING THEM THAT THEY HAD A GREAT CHANCE TO WIN. SHE WAS UNAWARE OF JAMIES COACHING BACKGROUND. HOW ABOUT CONNON WITH HIS BACK TO BACK HONOR ROLL PERFORMANCES. HE JUST TOOK A MAJOR READING TEST AND GOT THE HIGHEST GRADE IN HIS CLASS. HE IS WORKING REALLY HARD. ALL YOUR KIDS HAVE SOME OF YOUR QUALITIES BUT IT SCARES ME WHEN IT COMES TO TC. IT'S LIKE GOING BACK 30 ODD YEARS AND SEEING YOU AGAIN. JUST LIKE YOU, HE HAS A GREAT MIND BUT IS ALWAYS LOOKING FOR AN EASY WAY TO DO THINGS. BUT WHEN HE FINDS SOMETHING THAT HE IS PASSIONATE ABOUT HE THROWS HIMSELF INTO IT AND IS GREAT AT IT. JUST LIKE YOU FOUND BASKETBALL HE HAS FOUND MUSIC. CONNOR IS ALSO IN LOVE WITH MUSIC. WE ARE GETTING READY FOR THE SUMMER CAMPS. I KNOW WITH CHUCK, KEVIN, JIMMY, KEVIN AND THE REST OF THE CREW, THINGS WILL GO WELL. WELL TUFFY HAS BEEN OUTSIDE FOR THE LAST 12 HOURS SO I THINK I WILL WALK HIM AND WATCH THE 2ND HALF OF THE HEAT-PISTONS GAME. BEFOR I CAME UP THE PISTONS WERE KICKING THEIR BUTTS BUT YOU NEVER KNOW IN THE NBA. HANNA PUPPY SENDS HER LOVE. STAY CLOSE TO THE KIDS. MISS YOU!
Tim-please watch over the boys as they travel for work.
just wanted to let you know lori and i had another daughter.julianna marie born 5-8-06..always thinking of you.you always were and always willl be the best.
Waddy! I have been back to Haddon Heights the last couple of weekends to my parent’s house and I still do the same thing. I drove at least 15 mph slower as I approach your Mecca. I still look for the Del's sign, and as I creep to 3rd ave I just hope to see you sitting on the huge block at center court. Both of these things haven't been there for years, but I still hope. Either way I slow to a crawl, roll the window down, and put one finger in the air to show my love and respect. You will always be number one! My brother and I never had the same taste in clothing, but one thing remains the same, the wrist band on our arm. I think he wears his on his left hoping it will improve his off hand! I wear mine on my right because it's what I use the most, so I feel you 24/7. You are my rock! Billy has a once in a lifetime trip coming up. He is going overseas to Kuwait with 10 other big time coaches (Izzo, Barnes, Odom, Tubby Smith, J Bilas, to name a few) and ESPN to do a little something for the troops (operation Hardwood). Afterwards he then fly’s and lands on an aircraft carrier in the middle of the gulf. This is something that you 2 would have talked about for years. I know you will look after him, be with him, and enjoy it along with him. I'm sure he will teach those troops some of the same great things you taught us. I would love to sit with you and the Rose boys at Del's to hear about the adventure. I'm sure we can all meet in our dreams to do so. I love you and miss you deeply!
This Sunday, May 14th will be the last camp of the season. All of the summer camps are posted on the site , so keep working hard all summer. It's always about improving your game and yourself. Thanks , Lou
Hi Timothy Patrick, We all were so proud of your little Morgan. She looked so beautiful today. I know you are looking down upon us today on such a proud moment in our lives. Morgan looks so much like you. She was the social butterfly today. We miss and love you. Happy Communion Morgan. Peace and Light, Kate
Dear Tim, What a beautiful day today was. All those little cherub's in the church today making their first holy communion. Morgan, your little princess, looked beautiful. Typical Morgy though, enought with the pictures and posing. Let's have fun. But she did really well humoring her nutty aunts, grandmother and mommy! I could feel you beaming with pride during the service when I looked up on the atlar and saw Morgy's face. Thanks so much for allowing us to share in your and Lisa's childrens lives. They are such great kids and bring all of us great joy and pride in being part of their lives. Still thinking of you every day.... Love, Aunt Ree
Morgy makes her 1st communion tomorrow. Unreal how fast time flys by. Seems like yesterday she was born. I know you'll be there in spirt,and it will show in Morgans smile.
It is 10 am and I am wishing I could ask you why... I have tears in my eyes and I am trying to believe that you are "on the sidelines" and watching over us. I ask you to keeping playing "defense" against our pain and doubt. It just seems that you should be stopping by any day with YOUR camp info and busting on us and talking about a zillion different things. Miss you and your joy for life.
hey tim just wanted to let you know i was thinkin about you today and I continue to feel ur overwhelming presence everyday love ya, brett
Since you already know I wont drag it out. I was just always curious what it would feel like when hell froze over. I know you are around though. What you did tonight freaked me out though, messing with the volume on my Amp., but in the same regaurd thank you for letting me know you are around.
Tim, All your pupils(and we are all your pupils) are so busy with our lives, our tasks, our routines, our families, etc.. But not a day goes by where one of your life lessons is not applicable to some area. Your mass card is on my dresser, I see you everyday. We are ALWAYS thinking of you. God bless you. Peace, Billy, Falcon '86
hi tim i was thinking about you today i miss you terribly even though we didnt talk much please give me the strength to get through this last weeks of school and congrat to st rose of limas class of 06 stay together kids
hi tim i was thinking about you today i miss you terribly even though we didnt talk much please give me the strength to get through this last weeks of school and congrat to st rose of limas class of 06 stay together kids
Hey Tim, I think of you often and recently I have been working up and down the Jersey shore. Well last week we rolled over the Margate Bridge and past the elementary school and there on the 8' chainlink fence was this banner SCREAMING out at me.....AT THE TOP BASKETBALL CAMP ! I loved it...I could not stop telling the guys that I work with about the short Irish guy named Tim and the MAGIC that he would cast over a basketball court and the players who were luck enough to be on the court at that time.....for the rest of the day you were on my mind....I've been thinking of the St. Rose teams that you unleashed on the rest of the league and the great players that you taught, groomed and molded....the only word that I can use to describe the whole thing is W O W ! Your legacy will live on for many many years to come. I know that you know we all miss you and I will leave it at that....Keep watch over your family and all of your players and friends.
Congrats on winning the championship boys. It makes running all of those sprints and spending that extra time after practice shooting jumers worth it. Good luck in high school and work your asses off.... Tim I miss you a lot man, you are always on my mind and I pray for you every day. I hope Taylor, Connor, Morgan, and Lisa are doing well.
Hi Timothy, Had Breakfast with Marie yesterday and we spent alot of time talking about you Lisa and the Children. We expressed all the happy memories we had and how we miss you and Your Great smile and stories. You left me with three of the most wonderful Gifts God could bestow on a Grandmother . Taylor, Connor, And Morgan. Thank you for coming into our lives for 20 years the memories are many. We miss you and love, you. Happy Easter. I know you are part of the Resurrection and Have Risen to a Higher Spirtual Level. Your life on this Earth was just a example of that. We miss and Love you. Your Mother in Law Kate
Hi Timothy, Had Breakfast with Marie yesterday and we spent alot of time talking about you Lisa and the Children. We expressed all the happy memories we had and how we miss you and Your Great smile and stories. You left me with three of the most wonderful Gifts God could bestow on a Grandmother . Taylor, Connor, And Morgan. Thank you for coming into our lives for 20 years the memories are many. We miss you and love, you. Happy Easter. I know you are part of the Resurrection and Have Risen to a Higher Spirtual Level. Your life on this Earth was just a example of that. We miss and Love you. Your Mother in Law Kate
Hi Timothy,
happy easter Tim!
Starting this Sunday , April 9th the camp time at Queen of Heaven changes are: all kids up to 8th grade will be in the 6:00 to 7:30 group and high school remains the same 7:30 to 9:00. Thanks Lou Hays
IT IS SATURDAY NIGHT AND FLORIDA JUST BEAT GEORGE MASON. I FIGURED I WOULD COME UP HERE AND TALK TO YOU UNTIL THE SECOND GAME STARTED. THE KIDS JUST GOT THEIR REPORT CARDS AND THEY ALL DID PRETTY WELL. TC IS LEARNING HOW TO PLAY THE GAME AND NOW JUST HAS TO GET HIS HISTORY UP. I KNOW WHAT YOU THINK ABOUT WORLD HISTORY BUT HE STILL HAS TO SUFFER THROUGH IT JUST LIKE WE DID. MORGY DID WELL AND CONN MAN MAKE THE HONOR ROLL FOR THE SECOND STRIGHT TIME. I TOOK THE BOYS TO SEE V FOR VENDETTA AND IT WAS PRETTY GOOD. I DROPPED THEM OFF AT WATCHDOG AND EXPECT TO HEAR FROM THEY SOON. LISA AND MORGY ARE IN VIRGINIA FOR A ONE DAY THREE GAME AAU TOURNAMENT. SHE HAD A BIG THREE DAY TOURNAMENT IN OCEAN CITY LAST WEEKEND AND SHE WAS THE FIRST SECOND GRADER EVER TO PLAY IN THE TOURNAMENT. AS YOU KNOW SHE IS PLAYING FOR THE PHILADELPHIA BELLES WHICH IS SUPPOSE TO BE THE BEST AAU PROGRAM IN THE AREA. SHE LOVES TO PLAY AND HOPEFULLY WILL NOT GET BURNED OUT BEFORE SHE IS IN SIXTH GRADE. THE EIGHTH GRADE ALL STAR GAME WAS TODAY AND OF COURSE NO ONE CALLED JAMIE OR JOE TO SEE IF THEIR WERE ANY PLAYERS IN THE LEAGUE. BEING THAT THEY NAMED THE GAME FOR YOU, YOU WOULD THINK THAT THEY WOULD GIVE SOMEONE A CALL. IN OTHER WORDS TIMMY CRAWFORD AND JOEY NARDI GOT SCREWED. LAST WEEKEND THEY HAD THE TOP FOUR TEAMS FROM YOUR LEAGUE PLAY THE TOP FOUR TEAMS FROM THE OTHER LEAGUE. STRANGELY ENOUGH THE ONLY TEAM THAT LOST WAS ST. PETES. CHRIST THE KING JUST SEEMED TO HAVE THEIR NUMBER HAVING BEATEN THEM TWICE DURING THE REGULAR SEASON. SAINT ROSE HAMMERED ST. JUDES WHO WON THAT LEAGUE AND DID IT WITHOUT JOEY NARDI WHO WAS BUSY WINNING A BIG FOUL SHOOTING CONTEST. I THINK IT WAS THE SAME CONTEST THAT MY BROTHER WON IN 1952. HANNA PUPPY AND TUFFY SAY HELLO. HANNA STILL WAITS FOR YOU AT THE DOOR. NOW THAT THE TRUCK IS BACK IN THE DRIVE WAY, EVERYTIME I DRIVE BY I EXPECT TO SEE YOU OUTSIDE GIVING ME YOUR SPECIAL WAVE. LISA AND THE KIDS MISS YOU TERRIBLY AS DO I. YOU SAY YOU LIKE UCLA IN THE SECOND GAME. WELL I LIKE BIG BABY AND LSU. WE WILL CONTINUE THIS DICUSSION DOWNSTAIRS.
miss you tim and congradulations on winnin the chip boys
we won! wow timmy crawford joey nardi chris jermyn cody brian ryan shane kevin zach spencer all the 8th graders gratulations you played awesome against st petes merchantville.. may you strength carry you through highschool good luck i love you
we won! wow timmy crawford joey nardi chris jermyn cody brian ryan shane kevin zach spencer all the 8th graders gratulations you played awesome against st petes merchantville.. may you strength carry you through highschool good luck i love you
Today is a day that really hits hard that you are not here. I was at the house, it was crazy Morgan and Andrew were out front playing ball, it just had that fun feeling that everyone is happy, then I remember why we really aren't happy and what is the one thing that is missing. I miss you.
Tim it was nice to see your name in the Courier today. Kevin Callahan wrote a terrific article on Monmouth and Coach Calzonetti that mentioned the St Rose connection and the players you had who are now coaching.You are always with us-in our hearts and on our mind.
This Saturday, March 25, Christ the King will host a basketball benefit. The “Just Play for Tim” event is a showcase featuring games played between the top four finishing boys’ basketball teams from the two Camden County Catholic Grammar School Leagues. All proceeds will go to the Tim Lenahan Education Fund. Game times are 11:30am, 1:00pm, 2:30pm and 4:00pm. See you there.
CONGRAULATIONS to the 2006 St Rose Varsity Basketball Team! You guys were playing just like you were taught from the beginning in 6th grade with Jamie, then as 7th graders with Timmy. I know the game meant so much to you all since you were the last team to have been coached by Timmy. Well, you pulled in off and played like the true CHAMPIONS that you are. Thanks for all your hard work and making the tradition of being a winner go on.
I JUST READ MY POSTING OF ONE YEAR AGO AFTER ST. ROSE HAD BEATEN ST. PETES FOR THE CHAMPIONSHIP. WELL THE TEAM DID IT AGAIN. THEY BEAT ST. PETES (THE DREAM TEAM) FOR THE CHAMPIONSHIP ON FRIDAY NIGHT AND CAME BACK THIS AFTERNOON AND BEAT JOAN OF ARCH FOR THE OVERALL CHAMPIONSHIP THUS WINNING THE TIM LENAHAN MEMORIAL TROPHY. FRIDAY NIGHTS GAME WAS THE WHAT JAMIE HAD BEEN SHOTING FOR ALL SEASON. HE HAD A GREAT GAME PLAN AND THE KIDS DID A GREAT JOB. HE FINALLY FOUND SPENCE AND HE MADE A BIG DIFFERENCE. HE PLAYED GREAT BOTH REBOUNDING AND HITTING KEY SHOTS. HE PLAYED IN FRONT OF BRIAN WHO CAME IN WITH 4 MINUTES TO GO AND HIT A BIG SHOT. CODY AND JOHN BOTH PLAYED WELL AND CHRIS FORGOT ABOUT THE LAST TIME THEY PLAYED AND JUST PLAYED OUTSTANDINGLY. TIMMY DID WHAT I EXPECTED HIM TO DO BEING THE BEST PLAYER IN THE LEAGUE AND JOE HIT BIG SHOT AFTER BIG SHOT. TODAY'S GAME MAY HAVE BEEN ONE OF THE BEST TEAM PERFORMANCES I HAVE EVER SEEN BY A ST. ROSE TEAM. THIS GAME WAS OBVIOUSLY ANTICLIMATIC FOR THE KIDS BUT THEY CAME OUT AND JUST DID EVERYTHING RIGHT. THEY ARE THE MOST UNSELFISH ST. ROSE TEAM I HAVE EVER SEEN. THEY ALMOST ALWAYS MAKE THE EXTRA PASS AND THEY DON'T CARE WHO SCORES. I CREDIT THIS TO A FEW THINGS. FIRST YOU INSTILLED THE CONCEPT OF TEAM IN THE ST. ROSE PROGRAM. SECOND, JAMIE CONTINUES TO CARRY OUT WHAT YOU STARTED AND ADDS HIS OWN UNIQUE QUALITIES TO THE PROGRAM. HE DID AN OUTSTANDING JOB THIS YEAR BUT WE BOTH KNEW HE WOULD. THIRD, THE ADDITION OF JOEY NARDI TO THE ST. ROSE PROGRAM. JOEY WAS THE KEY TO TRANSFORMING THIS TEAM FROM A GOOD TEAM TO A GREAT TEAM. HIS SHOOTING ABILILITY MADE IT IMPOSSIBLE TO KEY THE DEFENSE ON TIMMY. HIS BALLHANDLING AND DEFENSIVE SKILLS ENABLE THE REST OF THE PLAYERS TO STAY WITHIN THEIR ROLES AND NOT HAVE TO DO MORE THAN THEY WERE COMFORTABLE DOING. AND LASTLY HE IS JUST A QUALITY KID. BY THE WAY, I JUST WENT BY ST. ROSE AND SEVEN OF NEXT YEARS ST. ROSE TEAM WHERE PLAYING. IF ANYONE THINKS THAT ST. ROSE IS GOING TO ROLL OVER, THEY ARE SADDLY MISTAKEN. I HAVE OTHER THINGS TO TELL YOU BUT THEY WILL HAVE TO WAIT TILL NEXT TIME.
No doubt that Tim would be proud of ALL of the players. As Tim carried many on his broad shoulders over the years, he allowed his starters to do the same for the team so that they could all walk tall and proclaim that they were indeed CHAMPIONS. This 2005-2006 season is not over yet...there is still one more game to play and until that is done these young men need to keep their focus on the task at hand. Fininsh the job guys and walk together as Champions for the rest of your lives! GO FALCONS GO !
i believe Tim would be proud of ALL of the boys; not just the one who got into the game!
Great job Falcons on beating St. Pete's! You guys played awesome. Way to go.. Tim, Chris, Cody, Joe, John, Brian & Spencer! Timmy would be proud!!!
Okay Tim, Another one of your kids to the NCAA "Dance" card would be Kevin Owens at Monmouth they went at least once or twice while he played there so what are we up to --Brian, Chuck, 2 owens for DI, 2 for DIII. I was remembering when you would load up a carful of us to take us up to Lakewood to see a game on the spur of the moment. Would beg Mom to go and forget about homework! Miss you.
Great job tonight St Rose! Tim, Jamie's done a great job -- I know you are proud of him and the team!
Great Quote, Tom Folch...brought a big smile to my face thinking of Timmy. I can remember the Shamrocks on the Celtics Jacket from first time I met Tim in 6th Grade. "Jackson Brown!" he said, as his handshake almost broke my pinkey. Miss you Tim, Happy St. Patrick's Day, Good Luck to St. Rosers in this, the best time of year to be a basketball fan!!! When Brian Connelly was in 2nd grade, he was taller than my classmate Mark Kemner...Brian's 8th grade prayer partner, I would have killed to have someone his size on our team, GOOD LUCK BRIAN!
Dr John Gianinni ( now at La Salle) took Rowan to the final of Divison 111 in both "93 and "94. St Rose grad Billy Lange ( now head coach at Navy) was on the '93 team that lost in the final along with Paul Weidenman who is now at Haddonfield. Yeah I know Paul is not a St Rose grad but he spent time at the St Rose courts. Oh to be able to talk hoops with Tim and pals at Dels. Miss you. PS Rowan did win the title in'94
I was unaware Dave Hibbs won a DIII championship. That explains why I tried to take a shot in the alumni game last year and the ball is still missing. Watching Chuck nail 3s and bang big bodies in the tourney was an awesome moment!!! Go Connelly! upsets happen in the tourney!! The "SKYBOX" is hovering over the Wachovia Center. This is the best time of year! Happy St. Patrick's Day Timmy, I can hear him now, "Don't get in trouble tonight you friggin' animals!!"
Chuck Guittar '88 made it to the Sweet 16 with Drexel and lost to the the eventual Syracuse National Champions. David Hibbs '89 won a Div III National Championship with Gloucester County College.
Well Tim another one of your "boys" will play in the NCAA tourney on Friday. Brian Connelly and the Albany team will be right here in Philly.I bet you are so proud. Maybe you can gather up some other coaches and enjoy the games from your skybox!You are so much on our minds this time of year since The Falcons and the selected colleges are still playing. I know that Geoff Owens went to at least 2 NCAA tournaments with Penn as Ivy League Champs. Are there any other Rose boys that participated in Divison 1 post season play? How about DII and DIII?
beat st stevens ST ROSE VS ST PETES MERCHANTVILLE LETS GO BOYS WE CAN DO IT!!!!!!! love you mr lenahan
I know when you get older time seems to move quickly. But I remember last January, late one Sunday night I drove by Queen of Heaven like I always do. The gym lights were still on and I walked in. There was a young girl taking shot after shot her dad was rebounding the ball and sitting on the floor against the wall was Tim. He looked up and said Lou, what do you think is wrong with her shot. And me being just as whacky as him, started to get involved. What we both love to do is see kids improve and build that confidence that carries through for the rest of there lives. Even at 9:30 at night for Tim. So with that we are going to start up Sunday camps at Queen of Heaven on Sunday March 26th. Times and costs remain the same so look on this sight for your age bracket. I know a lot of kids play spring and summer and thats great , but if you want to improve your skills, sometimes when you play year round you continue bad habits. So if you're just beginning or an experienced player, with Bill Dorsey, Tom Troncone and myself you can really improve your game. Thanks and we will see you soon.
Hey Tim, guess what the other day (Saturday) I turned on ESPN 2 and I couldn't believe it, I saw Brian Connelly winning his conference championship for Albany. I couldn't believe it, and they are going to the big dance. I don't remember when they play, but I know they play UCONN. I was so excited. I called Taylor and he was excited too. Well just wanted to let you know, your legend is still living on. Love and miss ya Gert.
Our first playoff game is on Wednesday at 7:30 at PVI if anyone was wondering.
Mr. Lenahan I can't help but think of you more this week, with the Championship game coming up. I hope we make you proud. We REALLY miss you. Please help me play the way you taught me. Please be there for me and the team. I want to win for me, but I really want to win for YOU! Hope Heaven is everything we think it is.
tim: i thought about you all night. bonnie coached a great game and st rose beat cks for the league championship. as i watched your girls make all their foul shots i could not help but smile and know you were in the house. afterwards, morgan sat on kelsey's lap and hugged her, wiped away her tears. they told me later that they talked about how you would be proud of everyone and you would probably be running around the gym like a maniac having a great time. thanks for being there and for morgan's hugs. m
Hey Tim, it has been awhile, sorry things have been crazy. Some things to tell you....let's see, I went to Ryan Cass's playoff game Friday night. I had promised I would come see him, and of course of all nights I come, he was sick. But you would be proud of him, he sucked it up and played, and you could tell he was hurting, but he gave his all. Any way, they really played like shit, but Ryan had the 3 that tied the game and he had the assist on the basket to win the game, so it was really awesome to watch. Andrew played in a basketball league this year and even though he is in first grade they moved him up with the 3rd and 4th graders. He hung with them pretty well, he needs to work on his left though, and I kindly told him I could break his right hand for him so he didn't have a choice but to use his left. (I am kidding on that people) Sunday night they had a party for Kathy Jermyn, and it was a lot of fun, but I still felt that void of you not being there, it was a time you would have enjoyed. I read Dors message and he is right this time of season really sucks without you here. I remember 2 years ago, when we were watching St. Joe's lose to Oaklahoma, remember that. Even though they lost it was such a great night hanging out like we used to, me, you, Dors, the kids, and Lisa, they were such great times that I will always remember. I still think of you every day. The kids are really lost without you. Each of them needs you at this time for their own reason. Please watch over them Tim. These past few months have been hard on them, and it really doesn't seem to be getting any easier on any of them. Taylor is having such a hard time with school and really just with life, Connor has been sick lately and I can't help think it is b/c of him missing you and worrying about Lisa, and Morgan, Tim she missed you so, her eyes just show it. She is playing a lot of ball and I think each time she steps on that court, it is just a reminder that you are not there. She is so good though. She has that fire for ball that you did. Well besides the fact that I still miss you more and more each day, and I am really dreading my wedding day, b/c that is just another day you won't get to be there with me. It is bad enough my own father won't be there, it is just twice as bad without you as well. Please keep an eye on the kids, they really do need your help. Help Lisa with them, she is tired. I miss you Tim. Love Gert
MARCH MADNESS IS HERE AGAIN. JUST ANOTHER THING THAT REMINDS ME THAT YOU AREN'T HERE IN BODY. THE HIGH SCHOOL SEASON IS WINDING DOWN AND THE ONLY TEAMS THAT I HAVE ANY INTEREST IN ARE HADDONFIELD AND LENAPE. THESE ARE THE TWO BEST TEAMS IN SOUTH JERSEY AND BOTH ARE PLAYING REALLY WELL GOING INTO THE TOURNAMENT. LENAPE WENT UP TO SHAWNEE AND BEAT THEM BY 30. HOW ABOUT HADDONFIELD KICKING ST. ANTHONY'S BUTTS. THEY TURNED ST. ANTHONY OVER ABOUT 25 TIMES AND HURLEY HAD NO ANSWER FOR BRIAN. BOTH BILL AND PAUL HAVE DONE OUTSTANDING JOBS THIS YEAR AND I WOULD HATE TO TRY TO PICK A COACH OF THE YEAR BETWEEN THEM. JAMIE IS GETTING THE TEAM READY FOR THE PLAYOFFS. JOE MADE SURE THAT THEY WOULD MEET IN THE SEMIS INSTEAD OF THE FINALS. ST. PETES CAME OVER TO ROSE AND BEAT THEM BY TWO IN A GREAT GAME. THE SAINT PETES KIDS ARE GOOD KIDS AND JOHN IS JUST A CLASS ACT. HE WORE ONE OF YOUR T SHIRTS WHILE HE COACHED. WHEN HE LEAVES IT WILL LEAVE A LARGE VOID IN THEIR PROGRAM. ON THE HOME FRONT, MORGY MADE THE PHILADELPHIA BELLS 10 AND UNDER TEAM. SO THE AAU JOURNEY BEGINS, GOD HELP US ALL. I TOOK HER TO SEE LAUREN GREGG PLAY THE OTHER NIGHT AND AFTER THE GAME SHE CAME OVER AND TALKED WITH US. SHE IS SUCH A GREAT PERSON AND MORGY LOOKS UP TO HER. AS FAR AS A PLAYER, I THINK SHE HAS ACC TALENT. I HOPE SHE GETS THE OPPORTUNITY TO PLAY AT THAT LEVEL. SHE ALWAYS CREDITS YOU FOR HELPING HER BECOME ON OF THE BEST PLAYER IN SOUTH JERSEY. I TOOK MORGY TO SEE THE UNDEFEATED CAMDEN CATHOLIC GIRLS PLAY SO THAT SHE COULD SEE CHRIS PLAY. TALK ABOUT A GREAT SHOOTER AND A GOOD PERSON. THESE ARE THE TYPES OF ROLE MODELS THAT I KNOW YOU WANT MORGY TO HAVE. CONNOR WAS REALLY SICK FOR THREE OR FOUR DAYS BUT HE SEEMS BETTER NOW. HE IS STILL GETTING GOOD GRADES AFTER MAKING THE HONOR ROLL FIRST MARKING PERIOD. HE IS PLAYING OK FOR THE 7TH GRADE TEAM. DO ME A FAVOR AND SEE WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT GETTING HIM A GROWTH SPURT. TC IS SLOWING ADJUSTING TO THE DEMANDS OF HIGH SCHOOL. HE IS SO MUCH LIKE YOU IT SCARRY. HE WALKS ME TO MY CAR EVERY NIGHT AND WE TALK FOR 15 OR 20 MIN. BEFORE I LEAVE. I FELL THE OTHER DAY AND MESSED UP MY SHOULDER. HOPEFULLY IT WILL HEAL IN A COUPLE OF MONTHS. LISA IS STILL MAD AT YOU FOR NOT BEING HERE TO HELP HER GET THE BOYS THROUGH THE TEENAGE YEARS. I MISS THAT TOO BECAUSE I WAS SO LOOKING FORWARD TO THE BATTLE OF THE TITANS ON THE FRONT LAWN WHEN YOU AND TC WOULD FINALLY GO AT IT. TC WOULD HAVE NO SHOT BECAUSE HE DIDN'T INHERIT YOUR MEAN STREAK. THAT MIGHT BE A GOOD THING. TUFFY AND HANNA PUPPY SAY HELLO. HANNA STILL MISSES YOU BUT I TRY TO MAKE UP FOR IT. TUFFY IS BARKING DOWNSTAIR SO I WILL LEAVE YOU NOW. KEEP WATCHING OVER LISA AND THE KIDS. MISS YOU BROTHER!
MARCH MADNESS IS HERE AGAIN. JUST ANOTHER THING THAT REMINDS ME THAT YOU AREN'T HERE IN BODY. THE HIGH SCHOOL SEASON IS WINDING DOWN AND THE ONLY TEAMS THAT I HAVE ANY INTEREST IN ARE HADDONFIELD AND LENAPE. THESE ARE THE TWO BEST TEAMS IN SOUTH JERSEY AND BOTH ARE PLAYING REALLY WELL GOING INTO THE TOURNAMENT. LENAPE WENT UP TO SHAWNEE AND BEAT THEM BY 30. HOW ABOUT HADDONFIELD KICKING ST. ANTHONY'S BUTTS. THEY TURNED ST. ANTHONY OVER ABOUT 25 TIMES AND HURLEY HAD NO ANSWER FOR BRIAN. BOTH BILL AND PAUL HAVE DONE OUTSTANDING JOBS THIS YEAR AND I WOULD HATE TO TRY TO PICK A COACH OF THE YEAR BETWEEN THEM. JAMIE IS GETTING THE TEAM READY FOR THE PLAYOFFS. JOE MADE SURE THAT THEY WOULD MEET IN THE SEMIS INSTEAD OF THE FINALS. ST. PETES CAME OVER TO ROSE AND BEAT THEM BY TWO IN A GREAT GAME. THE SAINT PETES KIDS ARE GOOD KIDS AND JOHN IS JUST A CLASS ACT. HE WORE ONE OF YOUR T SHIRTS WHILE HE COACHED. WHEN HE LEAVES IT WILL LEAVE A LARGE VOID IN THEIR PROGRAM. ON THE HOME FRONT, MORGY MADE THE PHILADELPHIA BELLS 10 AND UNDER TEAM. SO THE AAU JOURNEY BEGINS, GOD HELP US ALL. I TOOK HER TO SEE LAUREN GREGG PLAY THE OTHER NIGHT AND AFTER THE GAME SHE CAME OVER AND TALKED WITH US. SHE IS SUCH A GREAT PERSON AND MORGY LOOKS UP TO HER. AS FAR AS A PLAYER, I THINK SHE HAS ACC TALENT. I HOPE SHE GETS THE OPPORTUNITY TO PLAY AT THAT LEVEL. SHE ALWAYS CREDITS YOU FOR HELPING HER BECOME ON OF THE BEST PLAYER IN SOUTH JERSEY. I TOOK MORGY TO SEE THE UNDEFEATED CAMDEN CATHOLIC GIRLS PLAY SO THAT SHE COULD SEE CHRIS PLAY. TALK ABOUT A GREAT SHOOTER AND A GOOD PERSON. THESE ARE THE TYPES OF ROLE MODELS THAT I KNOW YOU WANT MORGY TO HAVE. CONNOR WAS REALLY SICK FOR THREE OR FOUR DAYS BUT HE SEEMS BETTER NOW. HE IS STILL GETTING GOOD GRADES AFTER MAKING THE HONOR ROLL FIRST MARKING PERIOD. HE IS PLAYING OK FOR THE 7TH GRADE TEAM. DO ME A FAVOR AND SEE WHAT YOU CAN DO ABOUT GETTING HIM A GROWTH SPURT. TC IS SLOWING ADJUSTING TO THE DEMANDS OF HIGH SCHOOL. HE IS SO MUCH LIKE YOU IT SCARRY. HE WALKS ME TO MY CAR EVERY NIGHT AND WE TALK FOR 15 OR 20 MIN. BEFORE I LEAVE. I FELL THE OTHER DAY AND MESSED UP MY SHOULDER. HOPEFULLY IT WILL HEAL IN A COUPLE OF MONTHS. LISA IS STILL MAD AT YOU FOR NOT BEING HERE TO HELP HER GET THE BOYS THROUGH THE TEENAGE YEARS. I MISS THAT TOO BECAUSE I WAS SO LOOKING FORWARD TO THE BATTLE OF THE TITANS ON THE FRONT LAWN WHEN YOU AND TC WOULD FINALLY GO AT IT. TC WOULD HAVE NO SHOT BECAUSE HE DIDN'T INHERIT YOUR MEAN STREAK. THAT MIGHT BE A GOOD THING. TUFFY AND HANNA PUPPY SAY HELLO. HANNA STILL MISSES YOU BUT I TRY TO MAKE UP FOR IT. TUFFY IS BARKING DOWNSTAIR SO I WILL LEAVE YOU NOW. KEEP WATCHING OVER LISA AND THE KIDS. MISS YOU BROTHER!
Timmy, tonight I was in a gym filled to capacity for a game between "sister" schools. I know that this was the type of game you always would come out for-knowing kids and coaches on both teams. I would never pray for a victory; there are way more important things to ask you and the Lord to help with- but I did pray to you at the begining that -all-the kids would play hard and no one would get hurt.So thanks and I still have this lonely spot in my heart. I have recently been comforted by Lou 's message about rejoicing in the gift of Tim and embracing life like you did. We hope to carry on your legacy of helping youngsters to be confident.
Since today is Doughnut or Fasnacht Day and Timmy is undoubtedly enjoying a few cream-filled in that great bakery in the sky right about now, I wanted to relay a story he once told a captivated audience of 6th graders back in the day. Timmy was in grade school walking home one day when he spotted a friend coming out of the sweet shop that used to reside on the corner of Kings Highway and Amherst Road next to Del’s. The friend had a white box tied with string and Timmy just had to investigate. That same friend had just ingested two of the dozen jelly doughnuts in the box and quickened his pace to avoid sharing any of the delectable pastries with his chubby chum, knowing full-well that between the both of them they could easily eat the entire contents of the box by the end of Paris Avenue. Of course, the owner of the box was a bit faster than Timmy and a chase ensued. Powdered sugar was flying as Timmy tried in vain to catch his friend, who by now was halfway finished the box and taunting Timmy by licking his fingers and rubbing his nearly full tummy. Timmy swore up and down (he must have learned that colorful language at a young age) and promised to pound his skinny pal into submission IF he could catch him. As the box load lightened even more, the friend was now about three houses down from a winded Tim Lenahan. The friend yelled that there were two doughnuts left and he would finally share one with Timmy. As Timmy approached, the sound of a dog barking could be heard in the side yard of the nearest house. Tim could smell the fresh from the oven delights and dreamed of biting into the treat. As Tim stretch out his hand to receive one of the last two doughnuts, his friend inexplicably threw the box and its contents into the fenced-in side yard where the barking dog was quickly pacified by the taste and smell of raspberry filling. Tim stood amazed that his friend would do such a thing as his buddy simply stated, “That mutt needed it more than you!” What prompted Timmy’s buddy to do what he did or what Timmy might have done to cause such a reaction we will never know (maybe Timmy squished his friend’s liverwurst sandwich with his fingers at the lunch table earlier that day) but I hope we all get a little smile from this story. We miss you and your great stories Tim!
Hi Tim, Morgan and I were in the car the other day and we were talking about all the songs you loved to sing. We starting singing,"Under the Boardwalk". Well, went went to dinner at WAWA, Morg got her regular sandwich and we jumped back in the car and guess what song was on? "Under the Boardwalk". I know that you are watching over the kids and Lisa and the rest of us that love you down here. Thanks........ Love Sandi
Well back in the day St John's was the arch nemesis... In '87 it was Grace or those nasty Cecilia's boys.... Without question St. Pete's Merch is now the rival of Rose. My nephew plays for their JV. They are confident and I hear they have size. (The varsity) C'mon falcons, kick some ass tonight boys! This is a big one. Timmy wants this one bad!!! We all want this one. Best of luck- play like friggin' animals!!!!
Hello Len! I was just thinking of you and it brought up somethin' funny. I was on a cruise with family last summer. Trying to help a young brother (my nephew) get his game on with two cuties (yeah, imagine that, well at least I finally remembered something from all of your advice). As it turned out they knew Twerty and were going to her wedding. All we talked about was you. They weren't Rose, but they understood. Here's one for the brothers who can't be with us tonight. Bless you Blenny.
What;s the deal with an alumni open gym and beef and beverage?
ARE LAST HOME GAME IS THIS FRIDAY AGAINST ST.PETES MERCHANTVILLE IF U HAVE YET TO GET TO ONE OF OUR GAMES THIS YEAR MAKE SURE U GET TO THIS ONE IF U DONT U WILL BE MISSING OUT ON A REALLY GOOD GAME PLEASE COME THIS SEASON AS GONE SO FAST AND DONT WORRY WE ARE BRING HOME THE CHAMPIONSHIP THIS YEAR HELL YEAH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This whole argument is completely ludacris. I mean come on, if there is a policy instated that will improve the teams reputation and image, why change it? I am well aware that changing into a shirt and tie takes extra time (because i do it every day before school), but dont you think its pointless to argue this when your children do it every morning, and still get to school on time? I don't believe you are doing this to help others. I believe it is a solely selfish act that this "commitee" is putting forth to show that they have authority, and that they can control what they want. I think its a joke.
The people have now spoken. We have shown the almight "comittee" that we will not let them prevail. This was a waste of time, energy, and my dictionary skills. So please, can we end this here and let things remain the way they were? P.S.-"No, don't come to the game with your uniform on!! SCRUB teams do that!" -Tim Lenahan
I have not been on this sight in a few weeks and was amazed to see what is going on. What a waste of time and energy. I was never a Falcon, but because of my relationship with my brother I was involved. He taught many things to many people, but what stands out is the respect, self image, team playing spirit he instilled with each contact. Everything can be summed up with one phrase. " WINNERS DO WHAT LOSERS WON'T" carrying on the tradition of tie and jacket shows anyone who should experience the Falcons of their committment, togetherness, pride, and strength of being a team. As an outsider, this is my opinion only. My vision sees as others see the Falcons. I remember when the building of this team and family began. Who remembers the first Christmas gathering? and the many that followed. I looked forward to every Friday night game and every gathering. What a unique, specialized way of life development. Don't let this fued change things.
The best part about all of the dress up stuff is that there was nothing more that Timmy loved than a great arguement! Basketball, music, God -- you name it! Committee --If you want our feedback on situations like this try to not aleinate us by destroying traditions when the coach is not even at the meeting. Alumni -- lets make our voice heard by actually supporting the team. If you live in the area how hard is it to stop by for a little while on a Friday night? There were lots of people last year and very few this one. Team- way to step up to the plate and show your respect by doing what is right and being dressed classy, even if they try to bring you down. GO Falcons! ps -- looking forward to the next alumni games!
is it impossible for all of you to respect Taylors request that the dress up issue NOT be discussed here? Are you ignorant or just stubborn STOP ALREADY!!!!
Hey Tim! I was just listening to some old James Ingram and thought of you. Then I got in the car and heard "Tempted". You know I never needed a reason to make you hear how it really sounded. I think Jamie can back me up on your stubborness with music. Love you brother.
Lets's make this decision real easy. Leave it up to Jamie. It's not the "AC's " decision, nor former players. It's Jamie's/present team member. I dont want to hear about this "mommy thinks the bathrooms too dirty, or anything like that. So you want to end this argument and settle it right now..heres your answer ..Lets have the parents back off for once and leave the important things up to your coach.....He says jump ..they say how high
I like wearing a shirt and tie and getting there early to the games and I know my parents don't mind getting me there either. I dont think anyone really minds. But whatever if you want to change what Tim did for most of his life, fine by me but I dont think you have any right to change it.
I like wearing a shirt and tie. And i dont mind showing up early to get changed or any of that stuff and my parents dont mind getting me there. Frankly I dont think any parents or kid has a problem, but whatever if everyone wants to change what Tim worked most of his life for.
Lets try to make decisions the right way. I'm talking about a new and improved "committee" filled with coaches, player captions, Tim's family, parents, alumni that played for Tim (both recent and old) and school faculty members. This would be the only way for everyone to voice there opinion the right way instead of having this feud on a memorial webpage. I am tired of leaving the decisions up to parents on the "athletic committee" who though they may have known Tim as a friend, never played for him nor truly understands St. Rose Basketball. Some people may be disgusted with what has been going on on this website but for some reason I think Tim is happy. Not because of this name-calling and nonsense but because of people fighting for what they believe in and how they want to keep his legacy alive. People that have played for Tim and the parents of those kids have two totally different persectives. One knew him as a friend and great man. The other knew him as the same and more. His players tried to model his every action, they heeded his every word, they gave everything they had both mentally and physically to make him proud. The players want to keep his tradition alive and the parents ("committee") want to change it to make things a little easier, lets compromise in a mature fashion. But first lets turn the focus off of this mess and focus on another championship!
I think that Kevin or whoever regulates this website should delete all messages concerning the past contoversy so the entire issue can be forgotten and not blacken the purpose of this website. it is here for us to share memories of our great coach and freind, tim, and all other nonsense should stop
Taylor, A true quality of a man is someone who can admit their mistakes. Your apologies are very "stand-up". Now lets all follow his example and forget this tom-foolery!
Reading over that last post now, I was slightly out of line with some of it, but it is the blatant disrespect that is being shown by even brining this argument on here made me infuriated. I apologize to anyone I may have offended.
pom·pous (adj.) Characterized by excessive self-esteem or exaggerated dignity; pretentious: pompous officials who enjoy giving orders. Now who does that sound like? *cough* The "comittee" *cough*. Now I have realized my one mistake, and that was not acknowledging the fact that not all the comittee members are the ones that are two faced, so I do appologize to the people that were infact freind's with my dad and voted against this digraceful notion. Now, I was not going to respond with anything further, because I felt I made my stand on this issue very clear, but calling me pompous is very stereotypical of someone who makes entries without putting their name. I put my name nice and big this time so you can read and possibly use it as an example. If you are going to call me pompous find your spine and put your name. Now shoudl I take back that spine statement, for I am forever humbled, taken aback, and in awe of the "god-like" comittee members. I "cower" in fear, because I am a feeble minded young un-intelligent youth. Am I so illiterate that you thought I would be confused by the word pompous? I realize my actions could be taken as that limited word "disrespectful", for I am speaking with adults. I was infact told by several people I am doing the right thing by saying what needs to be said. Now, due to the fact that I myself am an iconiclast, it is difficult to agree with everyone's views. (The website is www.dictionary.com if you would like to look up iconiclast). Now I would like to once again appologize because this DOES NOT go out to all the comitte members. I respect many of the people on that comitte, but the ones that I don't shoudl know this is directed at them. Due to techniqualitys, I may not be speaking with an adult, and if I am how woudl I know, you have no name. That whoel post was me goign off ona tangent, and once more I would like to appologize to the members of the comittee who do nto deserve this. However, if your goign to mock me (let alone on a web site dedicated to my father who passed away) I will retaliate. Thank you for wasting the 5 min. of your life to read that, but those are my feelings. P.S.-I'm sorry this is taking place to honor you, dad.
Hey, everyone listen this is silly, has everyone been reading these messages? cmon now everyone................... ...................................... When Irish eyes are smiling, Sure, 'tis like the morn in Spring. In the lilt of Irish laughter You can hear the angels sing. When Irish hearts are happy, All the world seems bright and gay. And when Irish eyes are smiling, Sure, they steal your heart away. now lets all go back to that moment in time when all of us were singing that song and try and think if anyone in that church was thinking about if the boys were gonna get dressed up before the game....thats all that i want everyone to think about. thank you Dan Famular
If you think that Taylor would cower if approached by the big bad "committee" I really don't think you know Taylor very well. He above all others has the right to express his opinion and atleast he has the guts to sign his name and not give some half-baked excuss for not tell everyone who is responsible for starting this nonsense.
I do not think this is how Tim would have wanted anyone to act. Lets everyone clean up their act and behave like proud members of the St. Rose family!
I think this information about the athletic committe and the shirt and tie drama on this web site needs to stop now. It is very distressing to open this web site up and see this crap. That is not what this site is for.
To whoever said the comment about us just coming in and getting changed right away, this season I have been complimented by the way we look by parents from a different team sitting in the stands. And even if you do decide to tell us that we don't have to wear a shirt and tie, all of us will still wear a shirt and tie anyway. The places we get changed in aren't dirty at all and nobody usually goes in the bathroom as soon as we go in.
Taylor, that is a pretty bold statement to make. I could put money on it that you would "cower" if approached by these committee members who you referred to as "cowards". I would like to let you know that some of the committee members were some of your fathers good freinds who he would spend time with on friday nights at RMacs after the games. He even went to parties at their houses. Yet, you will sit there and call the committee cowards even though you fail to realize that it was a suggestion of one member and some agreed, yet not all. I guess that makes them cowards. Maybe you should look up the definition of pompous, because thats what you seem to be.
This "athletic committee member" sounds like one of the complaining parents Tim always tried to keep out of the program. Changing in the bathrooms are unsafe?? Maybe you should go to a real St. Rose practice, maybe they are too unsafe. They get pretty rough, lets make sure the kids don't play so hard, someone could get hurt!! Oh my goodness, the players have to get changed on dirty floors!! Maybe we should have their mommies go in first and clean up for them so they don't get any "boo-boo's". They make them show up real early and keep them real late, past their bedtime!! Maybe this is how people learn to manage time? All of these things are how Tim taught kids to grow into men. All of these things teach responsiblilty and maturity. Parents that are having a hard time managing their time with the family is understandable. But the parents don't have to go to every game. Drop them off at St Rose and then pick them up in a few hours, have them walk to the school themselves, carpool, etc. Tim was against what this "member" is fighting for... babying the kids. Tim knew how to make kids into men so why would we do the opposite of what he did? Mr. "member", next time please take off your skirt before posting and leave everything up to the real Falcons here, its obvious your not one of us. Lets Go boys, get Tim another championship!
cow·ard (n.) One who shows ignoble fear in the face of danger. As stated by dictionary.com. Now I'm looking for one word to describe our "comittee" members. Any guesses? If they are confident enough to voice an opinion a name should go with it. If you want to change the shirt and tie for the games then why not have a ball and let the kids come to school in nothing but pink leatards? Its superfulis. Just leave and lets stop this argument.
I begin each work day by glancing up at Timmy's smile on the Mass card from his funeral which hangs on my bulletin board and then I log on to this site to remind me of what is important as I start each new day. I smile when I read the unbelievable entries of how my friend impacted so many young lives and I cry when I feel the pain in their memories. For the past year we have been reading how Timmy taught lessons that lasted a lifetime and made those who he coached better people. I commend these kids for their passion in their sport. They could be passionate about other things that could lead to trouble. What a gift St. Rose has in their Falcons, present and past. I look at my blue braclet and wonder what Tim would be thinking? These children are the future, whatever decision is made, let it be the best lesson for them not only for the game but for their life. God Bless you Timmy.
The last comment is significant in that the Diocese has been pressing for years to have all schools join the CYO. It is through the efforts of our athletic committee alone that this hasn't been done. Our coaches would lose the ability to make ANY of their own rules if this occurs. More importantly, what I havent heard from any one (other than whining ) is a practical solution to the problem. If hygiene is a concern, whats wrong with the boys wearing their uniforms under the dress pants, shirts and ties, then no need to use the bathroom to change, they could change right in the gym. or, Why not have the coach stand outside the bathroom door while the boys change and prevent the public from using the bathroom for 10 minutes while the boys change if safety is the issue. Iam a huge fan of having the coaches look as nice as the boys (dressed in shirt and tie)then they could ALL walk in looking classy and uniform. Finally, a suggestion has been made to get the team those warmup pants that would match the uniform and they would all arrive dressed alike--they look pretty classy too! In order to extend the "tradition" our girls team and coach shouldn't be left out either (they aren't second class citizens!) would it be out of line to have them dress up (no short skirts, something modest and classy) All of these suggestions make perfect sense to me.
Maybe everyone on this website who has commented should put all their energies into making sure St. Rose Basketball doesn't go CYO and/or making sure St. Rose School does not merge with another or become regionalized. Stop worrying about things that are not such a big deal!
As I coach my opinions may be biased but I cannot help to read the comment from the athletic committee member and hear about the poor parents. As a coach who is dedicating their time to teach the game, teach sportsmanship, teach responsibility, teach the meaning of being on a team and teaching life lessons, I sometimes wish parents would take a step back and look at their children. Are the kids the ones complaining about the dress code or having to be early to a game, I sincerely doubt it. When I am at practice and the boys have a game they show up 45 minutes before the coach asks them to be there. They cannot wait to get on the court or be with their team. I am sure that enough parents also do not mind getting to the games early that you could car pool on any day. I do not have any results from the boys grades but I know the female student athletes are almost all on the honor roll, they hold all four positions of student counsel. They are successful because they know how to manage their time. We as parents are a great community but sometimes we need to respect the wishes of the teachers, coaches, principal and pastor. This should be Jamie’s decision; if he wants his team to be in shirt and tie then they should be in shirt and tie. If he says jump they should ask how high not why.
Taylor there is a reason that my name doesnt appear on the web site. I want to encourage people to write their opinions and concerns without having to hold back. I was, in fact, around when Fr. Jack coached at St. Rose and I have known your Dad since he was 10 years old. We truly have alot of history together. I would never do anything that would tarnish your fathers memory in any way. He and I had many long talks about alot of things, not only basketball. I invite you to send in your concerns to the athletic committee. Also, keep in mind that many of the parents complaints about the clothes have more to do with the other things the coaches are doing that make what should be a 2 hour event (game and travel time) into a four plus hour event (before game practise, arriving at game 45 minutes before start time, having to meet at st rose parking lot before game instead of going straight there, having a team meeting after the game for 15 more minutes, etc, etc ) All of these things add up and are frustating to the parents when they are trying to fit dinner, study time and the responsibility of other children into the evening. Clothing is just another thing that they view as adding on additional time and inconvenience. I certainly respect your opinion and welcome everyones ideas on the subject.
Wow, I was just viewing the web site after awhile away. All the upheaval over the St. Rose Athletic Committee decision to fore go the long standing tradition of proper self-presentation set by Coach Lenahan. I am not a former player, parent or basketball follower. I became family to Tim throught his marriage to my neice, Lisa. I can only comment of my own experience with students under similar circumstances and I have to agree with the voice of the majority. People in general will certainly make a better presentation of themselves when made to be accountable. I know from personal experience of being involved in activities with my son's during high school. There was a teacher/mentor who taught and demanded such things as accountablity and respect from his students involved in a school activity. These standards weren't adhered to only because they were set by the mentor, but because the students knew and felt within each other those things that were set as goals for them to achieve. I find it perplexing that a group of parents and/or educators would cut out something to create a positive message. And I agree, as previously stated, that this decision should be left to the coach regarding his team. Your not talking that dress attire is unexpected by these students. They attend Catholic school, where uniforms are required. I would expect this kind of upheaval if public school was involved, not with a catholic school. I have no doubt that the young men of St. Rose Basketball will continue to honor the memory of Coach Tim Lenahan. They will continue to show respect for themselves and their coach, Jamie, as members of the family team that they are apart of. Hold your heads high fellows and always remember the good of your mentor and coach, Tim Lenahan. God Bless, Marie Rafter
saw a nice win last nite by st rose over cks. while it was hard to see our guys lose - it was fun to see tim's team win. congratulations st rose. you looked great.
Well, well, well. If this isn't the definition of letting "true colrs show" then I don't know what is. 1)How many of members of our so called "comittee" were involved with basketball when Fr.Jack was around? 2)Did you ever notice that the teams we beat by 50 are the ones that show up in their uniforms and can't make a layup if Jesus himslef came down and guided the ball to the hoop? 3)Why is it that the second Tim isn't around to uphold his dynasty that the "omniscient" athletic "comittee" attempts to tear it down from the foundation. The "brave" "comittee" members don't even have names aparently, so why should they have an opinion? 4)I was on the team last year, and I can guarentee you that none of my team members and myself would go swimming in a pool of toilet water. 5)How come the nameless comittee member requested us to submitt our comments signed? Hypocritical? 6)Why did the system work for 40 odd years and now it is suddenly insufficient? If were are going to look like losers would you then like to cut our practcie days down to one day a week and let us look like spases and play like losers? (We all know that there would not be a basketball program if you "comittee" members had your way so don't deny that) 7)Honor? If you would like to honor Tim, how about leaving his success alone? 8)Is there a way to usurp the comittee chairs? -Taylor Lenahan P.S.-Dad, we will not let them reuin something you worked your whole life for.
I have to agree with Bob This issue does not belong on this web site. If you want to weigh in on the shirt and tie issue, Please send your comments in writing, preferably signed, to the attention of the athletic committee through St. Rose School Office. Our next meeting is March 15 at the school and we will gladly review all of your concerns. The final decision has not been made on the issue. It will be the decision of Monsignor and Mr Hogan, with input from the committee and those who wish to comment in writing. Lets at least agree to handle it in this fashion not by discussing it here.
well said Bob; I think we need to commend your PARENTS after reading your post!
It is about 2:00 in the morning on Tuesday and I am just finishing up some homework in traditional college fashion. I decided to check out the site before I went to bed, something I find myself doing a lot lately. It’s great to look back on the posts left over a year ago and see how much love for our dear friend has been poured into this site. I also find it crazy and ridiculous to read this ongoing nameless argument about “what Timmy would want” and “tradition of a falcon”. Now I’m not writing to say whether the guys should wear ties or not because frankly that does not matter. I’m writing to remind you what it means to be a falcon. One, being a falcon means having respect; and this online argument over ties that is taking place, on a site that is meant to honor our friend, is down right disrespectful. Two, being a falcon means always supporting one another. Whether you are 50 or 15, we share a common bond of playing for a team like no other. So, these two facts are known by all of us falcons. They have been engrained in our being and reverberate in all of our actions on and off the court. The fact of the matter is not whether our current Falcons wear ties or gym clothes, because that is not where the problem lies. The problem lies in you and I, the alumni. The current falcons need to learn respect, and it’s obvious from these posts that we are not teaching it. The current falcons need to learn what it means to be part of a team and support one another, and again we are not the ones setting the example. Yes, tradition is a vital part of being a falcon. So before we argue over changing little traditions, let’s fix the important traditions that we seem to have forgotten. Timmy didn’t turn boys into men by the clothes we wore. We became men because of the lessons he taught us and the example he set. If we want to keep with tradition in Timmy’s honor, let us take some time and get ourselves to a St. Rose practice and just be there to support the team. Get ourselves to a game and yell at the refs, just like old times. Bring the spirit back to the gym, a spirit that is a fundamental tradition of a falcon. Please take this argument away from this site, this site is for people who want to remember Timmy, share stories, and enhance the respect, support, and spirit of past, current, and future falcons. Bob Famular
"Never show up already wearing you're uniforms. Thats what scrub teams do." 3 guesses who the quote's from.
Well then in that case Fr. Jack had the right idea. And more importantly, even if Tim didn't start the tradition he kept it going for nearly 30 years so I think that should say something about what his feelings on the issue would be. It also might be a good idea for the committee to take a look at the discussion on this topic here. Its not parents who just want their kids to look nice arguing in favor of a shirt and tie. We're former players, we are the people who have done it in the past and we're saying that we are now better people for it. It was part of the entire experience of St.Rose basketball and it was one of the many things that made us better than the rest of the league. Maybe I'm crazy but I think the opinion of those who have lived it should have some weight to it.
the athletic committee discussed the idea of allowing the team to wear their st rose gym pants over their uniforms to still have a clean uniform look but not have to change in dirty floored men's bathrooms where the general public is wandering in and out to use the facilities while our team players change. In Pine Hill last year, one of the toilets flooded and there were our boys changing in the smelly water! We have lost uniforms,gotten clothes mixed up etc in this process. The athletic committe has just purchased new uniforms at the cost of 4200.00 for our boys. We want to see them cleaned and maintained. We want our boys safe also. Are we also going to have people mad because our coach picked silver/grey with blue and gold lettering when Timmy refused in the past to have anything but blue or white uniforms? some "traditions" die hard--this tradition was Father Jack's tradition. No one is stopping any of the boys from dressing up but the original idea behind it was to have the boys sit together , dressed in their Sunday best and watch the JV play. Father Jack wanted the boys to look good and show them off to the other schools. Now, our boys walk from their cars immediately in to change and come out in their basketball uniforms. no one even sees us come in let alone dressed up.
To those of you who have voiced an opinion about dressing up at the games: Let me set the facts straight for you. The "tradition was not Tim's tradition. It began long before and was a rule of Father Jack. It was instituted at a time when Father Jack would require the varsity team to watch the JV team play their game. The varsity had to come to the gym at an away game and sit together all dressed in shirts and ties as a groupand watch the JV play.
The quote below sums up St. Rose basketball. Not only are we the best players and athletes of the league, but we look the best. We look unified and classy. Nothing looks more intimidating then a team walking into the visitors gym in suits and tie, looking like men. Not showing up in sweats with hair all messed up, they look like boys. Keep the tradition going, and dismiss this "committee" ruling, because after all, its not the committee that makes up the team, its the brothers of the falcon, sons of tim.
I think that this can be resolved by looking at a quote from the Courier Post right after Tim died. It stated, " Last Spring, Tim Lenahan lined up his team inside the St. Rose church. He brought 30 or so of his players to the afternoon viewing of Msgr. Richard Callahan, the former pastor of St. Rose who hired Tim as a 19-year-old to coach the basketball team. Lenahan's players wore a jacket and tie. THEY LOOKED AS GOOD AS THEY PLAYED." The shirt and tie and the way we as a team presented ourselves off the court was something that seperated St. Rose from normal basketball programs.......
I agree that the players should still wear shirt and ties. It's a St. Rose tradition!!! Why break the tradition? St.Rose teams have been doing this for how long? Nearly thirty years? Tim would love to see his teams still go to away games with class. It would put a smile on his face to see his players go in shirt and tie even though they dont have to. It was fun to go to a game dressed up. Our teams would destroy other teams, and than we would put our shirt and ties back on and walk out like we owned the place. Out of respect to Tim, i believe all St.Rose players feel this way. Do the right thing. It's not a horrible thing to wear a shirt and tie to an away game. It gets you ready for life.
I could care less about how many people on the commitee are even thinking about this new rule. Tim always made sure his teams looked presentable, and above its competion, and we always were.I couldnt agree more with some of the other postings made on the website, stating that its not the commitees decision. Its not!..Let Timmy's legacy live on. A legacy of shaping not only good basketball players, but shaping many young mens lives.
calm down. this was a decision suggested by a FEW people on the committee. Maybe if people voiced their opinions in a mature manner to the right people they would be more affective as opposed to whining on a website!
I totally agree. Whoever made this decision clearly didn't know Tim very well and I am shocked to hear of this. I too was a former Falcon and I was proud of the way our team dressed to away games. We looked respectable and would always recieve numerous compliments at every game. We played like wild animals on the court but looked like young gentlemen off the court. It wouldn't be a big deal accept for how much Tim cared about how we presented ourselves. Kids wouldn't play if they didn't dress appropreiately. He did this because he wasn't just teaching kids how to be great basketball players, he taught them how to be great people. He always had us helping out people in the community and showed us what generousity is. I just dont understand why people on the "Athletic Commitee" would, for no particular reason, ruin a tradition started by a great man that led to the great prestidge of the program he built. What's the reason for the change? Are the tie's too tight, cutting off circulation and causing them to play worse. Or is it that the "commitee" feels that since everyone doesn't have to do it, why should St. Rose. Well, everyone else doesn't start practice in October, everyone doesn't have practice six days a week, everyone else doesn't practice for whole weeks on just there left hand, everyone else doesn't run "16's" for missed assignments, everyone else isn't taught how to act respectable on and off the court, everyone doesn't dominate their league for 25 years, everyone else wasn't coached by Tim Lenahan. In conclusion, I dont even think the "commitee" has a right to make such a decision, such things should be acted upon through Jamie (someone who knows what he's doing). As you may be able to tell, I am not a fan of the "commitee." There was a reason noone even knew you existed while Tim was around. He took us to the top, not you guys, so don't ruin his legacy.
It has been brought to my attention that the athletic committee has recently voted that the members of the varsity team not be required to wear a shirt and tie to away games as was always Timmy's policy. First of all I think it was a terrible decision to make in the first place. When we walked into another teams gym we looked good and we looked like a team. The way we presented ourselves was something that the school could be proud of and it set St. Rose as well as the players apart from the rest of the league. I'm calling on all of the players on the St. Rose basketball team. Even though you are no longer required to wear a shirt and tie to away games, do it anyway of your own free will. Timmy believed that we looked better, were more unified, and above all behaved better when we were dressed nicely. Do it as your own little tribute to him and continue to be a credit to your school.
I am a bit worried at this point in time. We have not seen or spoken to Dors today, and with the bad weather its got us all worried. Please make sure Dors is alright.
Just thinking bout you a lot today Tim. Don't know why.....just need a big ole Timmy hug today. Miss you so much!
Tim, We beat Army today in a huge game on CBS in front of a national tv audience. The announcers mentioned you has a major influence in my coaching career. I hope you heard them. Love ya. Billy Falcon '86
thurs was a reflective day. k took morgan to her game and we felt very blessed to spend time with her. like you, morgan is an amazing presence and brings happiness to everyone she touches. k has been sorting thru a few decisions over the last week and today she told me that she is going to try and follow her heart because that is what tim would tell her to do. thank you for taking the time to guide k. (m) p.s. we framed our golf tourny photo and hung it in the living room.
thurs was a reflective day. k took morgan to her game and we felt very blessed to spend time with her. like you, morgan is an amazing presence and brings happiness to everyone she touches. k has been sorting thru a few decisions over the last week and today she told me that she is going to try and follow her heart because that is what tim would tell her to do. thank you for taking the time to guide k. (m) p.s. we framed our golf tourny photo and hung it in the living room.
I miss Tim too. But I don't feel sad ...I smile when I think about him. If you think back and you watched him or ran into to him somehwere he was always laughing and teasing you. If he seen me out somewhere he would grab my wife and bounce her up and down then he would do the same to me. I'm sure he had bad moments, but you know you never saw them. If you watched him interact with people it was always happy and upbeat. I sent 2 of my sons to his camps when he came to Queen of Heaven. But it wasn't just to learn how to dribble or shoot it was to discover passion. Thats what Tim had . How do you become passionate about your life. All you had to do was follow how he was and if you took away some of it you were blessed. So don't be sad when you think about him...just remember how he was and be just like him....
I miss Tim too. But I don't feel sad ...I smile when I think about him. If you think back and you watched him or ran into to him somehwere he was always laughing and teasing you. If he seen me out somewhere he would grab my wife and bounce her up and down then he would do the same to me. I'm sure he had bad moments, but you know you never saw them. If you watched him interact with people it was always happy and upbeat. I sent 2 of my sons to his camps when he came to Queen of Heaven. But it wasn't just to learn how to dribble or shoot it was to discover passion. Thats what Tim had . How do you become passionate about your life. All you had to do was follow how he was and if you took away some of it you were blessed. So don't be sad when you think about him...just remember how he was and be just like him....
Timmy I miss you as much today as I did a year ago. I was so fortunate to have you in my life for 47 years, what a wonderful everything you were to me: brother, friend, dutch uncle. We always solved everything together. My two best friends are gone and even though I talk to you both daily,just as with your family ,my life will never be the same. You gave so much to me but especially to my children. You inspire them daily, Thank you. I did get a calendar together for all of us. Now that Suzie is on your team, the three of you will cover all of us. I know you have a busy schedule being our angel and I thank you for that.Lisa and the children have made it one year, I know you will always be with them. Each one of your children have a special part of you. I love you Tims. You are the best thing that ever happened to me.
Timmy, I can go on forever about how I felt today. I miss you. I miss knowing that I can call you or stop by to see you and be greeted by a "Willy, How are you?" This is a very sad day but yet a day to remember one of the greatest human beings God ever granted mankind. Your influence is felt, your legacy remembered, all of us blessed to have known you. Continue to inspire all of us through those little signs that I feel every now and then that remind me you are still with us in spirit. God Bless your family. We all love you. BILLY
THERE ARE MAJOR EVENTS IN OUR LIVES THAT YOU ALWAYS REMEMBER. FOR THE 75 PLUS GENERATION IT MIGHT BE THE ATTACK ON PEARL HARBOR. FOR MY GENERATION IT IS WHERE WERE YOU WHEN YOU HEARD THAT JFK WAS KILLED. I GUESS FOR THE YOUNGER GENERATION IT WILL BE WHERE WERE YOU WHEN YOU HEARD ABOUT THE TWIN TOWERS BUT FOR ANYONE WHO HAD THE HONOR TO KNOW TIMMY LENAHAN IT HAS TO BE WHERE WERE YOU WHEN YOU HEARD THAT TIMMY HAD DIED. IT IS EXACTLY ONE YEAR TO THE HOUR WHEN I LAST SAW YOU ALIVE. IT WAS ONE OF THE FEW NIGHTS THAT I DIDN'T STOP BY BUT I DID DRIVE BY AND SAY YOU AND LISA UPSTAIRS PAINTING THE NEW ADDITION. I THOUGHT ABOUT STOPPING BUT KNEW I WOULD SEE YOU THE NEXT DAY SO I DIDN'T. AT 4:00 AM THE NEXT MORNING I GOT UP TO EAT SOMETHING AND WHEN I SAW 9 MESSAGES ON MY MACHINE I PRAYED THAT IT WAS BROKEN BUT FEARED THAT WAS WASN'T. WHEN I HEARD TAYLOR'S VOICE SAYING THAT YOU HAD COLLASPED AND TO GET OVER THERE I KNEW WHAT THE REST OF THE CALLS WERE GOING TO BE. THE NEXT FEW HOURS WERE THE WORST HOURS OF MY LIFE. THE IMAGE OF MORGY'S FACE WHEN LISA HAD TO TELL HER WHAT HAPPENED IS BURNED INTO MY MEMORY. HOLDING HER FOR THE NEXT HOUR REALIZING THAT SHE WOULDN'T HAVE HER DADDY TO HOLD HER BROKE MY HEART. SEEING CONNOR AND TC DEVASTATED AND NOT BEING ABLE TO TAKE AWAY THEIR PAIN GAVE ME SUCH A HELPLESS FEELING. THEY SAY THAT TIME HEALS ALL WOUNDS BUT I WAS TALKING TO CONNOR YESTERDAY AND ASKED HIM IF A YEAR HAD HELPED ANY AND HE SAID NO AND I TOTALLY AGREED WITH HIM. I STILL HAVE A FEELING OF PROFOUND SADNESS ABOUT THEIR LOSS. BEFORE I CAME UPSTAIR I SAW A WIND CHIME THAT MORGY HAD MADE FOR YOU. SHE HAD WRITTEN SOME OF THE THINGS THAT SHE WAS THANKFUL FOR THAT YOU HAD DONE FOR HER. THINGS LIKE SENTING HER TO SAINT ROSE, COMING TO SEE HER PLAY BASKETBALL, AND JUST PLAYING WITH HER. THE KIDS AND LISA MISS YOU SO MUCH AS DO I AND THE DOGS. BY THE WAY THE 8TH GRADERS PLAYED MOUNT CARMEL TO NIGHT AND THEY HAD A LIITE CEREMONY BEFORE THE GAME. IT WAS NICE. WELL I HAVE TO GO UP TO PJ'S OR TC WILL BE MADE AT ME. ONE OTHER THING, I SAW YOU IN A DREAM THE OTHER NIGHT. YOUR WERE IN THE KITCHEN IN FRONT OF THE STOVE AND THE KIDS AND I WERE SITTING AT THE TABLE. YOU LOOKED GREAT. THAT ACTUALLY MADE ME FEEL GOOD FOR A COUPLE OF DAYS. I KNOW THAT YOU ARE WITH LISA AND THE KIDS BUT TRY TO MAKE THEM FEEL IT.
hey tim its been a year already. it was so fast and soon it will be 2 then 3 and so long. the basketball team is doing very well are record is 25 and 2 last friday we crushed st.joan of arc 61 to 27 joe nardi and tim crawford we amazing and cody d. , john o. , brian walter , and chris jermyn are doing good too . tonight we play mount carmel and we crushed them too in the path we are unstopable the only compotion we have is st.petes merchantville. well all is well for me and we are all missing u alot. say hi to my grandfather for me. thank you, zach vogel 06
hey tim its been a year already. it was so fast and soon it will be 2 then 3 and so long. the basketball team is doing very well are record is 25 and 2 last friday we crushed st.joan of arc 61 to 27 joe nardi and tim crawford we amazing and cody d. , john o. , brian walter , and chris jermyn are doing good too . tonight we play mount carmel and we crushed them too in the path we are unstopable the only compotion we have is st.petes merchantville. well all is well for me and we are all missing u alot. say hi to my grandfather for me. thank you, zach vogel
I can't believe its been 1 year. Today was depressing reliving what happened last year. Our team is doing well overall our record is 24-2. We our gooing to win the championship for you this year Tim. Your family and everyone who knew you misses your presence, but you will be forever in our hearts. Thank you again for everything
Hey Tim, Happy 1 year.. we all know that you've been having fun. and your family missses you soo much and were trying to be as supportive as possible.. be with them love yaaa=] and miss ya
well timmy this is my first entry and i can't believe an entire year has passed. however, your memory is still very much alive. i look at kevin and see how much of an impact you had on him (even though you probably didn't even know it) and how much he has missed your presence. i think about you, lisa and the kids so much and my heart breaks for their loss. i read the entries on this website often and i am so impressed by the life you lead, the people you affected, and the loss that still remains. please know that there is a void that was left in our family one year ago and how blessed i feel to have met you.
wow. who can believe its been a whole year without you. Today our Freshman team beat Eustace. but i could not help but think about you. I dont want this to be a sad message but one of thanks. Thanks, thanks for all the help you have given me and all the other kids in basketball and just in life. thanks for being you.
Hey timmy, cant beleive its been a year since you went to that big court in the sky. Just letting you know we're all still thinking about you all the time, and somehow, no matter where i go, i hear "Winners do what losers won't." Also letting you know that tonight after the Eustace vs Catholic game, our 8th grade team is having a night game at the rose just for you.
Hey Tim, I can't believe it's been a year. Sometimes I wake up and I think you'll be there at basketball practice, but then I remember everything that happened and I think about how much I miss you. We've been havin a great season, I don't know our exact record, but we only lost twice to St. Pete's in a close game at their gym and to St. Mary's at the Catholic tournament. Last Friday we blew out Joan of Arc by 30, so I think the only trouble we're gonna have is St. Pete's and all we have to do is hit some of our shots and we'll beat there triangle and 2. Well, I still can't believe you've been gone for an entire year and I'll be thinking about you tonight at our game against Mt. Carmel. I'll talk to you later Tim. Cya,Thomas
hey tim its been a year and its really really hard to believe that its been that long but i honestly think about you everday. You made an everlasting mark on my heart, and you will forever be my role model and i will always strive to be a quarter of the man you were. I love you so much Tim and i miss you beyond words. I say a prayer everytime i drive past your house and remember all the good times we all had while we were around you. until next time. love, brett
hey tim its been a year and its really really hard to believe that its been that long but i honestly think about you everday. You made an everlasting mark on my heart, and you will forever be my role model and i will always strive to be a quarter of the man you were. I love you so much Tim and i miss you beyond words. I say a prayer everytime i drive past your house and remember all the good times we all had while we were around you. until next time. love, brett
God Bless you Timmy: I've written this many times, but never had a chance to tell you in all the years I knew you. It just never seemed like something that needed saying...now I regret it. It seems you never know how good you have things until they are gone, and likewise how good people made your life until they are no longer part of it. Tim,I hope that you are part of my life forever, I hope the wisdom and experience you shared with perfect delivery rings in my ears when I am teaching my kids about life. I remember what you said about the pressure a 13 or 14 year old kid feels..."Foul line, no time on the clock, down by 1 and you've got to make 2...that's not pressure. Having a family and a mortgage and a kids to worry about, that's the real world, that's the pressure that your moms and dads experience everyday." "Keep that in mind when you think about how much emphasis we put on getting your shot up, or tucking your elbow in, or looking twice and passing once, or guarding the baseline and then the man...realize that this game can be played to perfection, and success comes by doing the easy things and doing them right every time." Thanks for putting things in perspective for me Tim. Although it was hard to realize, what point you were trying to make, the lessons you taught me then are the most valuable now. Again, God Bless you Tim. Say hi to my dad, maybe you can teach him something about basketball and he'll talk your ear off about football.
Dear Timmy, Wow! A year. Hard to believe. I'll never forget when my husband called me from the parking lot of a meeting up north to relay the news he just received. The way he couldn't gather himself to get the words out when I answered the phone...I'll never forget. I knew it was terrible news, in fact I thought he was going to tell me it was one of my parents, and oddly enough, when he told my of your passing it might as well have been my parent. The pain seemed no different. Having to tell our children was so very difficult. But, like everyone else who was lucky enough to have known you, we've kept pressing forward, and continue to keep you in our hearts. My husband hasn't taken off his lue wristband yet....not even in his Sunday best! And now a year has passed, and I can sit and reflect on how powerful a person you were here on earth, and know in my heart you are just as powerful a soul there in heaven. Every day I keep you and your family in my prayers. Every day when I get in the car I'm reminded of you and sometimes have conversations with you. Allbeit, anyone that sees me from another car thinks I'm nuts, but somehow I know you're there. Please continue to be there for your family as I know you have never spiritually left their side. Keeping smiling from heaven my friend and enjoy the eternal rest you so greatly deserve.
I first want to thank you for giving me a wonderful dream with all of us together again. You looked exactly the same holding our Morgy girl in your arms. I know that was your way of telling me you are keeping a close eye on her. She wore your pull over to school yesterday it was so cute. The house was very quiet last night and we all went to our rooms early. I hope you and your family are having a big celebration in Heaven to celebrate your one year anniversary. Please be with our 3 wonderful children today. We love and dearly miss you.
Dear Tim, It's been a year since you physically left us and lit up Heaven. Thanks for being the angel beside each of us every day. I know that every one you ever touched can still feel your hug and hear your laughter. I was blessed to be your friend long before you began your basketball legacy at St. Rose. Over the years, I too, always hoped I would see you smile at St. Rose and/or by your home as I drove by and now feel the void of you not physically being there. But I realize that you are there and everywhere our hearts allow you to be. I start each day now by looking at your picture and remind myself of what is truely important in life. Be with your precious family today and help give them the strength they need to get through. Be with all of us! Love, terri
The Team plays Mt Carmel tonight at 7:00. What a great way to remember Timmy -- In the gym, with a game, with one of the coaches that started this whole crazy league with Timmy. Tim you are missed. Every time I walk into that gym, I still expect you to be there. Watch over us all
365 days and still missing the brightest smile, the best laugh and the biggest heart I have ever known! Amid the missing we all recognize how lucky we were just to have known you, and shared in making some of those indelible memories. Thanks for all that you gave to my children who will forever be better people for having you as their mentor. Thanks, TL, for the memories!
t: you are in our thoughts and the family is in our prayers today and always. thank you for always being one prayer away - in the car, at bedtime prayers. you have guided many decisions over the last yr. we miss you. m
2.2.2005. a year has passed and it still hurts just as badly as the day we lost you. the tears are still falling just as hard. we miss you just as much as we ever have, as much as we ever could. thanks for everything. i love you, tim.
Well, one year has come and gone. Its very strange thinking that we actually were able to go on without you. The first thought in all of our minds last February 2 was "How will we continue?" Somehow we managed and even when times were turbulant, we continued. Whether continuing meant to go on with our head high or to wake up everyday and hang our head to hide tears, we got through. I hope we will have a decent amount of people at Pj's thursday night. I loved when we all came together for the golf outing and the beef and beer in April. To be able to share stories and see old friends is always nice. Connor and Morgan are doing well. Both playing basketball and Connor ripping up the place on that bass of his. Mom is doing as well as can be expected and Dors is...well, Dors is Dors. As for myself things have been better. As if I didn't "love" PVI enough already now my schedule got mixed up and my classes are most unpleasent. The dogs are doing well. Tuffy is a spaz and Hannah just misses you. When mom was wearing your jacket a few weeks ago Hannah was going insane because she smelled you on it. She would smell it then run down the hallway and to the front door and then come back and do it again. Another year will go by and before you know it 10 or 15. We will all still feel empty inside but persist. Its like Robert Plant once said "I felt the coldness of my winter I never thought it would ever go. I cursed the gloom that set upon us... But I know that I love you so" And even though we all experienced a great loss and found ourselves facing the depths of dispondency, we continue our lives everyday. Only one person on this earth could be loved so much that after a year we feel like you left us yesterday. Thinking of you everyday, Taylor P.S.-See you at Pj's
Well its after midnight and its officially been a year since you left this earth. I just wanted to take the time to let you know how much I miss you. I also wanted to post a thesis paper I had to write for my religion class on my philosophy of life. Everybody has a role model or somebody that they look up to in life. The person who I consider my role model is my grade school basketball coach, Tim Lenahan. He not only trained me in the game of basketball, but also in the game of life. There are three quotes that stand out in my mind after Tim’s death, two of them being Tim’s own words. These three quotes are: “Winners do what losers won’t”, “Winners never quit. Quitters never win” and “Live each day as if it’s your last”. These three sayings have shaped up my philosophy of life. Tim has given me a new approach to living: Don’t be satisfied with anything less than your best. “Winners do what losers won’t”. These are the words engraved on the blue silicon wrist band that I wear on my left wrist. There is a lot more to this quote than just winning and losing, and it can be used to analyze more than just sports. It’s all about doing what you need to do in order to succeed. The first chair in the band will practice for the extra hour when the rest of the band goes home. The straight A student will do an extra 20 problems while the C or D student doesn’t do the homework at all. Tim would end every practice, game or team meeting with the words, “Winners do what losers won’t.” “Winners never quit. Quitters never win.” This quote has had a gigantic impact on my life. A few months after my brain tumor, I tried to play basketball again. I got extremely frustrated because my motor skills still weren’t great. The rehabilitation process was brutal. I thought that it was time to call it quits for my favorite sport. But as usual, Tim went nuts asking me how I could throw away years of playing because of one setback. He was more determined than I was to have me back on the court playing again. If anybody thought I could make a comeback it was Tim. He worked me out every day for 2 months straight for no price at all. I then went on to make the freshman basketball team at Bishop Eustace. Sophomore year, I transferred to Camden Catholic. I was cut from the basketball team that year, and thought that my career was now over. The night I was cut, Tim called me. He invited me over to St. Rose the following day for his practice. I walked in the gym, and there was 25 kids screaming, “Hey Coach Devlin!” I couldn’t help but laugh. Tim told me it was no joke and that he wanted me to coach with him for the year. Not only did I help coach, I participated in drills. I worked out on my own for the next year as well. I went on to make the Camden Catholic team as a junior and continue to play now as a senior. Tim always made sure I remembered one thing, “Winners never quit. Quitters never win”. “Live each day as if it’s your last.” Unfortunately, I had to figure out this quote on my own. On February 2, 2005, Tim Lenahan passed away at the age of 47. I can honestly say that Tim lived every single day as if it was his last. He took nothing for granted, and made sure he made an impact on somebody every single day. I have tried to apply this in my own life. I almost lost my life in March of 2002 when I was diagnosed with a brain tumor. I have taken that negative experience and turned it into a positive won. I make sure I take advantage of every opportunity that is given to me. I have learned to never hold back. Always do what you believe is right, and always give your best effort. Never settle for anything less than your best. “Live each day as if it’s your last.” As stated in the Philadelphia Inquirer, “Tim Lenahan was the ultimate role model and a giant among men.” Not only was Tim the ultimate role model, he was the ultimate coach, teacher, friend, father, and husband. He taught me more about life than any single person will ever teach me about anything. I have developed an attitude that will never allow me to give up. I am never satisfied with the minimum. I make sure I live every day to the fullest. I no longer take anything for granted and I take advantage of every opportunity that is thrown my way. These qualities have given me my everyday approach to life: Don’t be satisfied with anything less than your best. PS- Tim, I recieved the best grade in the class for this paper. I've never been much of a writer but somehow when I think about you, everything becomes so much easier. I'll be thinking of you tomorrow when we play Eustace. I know you got a few guys on the other team, but send a few calls our way (assuming the refs are a little easier on you these days).
There are places I’ll remember all my life Though some have changed Some forever not for better Some have gone and some remain All these places had their moments With lovers and friends I still can recall Some are dead and some are living In my life I’ve loved them all But of all these friends and lovers There is no one compares with you And these mem’ries lose their meaning When I think of love as something new Though I know I’ll never lose affection For people and things that went before I know I’ll often stop and think about them In my life I’ll love you more Though I know I’ll never lose affection For people and things that went before I know I’ll often stop and think about them In my life I’ll love you more In my life I’ll love you more
Love Ya Blenny...Miss playing with your blears "I'll give you One Hour to cut that out!!"
My eyes are on the clock, my heart is heavy and I am thinking of you -Tim -and your whole family. I remind myself that, as much as your friends and associates miss you, how great the loss is for Lisa, your children .Judy and your big extended family. You are never far from my thoughts and I talk to you many times, especially asking for favors. As I read this wonderful website, ( Thanks ,Kevin Gemmel) I find some solace reading the posts and learning that many of us have common experiences. Yet the mind plays tricks on me. I had to drop off something at the rectory on a sunny day last week. The gym door was open and I had a quick thought- I'll stop in and see Tim...and a split second later I remembered . This is why people still pass St Rose or your house and look for your truck or find themsleves looking around a high school gym. Your spirit is with us yet.Thank goodness our faith tells us that we will see that big grin and hear that raucous laugh again. So Tim, you are forever young and our Peter Pan-- take care of your "lost boys" and girls of all ages and help us see the magic in passion, commitment and love. The gift that you give us is not only memories, but also hope.
Wow, what a strange thing that occurred today and I knew you were there. I've been listening to the country music for awhile now that I've gotten to like it alot. Well there are a couple of songs that make me think of you and weren't they both played within a little over an hours time while I started my day today. After the second one I just started talking to you and let you know I knew you were there. Please be with us all tomorrow and Friday. We miss you so much Tim. But I remember to smile for having known you. Keep close. God Bless, Love ya, Ree
Hey Tim we really miss you. I can't beleive its been a year. Thanks for everything you've done for Saint Rose.
Hey Tim, im amazed it has been a year since you left but the teams doin great, weve anly lost once. well i know youll be there when we beat saint petes in the playoffs.
i cant believe its already been a year ................. well keep winning for you TIM. TL FOREVER
i cant believe its already been a year ................. well keep winning for you TIM. TL FOREVER
I miss you and your hugs. I miss you and your encouraging words, (boy I could use those from you). Most, I miss you and your love that you had for your family, Lisa, Taylor, Connor and Morgan. It is such a void that is left in their lives and our family lives since you went to heaven. Continue to look down on us and give us your guidance and love. We miss you, Sandi
Dear Friend, Not a day goes by that you are not thought of and missed deeply. Your gentle strength, your thoughtful caring or your wicked humor and laugh. Thank you Tim for all the good times that you shared with us that we have to remember. Help us all to continue to give our strength and guidance to your children. You gave all of yourself to us and it's our turn to follow your example. God Bless, Love, Ree
It is great to read these stories and to remember some outstanding times. It is hard to truly put into words the impact Timhas had in my life. I have been extremely fortunate to continue my basketball career till the present. I have travelled the world played against some of the best players, and for some great coaches. I can't imagine having the ability to do these things without timmy. I can still here his voice echoing through the st rose gym, urging us on, or politely correcting our blunders with eloquent uses of certain four-letter words. I can always remeber that having Tim come your high school or college game was the ultimate compliment, no matter what the level you searched him out for his critique afterwards. (which never was difficult, listen for the boisterous laugh and the gathered crowd and there was timmy "holding court") Of all the stories I recall of tim, the one I remember most was when he came to see me play a game at the palestra, and when I went to look for him after I found him quietly taking in the majesty of the palestra. I like to think that a place like that is where Tim was very happy. he modern game of basketball is under attack from selfishness and greed, and places like the palestra and coaches like Tim remain all that is right with the game. I am incredibly proud to have played for him, and just to have known him. In all my years playing afterwards I still am hard pressed to find a season as thrilling as the one with the 91-92 falcons. Miss you Timmy. owens51@hotmail.com
Tonight I was thinking about some of the best times of my life and it just amazes me how fast time moves. I thought about those hot summers down at St. Rose when we thought that anything was possible. I was thinking about my 14th birthday when we went to the casino and saw "Legends". I thought about the time me you and Frank were driving home from practice and since there was no room in the truck we had to sit on the big white couch you had in the truck bed. It all seemed like such a short time ago but it has been a few years at this point. I remember thinking last February how short a time it had been between you sitting on the couch and then you leaving us. I just can not believe that you have been gone for almost a year. The catastrophic void you left that still has not been filled has now been in all of us for close to a year, and it seems like I just got home from your funeral. Well, I know you will be at Pj's when we all go there this thursday. Maybe I'll buy you some wings. Always thinking of you. -Taylor
Hey Tim, It's been a while since I last logged into the site. I am still amazed and thrilled to read all of the comments from your friends and deciples. I stopped by the St Rose game the other day to see how the boys were doing....HOLY COW did Tim Crawford get big! He is going to create a lot of problems for teams and with Nardi and Jermyn dropping 3 bombs the opposition will have to play honest D. Jamie is doing a very good job....Like you didn't know or expect that?!.. But he has way too many kids....@30 if I counted correctly. I can't see them all getting quality time but the honor is not just in playing. Any one of these guys would be just as happy to sit all season and say proudly for the rest of their lives that they played on the St. Rose of Lima Falcons...a Dynasty built by the Legendary Tim Lenahan. So much has changed since you left but I have not spoken to anyone that knew you who has the same comment..."There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think about Tim". I keep your blue band on my wrist and will contine to do so. I need to restock as I had to give one to Andrew after he broke his....Still miss our brief encounters and laughs...Keep smiling down on us all.
Well Tim, they finally got us. We lost to PVI last night by 5. We were up 10 at the half and things looked pretty good. They cut it to 4 going into the 4th and Santini took over. It was clear we were the better team, but we didn't have an answer for Santini. Hopefully we'll see them in states.
It was the first time playing in the PVI gym not seeing you there in person. You always found a way to find the best seat in the house, even if the game was sold out. I'm sure you had a seat somewhere last night.
I stopped by St. Rose yesterday, and watched the boys practice for a little bit. Jamie is really doing a great job.
Tim, everyday I find myself thinking about all of those jokes you made at practice or the packed gym every Friday night at St.Rose, and mostly all of the life lessons that are so valuable as I get older. Like Shane said, I always end up quoting one of your sayings wether it's on the football field or just playing with my cousins out in the yard. I know it has been a while since I've written to you, mostly because I figured you would get mad if I told you that I didnt play basketball this year. I took the year off so i could spend more time in the weight room to prepare for next football season. We ended up in the state semi-finals and finishing with a record of 7-4 and lost to PVI on Thanksgiving, but I dont want to talk about that. I know that you would be glad to see all of the St.Rose boys working hard. Camden Catholic is 11-1 right now and playing well. We all miss you man, and I just want to tell you thanks one more time and I think about you everyday.
Thanks, Keith
Tim I miss seeing you box someone out and watching them hit the hardwood.
I miss the tenacious look on your face.
you did have a unique way of making a point- like setting up a ladder under the basket, climbing up to the top and throwing multiple basketballs down through the hoop side by side and stating "Now do you see my point about getting the ball up!!!!!!!" (actually Timmy probably used slightly different words!!)
wish you were here
wish you were here
Connor that is an amanzing essay, im sure you will do great in college
good luck
Buddy, know you are busy watching over your family but I need a favor. One of your " old school "boys needs some help. Can you reach him for us. Thanks
Lessons for Life: on and off the Court
All these places have their moments With lovers and friends I still can recall Some are dead and some are living In my life I’ve loved them all -The Beatles
People come in and out of our lives daily, yet some leave an impression so great we will forever remember them. My grade school basketball coach, Tim Lenahan, who suddenly passed away last year at age forty-seven, was such a person. He taught both basketball skills and life skills to very impressionable teenagers like me. Tim’s coaching style and techniques will undoubtedly continue for generations, but it is his zest for life and love for others that people will remember most. Tim was the basketball coach of St. Rose of Lima School in Haddon Heights, New Jersey for over twenty-five years. Throughout those years, Tim coached both excellent basketball players and those not as talented; for both groups, he always emphasized the importance of hard work, honesty, and dedication. He was a selfless family man who devoted his short life to molding young individuals to success. Tim showed me and my teammates that we must push ourselves in order to succeed. He encouraged us to work together and be responsible for our actions, always saying, “Winners do what losers don’t” and “There is no “I” in team.” After Tim’s death, bracelets were made with one of his famous quotes imprinted on them. I like to think that he continues to affect us all, even months after we’ve said good-bye. Tim had a gift. The ability to see the good in everyone made people Tim met feel as if they were really important to him, and they were. One would never think a grade school basketball coach could change so many lives, but Tim brought an immeasurable amount of pleasure to all he met. As a result of his unselfish ways and gifts, thousands attended Tim’s viewing and funeral to pay tribute to their coach, mentor, and friend. His death has made me realize just how short life can be and how important it is to embrace life and its challenges, just like Tim did. Having been tutored by Tim for years, I know I became a better basketball player; more importantly, I became a better person who learned from a master to think about others first, respect but fear no one, and always try to improve myself as a player and as a person. For the lessons Tim taught me, I will be forever humble and grateful. At Tim’s funeral, the song, “In My Life,” by the Beatles was played. The song was the perfect testimony to all that Tim believed. I only hope that with the memory of Tim alive in the minds of St. Rose’s alumni and friends, we, like Tim, might be able to live life to the fullest and accomplish what we had previously thought was impossible.
Tim,
Thanks for the memories you've given us over the past year even though you physically haven't been here to reminise with those times with us. I wanted to tell you, I've unfortunately been away from the St. Rose atmosphere for about eight years, and I can't help driving by St. Rose gym (your gym) without looking for you and your truck parked illegally outside the rectory. When I last came home from school I saw your team in shirt and tie gathering for an away game, and they looked more determined to win than ever. It showed that your presence still remains strong. I wanted you to know that I'm about to graduate college in a few months (something you told me I was going to eventually do) and I wanted to let you know how thankful I am for your faith in me to accomplish this goal. You made me work hard in the gym, but in spirit you haven't stopped since I graduated St. Rose in '98. I've kept it up, I'm going to do what I want to do, and I owe alot to you for making this happen (after all, you told me it would). In the words of the Beatles (I'm sure you loved them), "You wisper words of wisdom, Let it be."
I'm gonna 'let it be' Tim. Thank you so much, honored to be one of Timmy's players in the class of '98
That is a great idea! We should organize a get together at Pj's on Feb. 2. Let's make it happen!!!!
Please be with mom today. We were talking about the prank you pulled last year on her birthday when you put up all the signs that said she was 40. Well today is her birthday and even though she should be 41 (If we went by how you count) she is still In her thirties!
Hey Tim, I havent wrote on here in a long time but i fealt like you were with me the other day. My mom let me help her coach these two freshman girls who she feels can play varsity. When I was giving them pointers I found myself quoting things that you told me. Like always bring the ball up with your weak hand so when you make a move the ball will be in your strong hand. They were picking up your pointers so quick and they made a tremendous improvement by the end of practice. Thank you for being with me there and please keep helping me as I work with them... I miss you, Shane
Saint Rose reunion in memory of our dear friend Tim on Feb 2nd at PJ's?????
We miss you Tim!
Well the holiday's are through and the family spent lots of time together. Christmas was at my home and everyone seemed to enjoy it. I'm glad I could do that and be an anchor for all, especially after the year we've had. I just was telling Kathy that I feel the "sluge" of the next month upon me. It feels so hard knowing that the one year anniversary will be coming up very shortly and it doesn't seem possible. I keep trying to remember you are happy and so much better off, but it's very difficult to know you are physically gone from Lisa and the children and they really really needed you around longer. Well we all need to keep going on and make life good for all those around us. If we all try to be a little like you and wear a smile or say something positive to someone it will be for the better all around. Thanks for giving us your inspiration Tim. You were always such a positive influence on others.
I'll remember you always Love ya, Reebe
Worst of 2005 - Learning of Tim Lenahan's Death.
Best of 2005 - The unbeleivable outpouring of emotion and support by friends and family of current & former falcons at Tim's service, this website, the Tribute in the form of the Lenahan Alumni Game.
God Bless You Tim, I miss you!
Now that you have God's ear instead of the Ref's, give your family the strength to find peace and graceful perseverance through these times.
hey timmy, it's me erin.i just wanted you to know that ive been thinking about you alot lately.it's been really hard not being able to see you at all the tournaments. i really miss the talk you always use to say to my dad right in front of me acting like i wasn't there.i remember exactly each word. "hey mike i think your daughter gets prettier everytime i see her. she's very gifted to have such talent and be so beautiful." and i all i would do was laugh. but most of all i miss the smile that you always kept on your face. even though i really wouldnt see you much outside of the camps and tournaments, each time i saw you i always had something to remember about that day. and i thank you for helping me through out my years of basketball,i thank you for helping me be a better person, i thank you for everything. i'll miss you always.
In about 30 days it will be the one year mark since we lost our dear Tim. I know many will wear their wristband, say prayers and maybe sit in a church or quiet place and mourn. How can we help the family? How can we help each other? How can we honor the man and the memory?
Hey Tim, Happy New Year. It was really different this year without. Me and Jamie were sitting at the X-Mas tournament on Wednesday night and we were watching the kids clean up, and it SUCKED. It was the worst. It felt so bad not having you there. I miss you. There are so many times I say to myself I need to go tell Timmy that, and then I remember I can't.
THE HOLIDAYS ARE OVER AND LISA AND THE KIDS GOT THROUGH THEM AS WELL AS CAN BE EXPECTED. THEY MISS YOU SO MUCH. I WAS WATCHING TV AND MORGY WAS LOOKING THROUGH THE SCRAPBOOK OF YOUR TRIP TO DISNEYWORLD. SHE WAS KISSING HER FINGERS AND THEN TOUCHING YOUR PICTURE. SHE THEN ASKED ME TO HELP HER FIND YOUR BRIEF CASE FROM BASKETBALL. WE WENT UP STAIRS AND FOUND IT AND IT HAS BEEN NEAR HER EVER SINCE. TC WAS NOT HAPPY BECAUSE HE IS AFRAID THAT MORGY WILL MESS UP SOMETHING THAT REMINDS HIM OF YOU. HOPEFULLY WE CAN KEEP BOTH OF THEM HAPPY.
THE 7TH GRADERS WON THE HOLY SAVIOUR TOURNAMENT BEATING JOE'S MOUNT CARMEL TEAM THAT HAD BEATEN THEM BY 30 POINTS IN THE 6TH GRADE PLAYOFFS LAST YEAR. IT IS FUNNY HOW THE PROGRAM PERPETUATES ITSELF. YOU SET THE GROUND WORK AND JAMIE HAS CONTINUED AS CLOSELY AS POSSIBLE AND HAS ALSO ADDED SOME OF HIS OWN STUFF. YOU AND I BOTH KNOW HOW GOOD OF A COACH HE IS. JOHN IS DOING A GOOD JOB GETTING KIDS IN AND I DO SEE ALOT OF IMPROVEMENT IN THE KIDS. CONN MAN PLAYED PRETTY WELL AND NOW I AM WAITING FOR HIM TO GET THAT GROWTH SPURT. WHEN THAT HAPPENS I THINK ALOT OF THINGS WILL COME TOGETHER AND HE WILL BE ABLE TO PLAY ON THE NEXT LEVEL. HE MISSES YOU BUT DOESN'T HAVE ANY EASY WAY TO EXPRESS IT SO HE STAYS STOIC AND KEEPS IT INSIDE. I WAS THE SAME WAY AFTER MY FATHER DIED.
FRANKIE IS STARTING AT HADDON TOWNSHIP WHICH I KNOW DOESN'T SURPRISE YOU. STEVEN IS PLAYING AT SAINT JOE'S PREP. WHICH YOU KNOW DOESN'T SURPRISE ME. BOTH PAT AND ANDREW ARE PLAYING AT CAMDEN CATHOLIC. THE EIGHTH GRADES WON THE PAUL VI TOURNAMENT AND HAVE SPLIT TWO GAMES WITH THE DREAM TEAM. IT WILL BE INTERESTING TO SEE WHO WINS IN MARCH.
PEOPLE KEEP COMING UP TO ME AND ASKING HOW I AM DOING WHICH IS NICE OF THEM. RON WISTER TOLD ME THE OTHER DAY THAT I SEEMED MELANCHOLY. I DO GET A CERTAIN PATHOS WHEN I THINK ABOUT THE KIDS NOT HAVING YOU AROUND TO HELP THEM THROUGH SOME OF THE PAINS OF GROWING UP. IT IS HARD FOR ME NOT TO GET TEARS IN MY EYES WHEN MORGY AND I TALK ABOUT YOU AS SHE TRIES TO FALL ASLEEP. I ALWAYS WHISPER IN HER EAR BEFORE I LEAVE THAT HER DADDY LOVES AND WILL ALWAYS BE WITH HER.
HANNA PUPPY AND TUFFY SEND THEIR LOVE. HANNA SELDOM LEAVES MY SIDE AND LOVES TO TAKE RIDES BECAUSE IT REMINDS HER OF YOU. TAKE CARE MY FRIEND.
Tims, happy new year honey bun. I miss you as do John, Kim, Joann. We spent the holidays together for the first time in several years,missed you. Relationships is what it is all about. Without each other life does not have meaning. You gave to all of us, we are all better as a result of this. I know you and Mare have your hands full watching over us, Susie has now joined your team. Thank you for helping her with her last few days. I feel bad about moving because I can not help Lisa and the kids as much as I want.You and Lisa have done a wonderful job with your children,they are awesome. Thank you for you unselfish love and encouraging me. I wish I had recorded all of our conversations, they are hard for me to remember,and they sure helped me tremendously. Timmy I miss you. Love Judy
Happy new year dad. Me, Alec, frank, Connor, and Scruff welcomed the new year with some of your old fire crackers. We blew up a few oranges and a banana (Note that when blown to peices bananas are nasty) Mom went to a party and Dors watched TV. Tonight wasn't to out of the ordinary. Well, Happy New Year.
-Taylor
Happy New Year Tim we miss ya
HAPPY NEW YEAR TIM!!!
before every game I say a prayer that God will watch over Kelsey and keep her healthy and then I ask you to guide her as well. well you both did just that a few weeks ago, when kelsey's team played st rose. kelsey had a great game - driving the wood out of the baseline as someone called it. so last night, i am driving from work to pvi for the christmas tournament and i am saying my routine pre-game prayers, and i am in the middle of tim please guide kelsey and my tire blows out. and i called out to you and asked what you are telling me and laughed. and i am sitting on 95n waiting for the road side service and triple a and the penn dot guy comes and changes the tire. now i get back on the road and i am missing the tip off and i am talking to you again and asking you to keep the spare tire good and i realize you are trying to teach me that i won't make every minute of every game and kelsey will be ok and you will be there with her. so i get to the game by the 2nd quarter. kelsey was fine. st rose goes on to win the game. (they played great by the way. you would be very proud.) and afterwards, morgan sits with kelsey as kelsey is unlacing her sneakers and says : what was that airball ? and what about that very bad pass ? and what is with the one handed passes ? and how she is going to tell dorsey how kelsey needs some help. and kelsey laughed and hugged morgan and said mr tim is really here with us. we hugged morgan just to make sure - and knew you were there. morgan is so you !!! kelsey gave her a basketball cereal bowl for christmas. morgan gave us the long list of all her gifts. she seems to be having a good christmas. she is laughing and smiling. she told me that connor is doing well and so is tj. tonight, kelsey's team plays st mary's wlmstwn for third place. last match up was emotional and k's team won. please watch over kelsey and help her w those one handed cannon passes. (she needs to use two hands.) and watch over my tires if you get a chance. miss you every day. thanks for bringing morgan to us last night. m
Hey Tim-Come to the Camden Catholic -Lenape game on Wednesday night in Wildwood. Two coaching buddies with the x and o's you enjoy.We can't compare missing you at games to what Lisa and the kids are going through but we miss you never the less.
Merry Christmas! Mr. Lenahan my family misses you so much, especially my dad. Hope your family has a good one, its gona be hard so stick with them. I bought Morgan, Con, and Taylor something but I wont see them till later next week. The team is doing good. Timmy Crawford is amazing you wouldnt believe it. Joe Nardis a huge help to st rose. Chris Jermyns got a good dribble and is really focused. Cody, John O.,Spencer, Ryan, Mike all the rest of the team is doing good. Keep us strong this season after are lost to St petes merchantville. We love you so much and pray for you and your family everyday.
I love you mr. lenahan
Hey Tim, haven't written you in awhile, but things have been crazy. I have to tell you though, I had Morgan at my practice tonight and she has a better left than my freshman. God she is good Tim, I get so upset, b/c you would be loving watching her, it is amazing. And the best part about it is, she loves it, probably just as much as you. I don't know how you did all it these years, b/c I have been at this coaching thing for only 2 months and I am ready to pull my hair out. I have to say though most of the things I have learned from you I am passing on. I can hear you in the back of my head: backboard, box out, up and under, all that stuff I am trying to pass on. I have to tell you this other thing too that you will love, Andrew was doing layups with my girls the other day and there were peole in the gym left over from the boys scrimmage, so he is doing his layups not using the backboard and I let him go twice, well the third time he did it again, I screamed at the top of my lungs "Andrew use the g.. da.. backboard" and all these people turned around and looked at me with their jaws open that I was yelling at this little six year old. And the funnier thing is they probably had no idea that he was my son cuz you know that whole color thing throws people off. You would have gotten a kick out of it. I still think about you everyday. I miss you. Please help Lisa, Taylor, Connor, and Morgan get through Christmas. It is going to be hard....let them know you are there. Love and miss you Gert.
Tim,
I attended the Paul VI/Camden Catholic game last night with my Dad. We both commented on how it just was not the same without seeing you there. I still expected to meet you there with your entourage - Dors, Joe Neal, Jamie, the kids, maybe even Lisa - nibbling on the Twizzlers in your pocket, sitting front row, end seat across from the visitor bench. Some things never change though - Camden Catholic wins again, 27 in a row. Let me say that we were 3-0 against the Irish in my years including the time Art Mascolo was fouled hard into the visitor stands behind the basket at PVI and punched by a Camden catholic student. So what's wrong with PVI? Better coaching? Tougher kids? Fundamentals? Pete and I both agreed it was the fact that somewhere back in the early 90's, after I graduated and Catholic started their run, Saint Rose basketball players stopped making PVI the natural choice for a high school. I think it is no secret that Coach Crawford has had more prepared kids in the last 15 years. I was torn last night between my alma mater and the team with the Saint Rose kids. Your legacy lives on!
Anyhow, Merry Christmas my Santa-built friend. We miss you dearly and last night made it hit home for me. Even as Dors sprinted (I use that term generously since it appeared as if he was having back spasms the whole way along the baseline) to the door with TC in tow, I pictured you stopping to chat with everybody on your way out and going to PJ's to break it all down for us. We are doing our best to help Lisa and the kids and Dors get through this.
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Gems
Taylor, you sure do have your father's sense of humor (as far as about helping Dors with his stocks).
Tim, we "upset" Paul VI tonight. I don't really consider it an upset being that they haven't beaten us since the early 90's. I think its something like 27 straight games now. But technically, as far as rankings we did. It looked a little dull early as they got out to a nice first quarter lead, but Mr. Crawford took it from there. I know you were on our side tonight.
Tim, I miss you more than anything. Please help Lisa and the kids this Christmas, and Dors with his stocks.
Love, Colin
Hey, dad. Haven't talked with you in a long time. Thought I would just tell you how much I'm gona miss you this you christmas. You know, Mr.Heali (sorry, I really don't know how to spell your name.) told me that first's are the hardest. As in like this being the first christmas without you. It's going to be the first year we are all going to wake up and not have you sitting on the couch jumping up and down like an animal awaiting the opening of our gifts. It's gona be the first year that Hannah won't get to go with you for a car ride when you take us to school (Which she loved may I add). It will be the first time I have a few questions that remain to be answered that I can't ask you. It's going to be the first year that memories mean more to us then anything we could ever own. It's the first...thinking of you always.
Merry Christmas, Taylor
P.S.- Tell God to put the word in with Santa. Morgan wants anythign pink, Connor wants video games, Mom wants an IPOD, and Dors needs alot of luck with the stock market (and when I say alot I mean ALOT).
Hey, dad. Haven't talked with you in a long time. Thought I would just tell you how much I'm gona miss you this you christmas. You know, Mr.Heali (sorry, I really don't know how to spell your name.) told me that first's are the hardest. As in like this being the first christmas without you. It's going to be the first year we are all going to wake up and not have you sitting on the couch jumping up and down like an animal awaiting the opening of our gifts. It's gona be the first year that Hannah won't get to go with you for a car ride when you take us to school (Which she loved may I add). It will be the first time I have a few questions that remain to be answered that I can't ask you. It's going to be the first year that memories mean more to us then anything we could ever own. It's the first...thinking of you always.
Merry Christmas, Taylor
P.S.- Tell God to put the word in with Santa. Morgan wants anythign pink, Connor wants video games, Mom wants an IPOD, and Dors needs alot of luck with the stock market (and when I say alot I mean ALOT).
Dear Tim,
well right now I'm just sittin at home thinking about our big game tommorow against St. Petes. We already beat them once but its gonna be tough. I know you would have something to say to calm me down but I'm still nervous.
Way to go GUYS ! Tim would be proud of you. Don't let this one go to your head....you have a long season ahead of you. Keep doing what Tim taught you. Jamie is doing a fine job and you certainly have the talent and skills to win it all !
Stay focused, work hard every day, and when practice seems to be too hard...work harder. When talent works hard it can not lose... but when less talent works harder than talent...talent WILL lose. Keep going....You still have a championship to win !
LETS GO ST ROSE!!!
LETS GO ST ROSE!!!
hi tim we won are first tournament at pvi it felt great for all of us we miss u alot and we beat st. petes merchantville that felt even better for us miss u
hi tim we won are first tournament at pvi it felt great for all of us we miss u alot and we beat st. petes merchantville that felt even better for us miss u
HERE I AM ON ANOTHER SATURDAY NIGHT SITTING WITH HANNA AND TUFFY WAITING FOR MORGY TO GET HOME. IT IS HARD TO BELIEVE THAT IT HAS BEEN 10 MONTHS SINCE I SPOKE WITH YOU. YESTERDAY WAS CON MAN'S BIRTHDAY. CAN YOU BELIEVE THAT HE IS A TEENAGER. IT SEEMS LIKE YESTERDAY WHEN YOU AND LISA INTRODUCED HIM TO TC. HE MISSES YOU SO MUCH. MORGY IS PLAYING IN A COUPLE OF LEAGUES AND PLAYED IN A SIXTH GRADE TOURNAMENT. IN THE SEMI-FINALS SHE WAS THE CO-LEADING SCORER. SHE IS PLAYING IN THE MT. EPHRIM LEAGUE WITH THE THIRD AND FOURTH GRADERS AND IS HER TEAM'S LEADING SCORER BUT DOES LIKE TO JACK IT UP. EVERY NIGHT BEFORE SHE GOES TO SLEEP, WE TALK ABOUT YOU. SHE PLANS ON BEING A COACH WHEN SHE GETS OLDER. SHE MAKES ME PUT ON THE COUNTRY STATIONS IN THE CAR AND WHENEVER ONE OF YOUR FAVORITE SONGS COMES ON SHE'LL SAY "DADDY LOVED THIS SONG." TAYLOR JUST FINISHED THE FIRST MARKING PERIOD AT PAUL VI. NEITHER LISA NOR I HAVE SEEN HIS REPORT CARD YET BUT HOPEFULLY IT IS OK. I KNOW HE THINKS ABOUT ALL THE TIME AND IS TRYING TO DO WHAT YOU WOULD LIKE HIM TO DO. I JUST TELL HIM THAT YOU WANT HIM TO BE HAPPY AND DO HIS BEST. IT IS A DIFFICULT TIME IN LIFE FOR HIM AND WITH YOU ONLY BEING HERE IN SPIRT, IT MAKES IT EVEN HARDER. I AM TRYING TO HELP HIM AS MUCH AS I CAN BUT NO ONE WILL EVER BE ABLE TO FILL THE VOID THAT YOU LEFT IN HIS LIFE AND THE LIVES OF SO MANY PEOPLE THAT YOU TOUCHED OVER THE YEARS.
BASKETBALL SEASON HAS BEGUN AND THE TEAM LOST IN THE SEMI-FINALS TO ST. MARY'S OF THE LAKES. I GUESS IT WAS A MINOR UPSET BUT YOU KNOW THAT THOSE KIDS ALWAYS PLAY SMART AND KEVIN DOES AN OUTSTANDING JOB COACHING. THE TEAM BOUNCED BACK WITH A BIG WIN OVER CHRIST THE KING WHO WAS LEADING 24-12 AT THE END OF THE FIRST QUARTER. THAT IS ANOTHER TEAM WITH A LOT OF TALENT AND TONY DEVLIN IS COACHING THEM. HE IS ALSO COACHING MOORESTOWN FRIENDS HIGH SCHOOL VARSITY. HE AS CRAZY AS JAMIE. I SAW CAMDEN CATHOLIC SCRIMMAGE NEWARK EAST SIDE TONIGHT. JIMMY WAS NOT A HAPPY CAMPER. EAST SIDE WAS VERY GOOD AND EXPOSED SOME OF THE THINGS THAT CATHOLIC NEEDS TO WORK ON. JIMMY WILL NOT SLEEP TONIGHT BUT BY THE TIME THE REAL GAMES START HE WILL FIGURE OUT WHAT HE NEEDS TO TWEEK AND GET HIS 22 WINS. CATHOLIC PLAYS PAUL VI THE SECOND GAME OF THE SEASON. PAUL VI MAY HAVE THE MOST TALENT OF ANY TEAM IN THE AREA. I WOULD LIKE TO BRING YOU TO THE GAME BUT I DON'T THING LISA WILL LET ME. HANNA SAYS HI AND SAYS THAT SHE MISSES TAKING RIDES WITH YOU AND RUNNING DOWN BY THE LAKE. JIMMY AND HIS WIFE AND DAUGHTER WERE IN THIS PAST WEEK. DEZ WAS ALSO IN A WEEK AGO. I THINK MORGY WILL BE HOME ANY TIME NOW SO I AM GOING DOWNSTAIRS AND WATCH TV.
Tim, Thanks for the help you have been sending our way. The road is starting to smooth out and we appreciate the way you have been"setting screens" for us. Had to throw in some b ball talk. It still is painful to drive by St Rose and not be able to see you spur of the moment. You are with us still in spirit.
God I miss u Tim! tryouts for Camden Catholic Basketball started just three days ago and the final cuts were made yesterday. Coming from St.Rose I naturally had to go out for the team and I just didnt believe how I was actually able to keep up with some of the other kids. Moments like that bring me back to when I was in sixth grade and I was a first class beach-warmer. Tim once said "I couldnt dribble the ball and breath at the same time." I even got kicked out of practice twice during practice that year. But that summer going into seventh grade all I had on my mind was basketball. Everyday I would call Dom Schiavone and we would go down and shoot around for a while and sometimes the 8th graders would be down there so we'd play with them and then go to watchdog and cool down. Then that beginning of the 7th grade season I broke my left wrist because Zach Pacana pushed my onto a pill of chairs. Thankfully it was early enough in the season where I was able to come back to fully practicing by thanksgiving. We won all 7 of our games that year including a 7th grade tournament. Then came the big year where basketball would matter the most. My 8th grade year I ended up becoming the 4th man on the team. We went on to win the CCHS and PVI tourney and winning all of our regular season games until that fatefull night. The year had its ups and downs but we ended up beating St.Petes and winning the championship. Now came the days that really counted. Making the freshman team was all that mattered to me. Yesterday on the final days of tryouts I said a prayer to Timmy wishing for his help during this final day. There were only susposed to be 10 to 12 kids on the team which made me feel doubtful of if I would make it. Surprisingly they kept 14 kids for the team and I was one of them. I was so shocked at how many they kept but I knew that Timmy had meant for that to happen and for me to make the team. Today I had my first practice as part of the Camden Catholic team. It was unfathumable how similar and different the practices were. After practice I was gonna go to St.Rose to practice with the 8th graders but since its a Tuesday they had off. And now Im here writing this message hoping to vent out all of the great help that Timmy has been in my life. Thank you Tim so much for all ur help Im my life. I love you and miss you.
Hey Tim I miss You alot I hav not talked to Mrs Lenahan lately but i hope shes doing ok. Conner is doing reely well this year so far in basketball. I hope to see you soon.... but not to soon
It's Thanksgiving and one of the things I am most thankful for is knowing you. I met you at your Guard Dribble camp three summer ago, and the following year in the fall I started to go to you at St. Rose individually for help with my shot. But, you never JUST helped me with my shot, you helped me improve every aspect of my game. I'm thankful for having met you, and for everything you helped me with. You helped make me into a much better basketball player, and I couldn't thank you enough. Not a day goes by that I don't think about you and everything you helped me with. Every time i pick up a ball or watch basketball or think about it...i also think about you.
Season starts tomorrow and I hope I can use everything you taught me and do well! Thanks for everything, Tim.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving Timmy! There is an enormous void today as many of your "kids" come back to the area for the Holiday. I'm thinking of you today and I'm sure thousands of us feel the void today as we celebrate the holiday. On a day like today which is truly a great day. be with us all in spirit. I'm thankful for the time we had with you. God bless your family today.
p.s. go Broncos!
Tim, what's up pal? Still missin you like crazy. Basically every time I shoot I think of you. Shoulders forward, it needs arc, get your left off, all that stuff. It works, who woulda thought. I still missing shots and I still let it get to me more than it should. I'm trying to work as hard as I can in practice, trying to fight for that spot. I love being able to come to you when I can't seem to figure something out. Like my defense, I cant quite get it. I'm working hard, but sometimes it seems like it's too hard, and I overdo it. I'm sure you would know what to tell me. Thanks for getting me where I am. I went to the Sixers game with my dad and Ryan Cass tonight, we talked about you, the alumni games, and basketball altogether. I really am still coming to realize how much I have learned from you. When somebody says something that rings a bell, it's always because I heard it from you first. Thanksgiving is coming up soon, I'm pumped, and I know you would be too. The three "F"s, food, family, and football, how can ya beat that? Happy Turkey Day, Tim, I'll be thinking about you as you feast up in heaven. Speaking of feasting, remember when we beat St. Pete's at our place and you bought the whole world pizza at Toscana's just like you promised you would? haha One of the best memories of my life, and probably a few of the best slices of pizza that ever crossed my lips. I can remember laying on the sidewalk, just gazing up at the stars, while people were walking and talking all around me, yet I felt so relaxed and deeply happy. I can't remember the last time I gazed up at the stars with that kind of total satisfaction, as if I had conquered the world in the form of basketball, the best form in which to conquer the world in my opinion. So thanks Tim, just another thing I wanted to thank you for. Missing you always, and you're always welcome at a Prep game this season.
Love, Charlie
Timothy Patrick, I think of you every hour of every day and wonder what your doing in Heaven without us. I know you are one of Gods right hand men and are very busy helping all the new souls arriving every day. I hope they know how lucky they are to have you. The kids and I have a void that will never be filled it's just something you learn to deal with. I feel you around me all the time and miss you telling how much you love me. T.C. is playing beautiful music, Connor is playing bass and doing very well in bball and Timmy little Morgy wears your shirts to bed every night and talks about you all the time and is unbelievable with the basketball. I have to hold back tears every time I watch her play because you would be so damm proud of her. I told her how lucky she was to have her daddy looking out for her from Heaven. He can do so many special things from up above. Please visit her in her dreams and give her lots of hugs and kisses she misses you so much. I took her to see a movie about an 8 year little girl and her daddy and they trained horses together. Needless to say it probably wasn't the best choice because we thought about how much we both missed you through the whole movie. The positive that came to my mind was so many young children never have a positive father figure in there life and our children had many years of a high quality daddy. Thank you again for giving me the life I always dreamed about as a little girl. Thank you for taking such good care of us in life and even death. Because of all the selfless things you have done for thousands of people they are now giving back to your family each and every day. We are so humbled and truly greatful to all of them. I can not tell you how much peace this web site brings when I read all the awesome entries. There is know doubt that all the love we all feel for you you feel in Heaven and knowing you Timmy you only keep what you need and share with all the other souls who need some extra love. we love you.
Waddy! I miss you buddy. Your sons writing skills are crazy! His words paint such a vivid picture its scary. He has talent! Taylor- keep writing, you have a strong future ahead of you. I can't wait for the first book. So basketball has started and it's crazy how once October hits and the smell in the air changes I just think of those days sitting on the big concrete block at half court waiting for the Brady drills. I still teach them now. Your kids talk about the moon, and its so true. I walked home from pratcice almost every night back in the day. And I always wished that it was a bright moon so i would have some light on the way home. that moon makes me think of fall/winter ball so much. We would laugh at Msgr about those lights he put up but never put on because all we needed was a sliver of the moon and we would be out there playing. The moon makes me think of you as well. I know thats your big smilling face up there now. Hey a couple of things. Billy starts his season this week, he opens up with Georgetown. Then he has Air Force, U Penn, and some others. Give him some guidence. We talk about you all the time. You would be so proud of him. It's crazy how many things you tuaght us little guys, he still teaches it the same way you did, decades later, and to college kids. He is a good mixture of both you and my Dad, or I should say my 2 Dads. I know you are looking over him, thanks. I took along my daughter Casey to practice with me today. She is 2 and she is already yelling at the kids. So she asked me who this one lady was as she pointed, and I said thats the coach, she goes oh thats Timmy? I just lost it laughing aloud. You crack me up. The other thing I thought of the other day was the time i was coming back from a game when i was in 6th grade and you drove me home, like normally after every away game. Anyway you stuck me in the trunk of the Charger, or whatever it was. I just remember being plastered to the glass trunk along with the ball bag, and the clip board digging into my side. You would of thought i would be the first one to get dropped off! No i was the last, not only that he never came out to get me even when he dropped the others off. You kept me in that trunk even after you dropped every one else off. then I swore you would go find the bumpiest road and fly over dips! You would just be laughing that huge Irish belly as I was screaming with laughter, but you couldn't hear me because the music was on full blast. Thanks for dropping me off last! i'm so thankful now for that extra time i got to spend with you! i love you Waddy! i miss the heck out of you.
Yours always...Markus
Hey Timmy, A lot is going on right now that I wish you were here for. I am going to coach the freshman at Paul VI. How scary is that? I am a little nervous, but I will do my best. Andrew played football this year, and they just got done their last game on Saturday, they finished 8-0. He had such a great game on Saturday. I know you and my dad were there with him, b/c he really was much better than any other game. Even his coaches that night asked me where he came from and I just looked up at the sky b/c I knew he came from you two. I miss you Tim. I just want to talk to you one more time. I have such a void in my heart. Please stay with us. Help us through Friday, it is going to be an emotional night. It really won't be the same. I love you Mr. Tim. Love Gert.
IT IS TUESDAY NIGHT AND I AM ABOUT TO PICK MORGY UP AT BECKEY'S. DON DEVLIN TOOK THE BOYS AND FRANK TO THE 76ERS GAME AND LISA IS AT A MANDATORY PTA MEETING. I JUST WALKED THE DOGS AND IT IS JUST A BEAUTIFUL NIGHT. THE MOON IS ALMOST FULL AND IT MUST BE AROUND 65 OUT. IT IS THE KIND OF NIGHT THAT YOU WOULD HAVE LOVED.
TC RECEIVED CONFIRMATION ON SUNDAY AND AS I WENT UP TO THE ALTAR WITH HIM I KNOW THAT WE WERE BOTH THINKING ABOUT YOU. HE TOOK TIMOTHY AS HIS CONFIRMATION NAME, OBVIOUSLY. WE LEFT A SEAT IN OUR PEW FOR YOU AND I KNOW YOU WERE THERE. MORGY IS PLAYING IN THREE LEAGUES, TWO OF WHICH ARE FOR 5TH AND 6TH GRADERS. CONN IS STARTING FOR THE 7TH GRADERS AND THE TEAM AS A GROUP IS LOOKING MUCH BETTER.
THE 8TH GRADES HAVE PLAYED A COUPLE OF GAMES AND HAVE LOOKED VERY GOOD. I DON'T KNOW IF THEY CAN BEAT THE DREAM TEAM BUT THEY WILL GIVE IT EVERYTHING THEY HAVE. JAMIE IS DOING A FANTASTIC JOB WITH THE KIDS. THE TEAM IF VERY ENTERTAINING AND PLAYS WITH A LOT OF HEART. THEY WILL GIVE SAINT PETES ALL THEY CAN HANDLE. TIMMY CRAWFORD IS A STUD. YOU KNOW ME, I NEVER THINK THE KID IS BETTER THAN HIS DAD WAS BUT THIS MAY BE AN EXCEPTION. I DID PLAY A LOT OF BALL WITH DENNIS WHEN HE WAS YOUNG AND TIMMY SHOWS ME A LOT OF THE QUALILTIES THAT DENNIS SHOWED. I DON'T KNOW IF HE WILL BE AS SMART A PLAYER AS DENNIS BUT HE MAY HAVE MORE TALENT.
IT IS TIME FOR ME TO GET MORGY. STAY CLOSE TO LISA AND THE KIDS. THEY STILL NEED YOU. SOMEHOW LET THEM KNOW THAT IT IS OK TO BE HAPPY. YOU KNOW THAT I WILL DO EVERYTHING I CAN TO HELP THEM. AND BY THE WAY, THANKS FOR GIVING ME THE BEST PART OF YOU.
MR. LENAHAN I MISS U ALOT. I`V BEEN THINKING ABOUT U ALOT LATELY. NOW THAT THE SEASONS STARTED. WE LOOK GOOD TIM, CHRIS , WALTER, JOHN O, JOE , SPENCER, SHANE , MIKE , KEVIN, RYAN, TOM, ZACH. THE 7TH GRADERS ARE COMING TOGETHER TO.JAIME , JIM MR. NEAL AND JOHN ARE DOING A GOOD JOB.
I MISS U ALOT TIM AND UR ALWAYS ON MY MIND AND IN MY PRAYERS. R.I.P TIM AND WATCH OVER THE TEAM THIS YEAR.THANX FOR ALL YOU DID FOR ME I LL ALWAYS REMEBER YOU.
Charlie,
Whether you win the spot at St Joes is important to you. For the rest of us it is incredible the fine young man you have become. It is a tribute to Timmy & your great family the inspiration one person can have on your life & so many others. Steve (your Dad) & I are privileged to play 2nd fiddle to Timmy in regard to the impact he had on your success as well as Colin. Maria & I are so lucky to have a son like Colin who is so blessed with your friendship as well as The Camden Catholic bunch. All of you are an extension of Timmy. Maria & I thank Timmy every night for bringing us Lisa, Taylor Guitar, Con-Man & Morgan Iverson. Charlie, not only has Timmy changed your life he has changed everyones life who ever had contact with him.
Tim, I miss you. More than ever. I need your strength right now as the basketball season is starting up. I'm fighting for that spot, man! Could you imagine me starting for the Prep?? That would make my high school career. I asking you to only help me, but wow, it would be incredible. Taylor, you are an awesome writer. Your entries read as smooth as butter, just like your dad's J (wink). Keep writing, it is a skill that not many people have, and it will last you forever. Not to mention it helps in the college process. I always find comfort in the site, thanks everyone for posting and keeping my spirits going. Tim I will try to keep you posted on my college stuff, I am visiting a couple this weekend (Monmouth and Fordham). Tonight I saw the play at the Prep, and it was really good. But one of the characters reminded me so much of you. He was a lawyer, and the way that he argued his point of view was exactly the way you argued yours: passionate beyond comprehension, and always posing questions that were so simple, yet there was so much more to them. Tim I refused to get into arguments with you. Not like there was too much we disagreed on, but if there was I figure I would have lost anways, so why bother. It made me smile to see your qualities in someone else. The most amazing part about my revelation tonight was that this kid was just an actor in a play, yet that was actually how you were: passionate and deep. Tim I love you, I don't know if I have ever said that. I am yet to take off the wristband, not even once (except for basketball games when they make me, and instead I don a sweatband on which your initials are written). Taylor, Connor, Morgan, Mrs. Lenahan, if there is anything I can help out with, please let me know. I'm always willing to help. Best of luck to the team this year. They have the talent, now they need the unrelenting passion that you always had, Tim. See you soon.
-Charlie
Boy I certainly don't like following Taylor, I can't write nearly as well. But here are my thoughts.. Just like Timmy, I have a large amount of longtime friends, guys that I went to grammar and high school with, played ball and hung out at the shore all summer long. Some are successfull in business and we often talk about what make a person rich. Is at a beautiful home, Tim had that , a fancy black truck..hehe.. or lots of money. But what you findly come to realize is that its all your friends , your family and how people care about you, and how you love them back. Thats why Timmy had the richest of lives. Ive had the pleasure of meeting some of those friends, Dors who is awesome and you can see why he was and is still always at Tim's side, and many of the parents that still come to his camps that he influenced. A few weeks before Tim died we had a long talk and I told him the huge affect he had on all of the kids he coached and he almost blushed and pushed it aside, but its true. As for you Taylor the great thing about genetics, not only do you look like your dad but you get all the other good stuff that goes with it, look at Morgan and Conner I see there dad in each one of them. Next Sunday Nov. 13 is the last Camp at Queen of Heaven ...see you next year. Watch out for the Queen of Heaven Royals....we're baaackkk.
Those snow falls of December aren't to far away. It feels so weird knowing that (what feels like) not to long ago we would shovel snow in the morning to make pathways for mom's daycare clients. When you died in February, I remember watching the paramedics take you to the ambulance. I was standing in the doorway watching and that walkway that we shoveled never looked so long before. That winding stretch of concrete extended far beyond its limits that night and I still can't help but wait for you to come walking up that walkway again. I feel so lost sometimes because I forget that nothing is the way it is supposed to be. You aren't getting ready for another season, I'm not coming home everyday to you smiling in that same doorway I stood in that night, and it seems like I have no reassurance of anything anymore. Those dreams we both had of the future and of life are now lost in that February twilight. I still stand in that door way, walk up that walkway, and will shovel that snow for as long as I will live and even though those foot prints we left will never be embedded in that winter snow again they still show up in everything you have ever touched and I think that is your greatest accomplishment; leaving a mark in time. As you looked up at the moon that February night I think time stopped in that moment because it would be the last time you would ever look up at that moon. The same moon you looked at everyday of your life. When you were born, when your parents died, when you married mom, when you would leave St.Rose, when me, Connor, and Morgan were born, and when you took your last breaths, you looked up at that moon; the moon I look at every night. Every night when Dors leaves I walk him to the door. I do it every single night. I watch him get in his car and then I pray to you. Pray that he will get home safely, because without him then we would really have nothing. So far you have answered all those prayers and I thank you for that. So please watch over Dors, Connor, Morgan, and Mom and maybe you will be all the heat we need this winter. I love you dad. Good night.
wow can you believe the seasons already started! the teams is working hard but still needs you there every practice and most of all every game, personally i no they miss you so much and its definitly not the same with out you, jamie is trying hard and i know he will do a good job but come on i think we need to pull off some more tropheys, St Rose Champions 06' sounds good. the 8th graders are so siked for this year they want to win it all so bad for you, help them as much as you can they really need it. Timmy, Chris, Cody, John, Joe, Ryan, Spencer, Zach, Shane, Brian and Mike ... wow sounds like some really good players, i know it wont be easy but please help us win and be the same wonderful team as last year!!!
i love you coach
watch out hear we come---- Falcons 06'!!!!
Tim I miss you alot basket ball just started and so far every one is practicing hard this season won't be the same because you won't be there to help us win but i promise you we will do our best. I pray to you every night I hope you are getting those prayers, incase ur not heres what i pray to you every night. Dear Tim please help Mrs Lenahan, connor, Taylor, and Morgan live a happy full life. I will always miss you Tim
Tim, I'm very proud that you were able to leave a piece of your physical self here on earth to help those in need. God knows you left a piece of your spirit with all of us. Still thinking of you everyday. Jackson Oliver St. Rose Falcons '95
Tim,
I picked Andrew up from football practice and after dinner we went over to the gym to see Jamie and the team. I wanted to see if Jamie would want to have him there for competitive work outs for the 8th graders. I should have known but the first words out of Jamies mouth were "Absolutely, Once a Falcon, always a Falcon".
The team seems to be missing "the edge" they have had in the past. I know that you gave them that and I believe that Jamies time with you on the sidelines will bring this back to the team.
Your spirit still hangs over that court and I look forward to seeing several games this season......Always thinking of you
W O W ! Living on in our hearts, our minds and now others. Tim, your influences continue to know no bounds. You are truely the the most giving human being any of us may ever know...
Today is a cold and dreary Thursday and I have been thinking of you alot. I am having a tough time thinking about St. Rose Basketball without you. I just read Jamie's posting and feel so bad for him. He has a tough job to do but I know he will do an awesome job. I know you will still be coaching from Heaven. He needs you to stand next to him and give the strength he needs. I recieved a letter today that made me so proud of you. The letter was from the NJ Sharing Network. I asked the women who runs it to please let me know if anyone was able to benefit from your organ donations. I found out today that a 59 year old man and a 66 year old woman from North Carolina and a 40 year old man and a 70 year old woman from Kansas were able to use your bone grafts. The improvement to the quality of life for these recipients is the result of you! I told T.C. Connor and Morgy and they got a huge smile on there face just like I did. The thought of a piece of you living on in someone makes us all so happy. I am so glad these people could be helped. I was always a little scared at the thought of donating my organs but because of you Timmy I will be getting an organ donation card so maybe others can be helped when I am gone. WE MISS and LOVE YOU SO MUCH! I feel you with me all the time. I still can see your cute smile and hear your infectious laugh. I love you. Lisa
If those wild horses couldn't drag us away then you can be damn sure we'll ride them some day...some day.
I always think about the time that taylor frank and I were in taylors room. Tim flys in with tuffy in hand, and flings him at taylor, and then proceeded to say, "Take your f**king dog and put him back in the day care!" Taylor sat there stunned as tim stormed out of the room, while frank and i were on the ground laughing our heads off. I always think about the funny memories ive had with tim, like the memorable car ride taylor and i shared with him on the way home from a new years eve party. Its stuff like this that makes me remember tim for who he was. Not the way he coached, or how he spoke. It was his personality. Just being in the room with him made you want to burst out in a smile, because thats how tim was. No matter what he said, he could make your day better, even if it was a simple "hey". While i'm still on great memories of tim, I can remember when morgan was first being born (or something related to that), i was at the hospital with tim and the kids. Thinking back on it, its weird, because i really dont remember it all that well, but what i do remember is how excited he was to have another kid come into the world. I really dont think its an expression that comes easy to people on a regular basis. Its the expression of a father who now has his life complete. I dont think he could have traded that moment for anything else in the world.
Always thinkin' of ya, Tim
10/24/2005 1:57 AM
TIM I'M SORRY, BUT THIS IS THE FIRST TIME IVE LOOKED AT THIS SITE OR POSTED. IT'S TRUELY AMASING. YOUR INFLUENCE IS ASTOUNDING. PRACTICE HAS BEGUN AND THE GYM FEELS EMPTY TO ME. OBVIOUSLY IT'S NOT AND WE'RE PUSHING FOWARD. ITS CRAZY, SOMETIMES MY MIND WANDERS WHILE IM COACHING AND I CANT BELIEVE SOMETHING I USED TO LOVE SO MUCH IS NOW SO DIFFICULT. I HOPE TIME AND THE DRONE OF THE SEASON WILL CHANGE THAT. IM TRYING TO REMEMBER ALL YOUR DRILLS , BUT THERE ARE SO MANY. IM TRYING TO STICK WITH STUFF I 'M COMFORTABLE WITH.YOU WERE SO GOOD AT THIS. I HOPE I DONT LET YOU DOWN. PLEASE HELP ME. ITS FUNNY, IN THE TEN YEARS WE WERE FRIENDS I RARELY, IF EVER, DREAMNT OF YOU. NOW ITS ABOUT ONCE A WEEK. THE STRANGE PART IS I ALWAYS KNOW ITS A DREAM. JUST ONCE IT WOULD BE NICE IF I DIDNT KNOW, SO WE COULD HANG OUT FOR A WHILE. THAT WOULD BE NICE. MAYBE EAT A FEW WINGS. AS FAR AS I CAN TELL DORS AND LISA HAVE EVERYTHING UNDER CONTROL. TC,CON,AND MORGY SEEM TO BE DOING WELL. SEEEING THEM ALWAYS MAKES ME HAPPY.HAILEY JO COMES TO DAY CARE WITH LISA NOW. SHE LOVES IT. I WISH SHE COULD HAVE KNOWN YOU. YOU WERE SUPPOSED TO TEACH HER A FEW THINGS, LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE. WELL MAYBE HER DADDY CAN PASS A FEW THINGS ALONG THAT YOU TAUGHT HIM. ITS NICE TO TALK TO YOU TIM. I MISS YOU. IM GONNA GO TO BED, SO GOODNIGHT DEAR FRIEND. PLEASE BE WITH EVERYONE, AND ILL TRY NOT TO MESS UP YOUR TEAM TO BAD.THANKS FOR EVERYTHING YOU DID FOR ME, AND IT WAS A LOT. I WILL ALWAYS BE GRATEFUL. JAMIE
IT'S SATURDAY NIGHT AND I AM WAITING FOR THE BOYS TO GET HOME. MORGY FELL ASLEEP IN MY ARMS AFTER WE HAD OUR ALMOST NIGHTLY TALK ABOUT YOU. SHE ASKED ME THE OTHER NIGHT HOW OLD I WAS WHEN MY PARENTS DIED AND WHEN I TOLD HER NINETEEN SHE SAID I WAS REALLY LUCKEY TO HAVE THEM THAT LONG. SHE WAS RIGHT. LAST SATURDAY I WATCHED TWO OF THE BEST COLLEGE FOOTBALL GAMES THAT I HAVE EVER SEEN. I LOOK OVER AT YOUR NORMAL SPOT ON THE FLOOR AND I COULD ALMOST SEE YOU RUBBING YOUR HANDS TOGETHER AND GETTING ALL EXCITED FOR THE LAST PLAYS OF THE GAME. I REALLY MISS THAT.
PRACTICE STARTED LAST WEEK. I KNOW THAT MORGY REALLY MISSES BEING THERE. IT MUST BE HARD FOR CONNOR AND NOW THAT I THINK ABOUT IT, EVERYBODY ELSE TOO. JAMIE IS TRYING TO KEEP MOST THINGS THE SAME BUT HE IS ADDING HIS OWN TOUCH WHICH IS GOOD. JOEY NARDI TRANSFERRED FROM CHRIST THE KING WHICH OBVIOUSLY WILL REALLY HELPS. HE CAME OVER AND INTRODUCED HIMSELF TO ME. HE SEEMS LIKE REALLY A NICE KID THAT WILL FIT RIGHT IN. THE TEAM IS LOOKING PRETTY GOOD AND MAYBE WILL GIVE ST. PETER'S SOMETHING TO WORRY ABOUT. JAMIE IS WORKING HARD ON BOXING OUT.
WELL TUFFY IS MAD BECAUSE HANNA PUPPY IS UP HERE WITH ME SO I WILL GO DOWNSTAIRS AND WAIT FOR BOYS TO GET HOME. I MISS YOU MY BROTHER.
as said before very very good essay char, im sure you could of wrote a 15 page essay
I did not know Mr. Lenahan as well as most of you probably did, I only know him through my dad who was Mr. Lenahans teammate throught most of highschool. But what I did know is that this man was one of the most respected figures that I have ever had the opportunity to meet. In talking with Mr. Lenahan on more than one occasion, I also grew a great deal of respect for him. In the brief time that I knew him he made an impact on me, not only as a basketball player, but as a maturing youth. Some of the things that Mr. Lenahan shared with me will stay in my heart forever. Thankyou Mr. Lenahan, you will never be forgotten by me or anyone else for that matter.
You know our love will not fade away
That was unbelievable Char.
Love you Tim.
Charlie,
That is an outstanding piece of writing! I have no doubt that any college admissions review board who reads this will jump at the opportunity to have someone of your caliber on thier campus.
Funny thing...although I never played for Tim, I could only spectate from the sideline for 4 years, but with each word that you wrote I could feel the same things that you were feeling...and I am sure that many others will too.
We were all blessed to be in the presence of a GIANT...a once in a lifetime event. Always remember Tim's message and you will succeed in life. Good luck
Char, that's a great essay man. You should get into Harvard writing about a man like Tim.
My dad and I had a long conversation about you the other day Tim. He misses you so much, he misses just sitting there for a whole practice and just talking and listening to you for 2-3 hours every night. I still can't grasp the fact that when I go back to watch Daniel's games and practices your not going to be there to give me a big hug and shake my hand. I saw Taylor a month or two ago at WaWa he's such a good kid I've known him for so long now and I always find myself remembering how much time we use to spend together when you guys babysat me. He's going to make so many friends in high school I know it because he's such an easy person to get along with. I miss you like hell Timmy and I love you so much. Ill talk to ya later.
Love, brett
“Winners do what losers won’t.” This is my motto for life. It was taught to me by one of the greatest men that I have ever known, Tim Lenahan. He died of a heart attack on February 2 of this year at age 47. I was devastated. But losing the man whom I considered to be my second father showed me that all of the things he taught me have rung true for my entire life up to this point, and will continue to ring true as long as I live. Unfortunately, I had to learn this through his passing, but I will never forget one word that that little Irish ball of love threw my way. Tim Lenahan was the head eighth grade basketball coach at St. Rose of Lima School, the Catholic elementary school that I attended from second to eighth grade. He had been the coach for almost 25 years, starting right out of high school. St. Rose was always known for its nt basketball teams throughout the years, and he was the main reason. Although he was never paid a dime for his service to the team and school, Tim put his heart and soul into the Falcons varsity basketball team. He expected the same amount of dedication from his players, and if for some reason, a player’s dedication wavered, that player did not want to come in contact with Tim. To say the least, things could get colorful. However, looking back on all the yelling sessions and speeches that Tim gave to us, I realize that every word he said was for our benefit. On the surface, he was teaching us that we had to be dedicated if we wanted to play in the games. This meant going to every practice and game and playing on our own as much as we could. But what I realized after he passed was that this teaching pertains to every aspect of life. Dedication is just as important as talent or skill, and will get recognized eventually. And even though basketball was Tim’s most favorite thing in the whole world, he never forced anyone to play for him. In fact, he always would tell us that we did not have to be basketball players; if we liked the trombone than we should play in the band. “But,” he said, “if you are going to play the trombone, be the best trombone player that the band has ever seen.” This leads back to the motto by which I live: “Winners do what losers won’t.” Tim said this more than any other saying that he came up with, and he came up with a lot of sayings. I always thought that this was meant for basketball only. The winner dives on the floor first to get a loose ball; the winner makes foul shots; the winner makes smart basketball plays, and does not turn the ball over. All of this makes sense. However, this saying goes deeper than that. A winner goes to the gym and lifts weights while the loser stays home and sleeps. A winner goes to the outdoor courts on a Saturday and plays in the rain while the loser sits on his couch and plays video games. The list could go on, but it is important to realize the various other aspects of life to which this slogan relates. A winner does not necessarily always win something. What makes a person a winner is that person’s dedication and love for what he or she is doing. A winner is willing to go beyond what is asked of that person, and not only does a winner gain confidence and pride in himself, but a winner gains the respect of everyone around him. In the years following my departure from St. Rose and Tim’s basketball team, I found myself wandering back over to the famous St. Rose gym to hang out and talk with my former coach, and oftentimes I would end up jumping in and playing against his current team for an hour or two. I will never forget the confidence he had in me; every time I made a shot, or stole the ball, I would hear him yell, “Great play, Charlie!” Hearing this from someone I had always revered as one of the best coaches in the area made me feel special. Besides the way that he always complimented the way that I played the game and how much I understood the game, he would always coach me, even after I was no longer at St. Rose, and give me an idea for a new move or how to make my shot even more ly. I later came to realize that the fact that he was constantly coaching me, not just in basketball but also in life, proved that he cared. He cared about me, he cared about where I was going, he cared about how my family was. He just cared. The amazing thing about Tim Lenahan is the fact that he made everyone he met feel the same way that he made me feel. I have never met anyone in my life that was able to do this like Tim. When Tim’s practice would end, and I was about to walk home in the chilly night air, I would go up and shake his hand before I left. He always would say, “Charlie it was great to see you, thanks so much for coming, I love when you stop by.” My response was always, “You know I love coming, Tim. See you later.” He would always shake my hand real hard and smile at me real big. That is the Tim Lenahan that I will never forget. Tim’s physical presence is something that I will never forget, and always miss. His personality was so colorful and radiant, and he could brighten up your day no matter how you felt. I was the most important person in the world when I was talking to Tim; I have never felt that with anyone else. Tim’s inspiration on me began when I was a sixth-grader and he told me he could not wait until I was his starting point guard in eighth grade. It continued when I played for him, and after I started playing basketball at the Prep. He continues to be the biggest inspiration in my life, and his influence gets stronger every day. Whenever I am tired or do not feel like doing something that needs to be done, all I have to do is look at my left wrist, where lie, engraved in a blue rubber band, the words, “Winners do what losers won’t.”
We love you Timmy!
Hey Tim,
I haven't been on the site for a while but you are never far from my thoughts. I couldn't play in the golf outing; Andrew had a football game and the time table just didn't jive.
None the less we made the Dinner and had a great time listening to The Quayles. Lisa made a terrific speech of acknowledgements and did her best to keep her composure while some of us lost it. I know that you were SOOOO proud watching Taylor play his Guitar..."In My Life".
And all of that rain.......................................................................................................was tears of Joy!
We all miss you Tim. Not a minute of any day goes by that one of us isn't thinking of you or your family. Keep watch over us.
First day of practice Tim! (apparently you did not want them to start on Saturday :) ) We miss you already -- It just seems so weird not to see you there today. Watch over Jamie, Matt & the boys. St Rose 2006 Champs!
Hi Timmy, today is the Golf Outing, hope all goes well. Everyone is so excited. I cannot make it but my spirit will be there. Thanks to everyone who helped make this day a success. Miss you son in law . Life still is empty without your spirit and laughter, and most of all your great stories.
Love,
Kate
Tim, I've been over at Audubon lately and I got to thinking about you. You'd be really proud of Eric. He's really stepping his game up. He's been playing every day and you wouldn't even be able to tell the difference in our games. Took him long enough to realize high schools short but he's doing well. I miss you a lot Tim you helped me so much. My memories of our times together will last forever and I thank you for all of them. I can't wait to teach what I've been taught. I'll need some help but I know you'll be there for me. Always were and always will be. I'll be sure to check in more often and keep you up to date.
MUCH love, Matthew
thank you kevin!!!!!!!!
I know this site was suppose to be kept very simple, the only way to stop this type of spamming is to have username and password for message boards. It is a shame this site somehow ended up on the radar of a spammer.
But then again Timmy has a hell of a fan club! :)
Try to ignore and put focus back on stories... It's automatic spamming and will not respond to messages.
Timmy, I know we will be thinking of you next friday at our wedding! :)
The advertising seems to be coming out like a machine gun trigger, like some piece of garbage set it up for these things to come out like rapid fire. pleas by Taylor and Charlie have been ignored, they just keep coming!!!!!!!! I hope the situation can be resolved. R.I.P. Timmy
WEBMASTER: PLEASE ERASE ALL THESE ADS.
TO THE MAD SPAMMER: YOU HAVE NO CLASS. FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF TIM LENAHAN USE THIS SITE AS A VEHICLE TO SHARE MEMORIES, TO DEAL WITH THE LOSS OF ONE OF THE GREATEST GUYS MOST OF US WILL EVER KNOW. THE SPAMMING/ADS OR WHATEVER THE HELL IS BEING POSTED IS IN BAD TASTE . THIS SITE IS VERY IMPORTANT FOR MANY PEOPLE ESPECIALLY TIM'S FAMILY. THE SITE IS TAINTED WITH YOUR NONSENSICAL CRAP AND YOU HAVE NO RIGHT WHOEVER YOU ARE. YOUR A LOSER. YOUR LUCKY YOU CAN HIDE IN YOUR COMPUTER BECAUSE I WOULD LOVE TO KICK YOUR ASS! YOUR A COWARD! DID YOU FIND THIS SITE BY ACCIDENT BECAUSE NO ONE CONNECTED WITH TIM WOULD DO THIS. STOP IMMEDIATELY DUDE, GET A REAL JOB AND DON'T MESS WITH THE FAMILY AND FRIENDS OF TIM LENAHAN.
FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, JUST STOP THE ADVERTISING!
Hey Tim, I haven't talked to you in a while. We all miss you. The first week of sophomore year has started up and football too. Our varsity team is 1-0. We beat Woodrow Wilson 42-12. Their QB/safety is being recruited by USC and Michigan. I got in the game with about 4 minutes left. I made a tackle and recovered a fumble. I start on the JV team at linebacker and Im a backup on varsity. We are currently ranked number 3 in South Jersey and number 19 in the state.It has been a busy week preparing for our next game at Delran. Im having a lot of fun on the football field and doing well in school too. I know you always wanted me to do well there. We miss you man, it's not the same without you. - Keith Hofmann
Lenahan family: you are in my thoughts several times a day. We all miss Timmy greatly!
Taylor, High school is a big adjustment, you go from being a big shot in eighth grade to a newbie trying to find your way. You'll get through it man! You have a great personality and you can play a mean guitar!, get involved in as many activities as possible. I know you're gonna shine in high school, take it one day at a time.
Hey Tim. I still miss you every day. I wanted to tell you a little story (although I know you already know it) last week I started my night shift and it was a bit tough cuz I worked from 6:30pm till about 8am and I came home to sleep for a few hours and then b/c the kids have a half day I had to get up about 11:30 to go get them and me and Lisa have a deal she takes them in the morning and I pick them up. Well Friday morning was my third day in a row of this new shift and I was a bit tired and I overslept. Well Morgy was going to a friends house and Connor was supposed to go to one of his friends, but b/c Andrew was still there, he walked Andrew home to your house and even made him lunch. So again you save me again. I am still so taken aback by Connor's maturity and sweetness. He is so sweet. Andrew and Morgan still fight like brother and sister, but it is great to hear. We all miss you so much. Taylor especially needs you right now, so please help him get passed this new adjustment of high school. I love you Timmy...and I miss you more and more each day. Love Gert.
Early yesterday morning while getting ready to go teach my new class, I looked up at my framed picture of sunrise on Maui--where I keep your smiling prayer card...appropriate, since your smile was just like a sunrise to all of us..... It was almost like you were laughing at me saying--Julie Donahue, you're still teaching???????!!!!!!!!!! I can't believe it cuz --well-- you're old !! and you still love it as much as you did at St. Rose. My thoughts turned to your own children who were probably getting ready for school and I ached for them. We all miss you so much and pray for them all the time. Keep smiling in those sunrises, Tim, we need that gift from you still.
Taylor, You are so very lucky to have your dad so close to you and know it. He will always be looking out for the four of you. I miss him so very much He was my best friend for most of my life. I still feel empty without him. I sure would not have wanted he to suffer at all, we were blessed he passed so quickly, but wow this is hard for us. I love you and am just a phone call away. I can't wait to see all of you.
Thank You. Tonight was the first time I've cried in awhile so I told you I missed you and you let me know you were there. I was just sitting up here reading the website and I heard a chainsaw and shot up to look out the window. A giant tree branch at least 25 feet long fell right in front of our house and another one about half it's size fell across the street. I know it was you, it had to be because there was no wind or rain or anything. I was cutting the lawn today and emptied the bag right under that branch and it looked fine. I feel much better that now that you have called an ambulance, two fire trucks and 3 police cars to tell me that your with me. I love you dad...goodnight
I really wasn't feeling that good so I figured I would do the closest thing possible to asking you for advice and just tell you I miss you and that I wish you could be here to tell me what you would do. Well, until next time...
miss you timmy
Typing sure is a hell of a lot easier than talking.... Tim Leahan... A guy's guy... Thanks for being so nice to my kids, Matthew and Eric... The world would be a whole lot better if there were more Tim Lenahans out there, but we all know there was only one Tim Lenahan. So if you can't BE Tim... like the Nike commercial says... BE LIKE TIM (alright it says Mike, but Mike never touched our lives or our kid's lives)
One thing that all of the basketball coaches agree on, is that basketball players are made in the off season. Once that ball gets thrown up , it becomes pretty hard to correct your shot, or improve your dribble. That is why we are going to have our first pre- season camp this year on Sunday's at Queen of Heaven. All of the info is on the website under Sunday Workouts. We have some of the most EXPERIENCED ....(that was for you Dors and Coach Troncone) and talented coaches in the area that will be there. This is a skills clinic and we are looking forward to seeing everyone there. Bring a friend. When you are a basketball player, this is the time of year you start gettin ready. Tim would be doing the same thing. I might go get a new pair of sneakers...See you there.
Waddy, It's been awhile since I have written to you, but as you know I think about you daily. Especially since I haven't had you off my wrist since April. Today was my first day back to work in two weeks. I had taken some time off to spend at home since my wife gave birth to our twin daughters. It was, as you know, an awesome experience to see as you bring in these tiny little human beings into the world. Everything went great, we even got lucky. My wife had some complications but by the grace of God we caught something that would have been fatal. It was an emotional roller coaster ride for 72+ hours. When I finally was able to let my guard down I was home lying with my two year old. It's not often I guess I cry in front of her. Her not knowing what was going on she said "Dad you Miss Timmy?" I guess the last good cry I had was in February. Again my thoughts shift to Lisa and the kids. Not being able to fathom the thought of loosing my wife, and my kids their mommy. I still can't imagine their pain and my heart breaks for them. The reason I write this is when I came back to my work I found a letter that Morgy wrote to me. I had brought the kids up to my work for a day in May. We had a blast! We hooked them up from head to toe in AND 1 gear. The people here were great. We had bags full of stuff to give them. Connor played ball the whole time, what a gym rat. Taylor was great. He got to test a new video game out. He taught me more about music in 6 hours than I ever knew. And Morgy, forget about it, she stole my heart. I'm such a sucker for girls; I'm in trouble now that I have three. It was great to spend some time with them. In a way I felt like I was hanging out with you. Each of them do something, say something, and even look like you in some way. They will carry your name well. We went and had a Chinese buffet for lunch. It was one of the best lunches I ever had. The company and the conversation were priceless. Your kids are great. I was able to have individual time with all of them. I was amazed in how mature they are. I overheard conversations they had with my co-workers and again I was shocked the things they were saying. They are all so wise. The people here had so many nice things to say about them. It's a true testament to the parenting job you and Lisa have done. Anyway. I was so sad in missing my kids and then I came along this note that I guess Morgy had left for me saying I was the best and thanking me. With this cute picture of the two of us. She made my day, again! (By the way she killed me in h-o-r-s-e) I don't want to ramble on I just wanted to thank you for looking after my wife. And I wanted to thank Morgy for helping me get through today. Taylor good luck at school. Remember that the entire freshman are in the same boat as you when starting at this new school. Seeing you in action here meeting new people I know that you will have no trouble at all. Connor you crack me up! I heard you haven't taken that watch off yet. If you guys/gals need anything let me know. You got my information. Email me and let me know how school is going.
"I'll give you 1 hour to cut that out!"
Love You Waddy! -Mark Lange
TOMORROW WILL BE THE FIRST OF SEPTEMBER AND THUS THE END OF ANOTHER SUMMER. THE CAMPS WENT WELL. CHUCK SUPERVISED FOR A LOT OF THE SUMMER BUT I FINALLY GOT HIM TO TAKE A BASKET SO HE COULD DO WHAT HE SHOULD WHICH IS TEACH THE GAME. CHUCK AND KEVIN CRAWFORD HAVE NO IDEA HOW GOOD THEY ARE AT TEACHING THE GAME. I CAN'T LEAVE OUT KEVIN OWENS AND JIM GANNON BOTH OF WHOM KNOW THE GAME AND THE KIDS REALLY LIKE THEM. EMILY AS ALWAYS DID A NICE JOB. I STILL FIND IT AMUSING TO THINK THAT YOU WERE WORRIED ABOUT ME NOT BEING ABLE TO TAKE THE HEAT.
I JUST GOT BACK FROM TAKING THE DOGS FOR A WALK. TUFFY IS DOWNSTAIRS BARKING BECAUSE I AM UPSTAIRS AND HANNA PUPPY IS SITTING AT MY FEET. I TRY TO TAKE HANNA OUT IN THE CAR AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE SHE MISSES THE RIDES SHE TOOK WITH YOU. SHE REALLY HASN'T BEEN THE SAME SINCE YOU LEFT BUT IN THE CAR SHE IS ALMOST LIKE HER OLD SELF. LISA AND THE KIDS ARE DOWN AT THE SHORE. TOM CLIFFORD GAVE THEM HIS HOUSE FOR A WEEK. TOM WAS A COUPLE OF YEARS AHEAD OF ME AT CATHOLIC BUT HE ALWAYS SEEMED LIKE A GOOD GUY. FUNNY HOW PEOPLE WITH CLASS SHOW IT AT AN EARLY AGE.
SCHOOL STARTS NEXT WEEK AND I DON'T KNOW IF ANY OF THE KIDS ARE READY TO GO BACK. I DON'T WORRY ABOUT CONNOR OR MORGY BECAUSE THEY RETURN TO FIMILIAR GROUNDS BUT TC STARTS A WHOLE NEW ADVENTURE AT PAUL VI AND HE IS A LITTLE APPREHENSIVE. I AM CONFIDENT THAT HE WILL DO GREAT BUT I WILL STAY ON HIM JUST LIKE YOU WOULD HAVE.
WELL THE DOGS ARE BARKING, OBVIOUSLY TUFFY WANTS ME DOWN WITH HIM. ONE OTHER THING, I WAS DRIVING OVER TO MRS. DUFFY'S HOUSE THIS EVENING AND SOMEONE THAT LOOKED A LOT LIKE YOU WAS WALKING PAST CRYSTAL LAKE POOL. HE LOOKED SO MUCH LIKE YOU THAT I WENT AROUND THE CORNER AND CAME BACK TO TAKE ANOTHER LOOK. COULDN'T FIND HIM. VERY STRANGE!
`Just got the feeling to cut the waistband from my briefs, nail it to wooden blocks and strap some canvas to my feet.
As time goes on it feels like we actually played with milk-crates for baskets. I guess the fundamentals make me feel like he started the game: look up when you dribble, square up and follow through, box out then crash the boards, use the @#%$! backboard.
I still shout "Lenny" when I pass the Rose courts. If they don't know why, that's a shame. We'll just have to tell `em.
Thanks
hey uncle timmy,
not a day goes by that i don't think of you. This is my first time to write, but that doesn't mean i have missed you any less. i cant wait to see lisa and the kids. I hope it isnt too hard on them to see my dad. you resemble each other so much. maybe it will be a good thing. john has already said he cant wait to play some basketball. i know they will be thinking of you the whole time.
I look at your picture every day. I feel badly that i do not call lisa enough. I know she has a lot of people around her. everytime i want to call i am afraid of crying and getting her upset. I still cant believe it is real. my dad really misses you too. he always mentions you- " timmy would have liked that", or stories about when you were kids. well, i cant say much more than i miss you and i love you. i hate that i did not get to be a bigger part of your life. it is hard living so far apart. I wish i could give lisa and the kids a big hug right now, but i will wait a few more weeks, and see them here in tennessee for ashley's wedding!!! love and miss.
kelly (my dad, jim, was timmy's older brother)
In my adult life I haven't found many life changes that I accept graciously. Your leaving us so suddenly and at an age that is usually thought to be young is no different. Tim you are missed in so many ways and at so many times throughout our daily lives. We are trying to share with your children special moments and memories, but it is so hard to look into their sweet faces and not feel the loss of you on them. I know they will always have many, many memories of their own, as will as stories and tales from all the people throughout your life whom you made a difference to. God certainly did bless us with your presence. We are still sadden for your going, but we will continue to keep your spirit of life alive for your children. Please continue to bless Taylor, Connor and Morgan with good friends, loving family and a community of support in their years to come.
Missed and Loved, Aunt Ree
Hi Tim< I was thinking of you a lot today. Lisa and the Kids are down the shore, and I rented the Movie the 5 people you meet in Heaven. I remember you telling me to rent it. Well I finally did. It was a very interesting movie. I got alot from the story, about just how we have a impact on each others lives. Well you taught us that lesson so well. We miss you so much especially your smile and wonderful spirit, which filled the room with joy, laughter and inspiration. Taylor got his hair cut he looks so much like you. Connor and Morgan, Becky and Wayne and I went to Sea Isle City on Tuesday They are all such great swimmers. Taylor and I went to Cape May for his Birthday and went to the mystery theater for a Sherlock Holmes play was great. Friday Marie, Morgan, Becky, Connor and I went to the Imax in Phila to See Charlie and the Chocolate Factory . We miss and Love you Timothy Patrick Lenahan.
Love, Kate
Dear Timothy Patrick Lenahan, Tomorrow we leave for the shore. I was sitting and remembering last year this same time we were leaving for Nashville to visit Jimmy and Debbie. It was one of the best family vacations we ever had. I miss you so much. I miss your smile, your laugh and your beautiful voice. I wish you could be here with us. T.C. is so nervous about starting school. Please stay close to him to help him. Morgan and Connor are going to do great in 2nd and 7th. Please stay close to all of us ! I love you so very much and miss you more than anything. LOVE Lisa Lenny
Not a day goes by without me missing you Tims. Lisa,Taylor, Connor, Morgan I love you and keep you always in my prayers. Good luck with school, we started two weeks ago. I love you, love you love you.
I am eager to see the final postings for the All Lenahan team....? Did we get enough nominees?
I'd have to bet that Tim will be looking at this selection with great curiosity and anticipation.
I can hear him now...."Are you out of your mind! He should be at forward and not center....his post moves were...." or "If he didn't shoot from so far out he may have had a higher average and be....."
Let's all continue to keep Lisa, Taylor, Connor and Morgan in our prayers.
Tim, Keep watching over us.
This is the longest time this website has gone without a post so I thought I'd just tell you what's going on. Well, school is about to start and I'm just soooooo "excited". Camp is done tomorrow and I'm upset I can't be at the last day of the summer because I banged my knee up pretty bad yesterday. Thankfully when I got hurt Steve Snare helped me get home; remember him? Morgan is doing well, and has made a new friend named Becky. They get along really well. Connor seems to be ready for seventh grade even though it's a pretty big change. Well, even though you already know this I just figured I would make a post because it has been awhile since anyone has. I'm pretty tired so I'm going to go sleep now. Goodnight.
Well Tim, it has been a while since I last wrote you but today while driving I began to well up with memories of you taking us to Collingswood or how excited I would get as a youngster shooting at Rose and you would pull in the parking lot after dinner time during the summer. Funny how there is all these leagues today but back then it was just you and your players hoopin' and laughin' until dark and beyond. And now they are extending daylight savings time? Can you imagine what tryouts would have been like!?
The well quickly broke and I found myself in a full fledge cry. I purposely don't write often because I feel the true tragedy here is for your family. It saddens me to even think of their loss and anything I say or any sorrow I feel seems selfish.
I look at my two boys now and pray that I am a good father to them. Just the other night I stared at them and thought about how lucky I was to have your influence in my life. It is only now as a father that I truly realize the magnitude of your influence. I can be so much to my boys but ultimately it will take the patience, teaching and influence of someone other than "dad" to help them reach their full potential. You did that for so many and I wonder who will do it for them with the commitment and selflessness that you displayed and offered me. I am so lucky to have known you.
As we begin our pre-season in a few weeks I have adopted the mantra of "prepare to win" to get the team to believe. I ordered a gold plate with the inscription "winners do what losers wont" with a tiny shamrock underneath it and the initials t.l. beside the shamrock. I mounted one in each kid's locker as a daily reminder that the choices we make and not the chances control our destiny. You taught us all that.
I miss knowing you are around South Jersey. I miss the occasional phone call when you would get me all pumped up and we would talk about the importance of vision. I miss you for your family and I hope they realize how many people would do anything for them.
I am in no hurry to see you in your current place of residence but do me a favor...save a spot on the bench for me...I'd love to play for you again.
Peace, Billy
I had the weirdest experience yesterday. I was sitting in the car with my family and none of us were talking. All I could think about was the time the boys basket ball team had to share the gym with the cheer leaders. Our coaches were very late, and we ended up getting rather noisy. I remember you came over and, at the top of your lungs, yelled "CHEERLEADERS!" We, needless to say, all froze in our places. You looked at us, exasperated, and in a small voice said, "please be quiet?" I'm not sure why that memory came to me, but it did. I just started laughing. I was laughing so hard that my family stopped to glare at me. I couldn't control myself.
I just felt like I had to get that out. Now I feel better.
Tim & Family, I'm sad to say, I never met you Tim. I never held a conversation with you or have been coached by you. However, I have know extended parts of you all my life. Some of those parts are your many players: Mascolos, Kowals, Dougherty, Guittar, Calzonetti, Landis, DelSignore and Innocenzos to name a few. These men are good men who were good kids. I believe St. Rose influence these men at an early age, and also remember the remarkable influence their coach had on them too. These boys learned from you teamwork, discipline and commitment skills for life. The other parts of your life I know are your kids. Your kids are kind, loving, intelligent and most of all giving. Respectfully, I am a firm believer that kids who are kind to other kids have the best parents. I honestly believe that your best coaching was done at home because Connor, Morgan and Taylor are wonderful kids. They are realizing the greatest team they will ever be apart of is the Lenahan family team. I'm still sad that we've never met and disappointed that my sons will not have the opportunity to know the finest basketball coach South Jersey has ever seen....."May God Bless You Tim and Family".
We love you Tim!
Timmy, six months have passed since you have left us. I miss you as do all of us. I know we keep you busy, I know you are watching out for Lisa and the children. Tims, I love you, baby brother.
TOMORROW WILL BE SIX MONTHS SINCE YOU LEFT ALL THE PEOPLE WHO LOVED YOU. I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT I STILL HAVE TROUBLE TALKING ABOUT YOU. I STARTED TO THINK ABOUT IT AND REALIZED THAT WE WERE GOOD FRIENDS FOR ALMOST THIRTY YEARS. LIKE YOU, I ONLY KNEW MY PARENTS FOR LESS THAN TWENTY YEARS.
TAYLOR AND CONNOR ARE AT WATCH DOG AND MORGAN IS PLAYING A BASKETBALL GAME AT RUTGERS. CHARLIE PUND GOT HER ON TWO TEAMS, ONE WITH 4TH AND 5TH GRADERS AND THE OTHER WITH 7TH AND 8TH GRADERS. MORGAN HAS BECOME GOOD FRIENDS WITH CHARLIE'S DAUGHTER BECKY WHO IS GOING INTO 4TH GRADE AND CAN PLAY. CHARLIE HAS BEEN VERY GOOD TO MORGAN AND I REALLY APPRECIATE IT. JUST ANOTHER EXAMPLE OF A PERSON HELPING TO FILL THE VOID THAT YOU LEFT. THIS AFTERNOON WE WERE IN MORGY'S ROOM TALKING ABOUT YOU. SHE MISSES YOU SO MUCH AS DO TC AND CON MAN.
WELL AS CATHARTIC AS THIS IS I MUST END IT BECAUSE CON MAN WILL BE HOME SOON AND I DON'T WANT HIM TO SEE ME WITH TEARS IN MY EYES. I AM GOING DOWNSTAIRS AND WATCH THE LAST TWO HOURS OF THE SIXTH SENSE. I CAN THINK OF ONE DEAD PERSON I WOULDN'T MIND SEEING.
Timmy, (and Mare) thank you for being our guardian angels. Tim, I know you are kept very busy with all of us. Sometimes I feel selfish because I want you here with me. I love you, Tims. Keep the signs coming. Lisa, Taylor, Connor and Morgan I love you.
Timmy, Yesterday Sandi moved in to her new house in Cherry Hill. Some how I never told her that was your favorite street in Cherry Hill. She told me when she was very down one day while she was out looking at homes she talked to you and said Tim please help me find a house I like and can afford. I was not surprised that you helped her pick that street. I just laugh because you always took such good care of people you loved and cared about here on Earth and it's amazing the work you are able to do in Heaven. I am so incredibly blessed and loved by so many people that when I just want to see you and talk to you in the worst way I just pick up the phone or go for a walk and run into a friend of yours and I know that's your way of letting me know every thing will work out and I will make it. I always new how lucky and blessed I was. I was upstairs cleaning the other day and thought I heard you whistling down stairs. I stopped and enjoyed . The weird thing is I thought I left the radio on and when I got down stairs there was no radio on and everyone was out. I love all your little signs you give me to let me know you are still here with me. We love you up to the sky and back. love lisa lenny
To the person who wrote "Why"
This is a wonderful website where people can come to share memories, offer stories and feel connected to Coach Tim Lenahan and his family and friends.
Grownups , kids , teens and young adults use this website to work through their grief and times of missing Tim. We are all different in how and when we think of Tim and different days bring different feelings. One of the special things about this website is that we can publicly share our private feelings. This is a "safe and comfortable" place to express emotion. Since there is no negative vibe to this sacred place there should not be any pressure or need to say who it is doing the writing. I suspect you may be too young to realize this but really the feelings belong to us all and we all are part of a loving community united in our feelings for Tim. Many of us could "claim" the same feelings that a particular person is writing. That is what makes this place special=how we are all connected. If a person or group writes Rose Boy he stands for 100's of Tim's players- just like "all of us" does. It's okay because Tim knows who it is and that's all that matters. The rest of us share the memories and feel a bit better.
When" Rick" wrote about identifying yourself on this website that was in reference to a particular circumstance when the website was being used inappropriately by a young girl expressing her feelings about Taylor. It was pointed out that- that kind of posting was unfair to TC and, more importantly, NOT for this memorial website. Private stuff goes to IM, e mail , phone or in person. Remember the uproar when people used this site to ask about games, who was going to what high school, a baseball player's number, etc? That stuff does not belong here.
We are here to honor a special man, keep his memory alive, share stories with all who love him and help the family know they are not alone.
So at the risk of being "off topic" myself I'll end now. It was great to see the St Rose summer league going strong-I'm sure that made Tim smile down .And thanks to Chuck Guittar, Bill Dorsey and all who have kept the Camps going.
Still missing you Tim.
Mr. Lenahan
You taught me alot!
God bless you, Rest in Peace.
Even after Rick's entry people still don't enter they're name. Why? Don't you think Tim would like to know who "all of us" is or who "team member" is. Why can't we just post our name's. It would be easier then hiding behind something like "rose boy". So please, for Timmy's and The Lenahans' sake let's put our name.
I love you TIM LENAHAN
Its been a two weeks since I got done going Jim Crawford's basketball camp and all three weeks have made me realize something. All of the drills and skills that you taught me really showed on the court when I was there playing 3 on 3 against the other kids that were going to Camden Catholic next year. Tim has taught me so much while I was with him and even though he was taken from us so early his lessons in life and basketball will always stay with me. We would always do line drills at Tim's camps for and hour in the mourning and God was it intense. After going to Tim's camps for 4 years all of the work he made me do has really paid off. everything Tim drilled me on keeps on showing up over and over again. When I was younger the drills seemed so boring and repetitive but now I'm glad I went threw those 4 years of "torture" because its really starting to come in handy even in high school. God I wish he was still here with us then I could thank him for everything that he has done for me. He changed me from a bench warmer that was a complete spaz in 6th grade to the 4th man on my 8th grade team that actually has a grip on what he does. My memories of you will live on forever. Rest in peace Tim. A great father, coach, but and even better man.
Tim,
We all still miss you like all get out...I know you're watching over all of us and cracking jokes to the BIG Guy up there about this person and that....
Believe me when I tell you that we could all use a little help on your end when our time here is up.
We're not saying that any of us are in a hurry to join you yet. Hey, we know how much you liked it here and believe me, we liked it that way, but we still have a lot of work left to do too....Just keep watching over us and if you can just maybe give us a sign that you're Ok with what we're doing here...it all feels right.
The only thing missing is you!
I just realized how much I miss you recently Timmy it just came one me suddenly I think you must have been near we all miss you
Let's show our strength in numbers and flood Constance's mailbox with letters. Timmy deserves it.
Judi, My letter is in the mail this morning!! Constance Kurz doesn't know what she has coming her way over the next few weeks as I'm sure she will be bombarded with hundreds of letters. thanks, terri
I miss you dad. you are a good dad. I love you dad and I know your in heaven. I loved when you tickled me daddy . I miss when I got to tackle you. I loved playing basketball with u and I really liked shooting jumpers.
It has been about four months since my computer was up and I am out of touch. Being so far away has both advantages and disadvantages. My children and I miss Timmy like the rest of you. I feel lost and empty. I get a great deal of comfort reading the articles about Timmy. I miss being with you, Lisa, Taylor, Connor, Morgan. You are wonderful and my heart is with you every day.
HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY!!!! I can't believe you are fifteen, Taylor. I love you sweetheart and am very proud of you.
For the past three years I have nominated Timmy for the most caring coach. To no avail. This year I wrote to all editors of USA Weekend explaining to them that they really missed the boat by not nominating Timmy. On April 12th their response was; they get almost 1,000 nominations from all over the country. Four staff members narrow this down to one. Even though Timmy was as worthy as the rest he was not nominated. They do not award nominations posthumously. I do not believe that USA Weekend completely understand the impact of Timothy Patrick Lenahan and am hoping that as many of you as possible can nominate him as an exception. Mainly because his work continues in all of us.
The Senior editor that wrote to me was Constance Kurz, 7950 Jones Branch Drive -Floor 2- McLean, VA 22107. If we all work together maybe we can get Timmy nominated this year. Thanks for your help.
Thank you for sharing your memories of Timmy and for being such a wonderful support family for Lisa and the children. Love to you all, Judy
Dad, I know you already know this but I JUST TURNED FIFTEEN!! I just thought that I would come tell you how much I miss you and wish you could be here to celebrate with me. I love you.